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Mar 16 2022

The Struggle of Modernizing an Older Veterinary Practice

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast Episode `69 - the struggle of modernizing an older practice

In This Episode of the Uncharted Podcast…

This week on the podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie Goss are talking through a question that came in through the mailbag from a friend and colleague of theirs. This veterinarian is thrilled to have purchased their own veterinary practice. They are making a shift from managing multiple locations with multiple DVMs at each practice into a much smaller, rural, one doctor practice and they are facing some challenges. The medicine, the facilities, and the technology have all been in place for quite a while and our DVM friend has some big plans to kick it up a notch and shift things into the next gear. They are struggling with how to tackle the big changes that lie ahead. Let’s get into this…

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Stephanie Goss:

Hey everybody, I am Stephanie Goss. And this is another episode of The Uncharted podcast. This week on the podcast, Andy and I are tackling an email that came to us through the mailbag. It's actually from a friend and colleague of ours, who we met when they were managing several site locations for practice and multi-doctor locations, practicing high standard of care, current modern medicine, and our friend has since left that practice and purchased their own practice, which is super exciting. They purchased a practice that is in a rural location from a veterinarian who had been there 40 plus years and was retiring. So the practice has a lot of potential. There is a different style of medicine, style of client service and communication, then our friend wants to ultimately practice. They are wondering heading into this, what suggestions we have to help with friends who might be in the situation, and they are not alone, because this is a pretty common occurrence. They are really struggling with some of the challenges through the transition phase, because we all know, change is hard. So let's get into this.

Stephanie Goss:

And now, the Uncharted Podcast!

Dr. Andy Roark:

We are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie, the [inaudible 00:01:30] they are a changing Goss.

Stephanie Goss:

How's it going, Andy?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Man, it's good enough. It's good. It's crazy. But…

Stephanie Goss:

It is crazy.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The Spring has sprung and I get to slip out and work in my yard. The sun's going down a little bit later, I get to… where it's not dark when I get home from the clinic right now, I mean things are good, in a lot of ways. In the ways that matter, they're good. Looking forward to seeing your smiling face. It will be pastime when this episode comes out, but we're heading to western vet conference together.

Stephanie Goss:

Heck yeah, I'm super excited. I am excited to see you, I am excited to see all of our friends who we see when we are on the road at conference life and I'm just excited to meet new friends. I have to say, you and I went to Orlando at the beginning of the year for BMX, and it really filled my cup for a few weeks afterwards, just having seen everybody in the excitement and the get togethers, so I am excited. I'm having a little bit of anxiety because the last time you and I were in Vegas, It was right before the world shut down. And I actually got COVID when we were there and took a while didn't know it because they were only testing at that point for people who had been in China and had just come back and refused to test until they did an antibody test. Then sure enough, and I've never been that sick in my life. So I am a little nervous about going back to such a germy place.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, you had COVID before COVID was cool. That's for sure.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes. It was…

Dr. Andy Roark:

People in China and Stephanie Goss had COVID at the same time.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, we were getting ready to leave and I remember very clearly having given you…

Dr. Andy Roark:

Big hug.

Stephanie Goss:

Big hugs, and then I got on a plane and within the two hour plane ride back to Washington, I spiked up to 104 fever and it was awful. So I'm a little nervous about going back to Vegas, but I am excited.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Remember that scene in The Matrix where the guy shoots a bunch at Keanu Reeves and he moves, with the bullet moving he's a blur because he's dodging bullets. That was me and Stephanie Goss's virus was…

Stephanie Goss:

Germs. Germy hugs.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Germs were flying at me. I was bending backwards as they went past. I dodged those bullets and made it home safely. So that was good.

Stephanie Goss:

There'll be lots of hand sanitizer this time.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Just two pump bottles in holsters, on your hip. So you can just…

Stephanie Goss:

Here would you like some?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Whip them out, you can draw. We've got an Uncharted meetup at Libertine Social on Sunday night, which is awesome. So we're going to connect amazing people to each other and make sure that they get to network and get to share ideas and get to get fired up and get to make new friends. So it's what we do with Uncharted.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, so it's going to be good. I'm excited and like you, it's busy around here, spring is happening, kids sports have started in full effect and it is busy man, but I'm excited and we've got a great podcast topic today. I'm actually excited about this. We got an email from a colleague that you and I have worked with before. It was really nice to hear an update on what they're up to and where they're at. They had the opportunity to purchase a practice that is in a rural location. They bought the practice, it was a small rural practice, older veterinarian, had been there for 40 plus years at the practice. The guy who owned it, and was like, “I'm going to retire and die in my practice.” kind of thing.

Stephanie Goss:

So our friend wrote in and said, “I knew this going into it, but now I'm struggling, because I want to change the kind of medicine that we're practicing and move things into a modern era and I'm really struggling, because there seems to be this pervasive thinking that just because we are in a rural locale, that clients won't spend any money on their pets.” Our colleague said, “I feel like this is coming from the prior practice owner who is still here, has stayed on to hand things off and transition out.” Our friend was saying, “I am struggling with the lack of modern technologies, modern medicine. This is not who I have been as a doctor since I've been out of school, and I'm really struggling.”

