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Mar 18 2024

Personal Touch in a Digital World

In this episode of the Uncharted Podcast, Dr. Andy Roark jumps into a crucial mailbag but this time with special guest Dr. Sarah Wolff. Together they tackle a pressing question from a practice manager struggling with maintaining the personal touch in client interactions after transitioning to digital communications.

Sarah Wolff, a seasoned veteran of the veterinary field, embarked on her journey inspired by James Herriot's tales. Over her 22-year career, she's navigated every role imaginable in a veterinary team, from humble beginnings as a kennel assistant to the esteemed position of medical director. Through her extensive experience, Sarah has witnessed the dynamic evolution of veterinary care, but one principle has remained constant: client relationships are the cornerstone of exceptional veterinary medicine. Today, she's dedicated to helping teams cultivate these relationships, fostering excellent client experiences that enrich both the practice and the individuals within it. For more insights from Sarah, visit her online at www.DrSarahWolff.com and follow her on Twitter @DrSarahWolff.

In this episode's mailbag entry, our featured practice manager voices a common concern among modern practices: striking a balance between efficiency-driven digital communications and maintaining the human connection with clients. With technology streamlining communication processes, practices risk losing the personal touch that sets them apart in the hearts of their clients. Let's get into this episode!

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast · 278 – Personal Touch In A Digital World

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Episode Transcript

Andy Roark: Welcome everybody to the Uncharted Veterinary Podcast. I am your host, Dr. Andy Roark. Guys, I am here with the one and only Dr. Sarah Wolff today. So she is stepping in to Stephanie Goss Shoes, and we are taking a question from the mailbag about, is a great question. It is about a practice that has been working on their efficiency and communicating digitally and electronically, and they are really doing very well, but they're starting to get feedback from clients.

That it– you know, it's just, I don't know, the old, it doesn't feel the same way. And it's kind of this vague feedback, but the clients are just, you know, they're just not, they don't feel the personal touch like they used to. And I thought this was a great question, and Sarah Wolff is the perfect person to answer it. And so that is what we do. We dive in. Sarah is amazing. She will be speaking at the Uncharted Conference in my hometown, Greenville, South Carolina, April 18th through 20th. I will also be there. Stephanie Goss will also be there. It is going to be a fantastic place. If you can make it, do make it.

It's our standing out in a sea of noise conference. It is all about stuff just like this. So if you dig this episode, head out, head out to Greenville, get registered, get re You want to get registered before you go to Greenville. You should get registered before you leave, and then you and you should probably get a hotel.

You should get a place to stay. Anyway, you work out the logistics, and then you can book your travel to Greenville, South Carolina, and come and see us for the Uncharted conference. Anyway, guys, that's enough. Let's get into this.

Announcer: And now, the Uncharted Podcast. 

Andy Roark: And we are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark, and the one and only Dr. Sarah Wolff. That's right. I'm spinning the wheel, making a left turn. Stephanie Goss is standing in front of her house, but the bus is not picking her up today. It's me. It's me and Sarah Wolff. For those who don't know her, Dr. Sarah Wolff, she's a good friend of mine.

She is speaking at the Uncharted Veterinary Conference in April. She's been an attendee many times. We've known each other for years now. You are also a you are currently At you are currently at a conference where you're speaking as we're recording this 

Sarah Wolff: Well, I'm not speaking at it. I'm, to be totally transparent, I'm attending it and fangirling all the fabulous speakers.

Andy Roark: Oh wonderful. Oh, that's very nice. Well, so you are on the road, but you are a consultant you generally consult on The client experience in veterinary medicine. So, thanks for being here. How have you been?

Sarah Wolff: I've been great. It's been a great week of going to conferences and seeing friends and meeting new people and just hearing about all the fantastic things that are happening in the industry. So, I'm feeling very inspired at the moment.

Andy Roark: Oh, yeah, it's– I love going to conferences and getting all fired up, and then the real challenge is can I come home and organize my thoughts and actually turn them into things that happen. That's always, that's, the struggle where I am. I have, we just came back from a conference yesterday, and I think I'm, I think I'm doing a good job of converting my handwritten notes into actionable things I'm gonna actually do, but it's uh, I don't know.

Sarah Wolff: Yeah, I finally learned that I have to block off just a whole day after a conference. If I went to get ideas, I have to give myself a whole day to sit down, parcel through all the stuff I collected, all the names I wrote down, and figure out where do we go from here. Or else it just flies out the window and I never get to take full advantage of it.

Andy Roark: I leave my email responder on for two additional days. Like, from when I get back. From when I get back, you will still get emails that say, I'm out of the office! And I set it to be those extra days because I know I'm gonna come back and there's gonna be a pile of crap. And, if you respond early, people are like, wow, that's great!

But if their day hits and then they don't hear anything, then they'll email you again and it just adds to the pile. So, I have tried to create some space so that

Sarah Wolff: Wait, are you setting expectations that you can meet or exceed?

Andy Roark: Yes. Oh yeah. No, I've gotten a lot better at that as I've gotten older, a lot better, but boy, that was a terrible pain point for me.

I still say yes to too much stuff. I like there, everything on my calendar is just theoretical until I'm there and I'm miserable. You know what I mean? You're like that, block fits on my calendar in a two weeks. And then when I'm there, I'm like, why did I do this to myself? And so I think it's, it's always a back and forth, right? It's really hard. This is actually going to get into what our mailbag is about today. I think it's really hard to balance resting and working. And I really struggle with that, Sarah. Like, early in my career, I just, I always, when I was speaking and stuff, I was speaking a lot before the pandemic, and I just said yes.

I just said yes and then I was on the road a lot. I was on the road 130 days. And I was still practicing in 2016. So, I would I probably did way less practice than I did on the road, but I was still practicing. So I'm in practice. I've got kids at home. My wife works full time.

I'm on the road 130 days, 2016. And it was not working for me. It was not working for me. And so I came back and I was like, I don't know how, where the off switch is because, as you say, as a business owner, I had employees at that point. So I've got employees, I've got payroll to make and things like that.

And I don't know how you turn away, you know, business because you don't know that it's going to, there's going to be more in the future and I think people who have owned businesses really probably know what this feels like and people who haven't are probably, it probably seems silly until you're, in it, but I really felt that way.

So I went and I asked my dad and I was like, Hey, you know, I'm working myself to death and, then I would have periods where no one would call like over the summers and I would be like, I'm going out of business and it was just, it was terrible. It's always terrible. One way or the other. 

Sarah Wolff: And that's when you overbook then, because you're like, I'll say yes to everything, and then all of a sudden you're in the thick of it, and you're like, I said yes to too many things. I do the same when I'm booking myself, especially I do a lot of relief now, and like you said, theoretically, I'm like, amazing, four days that week, that'll be wonderful.

And then all of a sudden I'm driving to four completely different hospitals, practicing four different styles of medicine within five days, and at the end of the week, I need a whole day to turn back into a human, you know, and recharge myself. 

Andy Roark: Well you're doing, follow up from people you saw at one clinic while you're at a different clinic and you're like, this is wildly inconvenient and, but yeah, but you, do it to yourself. But anyway, so I said that to my dad and I was like, you know, I'm having a hard time saying no. And he was a physician, he was a surgeon and he just, he had no advice. He had no advice. He was like, yep. He's like, I just. He's like, when we're dead, I'm like, we've got to get more stuff in here, and then, you know, stuff's coming in, and I just take it all, and everybody burns out, and then we just hope for a dead period, and anyway, it took me, the best advice I got, I'll give this to you, because your career is really blossoming, and you're traveling and stuff, I'll tell you this just for what it's worth, Sarah, but like, the best advice I got about this, and I asked a lot of people, was from Dr. Marty Becker, and I talked to Dr. Marty Becker, and I said, Marty, I'm killing myself, man. I am just, I'm saying yes to everything and I don't know how to be off. And he said what he did is this and I have done it and he's a genius. But basically what happened was he figured out at the beginning of the year how much he was going to be off.

Like, like counted out the weeks, and he was like, I am going to be off this amount. And then he put that off time on his calendar, and just put it there. And he said that he could move it, so if he needed to move and something came up, he could move the days. But he never deleted the blocks. Once they're on there, they're there.

And ultimately what happens is, you keep moving it and moving it, and then also like Tetris, you get like blocked in, you know what I mean? But you're blocked in with this off time. It's the best advice I ever got, because at 100%, I would take all the work you want, but we don't delete those blocks, and ultimately, I just can't, I can't take anymore, and so I do book myself solid, but I have built that rest time in, and like, kept it there, and so anyway, that's where the idea, I talk a lot about work, work life balance happens three months from now, it's because if you don't get out ahead of it and put that, those blocks in, you end up just getting squished, but, anyway, Let me give you, I have a question for the mailbag that is a hundred percent up your alley.

Sarah Wolff: Okay Yes. 

Andy Roark: I want to give that to you. Is that okay? All right.

Sarah Woff: Of course. Let's get in.

Andy Roark: Alright, here's what I got. So from the mail bag, I get this question. It says, “typically we have a pretty, we have pretty happy clients and we rarely get complaints. Recently, though, we've been hearing that the customer experience is not the same, yet clients are super vague about what the reason why is.

Some say that our people aren't rude or anything, but I think what we're but the wait times for simple things like prescriptions seem longer or that they felt like they couldn't talk to the front desk and others have said that they just seemed rushed or that the personality isn't there. We haven't had any staffing changes that would, that would change the way that things feel or our wait times. Our wait times are the same as they have been according to our PIMS system. We have definitely moved over to using more technology to streamline communication so that the CSRs are doing a lot more digital communications. I'm wondering if perhaps splitting the roles between greeters and phones might help.

I'm just not sure what else we could do to improve the client experience when they come in. Texting and automations have really helped the CSRs control the volume of work so much that I can't get rid of that. But I also don't want our customer service to suffer because of it. How do you handle the client experience in the digital world?

Or are there things I could be doing to improve the customer service experience? So, so, I'll put that to you, Sarah, and sort of say, you know, when we Tackle these things here on the Uncharted podcast. We like to start with headspace. Like, why does this happen? Is this a common, is this a common feeling? Like where does your head kind of go immediately before we start fixing the problem?

Sarah Wolff: That's a great question. I think that This writer, I was going to say caller, but this writer is hitting a problem right on the nose that a lot of practices are facing, and that practices have always faced, just now it's texting and this level of digitization. But how do we balance the personal with the volume of work that we have to do?

And practices have been struggling with this for a long time, and now we're just facing the next round of what new things we're incorporating. It's something that has to be addressed in a new way because we're dealing with it with new challenges between us and our clients. I would also say that to let this person know, as a headspace thing, they are in the vast majority of practices right now.

This is a completely normal experience to be having. They're not doing anything wrong. It's just time to take a look at what they can do a little bit differently to retain the flavor of where they're at, you know, so just to kind of take the pressure off that this isn't because they're doing a bad job of anything.

Andy Roark: I like the retaining the flavor. Let, me, pitch you an idea because this is the headspace idea that sort of comes into my mind, but I feel like most things in business and in life are probably, they're on a pendulum, right? Like we swing one way and then we kind of swing the other way.

And we got buried with work, like pandemic workload was really high. And then also we've got these really great new technologies to go faster, to streamline, to take work and to automate it. It does not surprise me the idea that we Lean further into the digital communications and maybe sort of even overcorrect from where we were before.

So we went to like, we're swamped. Let's automate to get out of this, and then we swing too far. I could see that. The other thing that I, think is, and this is really sort of headspace, but this is philosophy, but I'll bounce it off of you. I think that through digital communications, I think they're wonderful, but I do think we're losing humanity as a society in some ways.

You know what I mean? It's so convenient to text. But I don't think that we feel connected to people when we text like we do when we pick up the phone. And I think it's possible to hold two things in your head at the same time. I think that you can say, I'm busy. And I really don't want to call someone.

And then I think you can also say, If I never call anybody. I'm going to feel lonely. And I think both of those things can be true. And so, that's not putting it on, on, on vets or anything, but so much is handled in the app. Like Starbucks, like, I, I, if I go to Starbucks I talk to the barista and I ask him how their day is going and I just, this is kind of how I am.

But when I use their app, I just walk up to the pickup window, grab my thing, and walk back away, and that by itself is not a big deal. But if that is a picture of how your life is, I think that we're moving towards a place where people are going to feel less connected. And again, that also comes back to the customer service experience, right?

Like, we are a relationship business. And if you go too far away from that and too much towards automation, that relationship business breaks down. And I think that's really scary for vet medicine because I worry that's the path to a price war where if you don't talk to anybody and you just, you know, get the work done as fast as possible.

Very quickly, everybody's fast, and everybody's convenient. Then it becomes, well, who's cheapest? And then that really becomes the defining factor of, I'm not gonna talk to anybody. I just want this done. And the person down the road charges less than you, so I'm gonna go there. And that's justI'm sure I'm catastrophizing, but that's I worry about that. Does any of that sound reasonable to you?

Sarah Wolff: I think there's a yes and a no, as there are to most questions, that aren't actually, you know, super, super straightforward, that we know from research that the more our communications are digitized, so the more we're texting and using apps, the more value people across all ages are placing on actual human interaction.

So, we know that it's true, that the less we interact with people, the more we value the chances we do have to interact with people, you know, with the asterisks of as long as they're good interactions, right? There's nothing worse than going from a bad digital interaction to a bad personal interaction.

Andy Roark: Oh yeah, I would much rather get a mean text than have an angry person. 

Sarah Wolff: Yeah, a phone call. Right. You know, so to some extent, you know, but we, there is a lot more value and we can talk about that when we're talking about solutions for this practice and for others out there, how we can take advantage of that truth, you know, that reality that's out there. But I think the other part of it is that different generations prefer to communicate in very different ways because of their experiences and how they've come up with the internet and with different technology.

And so, for Gen Z, texting, they do not want a phone call. Do not want one. That is a negative experience for them if they get a phone call, whereas a text message is okay. That doesn't mean, though, that all text messages are made the same, right? And I think that's where some more nuanced understanding of different communication comes in.

That a text message doesn't mean a preformatted text message. We all know now that this is really common, what a automated confirmation text message looks like when it comes through on your phone. You know, text Y to confirm your appointment. That feels very different from getting a text message like, Hey, it's Sally at ABC Vet Hospital.

We're so excited Fluffy's coming to see Dr. Roark tomorrow. Let me know if you need to change your appointment. We'll be here today till 5. Right? And then you walk in and it's actually Sally at the desk and she says, “Oh, thanks so much for letting me know you were running late. It's so great to see you, Dr. Roark's ready for you.” You know, there's, there can be a seamless integration of some of these communication channels that allow us to still use them efficiently, but retain the humanness of it and allow it to seamlessly flow into the personal interactions that we get to have. And I think that's the middle ground that we're struggling to find as some of us older generations are using this technology.

We're losing a little bit of that humanity, just as you said, and that's where we can infuse the branding, the flavor of our practices back into how we interact with our customers, even if we're not on the phone, you know,

Andy Roark: I like that a lot. And so when you say, you know, the more digital interactions we have, the more value there is in the personal interaction, I think that resonates a lot. I think I completely buy into this. I thought a lot about this, you know, in my life as a parent where, you know, because my wife works full time and I work full time and again I said I was, there's times in my life I was traveling a lot and I, would roll that around because I would feel, bad about the amount, the volume of time that I was away, you know, so I'm like, oh man, I'm not with my kids for like this amount of time and the best I'm the best answer I ever came up with was pretty early on I just decided down to my bones that I was going to be very present and very intentional for the times, you know, when I was with the kids.

And I just like, I'm not a great parent for a whole day. I'm a, but I can crush it for two hours. You know what I mean? Like, and again, that does not mean I'm like, I'm completely checked out. But you know, I mean, anyone with anyone, unless you were one of those people who really loves kids, you know what I'm talking about where it's like, no, I can be super fun dad and we can have that great afternoon, but then dad needs a nap. And, you know, and and then we're going to re engage and, have a really, we're not going to look at our phones at dinner. Like, we are going to come together at dinner and that's going to be the focal time. But you really can do, I think, you can do a lot for relationships just by being really present when you decide to be present.

And, so I think that's kind of what we're hitting on here is I don't think, I, know I don't think you're, saying this at all, but I don't think any of us are pushing to say, we need to go back to before we were texting and you need to be calling these people, you know, that's not, that doesn't make any sense, but there are ways that we interact with them and we can make a difference.

So, so your point about the personalized text and all texts are created equal. I think that's great. My favorite example that everybody's probably seen is the is the text from the groom or the boarding facilities that are really well done, when they send you the picture of your pet and say, “Oh, thanks for, you know, this is we took some pictures of Skipper. He had a wonderful time and this is one of his favorite things to do. And if you feel like leaving us a review, and it was like,” Oh, this is the review text. But also it's got a picture of Skipper and somebody clearly at least keyed it up. And it feels much more like an actual human interaction. And I think that, anyway, that, that, resonates with me.

I think that, that's a really good point.

Sarah Wolff: and I've, you know, I think for any of us, when we start using a technology, There is that real drive to try and use it to the utmost of its efficiency because we've justified the cost and the time and the training and the headache of changing our SOPs and all of that. So what we want to get out of it is as much efficiency as possible, but I think this writer, this question really hits on the head what we risk losing sometimes and as I said, it can be very vague.

It's not something where you're saying this exactly has changed, right? It's not that, oh, everyone's so rude. It's just, I used to feel a certain way when I interacted and engaged with your business and I don't feel quite as the same anymore. And to me, that feeling was a big part of the value of coming to you is that relationship and that feeling that I got.

And when we start to lose that feeling, that's when we know our client experience is starting to degrade a little bit and we can look at ways that we can ramp it back up, you know, so that feeling stays the same, even if the way that we're generating it for our clients is maybe a little bit different to adjust to new technologies, new needs, new demographics of clients we're serving. Maybe we want them to have the same feeling, but now we've got people who are 30 years younger than we did when we opened, and they have different expectations and different ways of getting to those same feelings.

And I think this writer seems to get all of that. They understand that's kind of what they're facing.

Andy Roark: Well, I love the question because they really capture for me, they capture this nebulousness that just, oh, it's the worst. If somebody says, I came in and Carol was rude to me, I'm like, I know how to fix that. You know what I mean? And again, I'm not immediately saying, maybe. Maybe Carol is rude, maybe she wasn't.

But at least there's someone I can go and talk to. You know, maybe we can pull, maybe we can pull the phone records and take a listen. And, like, there's just is this part of a pattern? Is this a coaching thing? But there's just a lot of immediate tools and I know where to at least start the process of working it through.

But when somebody comes to you and goes, Yeah, you know, not feeling it. It's like a relationship comes apart. It was like, oh, well. I just, I don't know. It's just, you know, the chemistry isn't there. You're like, I don't know how to fix that. It's kind of that kind of nebulous thing.

And so when I'm reading this, I feel like this person has done a really good job of kind of trying to drill in, trying to drill in. It is so, it sucks when there's nothing that's clearly broken. It's just not, they're just not feeling it. And so that's I think that's way more common than people think.

I think a lot of us are focused on real pain points. And so, we know we're like, this is broken and I'm working on it, this is broken, I'm working on it. And we don't, I don't know that we hear about the vague feelings of the clients just aren't as happy as they used to be. It's, I mean, it's kind of like if you have this practice and you used to pick up five star reviews all the time and people used to send thank you notes and now you're less thank you notes, you know what I mean?

And people just, they're not as excited about the clinic t-shirts that you're giving away as they used to be. You know, stuff like that. It's um, oh, but it's really, it's hard to pinpoint what that is if it's not a broken system. I mean, that's how I feel. Do you agree?

Sarah Wolff: I agree. I think for all of us, as you said, There are so many pain points and there's so many moving parts of a veterinary practice and really of any service industry gig. And I firmly believe that we are a service industry even more than a medical industry. You know, that trying to keep all those pieces going, all those pieces working, all those new employees up to snuff with everything is a full time job plus some.

So when you get to a point where, like you said, it's like we're 89 percent as good as we used to be. 

Andy Roark: Yes. 

Sarah Wolff: at this 50% of the job . You know, that's, that feels pretty fricking good, right? That's like a b plus. And you're like, cool, but we used to be a plus and the difference between a C and a B plus is probably about the same amount of work as a B plus to an A.

Right? Those final inches of improvement. Always take a lot more attention and a lot more nuance to achieve and to maintain because it's very easy for those things to start to slip. A few little things change and they have a knock on effect. You know, I would say for these, this practice, also kudos to this wonderful group of clients who have expressed this to them, right?

Because not only is it hard to see that from inside, but it's really hard to express a small piece of feedback like that, and that speaks volumes to what a place this practice has had in the community historically. That they've got clients dedicated enough and who care enough to say, you know, things are a little bit different, I don't like it as much.

That's a rare piece of feedback to get.

It is, man. And most people are craptastic at giving feedback. This is just in general. You know, it's like, I think about this, is everywhere go look at a movie review or go look at ratings of movies online. People will be like, This is terrible, but they don't know why it's terrible, especially if it's mediocre.

If it's terrible, they can be pretty specific about why it's terrible. But if it's just not a good movie, it's not really good, it's very hard for people to articulate why they just, why it was fine. I mean, think about with meals that you have. When someone brings you a meal, you go to a restaurant, and it's good.

And they were like, how did you like it? And you're like, oh, it's good. And they were like, how could it be great? And you're like, I don't know, make it better. I don't, that's 

Sarah Wolff: And I would say it's not their job to know.

Andy Roark: Oh, sure!

Sarah Wolff: You know, it's not a client's job to know what they, and I think that's where, Things like Uncharted come into the picture, right? Where, when you're struggling with this stuff, you know, it's not our client's job to know. And so then you get this vague feedback, and then you're looking around, and you're like, I think things are actually working pretty well for us, you know, like looking around, this is actually ain't so bad. So then trying to suss out those more nuanced changes, I think that's where reaching out for help is really important because also sometimes it's hard. You know, if you've been in the weeds working your tushy off at your practice, you may not have seen what other people are doing with text messaging for a couple of years because you've been spending a couple of years training everyone to do it your place.

Andy Roark: Yeah, exactly right. Well, and also, you know, it's really hard to look at yourself, too, because you're in, like, you're in it and you're working hard. It's hard to see yourself and your business from outside. And so, like, that's, all of this is really challenging. So I just, I want to just validate this person's sort of struggle.

And I do agree with you. I don't, I'm not trying to say that the expectation is that clients give us actionable feedback. I think that's exceedingly rare. And, that's I guess that, that was sort of the point. Where I'm sort of going with that, but you know, I think the big headspace pieces I would put forward and then you can add, any, ones that you like is this is I think the ho hum feeling, I, think that's common.

I think, a lot of people, there's a lot of people who just, you know, think my vet is okay. This is not uncommon. I think that, yeah. Working hard to train your people and to implement digital communications and stuff to get more efficient. That's mission critical. Don't regret that. I completely agree with not wanting to back off of that.

That makes a ton of sense to me. I would really push to have this person not take this too hard, and not to think that this is hopeless. A lot of times when I get vague feedback, it feels hopeless, because I'm like, I'm not exactly sure what to do with this, and that makes it much, like, I can sit with it a lot more and go, I don't, is it even worth the effort?

Like, I'm not exactly sure where to push. And so, that can be an overwhelming feeling. But, this doesn't strike me in that regard. I really think that this is one of those things where they can, we can get intentional. I think we'll do the action steps, but I think we can push in a couple strategic places and really make a huge difference.

Like we can add some pieces that wow pet owners. We don't have to give up all the things that we have found that have really made life better and made people more efficient.

Sarah Wolff: I would agree. I think the only thing I would add is that whenever we're dealing with a situation like this with clients, there's really three parts to it and we can only control one. We can control what we do at our practice and how we engage with our clients and allow them to engage with us.

Awesome. And that's what we'll talk about with action steps. What we can't control are two parts of our client's context that they're going to come to us with. One, the other experiences they're having. So if you're the 15th business in a small town to implement digital communication, it might be that they've reached their limit of wanting to deal with it, and it's not because of you.

It's because they have other experiences that are coming to you, and they're just over it, and they feel comfortable talking to you about the fact that they don't really like it as much as how things used to be done in their town. You know? But you're one of many. And the second part of their context we can't control is their expectations, and that's going to change, especially generationally.

You know, what do they expect when it comes to text messaging? Maybe it's very different than what we think a text message is, right? And so we can learn about that, and we can implement, we can utilize that information when we create our own action plans. But we have to remember, we really only control one third of what's happening in this picture.

Andy Roark: No, I think you're spot on. Well, let's let's take a little break and then we'll come back and get into some action steps.

Sarah Wolff: Alright.

Dr. Andy Roark: Hey guys, is your clinic slowing down? Are you having more open appointments than you had in the past? Are you wondering a little bit about what you need to do to get clients to, one, come into the building, and then, two, listen to your doctors and your staff when they get there? Well, you, my friend, might need to head over to the Uncharted conference in April.

That's right! It's in Greenville, South Carolina. It is April 18th through the 20th. This is the granddaddy of the Uncharted Veterinary Conferences. This is the one that we started with. This is our marketing and strategy conference back to our roots. I love this stuff! The theme of this conference is ‘Standing Out In A Sea Of Noise'

It is all about strategic communication. It is about getting heard. This is going to be a lot about your brand identity is understanding the modern consumer who is getting more price conscious because things are getting more expensive. We are going to need to up our marketing game, our communication game, our client bonding game, our trust building game, we're going to have to turn the volume over on that stuff.

Guys, we didn't have to do that for the last couple of years. People have been coming in, the pandemic was a surge in business. A lot of us are trying to keep our head above water. It's not going to be that way going forward. It's time to re-engage with our clients in a motivating, educating way to get them coming back into the building.

Guys, Uncharted is not a bunch of lectures. You are not going to come here and sit in lectures. You are going to work on your business at this conference. You are going to be surrounded by butt-kicking, positive people who love that medicine, who love pet owners, and who want to create a great experience and make a wonderful place for pets to get the care that they need.

They want to have a positive workplace. They want to have a place where people smile when they come to work and they're working on making that happen. And so if that sounds like you, or if you want to be surrounded by those people, you got to come to the April conference. Also, this is the last time for a while that the April Uncharted conference is going to be in Greenville, South Carolina.

This is our birthplace. It's our home base. It's our nest, this is kind of a big deal for me. At least I, you know, I, I have loved this conference in Greenville. I still love it in Greenville. I think Greenville will always be our home, but guys, we're spreading our wings. We are going to be moving out and doing new things and going to new places.

And it is going to be amazing. But if you want the original Uncharted experience, if you are like, man, I've heard so many people talk about Uncharted in downtown Greenville and how the conference just fits into that community and how amazing it is, this is your chance. You want to be here. Also, if you have been an Uncharted member, if you've come to our conferences before, if you loved it, you always thought there'd be a chance to come back to the old Westin Poinsett and downtown Greenville you should grab a spot.

I think that there will probably be a chance in the future, but it won't be for a while. I think there's going to be a lot of people coming back because they want to do it one more time at the Westin before we move on and check out some new places and do some new stuff.