Stephanie Goss:

So they were asking “What do you guys have suggestion-wise, or thought-wise, that might help me get in a good frame of mind, but also help others in my same shoes?” Because this is a common occurrence, right? When you make a transition in practice and you're shifting, whether it's the culture in the practice or the type of medicine, and so I thought this would be a great one to talk through.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, no, I like this a lot and we see this a lot. There's… fixer-uppers are a thing. Or, we have a vet, and they're at the end of their career, and they have fallen into a pattern of how they practice and what their practices going to be and now they're handing off to the next generation. Next-generation says that this practice has established clientele, they have a staff, they have goodwill, they have the blue sky as we say, in the business world, meaning they have a reputation and people who come in and see them, then the practice has value. For a lot of independent veterinarians who want to buy a practice, this is the practice that's available. More modern practices, larger practices have largely caught the attention of maybe some of the corporate groups, and it's hard to compete with those guys on what they can pay. So stuff like this, that's kind of a rule or, that hasn't been updated or modernized. Those are the things that individual vets are finding available that they can purchase, and they can afford, so this is not at all uncommon.

Dr. Andy Roark:

This is in a way… This is a turnaround, right? This is looking at a business that is set in its way and say that we need to make some significant changes here. It is a fun challenge, and you need to think of it that way. That's the first part of headspace. This is a challenge, you need to look at this like a fixer-upper house, that you're like, “Yeah, I'm going to buy this thing. It has great potential, and I'm going to enjoy working on it.” Because I will tell you if you buy a fixer-upper house, and you do not enjoy the process of actually fixing it up, it's probably not going to be a super fun experience, it's not. So that's the very first part is, get yourself into a fixer-upper mindset, right? Think about what's possible, feel excited about where you can go, and then enjoy the process of updating what you've got and making it into what you want it to be.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Because if you don't want to go through that process, this might have been a bad play. But it can be really fun and it can be really rewarding. Honestly, it can be one of the things in your life that you look back and you're wildly proud of. It can also be financially very lucrative when you take something that is lived in 20 or 30 years in the past, and you bring it up to modern standards, and you grow it and you run it that way. It becomes a really valuable business you never could have afforded if you'd bought it the way that it is after you've run it for five or ten years.

Stephanie Goss:

Right. Yeah, I love that you made that connection, and the example of having a fixer upper mindset in the house makes total sense to me that analogy because, I think what you just said is so key and why practices like this are so appealing to so many people and why this is so common is that ability to create your own clean slate, and make it what you want, and put your stamp on it and put your mark on it. It comes with a significant period of change. We know that change is hard and we know that change is something that all humans struggle with and the veterinary industry seems to struggle much harder.

Dr. Andy Roark:

This is extra hard. It's like if you bought a fixer upper house, and then there were people living in your house, and you wanted to keep them there as you fixed it up. You're like, “We have to keep the squatters happy.” That's the extra challenge beyond just the fixer upper house where you're like, it's just me, and I get to do exactly what I want when I want.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

In this scenario, we also have to try to keep some other people on board. So anyway, it does have a special challenge but, you have to look at it as an interesting challenge that you want to do. And boy, you've got it… You have to decide that you're going to enjoy the journey. Because if you say, “I can't afford the practice I want. So I'm going to buy this other practice that's wildly different. Then I'll just turn it into the practice that I want, and then I'll be happy when it's what I want it to be.” And I go, “Oh, that's a long path that you're going to be frustrated before you get there.” But if you just say, “I'm going to enjoy the process of making this into what I want to be in going on this journey.” I think this can be a really wonderful thing. That works out, and that people can take a lot of enjoyment and going through the process. But first of all headspace, this is a challenge.

Dr. Andy Roark:

If you buy a fixer upper house, and then walk into that house, and you're immediately overwhelmed by the plumbing, and the electrical problems, and the furnace needs to be replaced, and the duct work and the paint is old and crappy, and the carpeting needs to come out. That's, an overwhelmed headspace. That's easy to happen. You have to have the same skills in the practice to go in and go, “There's a bunch of things that I want to fix, like there's a laundry list of things I want to fix. I cannot fix them all, I'm going to start at one place, and I'm going to start to work on this.” The best analogy and again, we started off talking about, the Spring has sprung here, and I am very much enjoying just doing yard work it is a happy place for me, it's a mental place for me, I tell this story sometimes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I started off and I have a couple of acres of land in the woods. So I live in the woods. For a long time, my little yard around the house was pretty barren, there wasn't a whole lot going on. The reason was because there's just a big space of land… Three acres is a chunk of land, I just was overwhelmed. I was like, “I don't know where to start, I don't know what to do.” If anyone's ever had a big project, they know what I'm talking about. We say, there's so much to do here. I would go to Home Depot and get one gardenia and be like, “What do I do to this?” It's in a five gallon bucket, what do I do? And so finally, the best advice I got was from my dad and I was talking about like, “I don't know how to get started.” And he was like, “Just pick a hill and make it pretty. And then pick another hill and make it pretty. And in 10 years, you'll have a beautiful place.” And that's great advice.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I think it's the same here is when we start off again, just in the headspace standpoint, when we start off and we say, “Hey, we're going to be updating this practice,” and there's a million things to do on your you cannot do all of them at once. And I see people flail around and try they're like “We're changing everything at once!” And I go “That's mistake.”

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Pick a hill, and make it pretty. And then pick another hill and make it pretty, and just keep going. And you will be amazed at how quickly things will be beautiful. And quickly is relative, because another part of headspace I would say is remember, we tend to wildly overestimate what we can do in one year. And we underestimate what we can do in 10 years. And so this is not a one year deal. But very quickly, it'll be you'll be five years in and you'll look around and go “Wow, we're in a completely different place running a completely different business.” Or even three years. But it's not three months, it's not one month.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, and I think to go back to your house analogy, when you buy a fixer upper, there really are two approaches to that. You can kick the squatters out, it can be empty, you can get the whole thing and redo it and fast track it and you can sprint at it, or you can take the long road approach, because maybe you're living in the house while you're fixing it up and you're doing… Like you said, you're picking the hill and you're doing one thing at a time and maybe you start in the bathroom and then you work your way out, whatever that looks like. I think that is very relevant and very important to the headspace here, because I have friends who have bought practices, where they looked at it and said, “I know going into this that I want to change everything about this. My intention and plan is I'm going to gut the place.” That may mean team, that might mean equipment, that might mean the facility itself, all of the above, clients, all of it and knock it to the ground and start over and do it fairly quickly.