So I do expect this event will sell out. Guys, go ahead, head over to UnchartedVet.com and grab your registration spot right now. I'll put a link down in the show notes. Again, you do not want to miss it. This is an investment in yourself and in your practice and your future. It is an investment in skills that you will have and use again and again, and it's an investment in connections.

You are the average of the people you spend time with and you're about to be surrounded and spend time with some really amazing people. Anyway, let's get back into this episode. 

Andy Roark: Alright, so let's get into some action steps here, Sarah. So, we laid this thing out. I think we're, I think we're in a good head space. I feel pretty comfortable starting to walk into this. So, if you're going in, you're working with a client. They've got this certain feedback.

It's sort of this nebulous, like, clients maybe aren't feeling it like they used to. Where do you start your process of fixing this? Do you go into, do you go into diagnostics? Or, like, how do you do that?

Sarah Wolff: For me, I find it's the most helpful to just create some sort of context for yourself, because when you're looking at something like this, it can feel really overwhelming to think, Oh my gosh, all the interactions that everyone on our team has with every single client everywhere, right? That's an impossible hill to look at.

So instead of doing that, because that will, I'm going to try to figure out, you know, what, yeah, it's just too much for any of us. We need smaller chunks. So I like to look through what are the interactions that our clients have with our practice? How do they engage with us? And just make a list of them, you know, and you can do it in chronological order or by department or whatever works for you and your brain and your team's brains.

So then at least you've got this hit list of what are all of the different ways they engage with us. And then you can start looking through those to say, which ones have we changed? Which ones are going well? Which ones aren't going well? You can even recruit some of these fabulous clients who've reached out and said that things feel a little different and just ask them specifically, “What interactions have you had that felt different, you know, or what do you miss?

What was better before that” and it can be vague still but it might help you pinpoint where on this long list Are we seeing some weaknesses? And at least that gives you a more concrete place to start looking at action steps instead of just an overwhelming vagueness of everything is not as good as it used to be.

Andy Roark: Yeah, I really like, what do you miss? I think that's a really good question. color in the lines a little bit more for me, Sarah, because I, think I understand what you're saying, but I want to make sure. So, when you talk about sort of making a list of the client interactions, you're not just talking about texting, email, blah, blah, blah.

You're thinking about specific things. Are you breaking it down? So, okay, so let me, So usually when I start thinking about efficiency in practices, I like to break it up into systems based on what services we're providing. And so I usually break a practice up into like five pieces. So I'll do like wellness appointments sick appointments surgery and dentistry Boarding, grooming, if they have that, but but that level tech appointments, like, those would be the five.

And so I'd say those are the five big services and I kind of go through those services. Are you sort of thinking in that regard of like, okay, let's look at, let's look at wellness services. How do they book appointments? Things like that. Are you more talking about modalities? Like, this is when we text them and how, help me understand what this list looks like or give me some examples of things.

Sarah Wolff: I think the way I think about it is from the client's perspective and there are different models that pull this apart in different ways. But I think about what I call the client experience cycle. So from when the first time they encounter your brand, be that on a website, a yellow pages ad back in the day, Instagram, driving by, whatever, to the point they're in your hospital till afterwards.

And so you can look at different phases of that, and it's gonna be a bit different depending on your business model, but when they're investigating who you are, when they're reaching out to you to schedule appointments, when they're there physically interacting with you. After the appointment, so your follow up period, and then the interim between that follow up period and the next time they schedule with you.

So you end up with these sort of five different phases of the cycle. And different practices have different ways of interacting with clients during those different phases. A lot of us will have, you call us to book, right? Then we send you a confirmation call or text. And you end up with very clear, contact points that you've engineered, whether or not you realize it for your clients to access you and you can make a list of the times that either you're reaching out to them or they're reaching out to you and see what systems you have in place, whether they're de facto or very carefully thought out to see how our clients being able to interact with you and for a lot of our clients that are long term clients, the vast majority of their interactions might be in between appointments.

You know, it might be that long term medication refill that they get every six weeks, right? That might be 90 percent of their interactions with us. But if you can think about that, most practices actually have a system for each of those specific interactions in place, and then that gives you a concrete place to start evaluating, how are we doing it, what's working, what's not working, and any changes you make that way are also then on a very manageable scale.

Right. It's not just every single time we call a client, it's different, you know,

Andy Roark: No. Yeah. I think that's, I think that's really important and not making people feel this is going to be overwhelming. I think anytime we start making a change to how we just generally talk on the phone, like that's a lot. it's a lot of phone talking. So we talked about sort of, creating context. We started talking about looking at, you know, how are they reaching out? What does that look like? So, so you sort of start to audit that and at least sort of feel what, figure out what you're sort of, your communication pathways are, if you will.

So that, that makes sense to me. I really like the idea of what do you miss? Anything like that. And granted, it probably is going to turn up nothing, but it's question to ask. 

Sarah Wolff: I live in a very small town, and this always makes me think of this town because we've, there's been a big influx of people moving there over the last 20 years, and then even more since the pandemic because we're commuting distance to New York City. And when we first moved there about seven years ago, people would talk to us all the time like, Ugh, we missed this town back in the day.

You know? And we'd ask like, Well, what, was so great about this town back in the day? Like, you wouldn't believe it. You'd walk down Main Street, you would get stabbed. That was one of the most common answers to what was the town like back in the day. And so it's this joke now amongst kind of everyone in the town, sort of the old town and the new town, like, Oh, I miss those days when we used to get stabbed walking on Main Street.

You know, but just that idea that um, we always miss what, there isn't anymore. You know, there's always that nostalgia. So then once you ask those clients, you can get a better sense of, you know, how much of this is because times have changed and how much of this is because we've changed, you know, to go from there.

And then I think once you've got that audit, you can figure out what are your high value touch points, you know, what are the places that you think are going to have the biggest impact on your client's perception of you as a business, and there's different ways to define that, and that might come down a little bit more to some of your harder numbers, are you trying to get new clients, are you trying to retain clients, are you trying to increase your transaction value, right, and then you can figure out based on that, kind of what are the touch points that play into that, So you can prioritize where you might want to start making some tweaks and see how they go.

Andy Roark: eah, that, totally makes sense to me. I, one of the things that stuck out to me in this question, It was the, there was, they actually asked, like, what about splitting up the roles at the front desk of the communication, texting, and the in person people? That is actually something that I think is probably worth exploring.

I think, sometimes it's not about the digital communication. It's about multitasking. You know, and if I put someone at the front desk, and they're supposed to be the face of the practice, and they're just continually checking their monitor and you like head down. That's like a different level of connection. You know whenever you're talking to someone and they are in their screen.

That's just, it's, almost like, It's worse if they're just sitting, it's worse than if they're just sitting there. Cause they are like actively, I– you can't help but feel so ignored. Even if they're working on your thing. And again, this is old school, but you know, We used to talk to the doctors and coach doctors, Please don't go into the room, And just sit with your back to the client and type in the computer.

Please don't do that. And it was just because It feels so off putting. It feels so– you feel so insignificant when people do that. And I can, I, totally can see in practices this idea that we're going to multitask. So, whether you have someone who is good at letting text messages just ping in, and not responding to them until I get this client fully taken care of, and then I'm going to dive back in, I think that can be fine. Or, you can divide and conquer where one person is doing digital communication and the other person is on face duty and then we switch, but that whole juggling, I think that hurts people in significant ways. I think also I would be looking out here for a lack of clarity of expectation for the front desk.

So if I say to the front desk, your job is to handle communication as efficiently as possible. Then, really what I'm saying to them is you should be knocking these texts uh, and digital emails and things out as fast as possible, but that's not really what I want. I, yes, efficiency is important, but that client experience for the client who is in our building, I think that is more important now than ever.

And so just clearly articulating the expectations you have for the front desk and what the, what your values are, and what your goals are, and how you want people to feel. That may sound silly and you think, oh, everybody knows that. I don't think the, I don't think that you do. I think it's easy.

Especially if you've added technology. It’s– you creep. You know what I mean? Like you add a new technology and people kind of start to use it. And then you get a little bit more efficient with it and they start to use it a little bit more and at some point you have kind of passed the point where you're not looking people in the eye anymore.

Because you're in this technology. If you'd walked in and just said, this is what we do, and I just didn't look you in the eye, you would notice it. But if it, if you're doing it and you just keep adding things, you creep that way and you don't realize how far you've kind of drifted. And so, that resetting of expectations and reminding people of the why, I think that's really powerful.

I also think you can really motivate people when you stop and say, Hey, we're taking care of these people. Like, like, this is a, possibly a scary time for them. We're going to really be there and be present for them. I think a lot of our people get really excited about that because they want to help people.

Sarah Wolff: I would add to that, I think splitting the roles could be really powerful depending on the size of your practice and your setup and if you've got space for that to happen. What I would say is that using some of these technology tools requires really understanding what the expectation from clients is with them.

And the expectation is very different for a phone call versus text messaging. That, especially for younger clients, if you offer text messaging, the expectation is a very rapid response not 10 minutes later, not 20 minutes later, certainly not hours later. That if they're able to text you during business hours, the expectation is that within a minute or two they're getting an effective response to it.

And I think if we, when we look at different things that we can add to our practices in terms of communication, we really have to think, is this something that we're going to utilize well? And if we're going to offer text messaging, it needs to be because we've got somebody who's on the text messages.

Not that once an hour and, you know, multitasking CSR has a chance to check that tab on their browser. And so I think if you've got a practice where you've got a lot of that going on, absolutely splitting up the roles so somebody can be more focused on that and giving those quick responses without impairing the ability to interact with the person at the front desk is a really good idea.

And as you said, you know, that, that chance to create a personal connection is so powerful for our clients, but also for our team members, you know, that creates so much more fulfillment in our day when we get to have those positive interactions and we have so much in common with our clients already, right?

We're all the crazy cat ladies and all of that. That's why we do this and that's why they come to us a lot of the time that we get to have this wonderful personal connection we might not get outside of our workplace too. To add to it, I think there's even more training we can do to improve those moments when we do have personal interaction, even if we've got the energy to have it, or the time and the focus, to teach people, teach our team members, especially new ones, what is that interaction going to look like at our practice?

You know, you were talking about the values. A value can be as simple as we respect everybody, and a respectful interaction is going to be very different for different people, right? For somebody in their 60s or 70s, that might be, or mean being called Mr. Smith, right? But a respectful interaction for a 25 year old client might be, Hey Jim, right?

And those two different people might get the same feeling from very different types of interactions. And it's not such a huge range of things, right? It might be three or four different ways that we could address people or tones that we could take with people. And if we give our teams that are on the front line of creating that human experience some of that training and some of that knowledge, it can empower them to have much better interactions in a way that might not come naturally to them if they don't have that opportunity to learn it.

Andy Roark: No, I do like that a lot. I think I think the tra– I think the training part is important. And just, mean to your point about the way we sort of engage with people differently to try to create that experience. We often don't practice that, and we often don't put our, like, front desk staff in a place where they see what other front desk staff do.

They're kind of in a little bubble, and they're talking on the phone the way that they talk on the phone. What are your sort of favorite tools, what are your favorite tools for that type of training, Sarah?

Sarah Wolff: I love having baseline scripts, so not scripts that everybody has to follow word for word because that eliminates the humanness, right? You have to be able to ad lib a little bit. But I love knowing what are the different types of interactions that we have with clients. And here's a baseline for what we want you to communicate when you have those interactions.

And so, the first time caller, here's how we talk to them. And it can be as simple as here's a suggested way of saying it, and here are the four bullet points you have to hit. Right? And then giving them a chance to do it 3, 4, 5, 2000 times. Right? And making sure that they have a chance to do it and figure out the way that they can say it that's natural to them but also supports the practice's vision for how we present ourselves and how we package veterinary care.

And if we can give them that opportunity before we put them on a hot phone, we're going to have a much better chance of them succeeding and our clients seeing that, but also them feeling really good and being able to knock it out of the ballpark right from the beginning and avoid some of that early stress and energy drain that we can see in new hires who don't get that same support and that chance to just have that little practice.

Because if you haven't worked a front desk before. that's a hard job. That is a really hard job that requires a lot of thinking on your feet, you know, and in the room we have spiels. So why wouldn't we expect our front desk team to need time to practice their spiels, right? Like I've got the way I describe a food trial and I've honed it over years of messing it up, right?

We need to give our front desk the same space to create the way they can do a spiel effectively. And be able to give them some positive feedback about what's working and what else we want them to include. So just having kind of those sample scripts for maybe those ten common conversations that your front desk is going to be asked to have regularly, and then giving them the opportunity to practice that and get it in their own words, can go a long way to smoothing those early transactions with clients.

Andy Roark: Yeah. I love that. I really like case based learning, which is, you know, we use that a lot in training veterinarians and technicians now. Why don't we use it at the front desk? I mean, they have cases and I'm just a huge fan of bringing the CSRs together and let them work in groups.

It's less scary when people work in groups, but I think that we can present to them case studies and say, let's imagine that we have this, a client is coming in and you can pick one. That's an actual client that they know and then just frame, frame up an issue for them and say this person is coming in and this is going on, you know, I want you, I'm going to give you guys five minutes to huddle up and decide how you would handle this and then we'll come back and we're going to talk through it.

And that may sound silly, but there's, it's so easy. Even it doesn't even matter what they say to me. It's the fact that they are going to huddle up together and get on the same page and sort of compare notes. And then I, can walk them towards. Let's, what would you actually say? What would that look like?

And it's just that's the type of sort of, communication challenge case study training that I just, I think it's, I think it's really good. And I think a lot of people think that you only train like that when you're onboarding somebody new. And I disagree. I think you can do it when you onboard somebody new and you include the senior people and you say, oh, you know, we're onboarding, so, so come on and be a part of this, but the reality is they're going to get so much out of having to talk to each other and even having to revisit these issues again. It's really funny. It's kind of, there's great power in saying, I know you know this and then telling them what you want them to know because it sort of lets people off the hook.

So bringing them together and just go, I know you guys know this, but just, it's because of the new technology. we're gonna, we're gonna do some cases together. And then, let them talk it out. But I think that can be so valuable. Especially if you have a stated purpose and you say, Hey guys, I really want to do some cases.

I want to focus with you guys on personal connection. And so imagine this is coming in and we're focusing on personal connection. How do we have this conversation with an emphasis on personal connection? And you will see people really raise their game and they'll start working on what their language is and they'll see other people. How they engage, and it can be a really good way to kind of set the tone. Everybody laughs, don't take it too seriously. and just get them thinking in that way.

Sarah Wolff: I agree, and I think it's, you can almost do rounds the same way you do, like, M&M rounds for medical things, you know, and the other thing that helps generate within your practice is consistency, and what you want is consistency. You want a client not to have to worry about when they call or when their appointment is, or who they're seeing or who's picking up the phone, right?

And so the more you have those group exercises, The more you're going to see consistency in the type of customer service that you're providing. And that's going to come back to you tenfold as your clients can trust the whole practice. They don't only call Tuesdays at three when Sally's on the front desk because she always figures it out for them, right? That puts Sally in a tough spot. It puts everyone else in a tough spot. And when you present those things to your team, you know, it's easy to say, this is a problem I want us to fix, but. That doesn't always make everyone feel really excited about it. So instead of approaching it from a, Hey, we've implemented a lot of new technology, being a personalized service, and really being a part of this community is extremely important to all of us, and we've always done a really good job of it, and we want to make sure we maintain that while we're using these new technologies.

Let's practice or brainstorm some different ways that we can communicate using them to maintain that in our team because that's what we really value in all of you and we don't want to lose that. We don't want clients to lose that wonderful part of you. And so if you frame it in that positive way, it's going to get everybody so much more jazzed up and on board with going through with the exercise in the first place and then following through on whatever you come up with going forward.

Andy Roark: Yeah. Well, you're spot on. and, you know, it's, I think, you touched on, and we should put this back in headspace, but you, you touched on something I think is really important, Sarah, is like, we always have to be careful when we're trying to make changes of the old “beatings will continue until morale improves” approach, you know, and so if the clients are like I'm just not feeling it and you're like, all right, everybody's in trouble like that's the Antithetical to them creating the inviting fun We're all happy experience that you need to be successful here And so that whole don't go in say guys this isn't working the clients don't like us.

Like you're just making your job harder. Go in and say, guys, I'm really proud of you. And I love the work that we do here. And you guys are doing fantastic. And I want us to go the next level. I want us to really start to weave in this type of, you know, deep connection that I know that we all feel good about and we all enjoy and you can, celebrate them to success. You do not have to go in. And try to, you know, give them the stick instead of the carrot to get them moving in the right direction. That's just, it's really hard to negative, to use negative reinforcement to build the type of culture that we're talking about.

So I, anyway, I think you're spot on. Have you got anything else?

Sarah Wolff: I would just encourage this practice and any other practice in this spot to know that they're doing a great job and that they've got wonderful humans and they've just got to keep figuring out how to make that humanity shine through whatever communications they're using.

Andy Roark: Yeah, I, agree. I think I really, takeaways from this is remember to lean into your positive reinforcement and if we're not messing up, we have an opportunity to make people feel special. And now that we have figured out our efficiency in a much, in a really significant way, now we have the opportunity to go back and really make them feel that love and reconnect with them, which is what we want.

I think that's, I think that's really cool. I think I think owning the fact that we leaned in and we worked hard on efficiency and now we're going to lean back and work on customer experience while we maintain efficiency. I mean, that's really kind of what it's like kind of climbing a ladder is you got to put the left hand up and then you gotta put the right hand up, but you don't take the left hand back down.

And so it's the same thing. Efficiency and then experience and then efficiency and experience and you just can't you can't increase your efficiency while tinkering with the experience dial very well. We've all got to be intentional you choose what you're going to work on you work on it. You look around and you make some adjustments.

I think that they're in that normal healthy cycle And so that makes me really happy. Yeah, I think good training ideas. Yeah, I'm gonna have to sit. I'm gonna go away and sit and think about how do I make my text messaging feel like not just an automated text message?

You know what I mean? I think there's real opportunities there to get creative. It's almost like, it's the same muscles you use when you say, How do I write an exceptional thank you note? There's the same type of muscle. You know, it's like, I don't want it to–

Sarah Wolff: It is, and there's formulas. This isn't, there are formulas, there are lots of resources, and there's infinite room for creativity. Just like the rest of Vet Med, the sky is the limit here, you know? There are so many different ways that you can get creative with this, and just knock it out of the park.

Andy Roark: If you want to learn more about client experience, if you want to talk more with Sarah Wolff about what she does and about about things like this, come and check her out at the April uncharted conference. It's in Greenville, South Carolina. She's gonna be speaking there. I will be there as well.We'll be hanging out. Come and visit with us, Sarah. Thanks so much for being here. I really appreciate you.

Sarah Wolff: sThank you for having me, it's been a blast.​

And that's what we got guys. Thanks for tuning in. Thanks to Dr. Sarah Wolff for being here. She's amazing. I really enjoyed having her on the podcast. Guys, take care of yourselves, everybody. Thanks again for being here. I'd love to see you in April.

Written by Maria Pirita · Categorized: Blog, Podcast · Tagged: communication, culture, management

Mar 13 2024

Top 3 Things Practices MUST Be Doing to Keep Clients Coming In The Doors

This week on the Uncharted Podcast, practice management super nerd, Stephanie Goss invited special guest Bill Schroeder to come discuss something all of our practices should be getting ready for – the big slow down. We know that some clinics still have clients coming out their ears while others are experiencing a very rapid slowing of appointment volume. So many of us have been focusing on hiring and retaining team members to support our case loads that we've put things like marketing, updating reminder protocols and website updates on the back burner.

Bill Schroeder owns InTouch Practice Communications, a full-service digital marketing agency built specifically for the veterinary community. As an entrepreneur, international speaker, veterinary thought leader, and digital marketing enthusiast who has leveraged his love of people and pets to help veterinary practices grow and thrive – Stephanie thought Bill would be the perfect guest to talk strategy with. Bill's team and their more than 8,000 client success stories are the basis for his speaking sessions and his drive to help practices learn how to actually implement these things in your practice. Bill serves on the Board of Directors for VetPartners, teaches within the MBA program at Purdue University, and can be found teaching from many of the veterinary conference stages around the world.

Stephanie asked Bill to come discuss the three most important things every clinic should be doing right now to keep clients coming in the doors. Between outsourcing google ads and online reputation management, Stephanie and Bill give you realistic tips that you can put into practice today. Let's get into this episode…

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast · 277 – Top 3 Things Practices MUST Be Doing To Keep Clients Coming In The Doors

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Episode Transcript

Stephanie Goss:

Hey everyone, I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. This week on the podcast. I have the pleasure of being joined by my dear friend, Bill Schroeder. We recently were having some conversation in our uncharted community about how some of our members practice schedules seem to be slowing down.

And for some of them visits have really kind of slowed down and dropped off. And we know that we're seeing that across the veterinary space, there's been some studies recently by AVMA and looking at the economics of practice. We know things are slowing down and some people are starting to feel that squeeze and panic.

And so Bill and I had a conversation about what some are, what are some of those things. That practices should be doing at all times to keep clients coming in the door, whether we've got clients coming out our ears, or whether we are in a position where it is really slow. And we're really consciously thinking about our marketing efforts for the first time, probably since COVID hit.

So I asked bill to come join me to have that conversation here with all of you. And I asked him to bring his top three tips for you all. And he brought it. And then some, so let's get into this. .

Stephanie Goss: And we are back. I, Stephanie Goss, am here with my dear friend, not Dr. Andy Roark, but in fact, I am here with Bill Schroeder. And for those of you who don't have the pleasure of knowing Bill, he is funny. He is fun. He is kind. He throws an amazing party but none of that has to do with what he does for business.

Bill owns InTouch Practice Communications, which is a full service digital marketing agency that is built specific for the veterinary community. They love to focus on, you know, empowering and driving business for their clients, empowering their clients to take control of their own digital presence.

Bill has a genius brain, I think, when it comes to these things. He has spoken at Uncharted Veterinary Conference. You may have seen him or heard him present at conferences all over the world. And he is just brilliant. A ball of fun. And so I was really excited to have him here with me. We've had some conversation in the Uncharted community recently about a topic that I know is near and dear to Bill's heart.

And so I said, hey Bill, you want to come do a podcast with me? And he said, sure, I would love to!

Bill Schroeder: Yeah, and thank you Stephanie. I really appreciate the kind words. It's really fun to be here and I can't believe that I'm knocking on the door of 30 years and, you know, of doing this. I, want to thank the, like the whole community for making this my home and it's like one of, it's, really great and it's a pleasure to be here and I guess while I'm thanking you, I want to thank you for what happens when you get scheduled to do a podcast like this, right?

It's like the hygiene things that happen, like, yeah. Like look at this desk.

Stephanie Goss: Bill's desktop is, it's 

Bill Schroeder: Um, that whiteboard back there does not look like you know a Madden like play

Stephanie Goss: Uh-huh, with scribbles written all over it.

Bill Schroeder: I was able to dust all my pictures. Although you can't see the pictures that I keep on my desk…

Stephanie Goss: of Andy? Of Andy’s face? 

Bill Schroeder: I was able to get them all clean so in case you were able to see them…

Stephanie Goss: we're never going to fit his head through the door. Once he finds out that Bill has a picture of him on his desk. 

Bill Schroeder: Well, we’re not going to. I’m just going to put it where it normally resides so that we can let him know that I’m always let him know that I'm thinking about him. So anyways, it's a pleasure to be here and yeah, I'm so glad that you've offered me this platform to kind of help because it's really a topic that is quite serious right now.

You know, we're coming out of this unknown time, which is that COVID bubble that we all scrambled around.

Stephanie Goss: Right. 

Bill Schroeder: It was this period of time where we didn't know what to do. We had to incorporate all of these new things like curbside and, you know, running, you know, and isolating staff and all of those changes to our operations.

And a lot of people were so busy that they stopped focusing on what is important. And that's growing the business, whether it be through existing clients and making certain that they understand all the opportunities and we'll speak to that in a little bit here but also growing because I mean, we're all human, right?

It became one of those situations where, quite frankly, it was easy to make certain that your appointment book is full, right?

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. Yeah 

Bill Schroeder: So yeah, and I wish I had the answer for exactly what's going to happen next or exactly what to do right now. From a data standpoint, and I'm, I love the data. I know what to do from, I know it's working for our existing clients, but anyone that says, here's the formula for a time exactly like right now, I would kind of run away from that person, just because of the fact that we've never been here before.

Stephanie Goss: Right, exactly. I was going to say there, I don't think there has been a time like right now and who knows whether there will ever be the exact same circumstances in the future for sure. It's kind of, it's kind of weird. It's that post feels like that in a way that, you know, kind of post apocalyptic. We did this whole thing, we created this whole new world and then just as quickly as we adapted when COVID hit, now things have changed and I think it's happened slower and, and I think that has given practices more time to adapt, but it has still changed dramatically.

Bill Schroeder: It has and, you know, there's some scary stuff that's going on out there. And, you know, one of the things that everyone needs to be aware of is that we've built these, well, internally at the agency, we've built these systems that allow us to monitor what's going on like real time out there within the market.

We're utilizing our client experience, the data that we are tracking and then listening posts that we have out there in, in the real world that are telling us. What's actually happening and the one thing before I get into like the tips and the things that you need to be doing, you need to realize that the intent- pet owners are that the intent is down to the point that we have seen things in markets where we're talking year over year comparison for search volume or searches for topics that are driving business within practices in a local market, we're seeing individual markets beat down as much as 40%.

Stephanie Goss: Wow.

Bill Schroeder: So, when I talk, and very specifically, to be very clear, it's like when we look at how many times very valuable search terms are being used within a market, sometimes we're seeing that year over year, like Or especially year over during COVID period of time, we're seeing 40 percent drops in the actual searches, people are busy, they're back at work, they're not, they no longer have the availability to take their pets out and they've take their pets to the practice, you know, like they could during COVID and to be very frank, in many instances, they've checked that box.

Stephanie Goss: Mmm-hmmm.  

Bill Schroeder: the people that hadn't done it in years and aren't the incredibly compliant. They're like, Oh, I did that. You know, I did that. You know, I took them into the practice, right?

Stephanie Goss: I'm good for another three or four years.

Bill Schroeder: Unfortunately, we're seeing some of that. So the problem and I just had this conversation yesterday where I was called in with one of my teams where there we had a client who was looking at Google ads.

And they were looking at their performance right now, and then comparing it to two years ago and saying, wait, something's broken. And I'm talking about the fact that they're about seven points up on on, you know, the average practice out there. And they're not satisfied with that, right? Well, there are markets that are 40 percent down, so 7 percent up, you're like, you're killing me.  

Stephanie Goss: Right. Yeah. Okay. So the heart of what I want to talk about today, we, you and I were talking about the fact that there has been, which I think is a good thing. There's started to be a lot of conversation in our Uncharted community. I've seen it in the other manager groups that I'm in, VHMA the management books groups on Facebook where people are starting to experience a drop off in appointments.