Stephanie Goss:

There are other people who are like, “I'm going to get in here, I'm going to live here for a little bit, I'm going to figure out what I want to do, and then I'll make a plan.” Then there are other people who are like, “I want to live here, but I know I'm going to change some things, this is where I'm going to start.” I think from the headspace perspective, figuring out which of those three tacks you want to take with the practice is really important. Because I don't think it's wrong for any of those to be your choice, there's value on a personal level and on a business level, in all of the approaches, it's just has to be what is right for you, and what is your what is your end goal. So to your point, if you want to keep some of the squatters in house, because you see value in them, you're like, “This team has been here a long time, they're some of these people that I would really like to chance to work with.” Your approach to that might be vastly different.

Stephanie Goss:

So I think what you said about picking the hill is really spot on. Because when I think about what our colleague wrote, and… You've got the medicine, and changing medicine is hard. That's a whole ball of wax unto itself but, if you're also looking at facilities and man… And software and technology, to your point, you can change so much of that pretty quickly if you really go all in and fast track it. That's not a choice that is without consequences, or results that are going to come out of that choice. You just have to be prepared to deal with that. So I think is really important to figure out how do you want to approach it.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I need to jump in here and make an addendum. I'm listening to you say back to me my words, I need to jump in and say when I say they're squatters in the house… In the fixer upper house, I never mean that they're just people who were there when you got there. I do not mean there are people there who are not actively contributing and working really hard and being wonderful. So when I say squatters, immediately [crosstalk 00:17:27] these people are just hanging out and not doing anything, it's not what am trying to say. Please don't make that… don't. Yeah, that's not where I'm going. That's the point. My point is you're buying a fixer upper that has a lot of invested people who are there that you also want to be… Okay, cool. So let's talk about this a little bit, right? Because, how quickly do you move on these things, because I started off saying you need to have realistic expectations of the timeline, things like that. I would like to keep as much of the staff as I can, who are willing to come on the journey.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I think this is a really important part of headspace for people to make peace with is if you buy a practice, and there's always people there. They're like, “We like our practice the way it is.” You're like, “I'm going to come in and change a bunch of stuff.” There are some people who are going to enthusiastically say, “You know what, this is what I've been hoping for, this is great.” And there will be some people who are like, “Well, that's not really what I want, but I do understand why this is happening.” And there's going to be some people who go, “No, I hate this. I'm here, because this is the only place that still does medicine like they did 30 years ago, and that's what I want.” I just want to go ahead and set realistic expectations for the people listening. So you cannot make everyone happy. There's the old quote, I don't know what the key to success is, but the key to failure is trying to make everyone happy.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That is true. Now, that does not mean go in, raging flaming sword of justice out and just clean house saying, “Everyone who doesn't immediately want to do the crazy vision that I have, that I'm putting forward, they all need to go.” There should be nuance to this. I do think at some point, we have to be realistic about it. Some people don't want to change. And so I had a mentor, early in my career that would do turnaround practices like this. I was with him one time when we went to talk to a staff in a practice that he had just taken an ownership stake and everything. Then he talked to the staff and I was there and he had this phrase that he said that really stuck with me and we talked about it later on.

Dr. Andy Roark:

He would go in and he said, “Hey, look, you guys are great, and you're doing great stuff. We are excited to be going to the next level of medicine and the next level of serving our clients.” So he said “You guys are great, you're working really hard, you're doing great stuff, and we're excited to go to the next level of medicine and the next level of serving our clients.” So he said you guys are great, you've been working really hard, you're doing great stuff and we're excited to go to the next level meaning not, “Hey, you guys haven't been doing what you're supposed to do,” or “Hey, you guys are stuck 30 years in the past,” I see your effort, I see how you take care of clients, validate all of the good things that they're doing and validate that they're working hard, and they're doing a good job.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Then just say we're going to be changing things, we're going to be updating, we're going to be going to the next level. Then the place you [inaudible 00:20:24] got into after that was, “Hey, you can be here and be on board with what we're doing, and that's what we want and we want to support you in that and we want you to be here. Or, you can decide that this isn't for you and you don't want to be a part of this and you can leave and there's not going to be any hard feelings, and we will 100% support you and write letters of recommendation or anything like that for you to go to another place. There's no hard feelings at all. But what people can't do is stay here and not be on board with where we're going.” That's the speech.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I have just found that to be useful in a lot of different times in my career is to say to people, “Hey, you can be here and be on board with what we're doing and we really want that or you can decide you're not on board with where we're going in the changes that we're making. You can decide, this isn't where you want to be and you can leave, there's no hard feelings. There's no wrong way to feel. But what you can do is not be on board and stay.” I think that those are rules, words to live by, in a lot of these things. I think if you're the new practice owner, and you're going to fix this place up, those should be words that you should get pretty comfortable with. Because I have seen a lot of people cater to staff members who are not on board and are not going to be on board, but they're also not going to leave, which means they are going to continue to be here and undermine the changes that you're trying to make.

Dr. Andy Roark:

As a leader, that can't happen. If this is your passion, and you have bought the business and you are taking it that place. It's amazing how many people I have seen just put up with one or two people who are just going to undermine everything they do because they don't want to lose staff. I say, I would like to make this as painless as possible. At the same time, there are going to be some people who are going to just say the beginning, not for me. There's going to be people who are also going to not say anything, but just undermine what you're doing. You need to make peace with those people moving on, whether it's at the very beginning, or whether more likely you're going along. We're going to see how this goes and they just become less and less on board with what you're doing until you reach the point where you say, “No, this is not working.”