And a lot of people were scrambling for staff and for doctors during COVID and business was crazy. And we all know, I mean, how many podcasts did Andy and I do about the fact that everybody had clients coming out their ears and everybody was struggling to keep up with the client volume because there weren't enough hours in the day, there weren't enough team members.

And I think for some people that is still true. There are certain areas of veterinary medicine where it is still overwhelming and a lot of people are starting to experience significant drop offs. So clinics that had been booked six weeks, eight weeks, 12 weeks out now are like we're only booked a week out and we've got same day openings again.

And I think the biggest thing. For a lot of managers that hit was we had to really shift our mindset when COVID happened. Where as a manager, there's a fine line that you want to teach the team to walk between having enough space as a GP practice to have clients be able to be seen quickly and not gatekeeping, too many appointments on the books, where then you have the team standing around if sick pets don't happen to come in that day.

Right. And so we, over the years, kind of learned to excel at walking that line. And then COVID hit. And it was like everybody who kept to that line was drowning because there was nowhere to put the clients that had sick pets that needed to come in. So we all shifted that workflow and everybody started holding more same day appointments, creating spaces to take emergencies, all of that kind of stuff.

So we shifted the whole workflow and now that the schedules have changed and appointments have dropped off and everybody's like, Oh, I have all these. And so I'm starting to hear conversation amongst my friends and colleagues who are saying, okay, I'm going to admit this. I stopped trying to get new clients.

I stopped focusing on marketing. I stopped running Google ads. I didn't care about updating the website except for when we got new team members. Because the whole point for a lot of us who just are doing the everyday job was all of the marketing tools, all of the communication tools, it either was  either ways to get new clients or to make our lives easier dealing with the existing clients that we had. And it felt like for most of us, unless you were a startup or a new practice trying to get clients in the door, stopped thinking about new clients. And so now there's all these practices who are like, “How do I go back to getting clients coming in the door?”

And so I asked Bill to come and talk today about it. I said, Bill, you are so smart and you have all of these ideas. And I always love talking to you because I get so excited for the possibilities in practice when we talk. And I said, can you come and talk to to the top, like the top three things that you would suggest every practice should be doing to keep clients coming in the door.

Bill Schroeder: And we did not practice this. And I promise you that everyone should see just how in tune we are here, because you're going to see.

Stephanie Goss: Okay, 

Bill Schroeder: I put together the top three things that we're going to do.

For those of you who are listening and not watching, I'm showing a hand of five because I just don't know three.

I cheated. I did. We're going to do the top three to five.

Stephanie Goss: the top three to five things. Let's do it.

Bill Schroeder: But my point and you're going to hear where I start very planned and I could show you my notes just to prove it, but I'll be less dramatic.

I've been here before, right? And when the market as a whole or the economy is in a bad place, it's pressured and we're talking about the cost of groceries, we're talking about the cost of gasoline, we're talking about, you know, the general economy not being good, we feel it in veterinary medicine.

And the AVMA came out with a study real recently, and I think that their number was 55 percent of our clients are saying that they are, they define themselves as being transient. And I'm not, I'm, categorizing what they did. That's not word for word how it came in, but it's like 55 percent of your clients in practice would move.

Okay. And when you combine that with how price sensitive the market is, I believe that there is an unfortunate opportunity for people to move from your practice to the next.

So, my very first is to capitalize on your same day availability and the trend that is in urgent care. Now, back, I mean, I've been in this game for, like I said, like 30 years, and we've gone through these trends, right?

And when we're really busy, you hear practices speak about “Well, let's charge a same day appointment fee, right?” Like, okay, like if you're in that position, you can always be in that position. You're probably not tuned in right now because you're busting at the seams and, you know, keeping the door swinging is not something that's a concern to you.

Congratulations. However, I am routinely speaking to practices that used to book up three weeks in advance and they don't know what they're gonna do at the end of the week. Okay, so, And when you've, we're seeing a massive trend in people finding practices that will be able to serve them, whether it be just because of their convenience or because of the urgent care system that they've got.

So, because they have an urgent need, right? So, I, and I, the balance is different, so I can't give you the formula here that is like, reserve like nine, three spots per, you know, FTE, I mean, I can't do that because it, really depends upon your market, but to make certain that you and your team are capitalizing on that and they realize everyone from the CSR to whoever is handling your marketing needs to realize that this is important because what's happening is people, those people that are coming to you are the people that are the opportunity leaving.

They're that 55 percent that we talked about that migrated from or are trying to migrate from another practice. So, it's a two edged sword. We've got to capitalize on that and realize that's an opportunity for you. In order for you to capitalize on that, you need to make certain that you're marketing to that.

And that your team understands that same day availability is not bad. Your practice is a business. And the, at the end of the day, we should be filling up as many of those appointments as possible and marketing to the opportunity that is an open time slot. 

Stephanie Goss: That makes sense to me. And I think that clients too are becoming, at least I can speak to my own personal experience, like in human healthcare, right? Like I probably even five years ago, it would not have occurred to me that there were choices other than your regular GP, right? And specialists, obviously– and the emergency room. Like, those were your two options. You either were sick enough to go to the hospital or you waited and went and saw your, GP and on the human side, like the shift, and I will admit it, I have, we have a great urgent care here locally and I discovered it when I had a sick kid who I thought had strep.

I couldn't get her in during COVID to the regular doctor. And so I said, okay, I'm going to try this place. I can, they had an app I could book online. And I said, I'm going to go and I'm going to take her. And I don't really care about the experience because I just want to get seen. Right. And so I think experiencing that in our own lives on the human healthcare side has led clients to actively seek that as well, right, in the veterinary space. And so I love that idea about capitalizing on it. And I think that there are a lot of practices who have always had that, you know, we have same day spaces, but you're talking about not only doing it, but marketing to the clients who are looking for it and also clients who might not know that you have it, that are existing clients.

Bill Schroeder: Right, because urgent care really is having the availability to see someone right away, right? And it allows you then to kind of differentiate yourself. Like, there's this thing, and when we talk to pet owners, and we talk to clients about this, There's this thing that, and I'm sorry ER people that are out there, I mean, but I think you know this, right?

ER equals expensive. ER equals, it's gonna be a thousand dollars when I walk through the door, right? And that's rightfully so, right? You're, the ER practices are there to solve that problem. Right. It's a specialty place. But when you've got the GP and the ER and there's no, let's just, let's not talk about the finances between, let's talk about pet care.

And there's not a gap. I don't have another finger to point. I'm going to use my nose. there's, oh look at what I'm doing right now. I can move this without moving my nose. There's a gap here that exists, right? That can be filled by just creating a space within your schedule to see that.

And then label it as an urgent care. And that, that, that allows you to capitalize on that transient client. And see the pets. You know, regardless of the finance behind it, you know, because I think there's a huge amount and I'm going to be frank, I've kind of fallen victim. I think I'm a really good pet owner, but it's been like, you know, I have schnauzers.

So, you know, they have stomach issues, right. You know, and, you know, so you wind up going like, okay, this can wait till tomorrow. I've been down this road. Pancreatitis and I are very good friends.

Something that's never been said before. I think if that's not a t- shirt, if you don't take the t-shirt, I'm taking it.

Stephanie Goss: Pancreatitis and I are friends. I own schnauzers.

Bill Schroeder: Yes. So, but when that's the case, you know, you wait, but I would absolutely capitalize on that if I knew my vet had availability. Okay, so can I move into number two? 

Stephanie Goss: Well, and you can, I just want to say too, I think the flip side of that, you know, is that we automatically go to that. Let's not. upset the ERs, right? Because we do, we really want to take business away from them? And I will say that our local ER, so we, my clinic here had been doing prompt care model before COVID, our sister hospital and ours, we had a doctor who was assigned every day to be able to just take those cases.

Our ERs loved it because they were like, please, Take the ear infections, take the, you know, mild absent, take the stuff that we're seeing that we don't really need to or want to see, they, want to see the cases that need their specialty training and skill set and, pace of an ER. And so I think that there is some really beautiful relationship that can happen between practices that are offering urgent care.

So when you're thinking about marketing, and I've had this conversation with colleagues, if you're doing urgent care or you have spaces that you're able to market as urgent care, market to the clients, your current clients, market to potential new clients. Like you said, market to your ERs as a client as well, because if they know that you can do that, you can build your own backward referral.

Like we think about ERs having us as clients, as referrals, it works both ways.

Bill Schroeder: Yeah, that's a really good point. If you remember during COVID, we had criticalists that were doing, you know, wellness.

Stephanie Goss: right?

Bill Schroeder: Right. I mean, you know, and that was because of it, you know, just, you know, workload at the GP level and all that jazz.

They're really aware that they don't want that type of work. So, yeah, but I really think that having your front, your CSRs And your current clients and the, ER practice that you refer to understand what you need and want are really good first steps. And celebrate that availability.

Don't penalize people for making that transition in and tack that, you know, extra same day fee on there. Don't do it.

Stephanie Goss: Right. Right. 

Bill Schroeder: Okay. So number two.

Okay. Focus on Google Business Profile. We call it GBP. It's the old Google My Business, right? Make certain that it's optimized. And that's, for those who don't know, it used to be Google My Business, and in true Google fashion, they keep changing things so that there's something new to talk about, I guess.

But it's now the GBP. Same. Same ice cream, different, you know, label on it. It's the thing that is powered by your practice's location, the number and quality of Google reviews, and it is the Google Maps section. We see the greatest amount of organic traffic. Come through there. So make certain that you've got all your images correctly that your hours are correct, that you've linked your website And all the opportunities I could spend an entire hour go deep diving on this but make certain that you've optimized that and you Continuously, look for ways to make sure that it's up to date.

Furthermore, here's something that nobody's talking about. Did I cut you off stuff?

Stephanie Goss: no, I just was going to ask when you say make sure, like when you say make sure that your pictures and stuff are updated, you're talking about actual pictures of life in the practice, not pictures of your building. Right. Right. Cause I, like as a, as a. Consumer, when I pick up my iPhone and I go into my Apple Maps and I type in like what I'm kind of looking for and I click on a business, I want to see, I don't care what the building looks like.

I want to see what their food looks like, or I want to see what the environment right?

Bill Schroeder: You are so blowing my mind right now. You don’t even realize what you just did. I swear this was not practiced or anything. Okay so first off, you need those building pictures to some degree. I like building streets from the street because I understand. You know, I'm not fluent in the algorithm. Nobody should be, right? That Google in particular has matched up the Google Street View with the things and they can see what aligns based upon that.

So, that's necessary, but you shouldn't stop there. To your point, you should be able to reflect the culture, happy people, you know, not, surgeries, that cool tumor, that That you found that we all are like, wow, that's cool.

Stephanie Goss: That giant splenic mass.

Bill Schroeder: Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Could you please like send me pics? You know and we like that, pet owners don't but the thing that you walked into and I promise you when I pause this is exactly what I was gonna say.

Nobody's talking about this. Everybody talks about Google a business profile, but nobody talks about Apple Maps. Now, I guess cat's out of the bag now, right? I mean, you know, if more than one person watches this, we optimize Google Maps, and we do really well because of it. Okay? And no one else is we're watching.

People don't do it. Well, they're going to do it now, so Okay, well, welcome to the party, everybody. But the thing that people don't realize is Apple Maps is driven, and so is Yahoo! is driven by Yelp reviews. So go ahead and go into, right,

Stephanie Goss: Yes. I actually noticed that because when I Google a business, when I say Google, but when I am an Apple user through and through. So I look at my maps and I click on the business and the first thing I notice is what are the Yelp reviews that are there. And as a consumer, like I, that's something that I look at.

Bill Schroeder: right, and so, so, and I do too, and a little bit of it is because my car has Apple CarPlay, and it plays really nicely with Apple Maps rather than Google Maps. So I wind up hanging out in that space, right? So for those of you who don't understand what we're talking about, go on your iPhone. And then click on the Maps, not Google Maps, but Apple Maps, it'll just be called Maps on there.

And then, like, insert your practice name, right, to find it, as if you're looking for directions. And then go into the profile there. And look at the photos that are there, and you will find some photos that are powered by Yelp. And if it's not your practice, look at other businesses. It'll literally say that in the corner of the photo.

Now, the reason that I bring this up is because we have this negative, I guess stigma or stereotype, whatever we're going to say 

Stephanie Goss: We hate Yelp

Bill Schroeder: We hate Yelp. 

Stephanie Goss: Yes.

Bill Schroeder: But you got to play there, right? So the, key is working and letting the Yelpers know that you are participating there and celebrate it so that you can rank really well there.

So that's my second one. GBP Google business profile and Apple maps need to be atop of their game. Because that's serving up and directly connecting with the local pet owners.

Stephanie Goss: Okay. 

Bill Schroeder: Third, Google ads. You got to pay to play. the internet is, and I use this all the time. I've used this for a handful of years.

It's like a piece of electrical conduit.

Stephanie Goss: Okay.

Bill Schroeder: Organic in particular is a piece of conduit that we have beaten to death. And if, just like a piece of conduit, which is that pipe that holds electrical wire, the more wires you put through it, the more difficult it is to get that next wire from one end to the next.

It's clogged, right? So, you've got to build that very efficient side piece of conduit, so your wire can more directly make its way through. Now, you said quite accurately, and I really appreciate this at the beginning of our talk here, that I like to empower people to do the things that I teach on their own.

And I'm going to say that about 85 percent of the stuff that I talk about or I teach, and by the way, Uncharted, I'm going to be doing a workshop in Greenville, a hint, hint, shameless plug, on building your practice. So, I hope to see you there. But you can leave one of my talks or my workshops.

Empowered to do the things that I believe that you can do, which is a good percentage, 85 to 90%. I don't think you can do Google Ads. Not well, at least, unless you've been trained. Unless you're continuously going through the things that, like, I've got a team of people that do it. And the amount of time that we carve out to train independently, and the out, we literally have a consultant that, that we pay every Thursday to come into the agency and teach our Google Ads people that do this every day, all day, the new things that happened that week.

Stephanie Goss: Right, 

Bill Schroeder: So Google ads is really important. The things that I get asked about are how much should I spend? I shrug my shoulders and I say, if you're spending less than 500 a month on the actual ad spend, you're probably not spending enough and you need to question the quality of the ad and, such because it should turn into something where you're wanting to spend more.

Stephanie Goss: Right. And here's the thing. I think as a manager, this is what is so hard because Google ads has always been kind of, at least I'm just going to speak for myself as a manager. It was always confusing to me. It was the thing that I knew that I needed to do. But I didn't, to your point, I didn't know what I was doing.

And even though I took some classes and I like, you know, took some webinars, I watched your stuff. I looked at, you know, what, you know, people like you, Eric Garcia, Caitlin DeWild, all these people are saying, Hey, these are things that you should do. And at the time I was working with our friend, Brandon Brashear.

Is it? And I was like, Brandon, what do I? And he's like, yes, you have to do it. Okay. So I threw money at it and tried the thing. But I think as a manager, like, I love that you say, this is a piece. It's okay that this is a piece that you outsource and that you throw money at, because I think a lot of us have this experience where we try it.

And we're like, I spent 300 on that. And I got nothing back. That's the frustrating experience because we don't know what we don't know. And so it feels like we're just throwing money up in the air and setting it on fire because we don't know what we're supposed to do with it. We think that there's supposed to be this return on it, but we don't have that knowledge.

And so I will say that was a great relief to me to be able to say, Oh, okay. This isn't something that I have to figure out how to do or have somebody in the practice who knows how to do. This is something that I can take to professionals and say, Please help. And also get that kind of advice that this is what a realistic price and spend for your market should look like based on your particular market.

And this is how you can make that money work for you. It's kind of like when you, I thought about it at the time, like working with a financial advisor. It was like, Oh, all of these things that were really mysterious to me now are suddenly making sense.

Bill Schroeder: My lack of self control is going to come through here because I can't help but take a little bit of a deeper dive and kind of, you know, give some tips here around what I would do. And I'm going to rattle these off a little bit just so that you can take notes on them.

And the first thing, if you're going to work with a firm, make sure that the firm is charging a flat fee and not a fee that is based upon your spend. If you charge a fee that is based upon your spend, there is no incentive for them to increase the number of conversions and decrease the cost per conversion.

So it, whatever the flat fee is, if it's a good flat fee, that's what you should do because of exactly what I stated. Secondly, you should have a deep understanding of what a conversion actually is, and a conversion is taking someone from one state to the next, meaning they haven't called the practice, you need them to call the practice, or you need them to book an appointment, and then they actually book the appointment.

Now here's where the details get a little bit fuzzy. People can call conversions whatever they want, and people, some firms, drive traffic. Based upon their definition of a conversion and it makes things look crazy. Like I literally just quoted a project against another firm in the veterinary industry and they were claiming that they can drive conversions at four dollars a conversion. Well, I told the doctor I said, well, I guess if they can drive conversions at 4 a conversion, please tell me who they are because I would like to then funnel all my work through them because this is brilliant.

And if you spend 500, that's what, 250 appointments that you should have, right? So if you can't tie those appointments back to a conversion, it's not really a conversion. And what people do is they put garbage ads out there. To because I can make your phone ring for garbage. I can make it ring, you know, for low cost things or for ambiguous things that will just tie up your front desk.

But I'd rather use these numbers. I can make your phone ring for between like 12 and 15 dollars. But responsibly, I think that we should be talking between 40 and 50 to actually get an appointment through the door.

Stephanie Goss: Sure.

Bill Schroeder: Okay, so there's that.

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Bill Schroeder: and I guess the last thing that I want to say is that when you're doing call when you're doing Ads, you should always be using call tracking so that you can listen to the calls. Which means that you can get a separate number that is specific for that ad and only available through the ad That allows you to then listen to the phone calls that come through. It's brilliant what happens.

You can listen to your CSR, how they're receiving the ads, how they're receiving the traffic that comes through, and validate that the things that are coming through are actually the right type of traffic. So, when you're doing that, you're operating responsibly, and that's what it takes to run a responsible campaign, and a whole bunch of other really good, creative, and smart people.

But I will hit on that when we get to Greenville, and if anyone wants Any more information. It's one of my favorite topics to talk about. So ring me up and I'll drop what I'm doing and I'll spout about Google Ads.

Stephanie Goss: Okay. So Google ads are, so we've got to have our Google business profile optimized. We need to look at Apple and maps. And what is, the, does the Android phones where I don't, I haven't had an Android phone in like a hundred years. Do they run on the Google, maps?

Bill Schroeder: Yeah, it would be Google.

Stephanie Goss: Okay. So you're using Google Maps or using Apple Maps and you need to optimize both of those.

You need to be looking at Google ads and you need to be realistic about how you're approaching that. And so I would say what I have started saying to my manager friends is, I think for a lot of us, we think about it not dissimilarly to Yelp, there's not the hatred for Google ads like there is for Yelp. But a lot of us have tried it and have had no success because we had no idea what we were doing. So we were like “I’m never doing that again” Because I just burned that money, right? But we’ve got to do Google ads, what’s the next step?

Bill Schroeder: Okay, so, let me just clarify. I don't want anyone advertising on Yelp. I haven't had success there, but you need to be active there. There are quotes out there my friend..

Stephanie Goss: Yes, Google reviews. Yes. Okay. I mean, Yelp reviews. Okay. Okay.

Bill Schroeder: I'd want to make it a product, I can't make it work, and if somebody can, well then, God bless them, but I can tell you in the end, it doesn't convert well.

Okay, I got two more things. First, with the importance of reviews, whether they be through Yelp, like I just said, or through GBP, and the transient nature of today's people, we need to focus on the client experience. Okay, and we need– I talk about the word remarkable and how every single team member needs to know what's out there and meaning the potential, the growth that happens through positive reviews and a positive experience.

It should be something that's talked about during your meetings in the practice. So that you have the ability to celebrate those things and realize that we all grow if the reputation is good. Now, it hits both on the pet owner side and on the employee side. Like, nobody wants to work at the one star practice.

Nobody wants to show up at their state VMA and go, Hey, Steph, I saw you left ABC Animal Hospital. Where'd you go? Oh, I went to XYZ.

Stephanie Goss: Right.

Bill Schroeder: I don't know anything about it, but people say it's dirty and people are dirty.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. I got a bad reputation. 

Bill Schroeder: So if you're gonna attract the brilliance that is folks like Steph, you've got to have a good reputation Okay, lastly, this is something I'm super proud of. Like I said over the years…

Stephanie Goss: Okay. Wait, before you go on. So you're moving on to your last tip. Cause I want to talk about, I want to talk about the reviews for a second. 

Bill Schroeder: Sure.

Stephanie Goss: So question, cause I love how you just talked about Celebrating the reviews and using them within the practice. And I think that was one of the best things that I tried with my team.

Because one of the, one of the benefits I will say of my, my last practice was a corporate practice and they used a program that compiled all of our reviews from all the different places and we got it spit out in a report and it was great. And. I was like, what do I do with this?

And I was, the team is so used to hearing about the clients who came in the lobby and screamed at the CSRs or the client who was rude in the exam room who's now getting fired or whatever. And I really wanted to focus on the positive and so I started taking those reviews. And we started reading them out loud at our team meetings and recognizing the team members when somebody gets called out.

Because I think it takes a lot, we all know it takes a lot for a client to leave a review anyways. Just to start. When we get clients who make it personal and say, you know, “Caitlin was the best was the best. She was so great with, you know, fluffy and she was, she just loved on her like she was her own.”

That means something and the team doesn't often see that unless we help put it in front of their faces. And so as a manager, I would say I learned to love the reviews by. I'm not actually reading them. And instead of turning it into, even the negative reviews or the reviews that had feedback that we weren't so excited to hear became a learning opportunity to say, okay, what could be valid here?

And what could we learn from it? Not, Hey, Dr. A, this client called you out. Like you need to fix this situation because I've been in practices where that has been the way that it's handled. Right? It's like, here's a client complaint, deal with it. But how do we turn those into celebrations for the team and also learning opportunities?

And so I love that you called out, like making it a part of the practice some ways, somehow so that the whole team is aware of it.

Because then it makes it easier for them to say to the clients who are just at the front desk and say, I just love you guys so much. You're so, so fantastic. It becomes more natural and easy for them to say, Oh, thank you so much.

For saying that we really love hearing that if you have a second, we would really appreciate it. If you would share that on our Google business page, you know, leave us a review that becomes easier because I think that has been the hardest thing for my teams to get on board with is how do we ask clients to leave reviews?

You know, how do we, push that without seeming salesy or unnatural, you know, because nobody on a veterinary team wants to be salesy like that. 

Bill Schroeder: You know, I think that there's an element, I think there's a couple of things here. So the first is accountability. It is when you're celebrating those things and you're talking about the positive and the negatives, people automatically become responsible for their actions because, Hey, I might hear about this.

You know, I can't be abrasive. You know, I've got to be on my game or I shouldn't be in the practice. Okay. And we all have bad days. I understand what it is and we're going to get those unreasonable clients that are going to give the inaccurate reviews. I'm not talking about that. I'm talking about the caustic person that needs to control themselves or be a professional.

So you've got that. And then you've got the benefit that comes off of celebrating the positive. So if we're talking about combat, combating, compassion, fatigue, Or all of the wellness type issues that we should be focusing on. Reviews can really help when that's a bright space as we start our day or we start our meeting and we've got somebody stand up and I mean, I could tell you tons of stories, as could everyone in practice, of the tear provoking moments that are brought on by the way that we can impact people's lives.

So there's there are those things and Yeah, so you mentioned how to get the reviews and you know what I like to do I like to listen to people speak and then I like to say something along the lines of wow I really like working with you and I'd like to work with more people just like you, you know, I mean, I really would I'd like to meet more Stephanie's in the world and Stephanie's families.

This is why I became a veterinarian and this is exactly why like you all in this room are my people. Would you mind leaving us a review because I think that and I don't care what you say, but I really use your words that will attract people like you. And I, so you've got that, and then there's something else that isn't done. And I'm just going to ask you a question.

Stephanie Goss: Okay.

Bill Schroeder: When's the last time that you've left a review? And everybody out there in the world, think about the last time you left a review.

Stephanie Goss: Uh – Huh.

Bill Schroeder: And then think about the last time that a business owner, that business owner called you and thanked you for the review. Think about it.

Stephanie Goss: Okay.

Bill Schroeder: It's never happened. It's never happened unless you've come to my lectures because like and I know don't roll your eyes Don't I know you some of you have probably jumped off the treadmill at this point Thinking that I have actually lost my mind and thinking that you've got enough time to be calling I haven't lost my mind What I'm talking about is exactly this for every five star review that you've got and every one star review if you care to do It for all your reviews you call and say hey This is, you know, Dr. Reynolds calling. I literally just read your review online, and I had to shut my door because you touched me. And I really appreciate what you did. I value your comments and I just wanted to say thank you very much. That's how you leave a voicemail. Now, if they pick up the phone, maybe you want to say, Hey, I'm surprised you picked up the phone.

And I was expecting your voicemail. I'm about to walk into an appointment. That's how you start the call, so you're not trapped for 15 minutes. And you say, Hey, but I just read your review and then you go through that. Before I step in, I wanted to stop everything and call you and say thank you. And the reason you're doing that is because that could be the only signal that you're putting out there that you've actually valued it.

Like, responding is fine, but unless you're going to get in depth and they're going to go back and read it, If you want more reviews, especially from that family, please let them know. And then I love that. the other side. You know, if you've got a bad review, I would call them. And in part of the resolution, if you are able to get to that point offline, you're stopping the conversation that people can read online,

Stephanie Goss: Right.

Bill Schroeder: And then you're taking it behind closed doors.

Hopefully you can come to some sort of resolution and, you know, you can get to the place where you could go. Can I ask you to take the review down? Did we satisfy that?

Stephanie Goss: Right.

Bill Schroeder: You know, so, and the last thing on reviews, unless you've got further questions or comments I need you to, need the market to know that 82 percent of all reviews, This is not veterinary related, okay, this is all small business reviews, 82 percent only come after an ask for such.

Stephanie Goss: So you got to be asking.

Bill Schroeder: So if you’re not asking. 

Stephanie Goss: You're not getting. Okay. What's the last tip?

Bill Schroeder: The last tip is something I've built up to for decades. Literally, and it's just dawning on me actually, Steph, that this is intertwined. This was not intended to be a reputation management like talk. I promise you it wasn't. But it shows you how much it intertwines.

There is someone that's out there that is listening. If they're part of the community. That I've known for many years.

Stephanie Goss: Huh. And, she called me and this is about 15 years ago.

Bill Schroeder: She calls me and she goes. Hey, do you have time to talk, you know? Glass of win? You might as well get a bottle of wine because I need to talk and so we had a bottle of wine over the phone and in the course of the conversation She's like I think I'm done and it was all about a review and how she just got like slayed and she did she got slayed it was inappropriate, She's a wonderful veterinarian many of you know this person and this person was done, you know, truly done where they were like, I'm selling my practice and it was not during the high point of practice sales where people were, you know, going at 18 times.