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I love that approach to talking about it with the team. I think that it is very smart for a variety of reasons, least of which is you have to set the stage and draw some boundaries right off the bat. I think that, when I think about this, this is a really important conversation to have early. This process and thinking about it is strategic, because the transitions are always going to be hard. So generally, when you have a sale, there's some period of transition. Sometimes the prior owner says, “Here's the keys goodbye.” walks out the door. But for a lot of practices, there's some period of transition. I think what I would say to our friend is to think about the timeframe and this happens to be a relatively short transfer timeframe of four weeks, four to six weeks, right? You could survive anything for four to six weeks. So, I would think about… Pick your poison here.

Stephanie Goss:

This is a short period of time, can you put up with it until one barrier, that you know is a barrier, the selling vet, who doesn't want to change their style of practice is out the door? Or do you want to try and address this while they are still there? Because maybe there are line in the sand things happening in the practice that you are not okay with. And then you have to figure out… You got to pick your poison. Are you going to deal with it now? Because maybe they leave before the for six weeks is up, is that okay? So if you are someone who is buying into a situation like this, and you haven't made that commitment, those are definitely strategic things that I would think about in terms of the exit timeframe, and that period of transition because you want to set yourself up for success because you need to know… Everyone should have this conversation at some point in time, and you need to know when are you going to be able to have this conversation.

Stephanie Goss:

Too often what I see is colleagues to get themselves into a situation where they know fundamentally going into it that it's fixer upper, and they're going to want to make changes. There's this long transition period of six months or 12 months and they just sit there and suffer for that transition period because they're like, “We agreed to this. I feel that if I don't live up to the agreement that I'm going to be not doing the right thing.” As far as going into this agreement with the prior owner and the seller, and “Oh, my gosh, I'm struggling with this.” So I think it's really strategic to think about when you're going to have this conversation. The when to me, is almost more important than the how, because I think you have to set yourself and the team up for success. Our friend is lucky, they have a relatively short timeframe. So I would say, bide your time live without the four weeks, you can do anything for four weeks and then get the team together. This is your opportunity to let them be heard.

Stephanie Goss:

Also to start building those cultural foundations that we talked about so often on the podcast, right? This is a great way to start a conversation is, like you said, you're giving them the kudos. You're telling them, “You guys are doing a great job, here are the things that I see that are positive. I want to take that and I want to punch it up a notch and so here's what we're going to do next, here's where we're going next level.” What does that look like in the short term? Then, “Here's what I need from you. I need you to be on board. And if you're not, no hard feelings.” Let's make a plan for what that looks like.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yep, totally. So the last part was in making headspace because you really touched on this, as well. This is very much an exercise in picking your poison. Okay? On one extreme, you have your vision… And this is where I see people trapped a lot, you have your vision of what you want the practice to be, and you hold that in one hand. On the other hand, you have your dislike of being unpopular, or making people uncomfortable, or confronting people when they don't get on board with new programs, protocols, things like that. I don't want to have uncomfortable conversations. I see people holding those two things in their hand and suffering. And often why we lean into the short term. I see these poor new practice owners, and their desire not to rock the boat, not to make people uncomfortable, not to lose any staff members not to have someone say… So this is a thing that you have to try to empathize, you're trying to be emotional.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Imagine that you bought this practice and you have this vision of, I want to be a great boss, I want to own a great practice, I want to have a place where people are happy to work. Then you have someone say to you, “You're ruining this practice and I'm leaving.” Most of us don't have the confidence to just shake that off. I don't care how good you are, that hurts and most time that's garbage. What happens is their ruination of this practice is fulfillment of your vision. You're not ruining the practice, you are ruining their idea of what the practice should be. But it still freaking hurts when you get that feedback. As someone who has big ideas and likes to change things, gotten that feedback from people who have decided they didn't want to work, where we were going, and I go, “Yes, I've been doing it a long time, and we've been very successful.” It's still really shakes you up and makes you feel crappy. So I just want to call that out.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But there you are, right, you're holding in one hand. This is the vision, this is what we could be, this is what I want the practice to be. On the other hand, I don't want to rock the boat, I don't want to have confrontation with people who are not on board, I don't want to do these things. Ultimately what I have to say to people, you have to pick your poison. You're going to get poisoned. It's either that your vision never comes to reality, and you own a practice you are not proud of, and that's pretty bitter poison to me, I don't think you make me take that. Or we're going to have some hard conversations and people are going to not like what we do. Well, we're going to go through some pain points and there's going to be headaches and frustration because training people to do things a new way. It's not easy, it's hard.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So just remember, no matter what, you're going to pick your poison and here's to the point of the previous owner hanging around and things like that, again, you pick your poison. Do you want the poison of having this person who the team looks up to? Who knows where everything is? Who's got a ton of experience? Do you want to poison of having that person gone and you don't have a transition time, you don't have any overlap? Or do you want the pain of that person staying? A lot of it depends on how long are they going to stay.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Because I'll take the poison them staying for a month but I'm not going to take the boys have them staying for six months.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

If they're undermining what we're doing they could also be a wonderful benefit. And if they're willing to come along, it really depends on the individual. There's no, “This is how long this person should be here.” It 100% depends on them. And so anyway, remember that you're picking your poison and the other thing is, oftentimes it's not, “Do I stay with this person or do I let this person go?” A lot of times really, the choice you're making is, “Do I stay with this person, right now or do I let this person go, right now?”

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And there will be people you will deal with who are up and you say, “In the short term, this person is valuable to have here, and they are helping in a number of ways that outweigh the negatives of them being around.” And that equation may shift over time, and probably it will be there for a year and then they just will say, “This is as far as I'm willing to go.” And that may be the time in which you part ways, not the first day of practice or a year in. And again, the people who leave they're not bad, they just don't share the vision of where this going or they don't see themselves in it. And of course, I want to support them seeing themselves in the practice, right? As the leader, I do like to say to people, “Hey, I want to support you, I want to get you on board with where we're going, I want you to feel comfortable, I want you to have the training to understand what we're doing and where we're going and I want to do that.” But at some point, I can't make people want something, if they don't want it. All I can do is present it to them in a couple different ways and try to figure out what resonates with them and try to put them in a place in that thing that's going to make them happy.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But ultimately, they're the only ones who can really decide if this is where they want to be. And if they don't want to be here, I can't take it personally. It's me choosing to follow my vision over to make this particular person happy.

Stephanie Goss:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). I think the last thing for Headspace before we head into a quick break here is what we said before about… It's a marathon not a sprint, is really important. Because when you are fundamentally changing a practice, this is a long haul project. Even if you sprinted through and you updated everything in the first six months, the transition period from a style of medicine in a rural location, one doctor practice where the same vet has been there for 40 plus years, those are some big shifts. And even if you lift all of the boulders and clear everything out of your way and do it really fast, the time shift for not only your team and yourself, but for your community, for your clients is also big. And so I've got some thoughts and ideas because I went through this shift in my last practice in terms of our clients, and making some of the medicine changes that our friend was talking about, and that's a marathon. And that's something that you're going to have to plan for.

Stephanie Goss:

And so just keeping that in the back of your mind that not only is it a marathon when it comes to the building, and getting all of the things that you want, and the updating and the equipment and the technology, and things like a practice management system changeover… Those things are all things that take time. And so I like your thought earlier that, Rome wasn't built in a day. There's a lot of big things that you're going to want to change. And so part of this transition process, potentially one of the most invaluable parts other than having that conversation that you shared… And I love the words you used for setting the stage with a team early, right off the bat, is spending the time to do some strategic thought and planning for yourself and making some of those lists.

Stephanie Goss:

Because there's going to be nine million things that you think of. And there are going to be things that are easy, low hanging fruit wins that you can put up front, and there are going to be things that are going to be long multistage processes in terms of change. And so you should have an idea for what all is on that list before you just go pell-mell shooting at whatever is the fire that's in front of you, right? And that's how a lot of us walk in and we're just like, “Ooh, there's shiny objects everywhere. Which one do I go after first?”

Stephanie Goss:

So I think that from a Headspace perspective, the other thing to keep in mind is that this is a long game. And where I have succeeded the best at long game has been planning and strategic thought ahead of time. Your average person doesn't just go out and run amok. Thought plan and you train. And there's thought and process that goes into that before it happens. And so I think that's a really important part of the headspace. For me as a practice owner it's really easy to get caught up in the excitement and the energy of I can make this place my own and take the time to really think about it. And be smart and plan for what you want, I think is important for me.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I agree. Let's take a break here [inaudible 00:35:33] back and let's get into the action steps to actually run to this process.

Stephanie Goss:

Sounds good.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Hey Stephanie Goss, you got to sit down and talk about GuardianVets?

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, what do you want to talk about?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Man I hear from people all the time that are overwhelmed because the phone's never stopped ringing. And I'm sure you hear from these people as well. Our caseload is blowing up and the doctors are busy and the phones just don't stop.

Stephanie Goss:

They never stop. That is a true story.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I'm amazed by how few veterinarians know about GuardianVets. This is a service where you have a registered technicians who can jump in virtually and help you on the phones. You can flip the switch and GuardianVets can jump in and take some of the load off the front desk and they can handle your clients and get them booked for your appointments and give them support and it really is a godsend.

Stephanie Goss:

Pre-pandemic, it was amazing to me how many people hadn't heard about it for after hours call help but at this point, I can't believe how many people don't realize that they are offering help during the daytime as well. Which I would think right now is a huge benefit to practices because everybody is short handed. Everybody is drowning in phone calls and so we talked about it. We've talked about GuardianVets Law on the podcast and every time we do we always get somebody who says what is that?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Guys if you're not familiar with GuardianVets, if you think that you could use some help on the phones or the front desk, check them out. It's guardianvets.com. And if you mention our podcast means definitely, guys you get a month free! So check it out, guardianvets.com.

Stephanie Goss:

Hey you! What's you got happening on your calendar in March? Because the Uncharted Veterinary Community have lots of things coming up that I don't think you're going want to miss. First step in March, we have an awesome workshop by my friend Dr. Saye Clement. Saye is going to be talking about client curation with us. She's going to teach us how to learn to identify the types of clients that you want for your practice, and then what are things that you and your team can do to attract those clients specifically. It's happening March 13th, at 12pm Eastern Time, 9am Pacific, and it is a two hour workshop. So put that on your clinic calendar, take a lunch break, go in late for the day. If you're here on the West Coast, it is $99. It's free as always for our Unchartered members. And you can sign up at unchartedvet.com/events.

Stephanie Goss:

And then in the back half of the month on March 24, my dear friend Bret Canfield is doing a presentation that I am super pumped about. He and I are going to do some tag teaming on this, I am his wingman moderator and I am so excited for this because I went to Bret at the beginning of the year and said, “Hey, you are the person that comes to mind when I think about this topic because you live this and you help teams breathe this, and I want to bring this to Uncharted and to the veterinary community at large. And that is the idea of more than an EAP. What can we do to make wellness happen in our practices? Bret is going to talk to us about the benefits of programs like EAP. But beyond that, what are some ways and things that we can do to create sustainability for our teams? Again, this is a two hour workshop, it's $99 for the general public, and it's free for Uncharted members.