This was like, I'm leaving veterinary medicine and I spoke with her and I was like, you, perform such wonderful, you know, medicine, you're a beautiful person that is helping all these other people, right? And I wish I had a way to show you whether or not your business is working well. Like, like, the negative review that you've got is like two, like you dropped like one little bit on the big scale.

We need to take a look at all the other factors that go into your business and give you credit for that and be able to look at it. So I always envisioned this as being like this health score and that's what we call it now and it's I have this vision of like a thermometer right and being able to show where you're at and say hey this sucks right and I know I'm you know we're crying together right now because I can hear how exhausted you are this too will pass and it should not overshadow the brilliance the genius that you have in practice so I This last tip deals with data.

It's understanding your market, knowing what data points are most important within the market,

okay, and then being able to look at a health score for the practice. And if you want, this is a proprietary tool that we have that I'm happy to share with everyone in the audience. So if you want to give me a call, we can share contact information at the end here.

Or reach out to me, come see me speak in in Greenville, but it's a way to look at your practice in the market and score it against other practices that are of the same sort. And then ultimately there is scoring that puts up that says you're doing a good job. And sometimes it's like golf, like, and let me use an exaggerated situation here.

If you weren't looking at all the other practices. in the space with the data points that were really important, right? And you weren't comparing yourself. It would be like going out and golfing by yourself and, you know, shooting 200 one year and consistently hitting 200. Next year, you drop, you know, I don't know, 50 strokes off of your game and you think that you're ready for the PGA because you're not paying attention to everybody else. The great golfers are, you know, in their 70s.

Stephanie Goss: Right.

Bill Schroeder: You know, so you're still like a horrible golf,

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. Right.

Bill Schroeder: right? So, I mean, it's the realization and the comparativeness that we can provide. But data is super duper important. And with the availability of data that we've compiled over the last 30 years through AI's impact in space.

And these listening posts that I talked about earlier in our chat we can literally show you how you compare to other people. And to the point that I made earlier about the decline in appointment inventory or decline in intent that's out there. If you're seven points up on where you on what the rest of the market of practices that look like yours is doing, you're winning the game.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah.

Bill Schroeder: So pay attention to your data make sure it's right and make decisions that are data driven just like the scientists that you are.

Stephanie Goss: And I love that because I, well, the people who know me, I'm a huge data nerd. I love spreadsheets. I love numbers. I love to geek out. And for years as a manager, the only way to have a pulse check was to talk to other managers and say, “Hey, how's it going? how are you doing this?” And try and figure out some sort of comparison, right?

Like we had. the AAHA numbers for financials, like what you're charging for things and staff salaries and stuff like that. There was industry data between AAHA and Well Managed Practice, like we got some data there, but that was really all that was out there for a really long time. And I remember that's a big part, honestly, that's a big part of why building a community for me of, manager colleagues was really important because I had the ability to pulse check some of those other things against my peers and I love the advancements that have happened over the last 10 years, but really have flown since COVID. So, you know, this is one of those areas where I think it's a very positive change for us, and in terms of integrating AI into veterinary medicine is the ability to be able to connect and network and pulse check in that way, and to your point, be able to pulse check against  similar practices because it doesn't, it does you no good to be that golfer who's out there golfing alone and thinks that they're ready for the PGA. It also does you no good to be looking at practices that have or are completely different than yours. You know, our attend doctor practice compared to your two or our ER compared to your GP, like those things are different animals and we have to look at it.

It's the same thing we tell clients about, you know, trying to explain a dental estimate to them. You have to compare apples to apples. And so, you know, yes, somebody else down the street might have given a hundred dollar dental estimate and you gave them a, you know, a 700 dental estimate. Well, first that question that I asked the clients is what is included in that, you know, estimate, in that treatment plan? And I think it's the same here. And so I love the advancements that we've made. I love what you guys are working on in particular and getting super nerdy. There's options out there for all different aspects of comparing practice data. But what I love about this piece of it, Bill, and what, you are doing in terms of the marketing aspect, is I think for the average manager or practice owner, practice leader. I know every CE I went to, the conversation was, you need to pay attention to the reviews because, and this makes sense, you're getting real time feedback from your clients and it is a pulse check for you on how it's doing customer service, on your prices, on the experience in your practice, all of those things like your team, you're getting real time data.

From your clients and you're getting the feedback. And we as a society have been conditioned to leave reviews when things don't go so well. And so we know that clients tend to, on their own, leave reviews when things have been not so great as compared to when it has been great. And we have to change that behavior by asking them to leave positive reviews for us.

But I think that for the average manager, we were taught to look at the reviews from the perspective, not so much of the data, but like that was our pulse check. And I think to your point, if that's the only piece that you're looking at, it's really easy to get lost in the weeds focused on that one negative review.

Because here's someone who's giving you real time feedback and it's, it feels like the end of the world sometimes. I mean, I've talked to manager friends who are just unhinged over a review and I'm like, I'm done. I, same reaction as you. So what? Like look at the hundred other clients that you helped today who left you and who were happy with how the day went.

But that's not, that's not the volume of what we generally get unless we're actively trying to seek those kind of reviews online. And so I think it's really easy to slide down that rabbit hole of negativity. And so I love the pivot that you guys have made and the focus that you're leading the industry in terms of getting us to look at the bigger picture and not just focus on that negative, pulse point.

And so I hope we start to see more data and more nerdiness, not because I want you guys to have competition here, but because it's good for us. It's healthy for us as an industry to start to think about things like a business. Like, yes, we are a healthcare provider. Yes, we provide a service.That doesn't mean that we shouldn't be scientists.

That doesn't mean that we shouldn't be data driven. That doesn't mean that we shouldn't run our businesses like a business.

Bill Schroeder: You know, our account managers are so excited about these advancements and you know, there's two like two other examples like, you know. We know that like particularly like a new practice a de novo practice that comes out You know the race is to get as many reviews as you possibly can and you know before like AI and all this data and looking at this data and these this tool that I'm talking about It used to be, you know, Steph, you'd call talk to an account manager and it'd be like, okay Let's get as many five star reviews as we can and you go Well, I'm breaking into this market where the leader in the market has 300 reviews and you know a 4.85 rating how many reviews do you need and they'd be like, okay, don't worry about that Just get as many as you possibly can we can set up campaigns where we're literally saying it's going to take you, you know, 500 reviews to get to this space to win this market. So what are we going to do to get the 500 reviews and it becomes a campaign and a goal?

Furthermore, when we're talking about like Google ads to go back there, we've built this way, this line of, this frame of mind that is, and I'm happy to share this with you all, that it's like, we can look at markets and look at individual households, zip codes, not individual households, but individual zip codes in the households within and say, this is what the actual spend is on dogs within that market, right?

Within that zip code and then we can take that data and look at how much you're capturing by running data through your PIM. And then say, well, look, you've got based upon the market and what we know of the market, you've got about, I don't know, 60 percent of that market that's available out there.

Let's leave that alone and not spend any Google ad money over there and let that go. And let's go over here, a desirable market, not because everybody's driving a Mercedes, which we know can be so fast, flipping dangerous, you know, about just targeting based upon where we think the money is, but there's an opportunity and you're only capturing 5 percent of that market.

So let's go out there and focus on that. And making decisions like that is the difference between marketing and just spending money out there. And like I, real marketing that works is not easy. It takes work on both people's part. And some, experience and things like that, and those practices that do it, they succeed.

Stephanie Goss: I think that's the hard part for your average practice is that we experience the, we're just spending money because we know it's a thing that we should be doing and it's, and it is hard. And so I think I, for me, I'm excited to see. More and more of the, I mean, part of it has been my work with Uncharted because we're, we started as, you know, a marketing and social media conference and being exposed to it.

And part of it is just an awareness and a growth within the industry that, Hey, this is something that we should be paying attention to. And not only that, but like, here's how you pay attention to it. So, I love that. That's a great tip. That's a great place to end us on, Bill. I love it so much.

Bill Schroeder: Thank you.

Stephanie Goss: Thank you! This has been super fun. I hope that your top three?

Bill Schroeder: My top three (holds pu five fingers).

Stephanie Goss: I'm holding up my five fingers, Bill's top three tips for things that we have to be doing so that we keep clients in the door. I hope that is helpful for everyone. I certainly think that it was from a practice perspective and I was taking notes.

Bill Schroeder: Well, thank you so much for this opportunity. I love working with your group. You know, sometimes it just clicks, right? Where it's like You know, I've over, you know, done this for so long, we're very fortunate that we get to choose the people that we work with and we're fortunate to be able to choose to work with y'all and I love every moment of it. I can't wait for Greenville.

For those of you who haven't seen me speak before, we're gonna have some fun. I'm doing a workshop, teaching it twice, so there should be enough time for everybody to come through if they'd like to learn about all the current things that are going on. It's gonna be workshop style.

Stephanie Goss: And I'm going to, I'm going to, I'm going to fluff your pillows for a second here, Bill.

Andy always fluffs my pillows on the podcast. I'm going to fluff your pillows because you said in the beginning, you gave yourself a shameless plug and I love it so much. You, are going to be at the conference and you said something completely unrelated, which is absolutely true.

One of the things that I love about going to your workshops in particular, but your lectures is that, I have never left one without feeling like I had a tangible resource or an action oriented plan and the resources or materials to support it. That's one of the things I love about going to your sessions.

There are a few uh, speakers in our industry who wrote just consistently, not only talk about the big picture and the important things that you should know but also make it really practical and like, here's how to do the thing. And so if you are someone who is like that, I would really love to learn more about how to do those things that Bill was talking about on the podcast today.

I think it is completely okay to give a shameless plug that you should join us. You should join us in Greenville for our April conference. Because it is an opportunity to. dive into an extended workshop with you, not just like a 50 minute lecture at a conference and really walk away with some actionable tools.

And so that is something that I appreciate about you as a speaker, Bill. And I just, you know, high five, two thumbs up, five star review for you. Yeah.

Bill Schroeder: That’s so kind. I mean, that's my why. Like, you hit, like you hit exact, thank you that was such a great compliment because that's exactly why I do this. I started lecturing years and years ago, like over 20 years ago, because I walked out of a marketing lecture at a major veterinary conference and I went, but now what?

You just told me these things, like, but wait a second, why aren't we like telling these people how to do this stuff? And so thank you so much. I really appreciate that. That means a tremendous amount to me. 

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, you're welcome. And that's, that's, I mean, that's, part of why we love having you at Uncharted and why I love how different our format is. Not that I, I love going to the big conferences and the small conferences in our industry. And that's something as a manager that I always struggled with.

And it's my why too, for, working with Uncharted and in our community, because. Then what? What do I do now? Like I get excited about these things, but then what do I do with it when I get back to my practice? How do I make it applicable? How do I dive in? And so I think that is like, like you said, that is the highest compliment that someone like you or I can get is I, actually can, I know what to do with these things in my practice, or even if I still am not sure exactly how to do it. I have the tangible things to get me started and I know where to come back when I need help, need more help. And that's what the community and the conferences are all about. So I can't wait to see your face. I'm going to get to see you so, so soon in Greenville. And thank you again for being here today.

Bill Schroeder: Thank you everyone. I hope you're all well out there. Thanks for spending some of your time with me today. And I appreciate each and every one of you.

Stephanie Goss: Take care, everybody. Have a great rest of your week. 

Bill Schroeder: See ya.

Stephanie Goss: And that's a wrap on another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. Thanks for joining us and spending your week with us. If you enjoyed this week's episode, head over to wherever you get your podcasts and leave us a review. It's the best way to let us know that you love listening. We'll see you next time.

Written by Maria Pirita · Categorized: Blog, Podcast · Tagged: communication, culture, management, Vet Tech

Mar 06 2024

Managing With a Married Couple

Dr. Andy Roark and practice management super geek, Stephanie Goss are back with another letter from our mailbag. This time a manager writes in who is struggling with communication in her practice. This manager's newish to practice ownership DVM struggles to communicate with the team as a whole. The manager is fielding complaints from the team about the holes in communication. And to make it more challenging, the practice owner's wife is also heavily involved in the practice, despite her lack of veterinary background. This manager is struggling with knowing how to address the team's concerns when they share some of them as well as struggling to find their own place in the triangle between the practice owner, their partner and the manager. This one is a doozy, let's get into this….

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast · UVP – 276 – Managing With A Husband And Wife Team

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Episode Transcript

Stephanie Goss: Hey everybody. I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. Andy and I are back this week with another letter from the mailbag. We received an email from a practice manager. Who is struggling because their lead DVM seems to have some serious communication issues. And it's starting to impact the entire team from this manager's perspective. They're struggling with getting everybody to be able to communicate with each other. 

It seems like there is a loss of trust. The team is really frustrated and this manager is wondering, how do I approach this when the person who is causing all of this challenge in turmoil is the person who's in charge of the practice?

This was a great question, Andy and I had a lot of fun. We might've gone a little bit off the rails as we do, but we brought it back together quite nicely. 

I think let's get into this, shall we? 

Dr. Andy Roark: And we are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark and the one and only Stephanie-1-2-3-Goss. That's right. Getting down with three P. Everybody loves three. I just yeah, I haven't heard any late career Britney Spears in a while, and that's where I'm like, you know what?

Stephanie Goss: Let's just, get into some Britney. I can be supportive of that. I'm a Britney, I'm a Britney fan. I'm a Britney fan.

Dr. Andy Roark: I, one of my great regrets is that Eric Garcia was in Las Vegas when I was also in Las Vegas, and he went to Britney and I didn't go. 

Stephanie Goss: Of course he did.

Dr. Andy Roark: and I regret, like there's not many things I regret in my life. 

Stephanie Goss: That's a life regret.

Dr. Andy Roark: Missing Britney Spears in Las Vegas with Eric Garcia is one of those things.

Stephanie Goss: Fair. I would also regret that. That was a bad life choice on your part.

Dr. Andy Roark: Oh, he came back and he was like, there's an enormous tree, and she like swung out of the branches, and I was like, shut up. Oh, man.

Stephanie Goss: That would be a life regret. I can understand. You made a bad life choice.

Dr. Andy Roark: Yeah. I feel like I'm regretting life choices all over the place right now. I'm Stephanie, I'm busier than a one legged man in a butt kicking contest. I'm telling you. It's a lot right now. It's a lot going on.

Stephanie Goss: It is. It is. I feel that. I, posted on my– I posted on my Instagram this morning because I was in my kitchen this morning and we do have a lot going on and I am very stressed. Like on, I like, for those people who don't actually know me, I actually work really well under pressure and my ADHD,

Dr. Andy Roark: That's– welcome aboard! Like,

Stephanie Goss: I'll go

Dr. Andy Roark: It's like, what? Why does Stephanie Goss thrive at Uncharted? Well, let me tell you about how Stephanie Goss works.

Stephanie Goss: Because she works well under pressure. I, my ADHD is like, oh yeah, it's fine. Let's just like do other things and be distracted by shiny objects. And then at the last minute, turn out 40 hours of work in a four hour period. Like, that's me. And also there's a very fine line between. And like complete, utter panic and overwhelm.

And I'm, I was like, I posted a story this morning as I was walking that fine line while I'm stress eating a brownie for breakfast. Just like, okay…

Dr. Andy Roark: I said, well,

Stephanie Goss: I'm dangerously close to the line.

Dr. Andy Roark: You knew you were in trouble, so you're stress eating the brownie for breakfast, and then I started messaging you at like 6 a. m. your time, and that, because you get up early, let me just stop and say, that's not unusual, like, you, you work East Coast hours, and we've decided that, so this is not boss waking, but, so, but I message you, And you wouldn't have, you wouldn't have got it if your phone was silenced or whatever, but it was like, “Call, me when you're up and moving.”

And so you see that while you're on the phone. And then I start calling the person you're on the phone with, to talk to them. And Tyler was like, I just, I hung up with Stephanie. She said, you messaged her, and now you're calling me. And she's like, and what is that grinding sound? And I'm like, that's the espresso machine, Tyler.

Let's go! And so it's that kind of energy,

Stephanie Goss: It’s that kind of, it's that kind of, well, we might need that kind of energy to deal with this mailbag question.

Dr. Andy Roark: This catastrophic mailbag. This is redonkulous.

Stephanie Goss: it is a whole, it's a hot special. It's a hot special. That's all I'm going to say.

Dr. Andy Roark: I like this. I'm excited about this. I'm excited about it because it's not me. I don't have to do it. But I'm very, it's like, I'll give you a plan that I don't have to carry out. I'm all about it. And so, I got a plan here. It's got multiple steps, it's got phases, it's got two different battlefronts that we're gonna fight, and like, it's, it is a robust plan.

Stephanie Goss: Andy went to town. 

Andy Roark: That, very well might not work. Like, it's like, there's a significant chance that we're just gonna burn the whole area and leave. That's how this might end up. We'll see. I'll tell you, I'll give you my best shot and we'll talk about when we cut bait. And, what does, getting out of this look.

Stephanie Goss: That's fair, because I, my first thought when I looked at this was that the answer is no.

Dr. Andy Roark: It's just like, no, there's a shot. There's a shot. But you have to set some clear boundaries. You have to set a timeline about how much you're gonna put up with. And then, what your checkpoints are going to be along the way and so anyway, I think this is a really good conversation if anybody is dealing with a situation that has multiple like there's multiple fires burning here i'm gonna lay down for you my best advice on how to fight a multi-front war and also like how to decide when you're like, this is not it's not worth it anymore. But it's not an emotional decision of “I've had enough today. I'm out.” 

It's like no, let's get smarter than that let's get more strategic than that and let's make a plan but also let's have a way of measuring success in our plan and making decisions about when we're gonna pull the pin on this plan and just blow it up and bail.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. Okay. So let's set it up for everybody. Cause they're like, gosh, what are you guys going to talk about? So we got we got a mailbag email from a practice manager who is struggling in their practice because they have a lead DVM who has some communication challenges and most of it from, their perspective, most of it seems to stem from a lack of communication and so just not talking to the team enough but it causes a lot of challenges with the team, and so this practice manager is like, look, I'm constantly having to field complaints about the communication, about the lack of communication, and And bridge things between the team they said, you know, this is this is a doctor who is newer to owning a practice and they're awkwardly trying to figure it out as they go.

And that's, you know, understandable. You're doing something for the first time, there's going to be some challenges. And this manager is like, it doesn't seem to be getting, like, they don't seem to be learning from their challenges. And, so it's compounded this practice manager's like, you know, look, I'm all in.

I'm willing to help. I'm trying to bridge the gap between the team and do some teaching correction to like help you grow as a leader. And it's compounded by the fact that this uh, doctor who's the practice owner, their partner is also playing a big role in the practice. They are not on the medicine side, but they are playing a big role in the running of the practice.

And we don't have enough details to know, but having been a manager who's worked in plenty of hospitals where it is a partnership, husband and wife, and wife, husband and husband, whatever kind of partnership where you are cohabitating and also running your business together. Like, I have been in that management position at almost every practice that I've been at, so I have strong thoughts about that. But this manager is like, look, this is the situation because they're involved in the practice and it's really frustrating and causing challenges because there's three people trying to give directions and we're all giving directions differently.

And the manager's like, look, I'm at the point where I have team members, including doctors, who are Wanting to leave or threatening to leave and they said, I myself have thought about leaving because I feel like I don't get to do my job and I feel like I, I don't have a say because their partner is also so heavily involved in the practice.

And so they were like, I'm super frustrated. And what I love about it is that it wasn't– it didn't end there. And they were like, yes, I am super frustrated. And I'm reaching out to you guys because I'm wondering, like, can I? How can I approach conversations because the practice has a lot of potential. I believe in it.

I believe in my team and I feel like we've made a lot of strides since I have been working on things. And I also feel like there's more potential to, there's potential to do more and they feel like there's some significant roadblocks here and they're just wondering like how to even, where to even start.

Dr. Andy Roark: yeah. Alright, so there's a lot here. There's a lot here. This, again, I don't know what the answer is. We're gonna wade into this a little bit. It really depends on how people respond when we start pushing some buttons. And so, alright, so let's talk–Let's just talk headspace.

And so I'm going to go ahead and get the negative part out of the way before I get optimistic. And so, the negative part is, at the end of this, the question at the end, there's a couple of red flags that I have recognized a number of times, right? And so, the thing is, the practice has so much potential.

Right as they said that the practice has so much potential and to me, that's always a red flag because she this person I'm gonna say she's probably right that it has potential and that doesn't mean anything. The number of people I have worked with or employees that I have had I tell you what it's ripped my heart out is employees that have so much potential if they would just blank.

Stephanie Goss: Right.

Dr. Andy Roark: and they won't and they won't or they don't and I cannot I can't want it more than them I can't make anything for them But it guts me to see so much potential in a person and they would I'm confident they would just take off like a rocket if they would just blank and I tell them hey, this is what we need to work on and they're like, yeah, I'm not doing it I'm not gonna do that and like, and I can't make decisions about my life and my career and my business based on what I wish someone else would do. I can only make decisions on what they're actually doing and so again, I see that and i'm like it has so much potential i'm like, oh Grit your teeth my friend because the potential it has, it's something worth weighing, but do not make choices based on what someone else should do or what we wish they would do.

So that's the first part. The other part is, they say, you know, the practice has grown. I have grown the practice quite a bit since I've been there. And I go, ooh, that sounds like a sunk cost fallacy to me. That sounds like I have put so much into this, I am really reluctant to let it go. to let it go. And the truth is, would you take this job if it was offered to you today?

And if the answer is no, then you should think about that. That doesn't mean you're going to pick up and leave because we all go through hard parts. But, I think we have a natural tendency, I have poured so much into here, I can't leave. And I would say, boy, what you did in the past, that's over, that's gone.

Life moves on. You did that, and you put a lot in there. And, we're not thinking about the past. We're deciding about how we go forward. And so, beware sunk cost fallacy of, I've given so much, I can't bail on my investment now. And so, both of those two sort of flags I see at the end. Any other mental flags that you see like that, other than the obvious problems?

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, I will. It's funny. So, first of all, I want to say like, I see this person and I feel them and I you know, quite candidly, I– in different, completely different circumstances, I was this person and the pep talk that you just gave about looking at both of those things. Like I– when I was in that position.

I looked at it the same way. Like I remember vividly having a conversation with you that was like, I've poured my heart and soul into this place and it has so much potential. Like we've come so far and it could go so much further. and at the same time, like when I stepped back and it was, that fear of like, I have given up so much and recognizing what I had given up and how much I had, you know, sacrifice and how much the team has sacrificed and not wanting to let go of that. And it wasn't looking at, I was not looking at it from the perspective of what I take this job today. And when I asked myself that question, my answer was very different.

Dr. Andy Roark: It's absolutely freaking not.

Stephanie Goss: Not quite that fast, but it definitely was, it

Dr. Andy Roark: Would I? No. The answer is no.

Stephanie Goss: Which is so funny because I read this, that was the other piece. I read this and my initial thought was. no, this is a hot mess. There is no solving this. And then when I stepped back for a second, I really thought about it. And I was like, okay, this is a really tricky situation.

And it might not be a no win situation. There is always a choice. And even if the choice is leaving, that doesn't mean the choice equates to losing. And so I think thinking about it from a healthy headspace that there is, there are always options is really important. And just like, you know, as you say, like fluff your pillows, I think you're, spot on with the first two and I will tell you all like it worked on it, you know, that Andy's little pep talk worked on me.

Um, So, right.

Dr. Andy Roark: Well, thank you for saying that. I think you put your finger right on number three, which I had not thought of, but you're spot on. I do not think, from a headspace standpoint, I do not think that you can look at leaving as failure. And if you're like, for me to leave is for me to fail, and that is a fundamental flaw in thinking, I'm really glad you said that out loud, because I, in order to do this, we're about to get optimistic.

I'm gonna be optimistic about it. And, in order for that to happen, I need you, writer, to decide that leaving is not failure. It's just the, it's, where we have to go from here. It's playing the hand that we're dealt. It does not mean we failed because you didn't have the power to control the situation.

You don't have the power to control the situation. So, if the situation does not work, and you had no power, you didn't fail. You went along for the ride. And that's it. And so, I hope that we can exert some influence. And help try to get this thing back on the track, or at least get it to a place where you're comfortable going forward.

But if we can't get it back on the track, that's not failure, that's inability to reach a healthy place with two other people. Which is, again, they've got two thirds of this drama, and you've got one third. And, so anyway, I just think that's really important. I think it's also funny, just jumping back for a second. It's interesting to me, so the sunk cost parts kind of works with you a bit.

I, I'm the other way. It's the, I'm such an optimist. I look at what could be and, yeah, and where we could go and what we could achieve, and just the idea of seeing that potential. And then going, but it's not going to happen, so I'm walking. That's really hard for me. I'm much less bound by sunk costs and much more about missed opportunity.

And I'm like, the opportunity is so big, but it's not going to, it's not going to happen. And so anyway, that's kind of that.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, that's funny. So okay, so I have a headspace piece. It's funny because like when we were sitting down and like thinking about it from Headspace I was like, well for me part of the headspace is our safe acronym But I actually I have it. I have a new acronym For our podcast listeners that I was like, oh this one feels really perfect for this situation because I do think that I, do think that this is not a no win situation, and I do see a possibility here where there is some addressing the concerns and there is conversation in the action step piece, and I think the SAFE acronym is, super important, but there's an acronym that I actually learned and I, my midwife taught it to me and it was the, acronym. About prenatal care that is called BRAIN, and I really love it because it is about making informed choices, and I think it just applies for all human behavior, and so the B stands for benefits, and asking yourself, like, what are the benefits of making this decision that I'm thinking about making, whatever it is. And so when I'm looking at a hard situation, I ask myself, okay, what could be potential benefits of the decision that I'm looking at making? Whether it's leaving, staying, whatever. What are the benefits? Then the second one is R, which is risk.

What are the risks involved if I go one way or the other here? And then A is alternative. So are there any other alternatives? And part of this for me is forcing my brain to think about beyond the immediate. There is a winning scenario and there is a losing scenario because that's just part of how my brain works.

I go like, black and white, here's one or the other, and so asking myself, like, what are the benefits, what are the risks, but then also, are there other alternatives, forces me to slow down and kind of think about that, and then I stands for intuition. And so it's the idea of what is my gut telling me?

Like, how do I really actually feel about this? And then N is for nothing. What happens if I do nothing? Or if I just wait it out? And for anybody who has been in labor, it is so painful for them to just say, just keep waiting. You're like, oh my God, get this thing out of me. But sometimes doing nothing is the best thing for everybody.

And I think that goes for us as humans. And so thinking about it from that perspective and forcing myself to do the headspace work asking myself, what do I, like, what are the benefits here? What are the risks? What are the alternatives? Where could this go is really healthy, has been really healthy mental work for me in terms of thinking about big challenges like this, because, you know, we've talked about it on the podcast before and young manager, Stephanie was quite a bit of a hothead.

And would just go guns blazing at whatever I thought was, that my gut says do this thing and I would just do that thing. And I learned some very painful lessons about taking some steps back, taking a deep breath, and thinking it through a little bit more before I act.

Dr. Andy Roark: I think the idea that there are strong parallels between managing a vet hospital and being in labor are hilarious. Like, I just, I'm like, ooooh, just gotta breathe, ooooh, 

Stephanie Goss: true! 

Dr. Andy Roark: Just, it's all gonna be worth it. Keep telling yourself it's all gonna be worth it. it's all gonna be worth it. If he doesn't get in here and help, I'm gonna lose my stuff. Like, it's like, it's just, they're basically the same activity in a lot of ways.

Stephanie Goss: I am laughing so hard right now because I'm just imagining so many of our listeners who might be shouting out loud in their cars right now, Stephanie is so right! Andy, shut up! Because it's true!

Dr. Andy Roark: I’m going to be honest here, I don’t have a lot of experience in this domain. Us non-baby makers are just like okay, I’m here for the ride. But no, I like it. I like it. I don't think—I like your acronym. I very much like your acronym. I don't think it, I don't feel it the way you do, I think. But like, I am, I'm confident

Stephanie Goss: You'll go along for the ride with me. 

Dr. Andy Roark: I am, no, but I am like, okay. I don't see me doing this in a lecture, just so you know. Like it's, I think it's more of a Stephanie Goss lecture than an Andy Roark lecture. So you don't have to worry about me stealing this one.

Stephanie Goss: He's like this, one time when I was labor. 

Dr. Andy Roark: Let's talk about labor. I saw this in the notes, like BRAIN/Labor and I was like, I don't know where this is going. But, I'm confident this is going to be focused and on topic. Alright, we might need to take a break here. Let's take a break here, and then we'll come back.

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Stephanie Goss: Hey friends, I just wanted to talk for a quick second about the math with you all, because I've been thinking a lot about the workshops and normally here's where we tell you what's coming up and we've got some great stuff happening. So you're going to want to head to https://unchartedvet.com/events and check out the upcoming calendar.

But I want to talk about maths because if you are not already an Uncharted member, you can attend any one of our workshops and pay $99 a piece. Most of them are just $99. You can do it as a one off, great and fine. However, that adds up really quick and if you do the monthly workshop with us, and I've seen some of you there as repeat customers, which is amazing, but you could spend almost 1, over the course of the year doing workshops with us, or you can pay $699 and get a 12 month membership, which means you get all of the workshops that we do at no extra charge. You also get access to our amazing conversation in the community, our community members, and all of our community resources. And it is hopping over there. We've got conversation 24/7. We have got activities.

We've got book club. We are talking about, uh, development and, uh, leadership growth, doing our development pathway this year. We are doing hallway conversations where we're talking about topics. These are, uh, sessions that are community led, community driven.

It is topics about things that are going on in your practice that you want to talk about with your peers. All of that is happening and it's all included for your $699 membership. So simple math. Do you pay almost $1200 for the year? Or do you pay $699? If you're not currently a member, you should head over to the website and use this argument to convince your boss, Hey boss, I need to be a part of this amazing community because Stephanie told me so.

And because she's telling you that you will save money. Hopefully that works. Uh, but you know, I couldn't, I couldn't resist. I hope to see you at our upcoming workshops again and try to vet. com forward slash events for everything that's coming. And now back to the podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark: Okay, alright

Stephanie Goss: Breaks over.

Dr. Andy Roark: Break's over, and we have never had to take a break halfway through Headspace before, but 

Stephanie Goss: There's a first time for everything with me, Andy Roark.

Dr. Andy Roark: I know– I've only got, I think, all this is, I like everything we said for Headspace I think, the last thing I would say here is, sometimes, Often, I would say, I'm gonna say often, I'm gonna ratchet it up, often. 

Stephanie Goss: Ooh, often.

Dr. Andy Roark: When you have a problem that looks insurmountable, it's actually a couple of problems. And if you can break it apart into its component problems, it feels much different. And it's actually much more approachable. If you've just got a six headed problem, you're like, oh, this is amazing. But if I can break it apart into six problems, some of these problems I can address today and some of them I can accept and say, well, that's just gonna be around 

Stephanie Goss: That’s a problem. 

Dr. Andy Roark: That's a tomorrow problem. That's a 2026 problem. Like, like you can do that, but it doesn't feel so like existential. It feels real and actionable. And so I think it's important here in Headspace. Go ahead and separate this into two problems. So number one, we've got a communication problem with a new practice owner that is not giving the team the communication they need and that is.

That is a real problem. We can coach to that problem. We can work to that problem. And then the other problem is the spousal involvement. And I would try to de-emotionalize this. I don't think that's a term, but you get the idea. Basically, this is a job description accountability problem. And so we've got a job description accountability problem, which is what is, I'm unclear as to what everyone's job is now that your spouse is here playing a role and that, that, that's it.

But neither of those problems sound absolutely catastrophic to me. They're, you know, it's a clarity job description. Accountability problem, and it's a, and it's a coaching communication problem. And again, you can't make people do anything they don't want to do, and if you play all your cards and at the end you still don't know what your job description is, and what you're supposed to be doing, and you have a practice owner that the team is trying to mind read because he won't talk or communicate,

You've played all your cards, and now you need to decide what you're going to do.

But for right now, at least, you haven't played all your cards, and so you've got cards left to play. The only choice you have to make are, am I gonna play these cards, or am I so unhappy that I don't care how the game goes, and I'm gonna walk? And based on the fact that we heard this about how much we've invested, and the potential that's here, I think, it seems to me like they have decided to play the cards. 

Stephanie Goss: They wanna try and play.

Dr. Andy Roark: And so we have decided to play the cards.

Exactly. And so we've decided to play the cards, so let's just get into a good headspace. Let's get optimistic. Let's manifest positivity into the future. And then let's start laying these things down in action steps. Sound good?

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark: So, first one for me, split this into two problems, right?

Stephanie Goss: I love that. 

Dr. Andy Roark: So, split it into two problems, and I would probably have two different, I like to notebook my problems, I like to write things out. Try to separate and make the two problems crystal, so that you can just work on that problem. So when you're talking about what is the role for the spouse, Don't start talking about the communication issue. Now, they are related because one of the reasons you don't have clarity on your job and what the heck you're supposed to be doing is probably because the owner isn't communicating.

But let's get empathetic here, right? So we said we're gonna have a safe conversation. So safe is, can I sit next to this person, smile at them. Right? Am I triggered? A is can I assume good intent? And F is has this person been set up to fail? What here is my fault? And the last thing is E, what is the end result I want to achieve?

And so, so assuming good intent and assuming this person was set up to fail, let's give the wife a break here and say maybe she's all up in the business. Because he's not communicating what's going on. He's got the family savings tied up in this thing. She's not— she's looking at the family checking account and going, What the heck is going on?

And she's not getting answers from him. He's not clear about what the plan is. You know, I think that we can empathize with this person coming in from the outside. It's really easy to cast her as the villain. Like the immediate Here's the wife who's stickin her head in. I'm like, wait a second. What if the wife is desperate trying to keep this ship afloat?

And again, I don't know. But it's just healthier and better for us to assume that's a possibility. And to go forward assuming good intent and maybe a little bit of desperation on the part of others and saying, let's, come together because if the wife is feeling desperation and then you start fighting her for the steering wheel, it's probably going to escalate further.

It's going to get worse. And so just, that probably should have gone into headspace, but that's kind of where I am about splitting into two problems. When we split them into two problems, first thing split into two problems. When we split it into two problems. I want to talk about framing communication, okay?

And so from an action standpoint, the way we talk about problems is key. And the way that we discuss things can get people to lean forward or to lean back and cross their arms. If we go to the practice owner and the wife and say, Practice owner is not communicating. Nobody knows what he's thinking. He is a poor communicator.

Stephanie Goss: That immediately makes you defensive.

Dr. Andy Roark: Absolutely. You're going to get a defensive reaction. It's not going to go well. And so, I would frame this not in terms of the practice owner being a bad communicator. I would frame it in terms of the needs of the team and the perception that they don't know what's going on. And maybe you're letting them know, but they're not getting that messaging the way it's currently being delivered.

And you see the difference in that of like, message is not being delivered in a way that's working for them or get, or making them feel comfortable and you can kind of put it on the team is, I don't know, I don't know what to tell you, but they're, not getting it. We got to do something different and that puts me in a collaborator role of what does, what do we want information dissemination to look like here?

If you don't want to disseminate to them, can you and I have one on ones and you can let me know what the plan is, and then I can disseminate that information. I can do it in staff meetings, I can do it in morning rounds, I can do it in company emails, I can do it in our Slack channels, like, however you want to do it, but let's figure it out.

But part of, I think, having the team work well together feel comfortable, feel safe, have a good culture is, they feel like they need more information, they want to know more clearly what's expected of them, and they're, for whatever reason, they're not getting it under the current communication. And so, let's, how can I help with that?

The other thing I would empathize is if you're a brand new business owner, and this is a lesson I learned. I lean towards overcommunication just because I like to hear myself talk. But, it was still hard for me. 

Stephanie Goss: Really? You, Andy Roark? You like to hear your, you like to hear yourself talk?

Dr. Andy Roark: Well, since we're getting vulnerable, yes I do. And,

Stephanie Goss: He talks to, he, you talk to Skipper. 

Does he talk back, Does he talk back, yet in Spanish is what I want to know.

Dr. Andy Roark: Not yet, not yet. I talked to Skipper in Spanish. That's a whole other story. Let's not go, let's not go there. We've been– we did your labor a bit. Let's just put a pin in Skipper learning Spanish for right now. Okay, so, Where was I? All right, stop it, Goss all right um—

Stephanie Goss: This is my fault?

Dr. Andy Roark: It is. Okay.

Stephanie Goss: We were talking about communication and the perception problem.  

Dr. Andy Roark: The perception problem. Yeah, so, I when I was a young business owner, I, again, I really struggled with slowing down to go fast and the more pressure I felt, the less I wanted to communicate about why we were doing what we were doing, how we're going to do it, let's have a talk, let's all come to consensus, what are you guys already doing and how do we build on that?

Because I'm like, let's go. And I had to blow my face off. A number of times. I still blow my face off that way, but That was not at all what, that was not at all what happened when I messaged you and then called Tyler and then told Tyler to wait for my espresso machine to finish.

It was not at all me going ridiculously fast and not slowing down and communicating.

Stephanie Goss: I didn't say, I didn't say a word.

Dr. Andy Roark: Good. All right. Let's move on. Anyway, it's hard as a business owner, especially a brand new business owner, you have, I think you have to get burned a couple of times before you go, Okay, we're going to have this conversation.

We're gonna lay these things out. We're all gonna talk about this. It takes some people a lot of convincing before they realize that this is the significantly faster path. Then just let's go and you guys watch me and you'll figure out what's going on.

Stephanie Goss: Well, and I think, you know, you, mentioned earlier framing the, you know, the communication and looking at, can we have empathy for the wife versus painting her as the villain? And I think it's really important. You know, I am a huge– I have gotten on my soapbox on more than one occasion and talked about the fact that for so many of us who are managers. We learned by screwing it up and we learned by doing because they're not they're not a lot of us who go through our schooling and then go into the opportunity to become a manager and learn after the fact. We usually do it backward. And I think it is important to give empathy to practice owners as well, because the fact is, especially if you have a veterinarian practice owner, they didn't go to school to become a business person, like they didn't get their MBA first, most of them, they went to vet school. And so I think for me, the exercise and empathy is equally important from a communication perspective. And I think this is a really good opportunity. from a manager perspective to lean into skills that you should possess as a manager and help teach someone else some communication and people skills.

And it might go, that might apply to the wife too, or the partner too. We don't have enough information to know, but like if they're not a business person, part of it is like, you don't know what you don't know. And to your point, when you are a young business owner and you're doing it for the first time, You're just trying to, like, not have it completely fall apart, really.

Like, I can't, so many nights I've sat there and thought, the wheels didn't fall off today, and that feels like success. And I, it, like, the, you're setting the bar low a lot of the time because you don't know what you don't know. And so I think from an empathy perspective in terms of action steps, like, this could be a great opportunity, not only to ask yourself, like, what else could be happening here?

But how could you apply your skills as a manager to solve this problem and do some coaching and some teaching in a way that that opens the door to someone that in a way that doesn't feel like you have a communication problem or you're not good at communicating, but is more like, Hey, like I want to get better.

Would you be willing to work on this with me? You know?

Dr. Andy Roark: Oh, sure. Well, I would take that one step further, and just, I don't know if this is possible to set up, but I will tell you, if you really want to make a massive impact really fast, if you could get the practice owner and the wife and you to all take the Uncharted Leadership Essentials Certificate together, that Whether that's on demand or when we do it in person in Atlanta or in Minneapolis in June or in California

Stephanie Goss: In Anaheim in

Dr. Andy Roark: in Anaheim in November.

Yeah, so we're out on the road. We're doing it live so you can see it live. But anyway, and I'm not joking when I say this, first of all, the leadership positional certificate has got everything about. Building trust with the team. It's got getting team buy-in. It's got communication styles, which is a big deal.

It has got…

Stephanie Goss: Feedback and coaching

Dr. Andy Roark: It's got— the big thing is strategic, planning basics. So, vision and the core values

Stephanie Goss: How to come together as a team.

Dr. Andy Roark: and how to come together. And then, when you get it online, it's got discussion questions in it. It has, like, these are the questions that we would have groups talk about.

And so the three of you can do it, decide that you're going to do the first module, and then talk about it. And then actually just say, what's this look like in our practice? and I say that in all sincerity and honesty, because one, Especially if you've got a brand new practice owner and the wife is jumping in and she's probably, you know, learning a lot as she goes too. It's great, freaking great coaching for anybody who's leading or managing.

But number two, the conversations that are going to come up are going to be wildly valuable and you don't have to bring the stuff up. That's the thing. it's not you going and saying. I'd like to talk to you guys about trust building, and do you think we're building trust with our team? It's, hey, we all watch this thing, and this is what Andy was talking about,

Stephanie Goss: Andy said we have to do our homework.

Dr. Andy Roark: Look, and exactly, and, here's the homework, and I just wanted to kind of have lunch with you guys and talk about where we were, and let's do that.

And so anyway, I don't know if that's possible. I don't mean to oversell it. I'm not really, genuinely not trying to oversell it. I truly believe if you could get them to do it, it is a, non confrontational way to bring up the basics and essence of running a practice. It's like, I love it for medical directors and practice managers that are kind of struggling to see eye to eye.

Anyway, it just works really well for that. So anyway, Uncharted Leadership Essentials Certificate. Jumping back real quick. The way that we frame the question matters. So, for the non communicative, Doctor, I frame this as the team's perception is that they're not getting the information they need to be effective.

Stephanie Goss: hmm. Sure. 

Dr. Andy Roark: And for the wife stepping on toes wrestling for the steering wheel problem, I would frame that as a project management job description. It's not, hey, who the heck are you to come in and, you know, change the plan, take my job. It's, I don't want to step on your toes. I don't want you to step on my toes. I don't want redundancy in our work. I don't want to reinvent the wheel if you're doing something blank. Or if I'm doing something and you're not going to be happy with how I'm doing it, I'd rather know that before I do it.

That's how I'd frame that. And so I think you can frame both of those in healthy and productive ways. And so anyway, what I'd like to do. Now, if you're up for it, yes, we're sort of heading into the end of the podcast here. I split it into two problems. I want to action step each of the two problems.

You okay with that? 

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, let's talk about the doctor first.

Dr. Andy Roark: All right, cool. If I was going to go and talk to this doctor, we set the headspace and said, you know, get safe, right? we shouldn't be triggered here. I don't know if I'm going to have this conversation with him or with him and his wife.

It really depends on how intertwined she is. I, my worry about having the wife. there is that he's going to get defensive and feel ganged up on the upside would be if he wasn't defensive and I could frame it as a conversation about how leadership communicates to the team, I might be able to get us all to kind of work collaboratively together and maybe recruit the wife to help me get the communication flowing that I need.

But I don't really know. You'd have to kind of feel that relationship. What do you think about that? Thank you, Stephanie. Am I ridiculous to even think about this, or do you see the potential that I'm talking about?

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, I totally can see it. I think a lot of it has to do with dissecting what the actual problem is. And so from our writer's perspective, we don't know. We just know that the doctor is struggling with communication from the team. And so that could be anything from they're getting angry when they come out of the exam room and what they want done, isn't ready because they literally haven't talk to the team about it, or like, they're not mind readers. It could mean that they're telling what, like, tell– This is why I was laughing when you were talking about being the business owner. I remember a time where as a new business owner, like you just wanted to do all the things and solve all the problems and where you would start something and you would have a conversation with one person and then you're working on another piece with another person and then you are all playing the telephone game because everybody has little pieces of the conversation, right?

Like there could be a million different examples. We're humans, and communication is so much of our day, and how many times do we all screw it up in some way during the course of the day, right? So part of it, I think, is dissecting that apart, and I would agree with you that there could be potential to have this conversation from a leadership “Let's get united and let's come at it together” perspective, and I think probably the smarter play I would suspect is that there's probably enough, if they really are struggling communicating with everybody, there's probably enough to talk to them one on one about the communication side of things.

And I think it's important to have specific examples for the team from the perception perspective to kind of ease into that, because that is an easy win in the sense of, hey, this is what we I want to be able to help the team help you more, and if they are feeling like they don't get clear communication about what your expectations are, they can't work more efficiently and effectively.

And that's a problem that I would love to help you tackle. Would you be willing to talk about how we communicate expectations, how we communicate in the exam room, and kind of look at some of that with me? That feels radically different than. We've got even, more different than your approach, which I still love, but like we, we've got a perception problem, right?

And we can fix this because that feels very uniting and like, let's come together. But I think framing it for me, it has always been the path of least resistance. It's like, Hey, there's a problem in your life, even if you don't know it's a problem. And I would like to help you solve it.

Dr. Andy Roark: Yeah, no, I agree with that. Okay, so, walk with me. Communication issues, I'm totally with you. So, step one is ask for help, in my mind, which is what you just said is, help me, how do we handle this, right? State the problem. The problem not being “You're a terrible communicator.” The problem being, “the team doesn't feel informed. They're unsure of what the expectations are, and as a result, things are not getting done. Like, blank, and blank.” And so, give clear examples is number three. Ask for help, state the problem, give clear examples. And then, ask for solutions. how do we, how are we going to do this, right? Because this is supposed to be, I want it to be a discussion, not a speech.

Stephanie Goss: Sure. You're recruiting them to be a part of the solution.

Dr. Andy Roark: Exactly, and so. What, I mean, I'm trying to figure out, what, how can we get this information to them in a way that works for you? As opposed to, how about this? I'll meet with you twice a week, and we'll do one hour meetings, and blah blah blah blah, like, I don't know if he's gonna go for that or not. He'll like it a lot more if it's his idea, I promise you that.

And so what are our options? How can we approach this? Try to ask for solutions from them and then present your own solutions as appropriate, meaning, this is where you put your thumb on the scale. If he presents an idea, a solution that you've already thought of that you like, don't say, I also had that thought, say, that's a great thought.

I really love that idea, you know, and lean into it. And then ask for a pilot program, because these things are scary. And you're asking him to commit to communicating differently and just say, Can we do this from now until June 1st or the 4th of July? And just pick a time, and name it, and ask for that pilot program.

And it's a whole lot, if he hates it, then we're, then we'll stop doing it. But I think that the practice will work better, and you'll be happier, and the team will be happier if we do this. And so I'd really like to, if you'll commit, just three months. Let's try it for three months and really lean into it.

Can we do that? And then results will speak for themselves, or they won't. But that's kind of how I would approach the communication problem.

Stephanie Goss: The other thing that I would add to that is when you do, if you can, so to your point, asking them for help and, giving them the problem, giving them examples and then asking them to be a part of the solution and recruiting them to be, on board. I think a big part of it that. Where it often falls off the rails is in the follow through and the follow up because you, I am a firm believer that people can change and that you can teach old dogs new tricks and it doesn't happen in a vacuum and so part of it has to be the follow up and the encouragement and the catching them doing things well and talking about when things I'm going to, you know, beat you with a stick.

Right? But in a, Hey, I know things have been going really, well. And I saw you really frustrated the other day. Like, let's talk about it. Cause I want to, you know, I want to help you work through it. There's gotta be some sort of system or mechanism for followup on the part of the team, on the part of the doctor.

Cause otherwise you're not going to take someone who is. In the words of our writer, like significantly struggling with communicating with everyone and turn them overnight by one conversation into someone who's a master communicator, like this takes everyday progress and work. And so I think the last thing I would add to that is I love the pilot program idea.

There has to be check ins as you go. And then, hey, okay, we've been doing this for a month or we've been doing this for three months. What next? Like, how, where, do we go from here?

Dr. Andy Roark: Yep, totally. I agree with that. For the wife interactions, I would have a different conversation. I would, and again, I would, probably have this with both the owner and the wife together, because I think we, I do think we need to get clarity here, and I would really try to not, is really can't go to, if this goes to a defensive place, you're going to lose, you're going to get blasted.

And there's a chance that they're going to turn on you and hang, the problems on you and be like, well, you're it and you go, but why if like, I'm clearly not, I'm like, well, I tell you this as a spouse, it's a whole lot easier for me to hang problems on somebody that doesn't live in my house than to hang them on my spouse who I'm going to see all the time.

And some people will do that. And we've all seen it. They would much rather protect their comfort level at home than to actually fix a problem. And that's sad, but it's not everybody, but I think I would come to a place of peace of if this doesn't work and they're not going to hear this I'm going to be okay because I said what I wanted to say and I gave it my best shot and I'm not going to, and, if this becomes a terrible place for me to work, I'm going to go somewhere else.

And so I, that's why I want to make that peace. Alright, I would lean into confusion in this conversation, meaning I, you know, I'm unclear about what the expectations are for me. I think the staff at, I think the staff is, yeah, I'm not saying I would play dumb, but I would lean very much into, I don't know what the expectations are for me.

I don't know that the staff knows who to listen to, or I think the staff is getting mixed messaging. And that's causing some confusion. I see that— I feel like I'm doing a lot of work that's then being done again, or I feel like I'm doing work that was already done. I'm feeling like I don't know where I can act with autonomy and where I need to ask for permission.

I don't know. And so I don't feel like I'm serving you guys in a good way. And I'm, quite honestly, I'm starting to get to a point where I'm a bit frustrated about it. And so that's, actually what I would say. And then, I would remember your motivators. I don't know what this owner cares about.

I don't know what the spouse cares about. But I would like to understand that. Is it, is, are they being driven by a desire to make money because they have borrowed against their house, and they're gonna lose their house if this business goes under? Then I'm like, okay, money's not a dirty conversation in my mind, especially if you were like, we sunk everything we own into this practice and we're scared as hell. That's not dirty. That's the human condition. And so let's just talk about it and say, help me to get to help you get profitable, but you've got to give me a clear job description. You have to let me know what I'm allowed to do and how I'm allowed to work, right?

Ask them what done looks like, and this is why I would ask them together, because if you ask them separately, they'll probably tell you two different things. Ask them when they're together and say, I need to understand, when you think about having a manager in this practice, what does that manager's job look like?

What do they do, and what do you do? And I would like to make a list or talk through what those things are so I can understand your vision. And if you guys need to think about it for a little bit and then come back and we can talk about it more, that's fine too. But I really need to hear from both of you what the shared vision for my job is or what my role is.

But that's why I would ask them together for sure. I would not ask them separately.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, that makes sense. And to, to your point if you have asked, if you have thought about what is motivating them or how they are motivated, then when you have the conversation about what done looks like and you have the rest of the conversation and particularly when you're having the follow up and pushing things along With people who might not be so willing to go on the journey with you It becomes significantly easier if you can frame it in the context of their motivators so if they are worried about the finances in the practice then you can speak to it from the framing of “Hey, I want to make sure that we're them As maximally efficient as possible.

I don't wanna burn salary hours by doing work that, that you also wanna do or that you would rather do yourself than have me do.” Or you know, like you can frame it in that language, because that's gonna push that urgency button for them because it is important to them.

Dr. Andy Roark: I agree with that. Figure out what done looks like. And get them to agree on what done looks like. And then, write it down. Write it down, type it up, give it back to them. And say, hey, I typed this up. I want to make sure that you guys, that this looks good to you guys. This will look like a job description.

Because it is.

But give it back to them. And say, are we in agreement? This is what I wrote down. I want to make sure everything looks okay for you guys. This is how we vision my job and what we're trying to get to. And I, ideally I'd like them to agree and say yes, but I'm putting it into their hand in writing, this is what you guys said, what the three of us agreed I would be doing.

And you can already see where I'm going with this. But, create it, make it real, put it back into their hand. What is the plan for us to get to this point? What needs to happen so that you guys are comfortable with me performing it this way? Are you good for me to start doing these things right now?

What do we need? And again, I would write that down as well. I'd say, this is what we need. And then, I am going to hold them to the plan and say, This is what we agreed on. This is my job. I'm going to give them clear feedback. Rome wasn't built in a day, just like we talked about before. They may be like, Oh yeah, you're right.

You know, I did kind of step on your toes here. Or I'm trying to get out of this, but I'm not out of it yet. And I felt like I needed to help. And anyway, give it some time, but Push steadily on that written list of what done looks like and give them feedback. And if you're feeling frustrated because you're not getting to do this, you want to know what the timeline is before you can take it over.

You want to know what training or steps or things they need to feel comfortable with you doing these things. We can have those conversations. But you have got a written plan you're working against and then let them know where your head's at as you go on without threatening It's not if I don't get to do this and I'm gonna

leave it's I feel like I'm I feel like this It's our expectations that were laid down But I'm not getting to do the bottom half of this list, and I've been asking on what does it take so I can get to the place where everybody's comfortable with me doing this, and I'm not getting a clear answer, and so I feel like I'm kind of stuck in a place where I'm always failing, and I don't know how to get out of this, and I feel like I'm not doing my job, and I don't know how I'm going to get to do my job, and so I just want you guys to know this is taking a toll on me, and I'm, starting to feel kind of frustrated with where we're going.

And the opportunities for me to have an impact here going forward. And I, anyway, I've asked before about what the plan is, and I understand the concerns. But I just wanted to be open and candid about where my head's at.

And then, if it continues not to work, you should leave. Um, That's it.

That's it. I mean, but if you've done all of these things and you have said to them, this was our plan, and honestly the same way I'm gonna use the plan for the job description, I'm going to try to use a communication plan and say, what is our plan for communicating better, blah, blah, blah. But ultimately it's a two pro.

I said at the beginning, we're gonna fight a two front war. Yep. It's fighting the war to get communication flowing to the team, and it's fighting a war of what's my job? I will tell you in my experience. These two things are probably tied together. They probably are stepping all over each other at the top, at the leadership level, and that's why communication is so bad down to the team level, they're probably not in agreement, or they don't know, and they don't want to say things that aren't going to be true.