Stephanie Goss:

It's happening on March 24, at 2pm Eastern time, so 11am Pacific. So this one will hit my west coasters lunchtime, and mid afternoon. For those East Coasters. It's a two hour one. So again, make sure to check out unchartedvet.com/events for all of the upcoming events and registration. And I want to take a quick second to pause before we head back to the podcast. I have to show some serious gratitude to our friends at Banfield Pet Hospital. Andy and I have wanted to do transcripts for the blog for a while because we've had multiple colleagues reach out to us and say, “Hey, I've heard great things about podcast, I would love to listen but this is not accessible to me.” And while we were trying to figure that out, our friends over at Banfield stepped up and said, “Hey, we see you and this is something that fits our values in our culture as a practice.

Stephanie Goss:

We want to increase diversity and inclusion in veterinary medicine, and we would love to help with that.” And so they stepped into it in a big way and are sponsoring all of our transcripts for 2022. So if you know someone who hasn't accessed the podcast because there weren't transcripts available previously, send them to uncharteredvet.com/blog, they can find all of the transcribed podcasts for 2022. And they can also find out more, or you can find out more about all of the things that Banfield Pet Hospital is doing to increase diversity, inclusion, and equity in veterinary medicine. And now, back to the podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All right, so let's jump back into this and start talking about what we're actually going to do here.

Stephanie Goss:

Okay.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All right. So we have our previous practice owner, they're there for a month, and then they're going to be sort of moving on. And it sounds like we have a little bit of hesitation about making significant changes while this person is there. Because the team is still… It's always an awkward period, right? The team is still looks at the person who's been the boss for as long as they can remember. And they're like, “Oh, he feels like the boss, but is not really anymore.” This is a short enough period of time again, case by case basis to see what you need to do. But I guess for me, my top priority… The first thing I would work on coming into this situation is that, “Hey, this guy still here,” I'd like to learn as much from him as I can about how things have been done, about what the culture is.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then also, I want to start building relationships. Because the best chance of me retaining people and keeping them on board is if I know these people, and if I don't seem so scary. One of the things is, you're the new person you come in, and they don't know you and then you start changing things. And they're making assumptions about what your intentions are, or what you care about, or what your values are, things like that. And it's just a wildly uncertain time for them. And so anything you can do to get them to know you, before you start really moving their cheese around, it probably is a worthwhile investment.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So I would probably focus initially on “Hey, who are you people? What do you care about? What do you like about being here? How do you see this practice? What do you think the practice values are? What are you most proud of that we've done in the community? Things like that, and then say, “Okay, cool. I want to achieve my vision, at the same time I would like to protect the things that they care about.” If they say, “Hey, we serve this community.” And I hear that from every single person, I need to talk about how the vision is going to serve the community. And if I don't, then I may be introducing values that don't match up with the values of the staff that exists.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And again, that doesn't mean I'm not going to do it, but I'm also just going to go ahead and ready myself and say, this may end up in me having to replace a lot of people, and just I'm going to take it for what it is. But I'd like to at least know, what am I dealing with and I'd like them to know me as a person as quickly as possible as well.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep. Yeah, I think building relationships with the team and building that foundation is really important. There's a lot of assessing on both sides. They need to get to know you, right? Trust doesn't just happen in an instant, they need to get to know you, and you need to get to know them. And there is some assessing to be done in terms of are there people… To your point earlier, are there people who are going to want to stay here and not be on board? And trying to feel that out for yourself is important. And I think the other thing that I would say is, I would take the opportunity for a transition period, to just keep asking, why? To the prior owner and to the team. Especially when it comes to the medicine side of it, and the client side of it, asking questions, tell me more.

Stephanie Goss:

Why do you do it that way? What's your thought behind that? And really come at it from an understanding heart of assuming the best intentions really, and trying to understand why they're doing what they're doing. Because it's easy for us to say the standard of medicine that was taught in school 40 plus years ago, is radically different than the standard of medicine and what I learned in vet school, in the last 10 years, right? And it's easy to get caught up in being dismissive about that and there's a lot of value and wisdom in that level of experience. And so I would say the best chance for success with trying to understand would be to ask those why questions and figure out is there value there? Are there some things that really do… “That's a good point, I never would have thought about that.” Like you have the opportunity to learn some things potentially, and maybe at the end of the day, you feel like “Nope, I don't agree. I don't agree with that medicine. I believe in what I believe in.”

Stephanie Goss:

That's fine. And there's still opportunity to take things away if we come at it from an open an understanding place. And so that would be my advice for building the relationships with the technical team, with the doctor who's leaving, is to just keep asking those why questions. Tell me why you're doing it that way? Tell me why we do this for clients? And be the broken record, and just write it all down for yourself. Make lists, make notes, really, truly trying to engage with them, because at first, there may be skepticism, they may be like, “Why are you doing this? Why are you asking us all these questions? Because you want to change the way that we're doing things? There's still value in what has been done, and how it's been done, even if the value comes from learning “Why?”, with the intention to still change it.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think that's an important part for me. So the relationship is really important. But also taking advantage of that time and really just trying to remind yourself, “I'm going to assume good intentions, and I'm going to ask questions, and I'm going to try and learn as much as I possibly can.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

I agree. Take a positive affirmation-focused approach to how you talk to the team. It is easy to come in and start talking to them about why what they have been doing is not up to standards. And why what you want to do is so much better than that what they've been doing. It breeds resentment, and it steps up and asks for confrontation, right? Because no one wants to be told that they've been doing a bad job. Especially when they're working their butts off like they really are. Can you imagine overwhelmed working so hard, and someone new comes in and says, “Let me tell you why you've not been doing a good job.” Nobody wants to hear that. So again, I'm not going to tell them things that aren't true. But go and look, are they working really hard? And let's praise their work ethic, right?