And so oftentimes the not communicating and not having a clear organizational structure and decision making framework, those things are often interlinked. And so, but I'd still fight it as a two front war. But know that if you don't get the decision making mechanism sorted out, then communication is always going to be a challenge because you're not going to agree on what to communicate because you're not going to exactly know what the story is.

Stephanie Goss: And I think remembering that like people, we don't know what we don't know. And I can't, I mean, pretty much every single partnership team that I have worked for. didn't actually have a clear division of roles between themselves. There was one team that I worked for that there was, pretty after, after years of working together, there was very clear, this is my end of things.

This is your end of things. And here's how we divide the stuff in the middle. But, for a lot of people, it's like, you know, I've met a lot of practice owners where. One of them wants to do this thing and they want to buy the business and the other wants to support their partner. But they don't, they're giving up control.

And so if we assume good intent and we put our empathy shoes on, it is easy to imagine a world where maybe one person just feels like they're on along for the ride. And I know for me, if I feel like the ride is getting out of control, like I gripped the grip, the sides of the seat, you know, and hold on.

And so I think that thinking about it from that perspective helps with breaking the problems apart and asking them the questions in a way that doesn't feel like threatening or like, I don't, you know, it's not, necessarily about you, even though it is, it's about how can you guys work together.

And at the same time, I love what you said about “just leave” because the reality is the hard truth that I had to learn as a manager. It, and it was Andy was with me for, I learned this lesson very painfully. The reality is it's not your practice. And at the end of the day, you can't care more than they do.

And I have been there and it is a very painful place to work through that emotion because you do want it. And that says something about you as a person. And I love my fellow managers for it. And. it hurts, but the reality is you can't care more than they do and you can't make them do things that they don't want to do like you talked about in the beginning, Andy.

And so at the end of the day, like there is acceptance in the fact that it's not. It's not threatening, it just is. And if you do all of those steps and you, do all of the things, and that was, I'm telling you guys, this, episode is a real life therapy coaching that Andy gives Stephanie along the way because there was a time in my life where we had these conversations and I set the plan and I put it on the calendar and I said, I'm going to work this plan.

I'm going to do the things. And at the end of the day. The change didn't happen. And I said, I'm okay with it still hurt tremendously. And there was still a lot of emotions. But at the end of the day, I was like, I'm okay walking away because I did my part and I can't make somebody do something that they don't want for themselves.

Like I can't make it happen. 

Dr. Andy Roark: I think sometimes we need to take that shot and then Give up. But like that's it. So at the very beginning, I said, I hope I didn't over promise, but I said, I want to lay down like, when do we get out of this? And I would say, I would work this plan and go through each of the steps. And if at any point, there's an insurmountable barrier where they're like, we're not going to talk to you about your job description.

Stephanie Goss: Peace out. 

Dr. Andy Roark: I think, I would say, but exactly right, I would say I did it, I laid down my plan, I put in, I, I offered to have the meetings, I offered to try to make it work, and it didn't happen, and I'm going to, I'm going to walk, but I'm not going to go into every meeting being like, this has to go good, or else I'm out of here, but at some point I'm going to say, I laid down the plan, I, would say, I guess I would add, you know, I would probably set a timeline for yourself, and say, I don't know if it's six months if you don't see progress in six months, but if you're going to do that, what I would do is sort of jot down Some ideas about where we are right now, and how it feels, and what we see, and what the, like, actual problems are.

And then if you get to six months from now, and those are still the same problems, I would have a hard time going on. But I would say, but, when I got frustrated between now and six months, I'm say, I would say to myself, six months, I'm doing six months, I'm gonna keep my chin up, I'm gonna do my best, and we're gonna see where we are.

Stephanie Goss: Set a realistic timeline. Don't tell yourself 18 months from now, this is where I want to be because let me tell you, those 18 months will be miserable AF.

Just don't do, don't do, what I did.

Dr. Andy Roark: When you said that, I thought you were going to say, set up a realistic timeline, like three months, and I'm like, I think three months is too short.

Six to twelve months, I think, is, especially if you've got a lot of, if you've got a long history here. I mean, you know, it's the longer you've been in a relationship, kind of, the longer it sort of takes to emotionally extract yourself.

You know, set a timeline that gives you time for change, but also is not going to let you continue to be miserable for a long period. You know, Stephanie, you know how I feel when we are finished with a podcast? That I'm really proud of.

Stephanie Goss: How?

Dr. Andy Roark: J Just like when you have a baby. Like, that's how I feel. Like, it's, I feel like I delivered a baby with you. And I think that's the only way to explain it. I think that's probably the most accurate explanation that I can give. Now, let's slap this baby on the rear and send it out into the world. We should make an acronym. We should make an acronym for when we birth a podcast baby. Stephanie, she just left.

She just left the recording booth. Stephanie, come back! You don't, leave me with our baby, Stephanie! All right,

Stephanie Goss: I can't with you.

Dr. Andy Roark: You guys, take care. I'm gonna, I'm gonna take, enjoy our podcast, baby, that we made for you.

Stephanie Goss: Happy birthing day everybody.

Dr. Andy Roark: Happy birthing day.

Stephanie Goss: And that's a wrap on another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. Thanks for joining us and spending your week with us. If you enjoyed this week's episode, head over to wherever you get your podcasts and leave us a review. It's the best way to let us know that you love listening. We'll see you next time.

Written by Maria Pirita · Categorized: Blog, Podcast · Tagged: communication, culture, management, Practice ownership

Feb 28 2024

Rec Letters That Work

On this week's episode of the Uncharted Podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and practice management super nerd, Stephanie Goss take on a new kind of mailbag. This time, our listener struggles with writing a recommendation letter but not for the reason you might think. This person cannot stop gushing over their rockstar vet tech and is wondering what even makes for a good recommendation letter in the first place. Together, Andy and Stephanie give their tips for effective recommendation letters and how to politely decline if you may not be the right person to write it. Let's get into this episode….

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast · UVP – 275 – Write Prescription Tips For Letter Of Recommendation For My Tech

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Episode Transcript

Stephanie Goss: Hey, everybody! I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of The Uncharted Podcast. And this week on the podcast, Andy and I are tackling a question in the mailbag that at first blush seemed really simple. In fact, Andy and I thought this might be our shortest episode yet. Is this gonna be long enough for an episode?

Because we got a great but simple question from a doctor who was asking, “Hey, I've got a technician who is a superstar and they are applying to vet school and asked me to write them a letter of recommendation.” And their question was about not “what do I write” or “how do I write it,” but about this person is a rock star.

How do I keep myself from gushing about them? And I answered this question and a little bit more as we got into the conversation. This was a really fun one. So if you are in a position to ask for a letter of recommendation, if you are in a position to write a letter of recommendation for someone or you just want to hear some good advice about praising and talking positively about members of your team, this one's for you. Let's get into it.

Announcer: And now, the Uncharted Podcast. 

 Dr. Andy Roark: And we are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark, and the one and only Write-This-Down-Stephanie Goss. Write this down. That's right, I switched it up this time.

It wasn't Stephanie, Write This Down Goss. It was Write This Down Stephanie Goss. Which casts you much more in an administrative light, I think, than our usual intros.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, the ever attentive, like, trying to capture your every word, secretary, is absolutely not who I am.

Dr. Andy Roark: It's not, no, that's not who you are, but you are my devil wears Prada assistant. When people come up to me, you're like, that's Michael Slight. You met him three years ago at a conference and he told you he likes cats, but only if they have three legs. Hi, Michael, how's your three legged cats?

I'm, you are that person. You like, you have that memory. I don't remember, I'm bad with faces, I, and I meet a lot of people, you are the whisper in ear, Devil Wears Prada assistant.

Stephanie Goss: I've always been that way. It comes from years of when I was in high school, and then in, eventually in college, I was a camp counselor, and then I ran a summer camp, and when you have a hundred new kids every two weeks, and you have to learn faces and names so that you can yell at, kids to be safe you, learn faces and names real fast.

Dr. Andy Roark: Well that also, that background also explains why you remember the specific things you remember, cause it's really weird what you remember. You'll be like, that's Donna Watkins, she's allergic to shrimp.

Stephanie Goss: It is. It is true.

Dr. Andy Roark: I'll be careful about bringing it up.

Stephanie Goss: Totally true. It's funny because for years I told you that I wanted a crown and then you guys made my dreams come true when I got uncharted speaker of the year last year and my award was the crown. But I have my new goal in life is to be like the FBI or you know, and like, or a secret agent, and have the little invisible earbud in my ear and be able to just tell Andy, this is who's, this is who's coming, and just like whisper, to you when we're out, out places.

Anyways we're off the rails already. This is good. This is going to be a fiery episode. How's it going, Andy Roark?

Dr. Andy Roark: It's– my world got devastated today. I–my daughter, no, it was him. First of all, okay, let me tell you a Skipper Roark story from yesterday. I was doing a podcast with a very respected board certified medical genius. And there were other people on the podcast watching the recording. Like, they were like, oh, we're gonna sit in on this.

And so I'm recording, there's an audience, there's this. And he comes in, as he just did right now, And I'm in my basement recording and I hear this rustling and I look and he is standing up on his back legs and he has discovered where I keep his, like he has some rawhides, but you know, he gets an occasional little rawhide treat and I look over there at one point and he's leaving the room with a rawhide and I'm like, I guess there was one that was out.

And he's, looking at me as he walks out of the room like, what you gonna do? And, then he comes back and he gets another one and I'm on this recording and I don't want to be like, I'm sorry, let me pause this so I can go and deal with my bad dog. Only when I got done did I find the whole bag got smuggled out and torn apart.

He must have eaten a dozen rawhide, he's gonna poop for three days.

Stephanie Goss: I was gonna say.

Dr. Andy Roark: He's just, he's a ticking time bomb. He hasn't gone off yet, but I'm like, he's going to

Stephanie Goss: You’re weekend is gonna be spent walking Skipper for endless poops.

Dr. Andy Roark: The eye contact he maintained with me as he walked out of the room with the treat he wasn't supposed to have was just like, it was, like, bullying.

He just looked at me like, “Yeah, nerd. I'm taking this. And you're not going to say anything,” and I didn't because I was trying to be professional. And so that was Skipper Roark yesterday.

Stephanie Goss: It's, like when you, I remember when everybody tells you, like, when you have your second kid, it gets exponentially harder and you have no idea until you have more than one, like, what that actually means, and I vividly remember mine, my kids are fairly close together in, in age, and I remember, like, they were really, good kids when I first had Jackson, Riley went through a very mischievous stage and it wasn't anything bad like drawing on the walls or you know I have some friends that have horror stories of their toddlers, but she always had this knack like right when I would have Jackson in the bathtub or I was, you know, had just sat down for him to, nurse or whatever.

And she would just look at you in the eye and then like, maintain the eye contact and skulk off. And you just knew that she was going to go do something.

Dr. Andy Roark: I, 

Stephanie Goss: just like, Oh, I just kid,

Dr. Andy Roark: Oh yeah. I, oh that,

Stephanie Goss: That's Skipper.

Dr. Andy Roark: Yes. Oh yeah, that I can 100% imagine. He's just like, yeah, I'm doing it.

Stephanie Goss: uh huh.

Dr. Andy Roark: I walked into the exam room yesterday and I had this kitten appointment, right? So brand new kitten, of course, they just came home in the car line, which is if you're a kitten, that's genius.

Go to the elementary school car line, somebody's going to pick you up, and then they're going to get in the car with you, and you are 75 percent of the way to a new home. You know? And sure enough, this little, probably six week old, you know, tabby cat has just walked up to the car line the kids pick up the cat and get in the car with it and mom's like great now we got a cat and so I walk in because the cat's there and scratching her head She's some ear mites and stuff and I walk in and there's the lady and she's got two kids with her, right?

And one of them is a baby. It's not a kid. It's a baby. She's got like the little headband with a big sunflower on it. You know I'm talking about just Absolutely, and she's smiling at me, like, just Gerber baby beautiful, you know? And, then the other kid's probably five years old, and he's on the phone, like, doing his thing.

And so I walk in, and I was like, oh wow, you decided to add a little chaos to your life. You know, holding this kitten, and she's like, oh, well. This is only part of the chaos. And I said, Oh yeah. And she said, yeah, my oldest is 15 and my second oldest is 12. And she said, and he's seven and she's just born and I'm 45. And I said, really? And she said, yep. Got a big surprise about a year ago. And I, it was funny. I was like, and so the kitten was an obvious choice. So, I don't know,

Stephanie Goss: I, I did that. I did that as well. I vividly remember the day because mine are like 18 months apart. And so I vividly remember the day Jackson was. It's a couple months old. He was born in July and it was November. I walked into the clinic with a toddler, a newborn and a puppy in tow that Santa brought for Christmas early in November.

He showed up in my house in a stocking and boy, let me tell you, that was one of the not so great decisions. And my team just looked at me and they were like, What in the hell were you actually thinking?

Dr. Andy Roark: It's like a moment of weakness and I’m like

Stephanie Goss: I was potty training a toddler, have a newborn, let's get a puppy! And let's get, and let's get a terrier puppy, who's gonna be bad and naughty.

Dr. Andy Roark: Yeah. 

Stephanie Goss: You know, we don't always make the best life choices

Dr. Andy Roark: No! Yeah. No. Not at all. So, anyway.

Stephanie Goss: Well, this episode today is about good life choices. I'm actually kind of excited about this one. This one might be a little bit shorter than our normal episode, but maybe not. Maybe we'll go off on a tangent. We got it. We got an email that is so fun for a change. It's not someone who's like, I have this massive problem.

They have a problem, but it's a positive problem. And so, we had a doctor write into us and ask like, Hey, could you guys do an episode and talk about letters of recommendation? And the reason was because they have a superstar licensed technician who is applying to vet school. And they were like, I'm struggling with writing this letter because all I want to do is gush about this person because they are wonderful.

And I'm worried that it might not be effective if all I'm doing is stating the positives. Like what should be in a great letter of recommendation? And I thought this one was fun both from a, like from the HR perspective, but also from your perspective, having gone to vet school and gone through that whole application process.

Like what makes up a good letter of recommendation?

Dr. Andy Roark: Oh man. I love this. It's a super great. I love it when someone's like, I want to celebrate this

Stephanie Goss: Uh huh. 

Dr. Andy Roark: so hard

Stephanie Goss: can't stop talking about them.

Dr. Andy Roark: That, yeah, that other people are like, all right, she sounds pretty great. I, it's a great problem to have. And I think this person is really smart in the realization that everybody has someone gushing about them.

Everybody does. It might be your, it might be your mother. Might be, only be your mother, but you're gonna get a letter recommendation from my mom. And it's gonna say great things. So I think that's really smart. I always think it's interesting when people ask like, you know, what gets you into vet school.

And I do, I would say right here, I don't keep really close tabs on vet school admissions. Although I am always interested. I talked to, the dean of students at a vet school like last, it was in the spring– 

Stephanie Goss: Uh huh. Uh 

Dr. Andy Roark: it was in the spring. And one of the things I always like to ask the dean, especially the um, a dean of students And I said to her, Hey so people always ask me how to get into vet school and so what advice should I make sure that I have ready when people ask me that? And she said, don't quote me on this. That's why I haven't told you what to do with this. goes, don't quote me on this but tell them not to write a euthanasia story. And I was like, really? And she was like, I have read so many euthanasia stories in my life and like bonus points if you don't write a euthanasia story. And so again, if that's your thing and that's like what motivates you and you're like, yeah, this is, I have to be honest, then you should be honest. But also know that the I'm going to write about a euthanasia story that inspired me to go down this path, just know that it's going to be challenging to stand out because a lot of people are making that play.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. That makes sense. 

Dr. Andy Roark: I think that sort of, that kind of stuff is interesting. I, so I've got a little bit of sort of headspace in, in, in letters of recommendation. So I pride myself on letters of recommendation.

I think I write a pretty darn good letter of recommendation. I've gotten good feedback on that. And I'll tell you kind of what, the way I size it up and try to get some, pointers here. I think one of the things that, that we do when we're going to write a letter of recommendation, whether it's the vet school or anything else, we need to get intentional.

A lot of times what we hear is, rec letter is just write, just gush, about them. And I was like, okay, what are you trying to do here? Like what are you trying to communicate about this person? And you were like, they're awesome. And I go, that's useless. Right like awesome is too vague. It's too flowery like from this letter, which I totally appreciate. I don't need this information, but They used the word superstar and they used the word gushing.

They used the word fabulous and I'm like, I know Absolutely nothing about this person. You know what I mean? And I'm not sure that you know anything about this person. I will also say anybody who's out there talking about using chat GPT to write your rec letters real fast. One, love your focus on efficiency and time management to not.

It's not going to be the place. Maybe you could do a first draft and then get in there, but it's not the place because one of the things that chat GPT is not good at is specifics. It pulls and writes generic wording and generic wording is not going to get the job done here because you're going to make your person sound like a generic candidate and so start out.

What are you trying to communicate? Why like genuinely why would this person be good for vet school or for whatever you're recommending them for like what skills do they have? What attributes do they have? Tell me why, and you need to sit, and a lot of times, it's hard for me to write rec letters.

I don't just bang them out. I literally walk around for three days. And think about them and jot things on a, post it note in my pocket because I'm like, what, does this person do? 

Stephanie Goss: Mm-hmm.

Dr. Andy Roark: And start from there. And so the first thing to remember is what the heck are you trying to do? The second thing is, and I teach this in the exam room communication class.

And so, if you're like, oh, I'd like to hear more exam room communication from Andy, at DrAndyRoark.com, I have my exam room communication toolkit. And One of the 17 tools in there that we talk about is being authentic. And there's some, there's old, there's like seminal research. It's old.

It's like the 1980s. But it came out of Cleveland State University's business program. And. Basically, what they did in this program was they created two fictional job applicants, John and Steve, and they made identical resumes and identical letters of recommendation for the two candidates, with the exception of one line.

So both resumes were really good. Both of the cover letters or recommendation letters were glowing. Except for John, had one extra line in the middle of all the awesome stuff. It's like, he does this, and he rocks that, and he's amazing at this. Sometimes John can be difficult to get along with, but he delivers results, and bam, and more positive stuff.

And that was the only difference in the two in the two applications. And so then they sent the applications out to headhunting groups, like people who find jobs, and they said, please evaluate these candidates. And who scores better in the eyes of the headhunters? It's John, who sometimes can be difficult to get along with. Because that one wart made everything else real.

Stephanie Goss: Right. Sure.

Hey there, podcast listeners. I wanna take a second and talk to you about our Leadership Essentials Certificate. Now, some of you have heard, Andy and I talk about it on the podcast, but if you're new or if you haven't heard this before, I think it's really important, which is why I'm gonna share it with you now,

When our team sat down in the very beginning. We said, Hey, look, we really believe that there is a foundational truth here to build off of. And that is everybody that's a part of the Uncharted team, everybody that is a part of the uncharted community and finds us tends to believe that every single member of the practice has value and worth and deserves investment in.

That's number one. And number two is that everybody on the team is needed and needs to have some basic leadership, professional, personal development skills, and business development skills in order to help the practice and the team run as efficient, effective, and rockstar ish as they can. And so, um, our team sat down and said, what would that look like?

What would be some of those things that we would want every member of the team to have access to in terms of learnings? And after the last years of doing content for Uncharted, Andy and I pulled together the best of hits in terms of those foundational level content and workshop questions and discussion questions, and we put it together in one awesome, if I do say so myself, awesome, awesome package.

And that is our Leadership Essentials Certificate. And so if you were like, hey, this I would like my team to be maximally efficient. I would like them to be maximally effective. I would love them to learn how to be better communicators and how to work together as a team. We've got you. And if you're someone on a team listening to this right now, and you're like, Hey, I would like to do that.

We've got you to, there's the ability to take one module at a time. You can buy the whole certificate. You can take it online. You can take it in a hybrid version where you do some workshop in virtual cohorts, but you also asynchronously watch videos. You can even come and do the whole thing in two days live with our team.

And you can find out information about all of it at unchartedvet.com/certificates, that certificate with an S at the end, because there's more where that came from. And now back to the podcast. Oh, but don't forget to go sign up. 

Dr. Andy Roark: And who scores better in the eyes of the, uh, of the headhunters? It's John, who sometimes can be difficult to get along with. Because that one wart made everything else real.

Stephanie Goss: Right. Sure. 

Dr. Andy Roark: It made John real and you're like, when someone says this is the area I would like to see him develop in, suddenly you're like, Oh, this person's not just blowing smoke. They are genuinely telling me what they think, which means all of the other things they said, I believe are genuine.

And so I always remember that and talk about that and the takeaway of it is you should be yourself warts and all like you should be authentic about who you are. You should be authentic about who the person you're recommending is. Nobody believes in perfection. They believe in real people.

And so the first challenge in writing a letter of recommendation is capturing the person in an authentic way. And that will generally send them catapulting back the past the people who have just covered in fluff and, are not really believable as people. And so don't be afraid to say the, this is who this person is.

These are some of the memories that I have, these are challenges I have seen them overcome. This is some of the personal development that I have seen in this person. And that is powerful stuff that does not get talked much about but it–phrases like that articulate that this person is a learner and a grower and someone who develops and betters themselves and who you can probably assume is going to continue to improve and grow. And I feel like those are really important points that a lot of people miss in their letters of recommendation.

Stephanie Goss: Well, and from an HR perspective and from, you know, from my personal experience perspective. So prior to being in, in the vet field, I worked for the university and, I've read a lot of recommendation letters for the programs that I was involved in over the years. And I will also say that one of the things, as someone who has looked for candidates and looked through hundreds of candidates, like you mentioned, the Dean, and I don't envy that.

I don't envy that job because it's a really hard job. Because there is a lot of generic. And there's a reason why. Because I think a lot of people, whether they're applying for a job or they're applying for vet school, they think about who is the person who can give me the most glowing recommendation.

I think that's how a lot of people look at it. And there's nothing wrong with that. And I think a lot of people also look at it as. Who is the most well connected person that I know to write this letter? And I've had candidates ask me to write letters because they're like, Well, you are involved in this thing, and so you know people here, and so that will look good.

And It's not, they're not being shady about it, right? It's not with mal intent that they're looking at it that way, but they are, if you are trying to succeed, you're probably looking at all of your options. And at the same time, I think what I often. Do and we're, I'm going to get into this when I do action steps, but for me, I want to know why is it that they want me to write the letter?

Because I think that really, I think that really matters. And to your point, I love that this student asked their doctor that they work with to write the letter, because here's an opportunity for someone who, to your point, not only has had the opportunity to see them. Excel and flourish and can speak to that, but there's also the ability to speak to the depth of the relationship and why you're asking this person to write your letter.

And I have read hundreds of letters that it's very clear to me that this is someone that. The candidate respects, but there's no depth to the relationship. And I'm going to weigh that dramatically differently than a letter where it's clear that this person got a letter from their academic advisor that they've been working with for four years and they're speaking about the growth that this person has had.

That speaks to a depth of relationship and involvement in their life that is different. Right. it's the difference between you know, I, it's funny that the Dean said the euthanasia story, because for me, letters of rec, I would think, especially for vet school, there are hundreds of thousands of candidates who have known since they were five years old, that they wanted to be a veterinarian as a manager.

I can't tell you how many times I get cover letters from people who are like, I just think that working with animals would be the best job in the world. That's great. But why does that set you apart from the hundreds of thousands of other people who say that they've also wanted to be a vet since they're, since they were five years old?

Right? So, I think part of it, I love that you said what, you know, as the writer, what are you trying to communicate about the person? But I think that also goes both ways. If you are a candidate and you are asking someone to write a. a letter for you. I think part of it, the headspace for you should be, why are you asking this person?

Because I will tell you, as someone who has written letters for people, the best letters I have written have been able to be the letters where someone has come to me and said, I would like you to write this for me because I think that you can speak to my growth and development and overcoming challenges because of this, right?

Dr. Andy Roark: My communication skills, my ability to learn. I really love how you're taking this because you're putting power back into the student, or into the applicant's hands. And so I just, boy, I can't agree with you more strongly. I, the applicants, and it's funny, when you're asked for a letter of recommendation, the people who really have their stuff together, Like, you know it.

There's people who ask me for a letter of recommendation and just the way they talk to me, I'm like, you don't need, you do not need me. Like, you are gonna, you are gonna write your own ticket. And the person who can write their own ticket comes to you basically with a plan. And they're like, okay, I was hoping you could write me a letter of recommendation.

I thought because we spent this time together and we had these experiences, I was really hoping you could speak to this specific. you know, area of development for me. And what's happened is this person has looked at themselves and thought about the points that they want to try to make. And they have looked at people that they know and say, well, I think you know, I had a period, I really learned a lot about communication and motivating people when I worked at this job and this person was my manager there and they could provide that sort of insight.

And this person has actually seen me work with patients and animals. And maybe they could speak to my compassion and my thoughtfulness and my, you know, bedside manner, if you will. And, you know, but you, but when you go and you give, like, set the letter writers up for success. It's really hard. This is something that we do with training and Uncharted that blows people's minds.

And so it's funny if I say to you if I come to you and I say, I want you to think about a conversation you had with a client that's much harder. than me coming in and saying, I want you to think about a conversation you had with a client about dental care where the client had very limited resources.

Like, that second one is a much easier mental pull than “think about a conversation with a client” where you're like, I don't know. And so, anyway, the way we ask those questions matters. And so, I love that you called that out. I want, the next part sort of for me with this is, if you're writing, back to writing the letter, if you're writing the letter, remember that talk is cheap.

And we talk about this a lot when we talk about mission statements, when we talk about defining core values in the team.

And one of the mistakes that people make is they pick flowery words and they say at our practice we're about compassion and integrity and the highest inpatient care and I'm like what the hell does any of that mean? They're like, I don't know exactly. It's just you know, just theoretically these are the words.

Stephanie Goss: Well it looks good on the wall, right? Like 

Dr. Andy Roark: It looks good on the wall.

Stephanie Goss: And there should be part of that because you don't want it to look like a second grader wrote something, right? Like that's, and that's where people, they're coming at it from a place of good intention. Like we want this

Dr. Andy Roark: Oh, yea

Stephanie Goss: We want it to sound inspiring and we want it to, And it's so easy to get caught up in the language of that and trying to make it sound good.

I know as someone who has both written and asked someone to write a letter, I have gotten caught up in that as well as like, Oh, let me use a bigger word or let me

Dr. Andy Roark: Yeah, oh yeah. That's, 

Stephanie Goss: the sound more flowery. It's because it's really easy to do.

Dr. Andy Roark: Well, and I'm not trying to dunk on people. I'm sorry if I come off as, as, mean here. Because I don't mean to be mean. it's all done the best of intention. But like, those, I see those flowery words, and I see them on the wall, and no one in the practice It, they're not motivating to anybody, but I'll tell you how to make a motivating really fast.

If you want to make a motivating and you've got them written on the wall, you need to gather the team around and you need to point at the words and you say, Hey guys, I want to think of times that you saw someone on our team living this value. Like I want you to think about a time that you saw someone demonstrating integrity.

I want you to think about a real time. That you saw someone, ideally in the last week, maybe in the last month, maybe in the last quarter, maybe in the last year if we have to go back that far. If we have to go back that far to find an

Stephanie Goss: It’s not one of your values.

Dr. Andy Roark: maybe, maybe other words that should go on the wall.

but you know what I mean? Like, but, say, integrity. Give me an example. Like, we have this on our wall. Tell me about a time. That you saw someone demonstrating integrity. And let the team tell you a story about one of their coworkers. And buddy, you will see the team start to come together. You will see them start to look at each other and go, you know what?

We do have integrity. And that's what it looks like. And you will see other people's behavior start to shift. Because they go, Oh, man. I'm surrounded by people who are doing this stuff. I could do this stuff. If they see real examples, if they hear real examples, especially, I mean, everybody loves to have their friends say, you know, I saw Andy do this thing.

And he didn't think anyone saw him, but this is what he did. And that demonstrates the highest standard of patient care. Boy, I feel like a million bucks and then also like, but that's, us convincing ourselves that these really are values that I tell this story and I talk about this because the same thing translates into the letter of recommendation talk is cheap and everybody writes these letters talking about fantastic leadership and initiative and work ethic and intelligence and knowledge and, you know, compassion and willingness to to go the extra mile.

Everyone says that. Speak in specifics. Talk is cheap. You don't have to write a ton, but tell me a story. Give me an example of the behaviors that you're talking about. And if you can't come up with any examples, I think you should think harder about the person. It doesn't have to, a lot of people are like, Oh, I need some amazing story.

You, it does not have to be an amazing story. It can be, I was working in the exam room, and this person was an assistant, or this person was a technician, and I remember we had this experience, and I remember the way that, that this person would advocate for the patient. And specifically, I remember one time that she did this and that was common for her and now I'm like, oh, I see what you mean.

I wrote a letter for a technician going to vet school that I'm so proud of, but it was someone that I knew fairly well. And she asked me to write the letter. I was kind of surprised. I was an associate veterinarian. It was, you know, it was not because I was well known at all. But she asked me for this and I really thought about it and I sat and I wrote about the way I had seen her teaching another technician just a couple of days earlier. And I just wrote that down. And I was like, you know, this is what I saw two days ago. And this is not abnormal, this is what she's like to work with. And I believe that being a veterinarian is about being an educator.

And that's why I believe this person would be an excellent veterinarian. One of the reasons. And it was a fairly short letter and she had applied like five times and this was a BAM and then this time, you know, she got in, but I just, I, to me, that's what a good letter of recommendation looks like.

And what that means though is it's not easy and, it's impossible to fake it, but that's why it works. If it was something where it was just like, use these big words and the person will get in. Well, that doesn't work. Pulling specific stories or examples is hard, but that's why it works. And so anyway, that's speak in specifics.

Remember that talk is cheap. I think that's my other really big part of putting together a good letter of recommendation.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. I think that's, I think that's good.

Dr. Andy Roark: If you do it, I mean, you know, try to be concise. Rambling on for three pages is, this is just one piece of an application. Length is not going to help. If anything, it's going to hurt. Like, you know, aim for a one pager. Which means you got to get in there and say what you're going to say and then get back out.

So, try to be concise, consider having somebody else read it, somebody that you trust to say, hey, what does this look like? Does this sound good to you? Because sometimes I'll write something that sounds to me like an obvious compliment and the other person will read it in a different way and says, oh, this person sounds like a micromanager.

I'm like, oh. She's definitely not.

Stephanie Goss: right.

Dr. Andy Roark: What made you say that? and they're just like, oh, well, it's just the way you, this turn of phrase that you used. Oh, I don't, I didn't think that. And I don't know if the person reading it would think that. But the fact that you thought that makes me think that there's a possibility someone else might think that.

And so I'm going to make that adjustment. And so just having somebody with fresh eyes read it is, always really valuable. The last thing I would say to sum all of this, or just bring this all back around, throw a little curveball here at the end is, I get the question sometimes, Andy, what if I don't want to write a letter of recommendation for this person?

Stephanie Goss: Okay. 

Dr. Andy Roark: And I think that happens sometimes. And I try to coach people. Sometimes we say, I think this person is great. I just, I'm not a good person to write a letter of recommendation for them. My wife is a college professor and somebody who took introductory biology with her three years ago, and they were in a class of, you know, 80.

And it's like, Hey, can you write this letter of recommendation? And she's like, I'm not a good person to write this for you. And my take on that is, you know, as Phil Richmond says honesty without empathy is cruelty. It's like, I don't want to be cruel to this person. I don't think there's anything wrong with saying, I think you're great.

I don't know that I can speak in specifics. At a level that's going to help you. I'm afraid, like, I, my fear is I will write something that's pretty generic. I think there's probably other people that you should, ask. And that's a little bit of an awkward conversation, but writing a crappy rec letter for them, or, saying things that you don't believe in, like that's, probably not a good play.

And so hopefully that doesn't happen a whole lot, but often you can come back with questions and say, “What aspects would you be looking for me to write to? And then is there anybody else that could maybe give more specific examples than I could or has worked with you more regularly than I have in those areas?”

Stuff like that can help you gracefully bow out of these if you're not the right person for them.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. I think the other thing for me that this, and this goes to both sides, both to someone who's looking for a letter of recommendation and someone who's considering writing them is don't. Like I, I actually am a big believer in not ruling out not ruling out asking someone who has seen you go through challenge because I'll tell you one of my favorite letters of recommendation that I ever wrote, and I think it was one of the best letters that I ever wrote was actually for an employee that I had to fire.

And I had fired them already by the time I wrote the letter of recommendation. But I was happy to write the letter of recommendation because they were going through some challenges that made them at the time, not a great employee. Like it just wasn't the right fit for them. And I kept in touch with them and I watched them buckle down and find an environment that was better for them.

And I watched them flourish in the same role. And I watched them grow and develop and continue to face that challenge of, I mean, if you've been fired, like it's hard, it's embarrassing, you know, and then continue to go after the thing that they were passionate about and that they had, a dream about, you know, and I had I had an another candidate who was going through a lot of personal change and the, in their own life and really had a hard time at work.

They weren't getting along with their coworkers, but watching them. And I'm going to talk a little bit more about that in a second, but I'm going to talk have the challenges with work and having gone through coaching them and stuff to your point about getting specific. Talk about being able to provide examples like you're sometimes John can be hard to get along with, right?

It's like, here's, an opportunity for me to give an example of where you've been a real human being. And you've recognized that you are a real human being and you've worked on changing it. And not only. Did you work on changing it? And as the reader, I'm just hoping that you figured it out. If you're able to say, here was a challenge that someone faced, here's how they, here's how they tackled it.

And here was the result. As a reader of that letter, that tells me that this person actually knows you and experienced growth and change and development in you. And that letter is going to stand out hands down. Against any of the other letters that are just the flowery, you know, this person is wonderful.

This person is great. You know, that, that is all, true. So I think on both sides, like I always tell people, think about what has shaped you and what has grown and developed you. And when I, when somebody asked me for a letter, I want to know, like, why are you doing, like, what are you applying for?

What are you doing? Right. Like, why, do you want this? And then also. What are you excited about? Because being able to speak to what, specifically what someone is excited about, like, why do they want to get into this field? For me to be able to talk to that point and then be able to say, I know that they want to become a veterinarian because, you know, growing up on their parents equine farm, you know, farm.

influence them from the age of two. And I've also seen the dedication that they have given to small animal medicine, because despite living on an equine farm, they worked in my small animal practice from the time that they were in high school. All the way through college, they came back on their breaks.

Like, I have the ability to share why the thing that is their dream or why the thing, what they're excited about for the opportunity, to share how that bridges to the specific experiences that I'm talking about. That's the kind of stuff that makes writing the letter so much more powerful. And so I, for me, the lesson that I have learned, to your point about you know, sometimes you're not the best person.

Like what if you don't want to write it? Even if I am a good person to write it for them, like I want to put it back on them and often do, which is I would be happy to consider writing this letter. I'd love to sit down and ask you some questions because You should never, if someone says, Oh yeah, I'd be happy to write a letter of recommendation for you.

And that's the end of the conversation, that letter is probably not going to be a great letter. It just isn't. And like, I mean, you and I have been, I've been working together for seven years now, but if I was going to go to vet school, or I was going to, you know, apply to get an MBA or something like that.

And I needed a letter of recommendation. I might ask you to write one, you're someone who's known, who knows me probably better than anybody else professionally, but I would also consider like, are you the right person to write this letter? Because what am I trying to achieve? And I would want to sit down and say, Hey, can you speak specifically to these things?

Because this matters. This is why our relationship makes you the best person to write this letter for me. And there should be some thought there, I think on both sides.

Dr. Andy Roark: Absolutely. I think it's great. Cool, man. That's all I got. I hope that's helpful. I hope that helps this person 

Stephanie Goss: So I think they, yeah,

Dr. Andy Roark: rockstar technician into vet

Stephanie Goss: I think the answer is gush, but gush with intention and, also have some balance, right? Like even our rock stars are human beings and both speak to the things that make them human and make them you know, make them the rock star, but also don't forget to like talk in a positive way about the challenges and how they overcome them.

Dr. Andy Roark: I don't know, it's funny, this has made me think about how I feel about, gushing, in that I've noticed this thing recently where there's, I think it's because there's so much noise in the world, but there's so much gushing of rock star, superstar, amazing, yeah, exactly, this play innovator. You know, all these sorts of big, you know, buzzy words.

It's all the words you see on LinkedIn. Just go to LinkedIn and scroll along and see what names people are calling each other. And like, that's the fluffy hand waving stuff. And I really think that we are coming into a time when less is more. 

Stephanie Goss: Right. 

Dr. Andy Roark: and speaking in specifics matters, because everybody wants to tell you about this 10x opportunity they have.

It's like, no, what the heck are we talking about? And then, can you speak less, speak in specifics, and communicate your point? And I really think that is the key today to cutting through the noise and actually getting heard. Anyway, that's it. That's all I got.

Stephanie Goss: All right. Well, have fun with the rest of the week, everybody. This was a short one, but we'll be back. We'll be back next week. Same time, same bat channel. 

Dr. Andy Roark: Take care, everybody. See you.

Stephanie Goss: And that's a wrap on another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. Thanks for joining us and spending your week with us. If you enjoyed this week's episode, head over to wherever you get your podcasts and leave us a review. It's the best way to let us know that you love listening. We'll see you next time.

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Feb 21 2024

How Do I Give Them Time Off AND Keep Everyone Happy?

This week on the podcast, veterinary practice management super nerd Stephanie Goss gets to dive into another mailbag but this time, with RVT and Manager, Tami Lind. This mailbag comes from an ER Practice Manager who loves how close the team is but is struggling to accommodate giving them time off together. Stephanie and Tami navigate the very difficult world of time off requests and what to do when you simply can't please everyone. Let's get into this…

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast · UVP – 274 – How Do I Give Them Time Off AND Keep Everyone Happy?

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ABOUT OUR GUEST

Tami Lind, RVT is currently ICU, ER and Immediate Care supervisor at Purdue University and has been working at the university for the last 13 years. She attended veterinary technology school at Purdue and graduated in 2010 with a bachelor’s degree in Veterinary technology. Two years later Tami assumed the ICU and ER supervisor role at Purdue University. She received her VTS in Emergency/Critical Care in 2016. Her passion is teaching veterinary nurses and veterinary students in preparing them for their career ahead.

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Episode Transcript

Stephanie Goss: Hey everybody. I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. This week on the podcast. I am very excited to introduce some of you who might not have met my guest cohost. I am thrilled to have my friend. She is a licensed veterinary technician. She is a VTS in emergency and critical care of the wonderful, the amazing Tami Lind with me on the podcast. Tami is the ICU ER and immediate care supervisor at Purdue University and we are together today for two reasons. 

One she's amazing. And I think you all should have the opportunity to get to know her a little bit. If you've never heard her speak and two, she is going to be presenting at our Practice Managers Summit. And when this episode is coming out, we are getting ready to close registration for PMS because it is happening so, so soon. 

And I want to make sure that if topics like the one that Tami and I talk about today are of interest. You. That you have an opportunity to register for the summit and join us. Live slash virtually, virtual live. Um, I don't know what we're calling that, but join us virtually from your couch, maybe in your pajamas and talk with other practice managers in the industry. 

We're coming together for our one-day virtual summit and it's going to be awesome. Tami is doing a workshop. On, um, shifting from being a member of the team, to being a leader and also being the boss and the stress, um, and challenges that come along with that unique road. It's one that I have walked as well. 

And so, anyways, I got a mail bag topic that just felt as an ER supervisor right up Tami's alley. And so, I am super pumped. To dive into this. So, without further ado, let's get into this. Shall we.

Stephanie Goss: And we are back. It's me, Stephanie Goss, and this week I am joined by a very special guest. Not my partner in crime, Dr. Andy Roark, but in fact, my friend Tami Lind. And Tami, it is a, so you are, you an RVT, LVT, CVT? What is your actual T's?

Tami Lind: RVT is what it is.

Stephanie Goss: You're an RVT? Yes. Yeah. And Tami is a veterinary technician manager. 

I'm going to let her talk about her professional stuff because the alphabet soup is something that I always screw up. But I, am super excited. Tami and I met each other through our dear friend, Megan Brashear. And it's really funny. I don't know if you know this, but Megan first moved from the West Coast to Indiana to work at Purdue.

She started telling me stories about her neighbor, Tami. And for years, I heard all these stories about what amazing next door neighbors Megan had, and it was a husband and wife, and they had German short hair pointers, which Megan and I immediately bonded as friends when we met because we both had Pointers.

And I was like, I would see pictures on social media and she would tell me stories about how her dog Elliot like just made your house her home and how you guys literally have a gate that connects your yard. So, Elliot can come over and hang with your dog whenever she wants. I was like this, like Megan won the next-door neighbor lotto.

And these people are so, so cool. I literally for years heard Tami stories. I had no idea that you actually were also in Vet Med and that you

Tami Lind: Stop. 

Stephanie Goss: I swear to God! I swear to God! And I remember going to VMX a couple of years ago and I remember it was either Eric Garcia or Phil Richmond, one of them was like, have you seen Tami?

And I was like, oh, did she like come down to go to Disney with Megan? Cause I know you're a Disney fan too. And I was like, oh, that's fun, but why would she be here at VMX? And I think it was Eric and he just looked at me and he's because she's speaking and she's moderating and I was like, what?

And I was like, no, Tami's Megan's neighbor. And he's like, yeah, she also works at Purdue with her. And I was like, no way. Like literally for years, I had no idea that you worked at

Tami Lind: How funny!

Stephanie Goss: Well. I was just like, Oh, she's just the cool next-door neighbor.

Tami Lind: Oh, yeah. I mean, you know, I called Megan up and was like, hey, we got this job. And she's like, okay, I'll take it. That's so great. 

Stephanie Goss: So, anyways, you and I now we met, and we immediately became fast friends because you're amazing, and we love we love to get into trouble, I feel like, together. We're, good partners in crime in that way but you have pointers, which makes me super happy. You are a crazy chicken mom.

You, so you guys. live in Indiana. You, Megan lives in the middle of cornfields, so I'm assuming you do too. And let's see if I get this right. So last count I knew about you had 27 chickens and two goats.

Tami Lind: Yes. Knock that to twenty-one chickens and four ducks.

Stephanie Goss: Okay.

Tami Lind: So, we lost two chickens.

Stephanie Goss: As you

Tami Lind: I know, stupid 

Stephanie Goss: Life's hard. Life's hard in Indiana.

Tami Lind: know. The, you know, living in a cornfield, having open air, hawks are like, ooh, this is a nummy chicken nugget. Like, so that's sometimes what happens. Sadly.

Stephanie Goss: But so, okay. So, the other fun facts that I find, like, fascinating and part of why I'm so excited to have you on the podcast. So, is that you, not only have you lived in Indiana your whole life, right? But you have been in working as a technician or working in vet med at Purdue the whole time that you have been in vet med.

Tami Lind: Well, yes and no. So, I have been in vet med since I was like 15, 16. And so like I did, you know, I started out as the bottom, did the kennel work and then I did boarding and then went into a room and then did the assisting thing. And then I didn't even know what a vet tech was. And because I, worked in a vet clinic, but they didn't have that text.

They had, you know, they, they just had support staff and the doctors were doing everything. Like they were doing, they're the ones drawing blood. They were the ones that was doing all the paperwork. They're the ones that was talking to the clients. So, I had no idea, you know, whatever tech was. And so, then I came down to Purdue for college cause I thought I wanted to be a vet.

And then my advisor was like, so what do you like about vet med? And I was like, I like the hands on, the nursing care, the talking to the clients and all that stuff. And they were like, you don't want to be a vet. And I was like, what? And they're like, no, you really just want to be a vet tech. And I was like, what?

And so then I explored that whole thing. So then went to school. Got my bachelor's degree in veterinary technology in 2010, but in 2009, like you can graduate with your associates and get your license. And so I went, once I, you know, once I hit the college realm, I was like, I need a job because I am a person that has to be busy all the time, no matter what I'm doing.

So, I put myself 110 percent into whatever I'm doing. So, I went to, I, after I got my associates, I did a I did a stint in general practice and did general practice with rehab and was also a student worker at Purdue. And then in 2010, I decided that GP just was not like I needed to like do something more.

I'm always someone that always wants to go like, okay, I hit this bar now, which bar can I hit next? And so, I was like, I could work at Purdue. And so, I went back and once I graduated with my bachelor's, I automatically went into Purdue with my bachelor's. So, my full-time vet tech career, yes, I have always worked at Purdue and has stayed.

Stephanie Goss: And, so you became an RVT and worked at, the hospital. And so, what, like, you know, when you're working in a veterinary, a teaching hospital, there's all kinds of departments and options for you to kind of explore as a team member, what where, kind of what was that journey like for you once you started at Purdue, where, did you end up?

Tami Lind: Yeah. So, when I started in the ICU in the ER department, obviously, because that's where I have stayed. And we had like five people working. I think it was, you know, for the 24 hours, we didn't have an emergency service at that point. We kind of just started it at night. And so, the people like we would Just take emergencies like in the ICU, you know, doing it old school and then so I was a tech for about a year because I was like, I'm gonna fix this like I'm gonna I'm gonna help this place.

I'm going to grow it. And you know, being a new grad going into a academic facility was different because you're where the student and now you're teaching your teaching on the floor. But you were just a student, and so that was a little weird, like, doing that transition, because I still knew the DVM class, and I still knew the tech class below me, but now I'm trying to teach them, and also, like, you know, you're kind of friends with them at the same time, because you're all the same age so that was a little, that was interesting, but it's fun, because you're also still learning with them, And so you could still teach the stuff that you have learned you know, along the way, but they're also teaching you how to teach.

And so that, that was a lot of fun for me. And so I was there. So, I was a technician, like an ICU ER technician for a year. And then my criticalist came to me and was like, hey, I think you would make a really great supervisor and I was like 23 years old and I was like heck yeah, cuz you know me. I'm gonna reach I hit a bar, let me just stop it

Stephanie Goss: Right. Huh. Yeah. This is something I haven't tried. Let's try this.

Tami Lind: this so, I became the supervisor of ICU and ER 24-hour facility when I was 23 years old and all of those people were, you know, my friends and all of that. And now, hey, I'm their supervisor. Like it was like a overnight type of situation. That was that we'll talk about that transition. I'm sure at some point, cause that was a mess.

You know, just trying to learn how to lead at the same time as. You know, navigating all the relationships, learning the job, yeah, it was yeah, it was a nightmare, but

Stephanie Goss: Well, and that's what you're, so you're we're doing this podcast for a, because I just want to talk to you. And we were saying, Oh, this is probably going to be a, and he's going to be like, watch the clock, Stephanie, because it's gonna be a long one. Cause we could talk all day. And you're going to be doing a workshop at our upcoming uncharted practice manager summit, because we were talking as a team about you know, Content ideas.

And I said, hey you know, one of the questions that I get the most is as a manager from younger managers who are just getting started is how do I navigate, especially if you grew up in the hospital or you've been there for a long time, how do you navigate making that transition from being friends?

And coworkers to being the boss, especially if like you, it happens really quickly, you know? And I think over I know over the last few years; I've gotten more and more of those questions especially as the landscape of. Veterinary medicine has changed, and we've seen a lot of corporate consolidation.

You know, if there isn't a practice manager in place when a practice is bought, that's usually part of the sale, right? And so, they're like, someone has to be willing to take this on. And so, they usually, like, unfortunately, the process usually is, let me look at the team. Who's the technician who's been here the longest? Hey you, Tami, you want to become the practice manager?

Tami Lind: you're like here you got it with no training.

Stephanie Goss: been here the, you've been here the longest. You know everybody, like,

Tami Lind: You have great technical skills You have great people skills. You might be an extrovert like here. Here you go I know I’ve been getting so many questions about that at my lectures and stuff because There's so many people that are going into manager like managerial positions that have not had any managerial training whatsoever and people just know that they get the job done And so then they think that they can lead at the same time, like getting the job done.

So yeah, that's, it's crazy.

Stephanie Goss: and I think you and I like, I certainly feel like you've been successful and I feel like I have had success in my career as well. And at the same time, like, a big part of what, why I love what I do now in focusing on education and focusing on training with hospitals and teams is because I don't want anybody to have to learn under fire the way that I did.

You know, like I, I just, I want, I don't want people to have to make the same mistakes that I did getting thrown into that deep end because unfortunately that is how a lot of the times we, hire and it's certainly not the smartest in any way, shape or form. And so, I think that's you and I have that in common, like that passion for teaching and education and really like trying to help change the profession in a, better way recognizing like, okay, if we can't change the behavior here, like if we can't make people realize this is a bad idea, like you can't just take someone who has really good technical skills, who's really smart and might be a really good people person and throw them into a position with No training, no support, no plan and, have them succeed without having a lot of failure along the way.

And so, I'm super excited for, your session at the practice manager summit and we'll drop the the info in the show notes for all of you guys. And. It was funny because we were talking about, you know, the, conference coming up. And I said, Hey, you want to come on the podcast with me because a you're fun and I love talking to you.

But also be, I was like, Hey, I got this mailbag question. And I told you last night is really funny. I have to admit to our podcast listeners a little bit of a dirty secret, which is I say this with all the kindness and love in my heart, and I am so appreciative of the crazy ass people like you, Tammy, and Megan, and all of our colleagues who run 24 7 ER or specialty practices because running a hospital like that is my absolute biggest nightmare as a practice manager.

Like I, that is the job. You could not pay me enough doll hairs in the entire world. You could not promise me enough trips to Disney to make me, want to take a position in that environment because it is like, the job is hard enough. I feel like in GP and it is I have a lot of empathy for, you and our colleagues because working in a 24 hour setting, working in E.R. certainly. And but specialty as well. There's so much more emotion on in the team in the clients. You've got, you know, high cost bills. You've got challenges. I mean, everybody has staffing challenges, but You have a unique challenge when you're talking about Monday through Sunday, 24 hours a day, you know.

And so, this, we got a mailbag question from an, in a 24 hour practice manager, and I was like, I need somebody, who knows this life, who's going to jump into this with me. So, you know, Tammy and I are going to run through it Andy and I always do. So, we got this mailbag question and it was from a practice manager who's running a large 24 hour facility.

They have both in ER service and specialty services. And they said, you know, staffing in the ER is a perpetual challenge. Like hiring is, hard for everybody and it's a pretty large facility. So they're talking about a hundred plus team members that they're kind of trying to keep staffed on a regular basis.

And so when you have a group that large, they said, you know, we have some very distinct friend groups within that. And I can imagine that, like if you're working overnights, you hang out with the overnight crew, you know, cause you're on the same schedule and you're who else is a vampire and sleeping during the day and up at night.

Right. Like that's, that made sense to me. And so their challenge lies in the fact that these groups are you know, not cause it's not causing problems. It's not causing drama. Like everybody gets along. And there are some of the groups that have started to request time off together because they're, you know, they're on the same schedules and they're trying to go to concerts together or travel together or go to conferences together.

And so, the manager was like, you know, I get it because I have friends within our team actually, and I would like to be able to do things. with them as well. And I'm really struggling because I know that I have a responsibility as the practice manager to the business and keeping the business running efficiently and effectively.

And I also want to keep the team happy and I don't want to lose team members because I need, I desperately need them and staffing and hiring is a problem. And they were like, I basically feel caught between a rock and a hard place because if I accommodate their requests for time off, then we often run short handed or we have problems on service by not having a few hands on deck and if I tell them no, then they get frustrated and it causes you know, I they throw people have threatened to quit There's drama often especially if you say yes to one person, but say no to another then they're both pissed Then you have to deal with you know, the last minute call outs and all that kind of stuff And so they were like, you know, how do I navigate the line between making sure that the team gets the time that they deserve, like they're wonderful, and I want them to take care of themselves, and they understand wanting them to be able to have time off with their friends, and also how do I walk that line between that and also staffing the hospital and doing my job as the manager to run it the business and run it really well. And they were like, I don't, I want to excel and I want to keep growing as a manager. And I know that being a manager means making hard decisions, but also I want to keep my friends.

Tami Lind: Yeah, right.

Stephanie Goss: And so I love their, signature, which was sincerely a balancing act practice manager

Tami Lind: I know it was really cute.

Stephanie Goss: I love it so much. I love it. And so I got this, email and I sent it to Tami and she was like, Oh my God, I know something about this. Mmhm,

Tami Lind: Cuz you know, it's so hard because you want like Purdue you know, academia gives so much PTO. So we have, you know, 22 sick days and 350 hours of vacation and all of this. And I want people to use it. And you know, but then the business side of me is like, if nobody shows up to work tomorrow because they all took it off, then they're not going to get a paycheck because we're going to have to shut down.

So, you know, we have to, But like I said, like she said, we have to walk this fine, line and I love my staff dearly and I tell them that I want them to take vacation. But when they first start day one, because you know, I, every single time day one, I give them a list of expectations. So all of my expectations, you know, it's too, it's, you know, policy things. It's, you know, I expect you to treat the students with respect. You know, I expect but then one of my expectations on there is, you know, you are required to give me 30 days notice of a vacation. And then I say in that. Then I have the policy that I have attached with it and I give that policy that is 30 days in advance I'm I only allow one person on the overnight to be gone one person during the day to be gone and then You know, they can figure that accordingly because the scheduling system that we have, they can see who's off and who's not, and then I have blocked days so that, you know, if two people have already called out, then I've blocked that day.

But then you still have the people that are going to come to you and be like, no, I'm just telling you I'm taking this day off. And so, as a manager, like you kind of get put in a rock and a hard place because you're like, no, I really want you to take vacation. I was like, but can you help me figure out like, how can we work together so that you could still have this day off?

And, you know, I feel like sometimes, people put all of this pressure on managers, like, especially in a 24 hour facility, like you, you're, you know, you're going to have to find coverage for me and I would love to do that. But I also, if I'm unable because of how short staffed we are, I also, as a human being cannot be there 24/7.