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Are they focused on serving the community? Then let's talk about that. Do they have good relationships? With the clients that they serve? Yes. Are they compassionate towards the pets? Absolutely. Praise all of those things, and then say, “This is what you guys are doing really well, and this is where we're going to grow.” And focus not on “Hey, this is what we're going to fix!” But instead, “This is what we're going to grow.” And that may sound like a subtle thing but man, that's important in the communication. I'm a big believer in rituals for human beings. And so, rituals are signposts in our life. I'm a big believer in the importance of graduation. So let's just take like graduation of that school. Right? So we have graduation from Vet School, and the purpose of the graduation… And I don't think people dig into this enough.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The purpose of a graduation in Vet School is a ritual to transfer people from a state where they are students, where they are paying money to learn to a state where they are professionals and hopefully, they'll continue to learn throughout the rest of your life. But there now someone who is paid for their knowledge. Right? You are a doctor now. Yesterday you were not a doctor, yesterday you were a student trying to become a doctor and today you are a doctor. And I think that rituals just send those signals, to flag post, “Hey, this is an important turning point.” I think those things really matter. And they matter to people and how they see themselves and how they see the world around them and their community in their environment. Okay? And so rituals are important.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I think that going into situations like this, when you're taking over ownership, especially when things have been an established way, and you know that things are going to change, introducing some sort of ritual, a signal that the changing of the guard is happening. I think that that can be really valuable. I like people to know. “Yep. You guys have done a great job. And that chapter is now over and we are turning the page to a new chapter.” And everyone who thinks that, “Oh, no, we're staying in the previous chapter.” I want to dissuade you of that thought as quickly as I can. And so that can be anything from putting up a new sign outside the business, paint jobs are relatively easy thing that changes the way a place feels. That's not bad. Paint the building, redo the lobby, put a new sign out front.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Pick a couple of things and do it. Have a send-off gathering for the last doctor. My friend Dr. Dave Nicol did this, where in a practice he bought it was so great. He bought it from a veterinarian, and they had a garden out in front of the practice and he had the garden re-landscaped or updated and added a little statue, a little sitting area to it, and he dedicated it to the doctor who was selling and retiring, and he invited all the clients to come and say goodbye to the doctor that was leaving and to honor that person, and then also to meet the new doctor who was going to be taking over. I mean, just think about that. It's a great way for Dave to meet the clients and things like that. It makes the staff feel like they're honoring this person who's left and they're not being forgotten, and their work is being recognized. And then also, it's sending a new, very clear signal that the ritual of the page turning has taken place and now we're beginning…

Stephanie Goss:

Chapter.

Dr. Andy Roark:

A brand new world. And so I think that that stuff is really important. I think a lot of times people are like, I don't want to rock the boat, I'm just going to suddenly slip in here, and then change everything that you do. [inaudible 00:50:52] For me, when you're going to make changes just be upfront about it and give people those signals of like, “Hey, this is not going to be what it was before. Not good or bad, but just not going to be the same.” And think about what can signals signal, both to the staff, but then also to the clients? Because the client experience is going to change.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so once we've sent these signals to the staff, we've come up with some ways to say, “Hey…” Very clearly, “Visual reminders that things are changing.” We're also going to talk about sending some visual reminders and some reminders to the clients that they can expect change. Because people don't like when they show up and then what they expect doesn't happen. I want to alter expectations as much as I can before people get to the building.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep. I love that. And the ideas of the sprucing up or the painting, the… The visual changes, that's so great. And I love the idea in this situation of, let's give the vet who's given their heart and their career to this place, let's give them a party, let's celebrate them, let's say goodbye. But do it in a way that to your point is very clearly saying this person is leaving, and things will be changing.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I think that's really important. I like that particular example, because I think it also is a nice way to engage the clients and let them know, “Hey, you can expect some changes from us.” And people go, “But I don't want them to think about any changes.” Or “See, I don't want them to know things are going to change.” And I go, “Look, they're going to know.”

Stephanie Goss:

They're going to.

Dr. Andy Roark:

If you're talking about radically changing how this practice works, they're going to know. Better to go ahead and tip them off, that change is coming and to just start communicating sooner rather than later.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, and you're controlling the messaging when you're doing the communicating versus change suddenly happening and other people giving that messaging for you, whether it's the team or other clients, or people who have come in and don't like the change. And then they're giving the messaging to other people in the community. Like, you need to be able to take control of that as much as you can if you want to not be surprised by what comes out as a result.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Sure. Well you know I've worked with practices who have gone through significant changes that the pet owners are going to be very well aware of. Things like closing on Wednesday, or closing on Saturday. I'm just pulling this out of the air. Things that [inaudible 00:53:34] very well. And our advice is always let them know, ahead of a time. Three months before you close on a Saturday, start communicating. “Hey, just so you guys know, June 1st, we are going to be closing down our Saturday hours, just so you guys can prepare for it.” And that way, they don't just show up. And this is a radical change but, introducing the idea that something is going to happen before it happens so that when it happens, it's not a surprise, because they knew was coming, that may sound dumb, it's not. And a lot of it is the messaging especially if you're going to be raising prices and practicing a higher standard of care, I would much rather them to know about the standard of care via email than when they come into the exam room.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I'm not going to be like, “Hey, just so you know, prices are going up.” But I am going to say, “Hey, we're really excited, we wanted to bring this to your attention to let you know that we're looking for heartworm disease in our area and this is a thing that we wrestled with and we want to take a moment to give you guys some information about this.” And just start communicating the why behind the changes in standard of care that they're going to see when they come in just so they don't expect it. Start to introduce expensive language in a way if you've always worked at a place and there's been a low cost provider and you say, “Hey, things are going to change.” Don't talk about things being quick and easy, or discount, or affordable, just in your messaging. Talk about them being comprehensive, talk about evaluations, talk a lot about the doctor, talk about diagnostics. Talk about things like that, that just start to send those signals.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And it's not to chase people away but it's at least to let them know that change is coming. And I would also say tied to that, there are probably going to be some people who very much wanted 30-year-old medicine and they don't want the medicine that you want. And just like you had to get your head straight and pick your poison about your staff, you're going to have to get your head straight and pick your poison about your clients.