And, so I've done that before because, you know, cir circumstances where, you know, someone's. Grandmother died. And so they had to go to a funeral and then we didn't have anybody on the overnight. So yes, I have done, you know, major stints of, you know, long, long days. But as long as I, you know, show empathy and tell them, yeah, I want you to have this day off.

Let's figure out how you can have this day off. And so, a lot of the times I switch people because they're on a rotating schedule already. So, they work, you know, three months of three months of, you know, Monday through Thursday, and then they'll work three months of Thursday, Friday, Saturday, Sunday, or, and they work four tens or I make it so like, okay, is your life better?

If we do three thirteens, can we fit this into the schedule so that works? So I always work with their schedule. And them to see how we can get their most PTO days off. Even if we're short staffed, because that's when I want them to take PTO the most, is when we're short staffed, because I don't want them

Stephanie Goss: because that's when everybody's stressed

Tami Lind: right, everybody's stressed and burnt out, and so I'm like, you need to take some time off.

Like, please take some time off, so let's figure out how you can take some time off. And if it does mean, like, me moving around my days, then I move around my days too. So yeah, it’s a lot. 

Stephanie Goss: Yeah. Okay. So, so, so let's start because there's so many things in what you just shared to unpack. And a lot of them, a lot of them come in you know, like action steps in terms of like systems and processes to have in place. And I want to, I definitely want to work through those from a, I think from a headspace perspective, like starting at the very top is just recognizing that like, you're not alone, like it is being a, leader involves making hard decisions and I think that I, think that I knew that. It's like, people tell you being a parent is the hardest job in the world, and like, you say that you know, but until you actually, like, do the thing, you don't know how hard it is.

And I distinctly remember the first moment as a parent, where I was just sitting there, and I, it was like, holy shit, this is what they meant about it being so hard. And I think it's the same way about being a manager, where you know that it means making hard decisions, and you know that you're going to have to grow up a little bit, especially if you're becoming a manager as a young adult.

But I think until you actually do it, and you have to be the one to say no to somebody's time off, or to do the hard thing, like, I think you don't actually know how hard that really is. And then for me like you, I I worked my way up through the team. And so I was friends with my team and it made it doubly hard to look at people that you were friends with first and make those hard decisions and deal with the emotions and recognizing that they did.

they understood that you were in a hard position. But also they're mad at you because they expected you to see their side because you're friends, right? Like, that's what friendship is about, supporting each other and, understanding. And so I think that there is this, like, uns for me there was this unspoken thing from some of my friends of like, well, I just kind of figured that you would see it my way.

And it's like, I do see it your way and I understand. And also my job is to balance

Tami Lind: Yeah. 

Stephanie Goss: for the, business. And so I think I think that's the hard part is and the important part to remember is like, it is hard. And also you're not alone because everybody who is a manager, I think goes through this in some way, shape or form of being alone and feeling alone at the top because you're having to make those hard decisions.

Tami Lind: Yeah. And I made the mistake when I first, I mean, mistakes are how I learned. You know how to became how to become a manager and the first like month of me being a manager because there was it was a really toxic environment when I first came in, like, you know, everybody was talking bad about people, the overnight people were falling asleep, like in the middle of the ICU.

And so, you know, we, I was like, Okay, how can we figure out how can we all get together and figure out how how to, you know, get along basically because nobody was getting along. And so we decided to go to Nine Irish Brothers, which is a bar in town, like to have dinner. And dinner turned into every like the whole staff drinking, which then I was the only one that wasn't drinking because I was like, this is going to, this is going to be real bad.

And so then, We ended up, they ended up like basically just telling me everything that I needed to fix, like it was, you know, seven o'clock on a Friday night.

Stephanie Goss: Just a vent session.

Tami Lind: Yeah. And it was just a vent session. And so here I am this young 23 year old technician, new manager had a napkin on in front of me and was writing all of this stuff down.

And then I went home and I cried because I looked at my husband and was like. I don't know if I can do this. Look at all the stuff that I need to fix. And he, like, looked at me and was like, “You really are going to base your whole thing on a bar napkin?” Like, And I was like, “Oh, yeah, I guess, I guess you're right.”

Stephanie Goss: for perspective, right?

Tami Lind: But, you know, it's like little things like that, that you just, like, have to take a step back and be like, okay. What is the solution? Like, but you have to, you can't go to a bar and get those that get that stuff done. Those are done in one-on-one sessions of like writing stuff down and being like, okay, what is your solution?

Like, what do you want to happen from this? Because venting sessions and solution sessions I think are totally two totally different things because I, you know, as a young manager, every time somebody vented to me, I thought I needed to. Fix it because I was a people pleaser and I wanted everybody to be happy.

And so now I'm a definite, like if somebody comes and talks to me, I am like, is this, do you need me to do something about this? Like if they sit there and they, you know, obviously unload,

Stephanie Goss: Or am I just listening?

Tami Lind: Do you need me to listen or do you need me to fix? And a lot of, 90 percent of the time, it's just, I need you to listen.

Okay. But you know, a lot of the times it's like, okay, I need you to, sometimes it's, I need you to fix this. Okay. Then what is your solution to this problem and how can we both work together to fix it? Because I'm not supposed to be a fixer, even though my boss, who is Megan Brashear, tells me all the time that I can't fix everything.

Stephanie Goss: It's true.

Tami Lind: Still, part of me wants to fix everything. 

Stephanie Goss: cause you're the, you don't lose the people pleasing. Like that is, that's part of who you are.

Tami Lind: You can't control everything.

Stephanie Goss: You cannot, especially, as, a manager. Okay. So, like first just recognizing that you're not alone. And I would say for, me learning how to solve problems like this got immeasurably Easier and if nothing else better because I had other people who understood when I found a community of managers.

And so for me, that was my local it's funny. I, started in a mom and pop GP it was a husband and wife team and they had an office manager who. Had kids that had gone to school with me and who was you know, just one of the kindest people ever. And she had this group of it was mostly the wives of the veterinarians who owned all the other local practices.

And technically they were the managers, but they, you know, it was like as they were the wives and she would go to lunch. And before I came on board, it was a lot of you know, talking about the kids and grandkids and that kind of stuff. And then when they started bringing me along in the practice, it was like, hey, I want to hear how you have dealt with these kind of challenges because I don't know what I don't know. And that gave me I'm still friends with some of those women today. Some of the best mentorship that I've ever had in terms of facing challenges in the practice, but finding that community of peers, even if they don't look like yourselves, and that was hard for me because I'm like, I'm this 20 something kid who's going to lunch with all these like 60 year old women 50 year old women, and it didn't, necessarily feel like it was a click at that, in that sense, but what I realized afterwards is that I wasn't trying to find friends.

Like, I had friends on the team. I wasn't trying to find friends. I was trying to find a community of people who were also doing my job and understood the challenges that came along with it. 

Tami Lind: so yeah, I had to find people outside cause we have managers like within the university. So like, you know, surgery manager and we had an internal medicine manager and those guys were so helpful with like the, you know, Day to day stuff. So like, you know, Hey, this person has a bereavement question.

Like, what do I ask for that? But it was the emergency stuff that they didn't really know how to handle.

Stephanie Goss: Understand, yeah.

Tami Lind: And so, I reached out, I actually reached out to Megan a few times. I reached out to even somebody that worked down in Indianapolis. You know, just, I would find Facebook groups and I, would go on there and be like, hi, I'm new.

What do I do about this? Like I had somebody, I had one of my techs call me every name in the book, like, every swear word you can ever think of. And my, like my supervisory team that was in the building was just like, Oh, that's not good, but you can't really do anything about it. And I was like, I can't. And they're like, no, I was like okay.

So, then I go to like the Facebook group and I'm like. I just got called all of these things, like, I mean, I'm guessing she's real mad about something. So, can we like, unpack this? And how do I move on from,

Stephanie Goss: What do I even do with this?

Tami Lind: I do with this? Because, you know, all the managers that I was working with was just meh, you know?

It happens sometimes, and I was like, what?

Stephanie Goss: no.

Tami Lind: yeah, so you gotta figure out which people you blend with, too. Because you know, certain managers will do things totally differently and it works for them, but it may not work for you.

Stephanie Goss: I love that. I think that's one of the things that I love the most about getting involved in in peer groups and in organized work, organized medicine from the management side is getting to hear the different perspective. And I know like I always, that's like I said, I, you couldn't pay me enough money to run a 24-hour practice, but I always appreciated the perspective because we would have these meetings locally and it started with just a small group of managers.

And as a lot of those wives and as their husbands kind of retired. And the kind of the new guard came in along with me and it was a lot of younger people. The group expanded and I remember hearing stories from the manager of the big 24-hour specialty ER practice and I was just like, my life seems so simple.

Tami Lind: like, oh my god, and you know, I don't want people to think either, like that, you know, I've been doing this job for 13 years, but I haven't had bad days. Like, burnout is real when you supervise a, you know, 24-hour because you, again, if you're a people pleaser and you feel like you need to fix everything, like, you cannot fix a 24 hour facility, you know, period.

Like, so you have to work with what you're given and, you know, sometimes, you know, you just have to roll with the punches and realize that you can't fix everything. And so that's really hard.

Stephanie Goss: Yeah, I think, and I think, I'm so glad you said that because I think that's really the last piece from a headspace perspective is that generally there are a lot of people in veterinary medicine who are people pleasers, but also in a management role, especially in the, to, to our writer whose like, you know, I'm friends with people and I care about them and I want to take care of them and it's really easy to put Everybody else's needs first and you were talking earlier about, you know, filling in when it's needed and I think especially as a young manager, the line between when it was needed and when I was influenced to do it or chose to do it was very blurred and there was lots of times where I probably didn't have to do it, but I, chose to do it anyways and fill in on the floor and there was no quicker path for me to burn out than trying to do my job, put everybody else's needs first, fill in on the floor, and before I knew it, I was, you know, I was working you know, 60, 70 hours a week and I was exhausted and I wasn't, able to do my job, my regular job. Well, I also wasn't good filling in from a relief perspective because I was tired and I was cranky and I wasn't giving it the, care and attention that it needed either. And you know, there, I, there are several periods in my career where I went through that.

And it's so funny because everybody's like, you know, I, it's weird having this podcast and doing the job that I do with Andy because I meet people at conferences and they're like, you know, I listened to you on the podcast and you know, you're, you've got a great, things to say.

And like, you just seem like the kind of manager that I would want. And I was like, I appreciate that. And also, please don't think that I have my shit together because I do not. and there, I know that I have been a horrible manager to work for at times. I also know that I have been a phenomenal manager to, to work for.

And it's, about finding that, that balance. But I think that was that was a thing for me is that. you know, people will be like, Oh, no, At my last practice, I got into that cycle where I was trying to do everything for everybody. And and I was burnt, I burnt myself out and I burnt my team out along the way.

And I did nobody any good. So I think the last piece of headspace you hit square on the head, which is like, you have to come to a place of acceptance with the fact that you cannot make everyone happy and being a leader is about making the hard decisions and in making those hard decisions, you are going to make people unhappy, including yourself sometimes, and so I think like Working on finding that acceptance and I will say like the best tool for me there besides finding a peer group that I could actually work through and to your point, hear how they do it and kind of figure out what my style was and maybe do I want to change things?

Do I want to adapt what I'm doing? Do I want to keep doing more of the same? The best thing for me was going to therapy and getting started on a regular, a regular talk therapy space where I could have a neutral third party to just kind of word vomit on. Then it's, for me, it's like, the satisfaction in, like, thinking about therapy is like, I'm shaking a box of puzzle pieces, and then I just throw it all out on the table.

And then I just move all the pieces around. And eventually it becomes clear, and it becomes a puzzle. And you know, but it takes that, like, someone else's table, you know, someone who has no, it's not my friends, it's not my partner, it's not my, you know, parents, because people who love us and care about us are going to, they are also people pleasers, they don't want to see us hurt.

And so, it's rare to have people who will tell you the straight up truth. And if you have those friends, like, please hold them close because they are amazing and wonderful people. And it's really easy to be like, no, of course not. you're wonderful. Even if I'm, as I'm listening to you say something, I'm like, Oh, that was a dick move, dude. Like, you know, but because that's what friends, that's what friends do. And so, I think being able to have that neutral person who you can talk things out with is really, real helpful because things will get hard. It will, be hard. It will be rough. And being able to take care of myself was really, important from a, burnout perspective, for sure.

Tami Lind: Yeah. And I think, you know, me doing this for 13 years, I’ve gone in that downward spiral of, I need to fix everything and I need to be here for everybody. And I need to, you know, work seven days a week and I need to go into work and I need to do this. and sometimes, you know, you have to catch yourself like realizing that this is happening again, because like right now, I'm, you know, down a bunch of technicians because it's a specialty hospital, ER, you know, you go through the cycle and, you know, we are hiring, we actually are hiring a lot of people, which is amazing, but I, right now, am in this cycle of I have to be there all the time, I have to do this, like, I feel bad, they need PTO, I'm gonna sacrifice myself, I'm gonna do this, and, but I'm realizing that I am not a good, like, I need to set an example for them, and if I can't be a good manager, to them because I'm working all these hours and doing all these things and you know, trying to be all to everybody.

And if I burn out, then they're also going to see that burnout, which then nobody, that doesn't benefit anybody either. So, you know, you just have to dig yourself out of the hole. And I've been in the hole a few times because I'm a people pleaser and that's what I do. And so, I just, you know, you just got to pick yourself up and dig yourself out and go to therapy and talk to people and you know, try and figure out where your boundaries are to, you know, be like, Yeah, I am a manager of a 24-hour facility.

It is really hard. Now let's figure out how you can also protect yourself as well as protect your team. So yeah,

Stephanie Goss: Okay. So I love that. Let's take a quick break. And then you already started unpacking some of the action steps that I want to talk about. So let's take a quick break and then we'll jump in with some action steps for our writer because I think that piece is, the hard piece.

Tami Lind: yeah, sounds good.

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That's number one. And number two is that everybody on the team is needed and needs to have some basic leadership, professional, personal development skills, and business development skills in order to help the practice and the team run as efficient, effective, and rockstar-ish as they can. And so, um, our team sat down and said, what would that look like?

What would be some of those things that we would want every member of the team to have access to in terms of learnings? And after the last years of doing content for Uncharted, Andy and I pulled together the best of hits in terms of those foundational level content and workshop questions and discussion questions, and we put it together in one awesome, if I do say so myself, awesome, awesome package.

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Stephanie Goss: Okay. So, let's, go back to where you started at the beginning because you gave us so much to unpack in terms of like, how do you actually approach problem solving this? And I think. The number one thing that you said that is a starting place for me is you have to have a plan before you need the plan.

And that's one of those things that as a manager, like hindsight is 20/20. And so if you're listening to this and you're like, great, but Stephanie, but I don't have a plan and I'm in the middle of this shit show, like how do I fix it? It's like recognizing if you're not there yet, make a plan. And if you are there, you know, like this is, these are the things that you kind of have to think about as you grow in your management journey.

And so, you were talking about kind of the, some of the processes and policies. That you implemented so that there was some equity and you know, fairness is such a subjective word for people, but that there is some equality across the board. And I think you know, you said when you have someone new who comes on, that you sit down with them at the very beginning and you talk about your expectations, including the expectations around policies. And I think as a manager, like, that is so, so important is making sure that the team understands policy. They understand what your expectation is as well.

And so, I think if you're a manager who doesn't, have policies around time off in to you mentioned the length of time ahead that they have to request time off, which is really important and helps you stay out of those holes like they can't come to you the week before

Tami Lind: Right.

Stephanie Goss: and be like, Hey, I need the time off.

And you also have to recognize that they will, because shit will come up. Someone will be like, my brother decided to get married next Friday and I need the day off, or I won tickets to a concert and I'm going to go whether you say yes or not. Like those things will happen. And so, you need to be prepared for them.

And it doesn't mean that you need to be the solution, but you need to be able to tell them what the solution is. And I love how you called that out in saying. Okay, who's going to cover for you? You know, like that. And that's one of those things that we forget because we were people pleasers and we want to be like, sure, I'll cover your shift for you.

No problem.

Tami Lind: Right. Yeah. And you know, it's hard because they're just like, well, I don't have anybody else to cover. And I was like, okay, so let's look at this together. Let's look at the schedule together. Can we ask this person to go, you know, to come in two hours later so that it covers this gap? I was like, you can have the day off as long as.

This gap is covered. So even if it's like two hours, like, all right, let's cover this two hours and I, you know, I will periodically, like, if it's like, you know, something out of the blue, like, oh, hey, my brother's getting married, you know, on a whim you know, and there is that two hour gap, then as a manager, I'm like, sure I can cover two hours.

Like, that's not that big of a deal. But if I've already worked like a 20 hour day, I'm like, okay. Or if I already know that it's going to be a long day and, you know, I'm like, okay, like, let's work together to try and figure out who is going to work this shift. And so a lot of the times they totally respect that.

I mean, 99 percent of the time they're just like, yeah, I get that. Like there's patients to take care of, you know, there's the rest of the team because, you know, a lot of the times I'm like, you know, your team members will have. Stuff like this come up to so let's how can we all work together to try and figure out how we can get this person off because you know, everybody on my team respects everybody else on the team.

I have a really great team right now. And so they just all are like, Alright, yeah, like you want to go you want you need this day off. Let's figure out how we can get you this day off. So it's a team effort, not just the manager has to fix it.

Stephanie Goss: Well, and I think you mentioned something there and something in the beginning when we were talking about it, that was really key for me as a manager in terms of figuring out how to have that equity, which was rotations. And so like, to your point, if everybody cares about each other and you're all there and you do have that team, that sense of team. It's really easy to be like, we're just going to give and take, like, I'm going to give here so that I can take, leader in it and it benefits everybody. And I think one of the things that changed things for me was recognizing when I first started, I worked in a smaller clinic and we had a smaller team and we grew pretty exponentially while I was there. And when you have like four people, you can probably have a set schedule that doesn't change. If you're in a GP and you have, or one doctor practice, and you've got like four team members, okay, you can cover Monday through Friday, you know, maybe depending on what hours you're open and everybody can have the same schedule and it doesn't change.

And if somebody's off, then you just, or you, work short or whatever. When you get to be a bigger team, giving people the set schedule becomes harder and harder. And so the only way that I ever found to deal with it and to, especially like from a GP perspective, to deal with the dreaded, who's going to work Saturdays if you're open Saturdays, or who's going to work the evening shifts if you're open.

And so I think that while it's nice, if people volunteer, and I imagine you working in 24 hour, like, they're, I don't understand these people, because I'm not that way, but there are people who want to work overnights, like, that's their, they are night people, and they want to be vampires, and that's their jam.

There are also people who are like, I would rather work a swing shift, because it fits for my, schedule or my kids, you know, school schedule or whatever. And I think if you can accommodate people's preferences, that is wonderful. And the only way that I ever found to create equity was to have a rotation.

And no matter whether people loved their schedule or not, everyone had to go through the rotation. Because otherwise you get into the scenario when you have a big team where someone is always someone is always pissed off or someone is always pissed off at other people because there's an exception to the rule.

And so, I think from a manager perspective, like, knowing what the rules are and sticking to your guns and not making those exceptions will keep you out of hot water. And for me, figuring out the rotation, I loved your idea of, like, doing it in three months. Chunks and that was kind of how I wound up doing it with a bigger team as well is like let's look at the next three months and I'm going to put you on a set of a schedule as I can over the three month period and then we're going to switch it up because it never, let's be real, nothing in vet med stays the same.

for big practices for longer than a quarter or two. Like, it just doesn't.

Tami Lind: Right. And, you know, everybody has their different personalities too. So like, you know, we have the rotation so that, you know, three months, they're not working weekends, three months, they are working weekends or three months, they're working nights and then three months, we put them on days and that, you know, obviously helps with the turnover rate too, because people see a light at the end of the tunnel.

And we're not going to put a brand new, you know, technician that had just graduated on weekend overnights by herself. 

Stephanie Goss: Right. 

Tami Lind: you know, we have that rotation so that people can experience all the stuff. But then you know, you want to also give them the flexibility of. Not working weekends and not, you know, dabbling in, you know, the well, this person has kids, you know, so it's easier for them to be on swings.

All right, let's keep them on swings. But then we still rotate them between weekends and days so that it's, you know, easy and here you go. But you're always going to have that turnover. And so how do you fix that turnover because in ER, you know, you, our schedules could change every month sometimes depending on the people that decide to leave.

And so, yeah, like you said before, you just have to be prepared for that scenario, but you can never fully be prepared for those types of scenarios,

Stephanie Goss: No. And I think that's the last piece for me that is really big. And you kind of talked about it in the beginning as well, which is, okay, you have to have a plan, a backup plan. And I would say you also probably have to have a backup for your backup. And Andy and I have talked about this on the podcast before, I think, but always like one of the things that I think we do where we do a disservice to our teams is when we don't plan for the time off that we want them to take.

And so most of us are like, yes, we want to give our team PTO and to your point, like you guys have more in academia than you do in probably a private practice GP, right? But one of the first lessons for me in terms of running a business was to sit down and look at my team. And say, how much time does everybody have off and then figure out if everybody takes all the time off that they get, how much holes do I have?

And the reality was on a team my size, I had a full-time position, like if ever, if no, let's, you know, forget the people taking time off at the same time, because it always winds up happening. But. Like if I put them back-to-back throughout the year, it was a whole year's worth of time off for my size team.

And so I was like, Oh, so my problem is actually, I need to figure out how to hire an extra person to cover all that time off because I do not, it is not an acceptable solution to work short staffed constantly. Like when there's an emergency, it makes sense. Everybody pitches in, but when it's constant, that's when the team mutinies.

And so I think figuring out what your. Plan is for the coverage on a regular basis, which I also recognize is a little bit easier said than done cause hiring is hard. But like that should be something that we all strive towards as managers. And then the other piece of it is having a plan, a backup plan for that backup plan.

Because the reality is your relief person won't be available, someone will get pregnant when somebody already has a two-week European vacation scheduled like that is just. reality. And so, figuring out to your point, what the boundaries are and how you approach that as a manager so that you can maintain fairness and equity.

And I love your approach of, I'm not going to solve this problem for you. I will help you solve this problem. And I'm going to do that by sitting here and teaching you how to solve the problem. Because the next time I'm going to expect you to be able to solve it yourself because I'm going to help you and I'm going to show you, and I want you to learn because the expectation is, that.

You now know what my expectation is. And next time I want you to be able to just do it without having to ask me. You know, because if you come to me and you're like, Hey, I have this thing, I won concert tickets and I'm going to go to Seattle for two days and party my face off. I, and if you come to me and you're like, yeah, and I already talked to so and they're going to cover for me, I'm going to say, great, have fun!

Tami Lind: You have the best time!

Stephanie Goss: Right. But if it's a lot harder to have that, excitement and empathy and energy when somebody is like, yeah, I'm going to take time off and I don't really care how it gets covered, but I don't know what to do and I'm not going to deal with it. that is, the struggle bus. And that's where it takes the every bit of self-control as a manager to be

Tami Lind: Oh, yeah.

Stephanie Goss: Let's talk about this.

Tami Lind: Yeah. And then you see, you know, you see this stuff on social media about how my manager didn't approve my time off. And then, you know, everybody bashes the manager. So sometimes social media could not be great for a manager. But I feel like that's a whole nother podcast for a different day.

Stephanie Goss: I would totally agree with that actually. okay. So to, to summarize, cause we oh man, we jammed a lot into this episode. So, having, so from an action set perspective, you talked a lot about being transparent and being clear communicator and doing that right up front, which I love when you start team members, sitting down and laying out your expectations being open and honest with them about, Oh, Hey, look, this is gonna come up and when it does come up, I want, I just want you to understand, I, my, I am, I want to make everybody happy.

I want to support you guys. I want you to have time off. And also I have to keep the business running. And so here's the best way that I know how to do that, and I need your help to accomplish it. And so here's the policies and protocols and procedures, having a plan before we have to use it. Yes,

Tami Lind: It’s like emergency and triaging. Like, you know, you have to anticipate the doctor's needs. You have to anticipate what's going to happen with your patient. You just have to anticipate what's

going to 

Stephanie Goss: Be a mind reader.

Tami Lind: It's fine.

Stephanie Goss: But how do you do that? You figure out how to have some fair policies that have equity built into them so that everybody is treated the same and you kind of, the rules, and then you have to really apply the rules. to everybody the same way and recognize that if you start making exceptions to the rule, always comes back to bite you in the ass.

Always. Even if you're doing it for the best of intentions, it always bites you in the end. So having fair policies figuring out some sort of planning and rotation so that everybody on the team shares in those challenges, both in covering time off, working the weekends, working nights, like, you know, trying to accommodate everybody's preferences and also making it very clear that was for me, I was like you, where I sat down and I'm like, okay, before even at the interview and then part of their.

Employment offer was that they understood that they, if we were open Saturdays, that they understood that they would be required to be part of the Saturday rotation as an, as part of their employment. So, then nobody could ever come back because I learned the hard way. Nobody could ever come back and say, Oh, you never told me that I had to work Saturdays.

Tami Lind: I did. Yes, I did. 

Stephanie Goss: Then having, a plan, a backup plan, figuring out how you're going to like cover that stuff on a regular basis. So for you having a large team and also having more time off as part of learning the business. Part of that should be an analysis of how much time off do I have? What does my coverage have to be like?

And do I have appropriate staffing levels so that I can sustain that time off? And I truly can mean it when I tell people I need you to take your time off because there's already a plan in place for how I'm going to cover. That and then having a backup plan for that plan because it always 

Tami Lind: know, it's, yeah, it gets blown up.

Stephanie Goss: Everybody gets COVID at the same

Tami Lind: Right,

exactly. 

Stephanie Goss: in the water and everybody gets

Tami Lind: Never, yeah, I know.

Stephanie Goss: just, that's how it works, right?

Tami Lind: Yeah.

Stephanie Goss: okay. Tammy, this has truly been a pleasure. It has been so much fun. If you love Tammy, which you, Absolutely should. You should come check her out at the practice manager summit at I think today the day that this podcast comes out is your last chance to register.

So don't miss out. You should you should sign up for the thing today. And then if you if you are a technician if you are a manager and you're out and about at conferences Tammy does a lot of a lot of presenting as well. Well, and she's just super fun. And so, you should find her and you should get to know her and the crazy barnyard flock that is her life.

Tami Lind: Yes, tell me about it.

Stephanie Goss: Cause then they can, they too can send you chicken memes all day long.

Tami Lind: and I feel like that's, you know, part of a manager to like meet other managers and then you get to learn how to take care of yourselves. Like you have like this little group that you can all take care of each other because, you know, you need a little support group like we said before.

Stephanie Goss: This was so much fun. Thank you for being here. Take care everybody and have a fantastic rest of the week

Tami Lind: Bye everyone, thank you!

Written by Maria Pirita · Categorized: Blog, Podcast · Tagged: communication, culture, management, Vet Tech

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