Dr. Andy Roark:

There's a doctor in North Carolina named Ivy Heath, who I've always been so impressed with. And she did this exact thing of a rural practice, and just decided she didn't want to practice this way anymore. And she went through it. And anyway it's a little bit of a crucible. And yes, she had some clients who got very mad when she required heartworm testing and things and then they left. And she said, “If you go through it, just believe what you believe and decide what you want your practice to be. Those people will get mad and they will yell, and then they will leave, and they will go somewhere else and that will be that. And once you go through it, and your clientele knows what you're doing and where you go, ultimately, you can transition to a clientele that respects you or that wants to be there for what you're doing.” And man, it was transformative for her and her career.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, that was my experience. In my last practice, we transitioned very similarly to this. Although it wasn't multi-doctor practice, we had doctors who had owned the practice and got to retirement age and retired. The style of medicine was very different from the style of medicine that we ultimately wanted to be practicing. And so it is a long shift. And I challenge you guys to think about it, we think about our normal client life cycle. We have a lot of our clients that we see more than once a year, but think about how many clients you see once a year. And when you think about it, you can't make fundamental changes, and have everybody be aware of it at the snap of your fingers, because we're only seeing clients once a year, right? I will tell you that my personal experience was that the shift, the lifecycle for a complete overhaul was about a five-year process.

Stephanie Goss:

Because we had clients who immediately left and were like, “We missed the prior owners, we're not even going to entertain somebody else being in charge, we're leaving.” And we had a lot of people who were like, “I'm going to try it out see what I think.” Right? And then over time, they either stayed or they went. And at the same time, we're working on building up a client base, that was the type of client that we ultimately wanted, the clients who wanted what we wanted. And that is not a quick process. Because when you go from… When I started at the practice, they were charging $98 for a dental. And the dental was not a comprehensive oral health exam, it was not X rays, it was not a lot of the things that are standard now. And that was a huge shift, we had to do a lot of educating for the clients, for our team, we needed to invest in new technologies, we needed to make fundamental actual changes to our physical setup to accommodate those things. Those are all like long term projects.

Stephanie Goss:

And so I love your example, about Dr. Ivy, because I think that's so true. You just have to say, “I'm not going to make everybody happy and let the people who are going to shout because they're going to do it.” And that was hard. I had so many times I had to argue with the prior practice owner about like, “Stop engaging with them online, you're not going to make everybody happy. They're not going to love you. Let them just let it go. Let it go…

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yes, I agree.

Stephanie Goss:

And move on. But It's not a quick process.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. No, it's not. But there are clients that are right for you and they are right for your practice. And when you find those clients, they are fantastic to deal with. You know what I mean? Their head is in the same space as your head, they tend to follow your recommendations, they tend to be compliant. They are rewarding to work with. They are the right clients for you. And you can grow people into that client as well. There's a lot of people who just they've been coming to a place and you change and as long as you explain why you're changing, they can be very happy to come to that.

Stephanie Goss:

100%.

Dr. Andy Roark:

There's another part of you're going to have people who are going to leave. But here's the other part that people forget, you're going to attract new people who before were not interested in what was going on and so don't forget about that. We have a workshop in Uncharted coming up, it's called Client Curation. It's our friend [inaudible 01:00:07] and it's all about identifying the types of clients that you want for your practice and are going to fit with your practice and what you're doing. And so that's on March the 13th so we may be passive when this episode comes out, it's free to Uncharted members. But, we're always putting on workshops and doing things like that inside the community.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Because that stuff is important, and it's things we need to keep working on. So, client curation and communication that comes next after we start to decide what is the hill we're going to make pretty, we need to go ahead and start communicating that stuff to clients just so that they don't walk in expecting any more than they're going to. And some of them are still going to, because they're not going to look the emails, and they're not going to look at the mailers and they're not going to even notice that the building has been painted, and there's a new sign up front, they're going to roll right in, and they're not going to like what you do, and you just need to make peace with that. But again, you're going to have probably more luck replacing those clients with clients who do get what you're doing and where you're going, then you are bringing some of those clients who don't want what you're doing up to where you are, it's just not going to happen.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, I think one of the things that is also really important when it comes to tackling this elephant, because it's a big one is, when we were talking at the beginning of this in terms of action steps, you have to build relationships with the team and build relationships with the clients, and I think one of the things that's important for both of those is you have to create wins for both of those groups of people, and do it as quickly as you possibly can. And so in terms of building relationships with the team, it's having those conversations, getting to know them, but also asking them, “What do you need?” One of my favorite questions to ask the team is, “I'm not making any promises but, I want to dream big with you guys, if we could snap our fingers, or if I had a magic wand, and I could fix one thing for you today, what would that thing about the practice be?” Ask them what they want, you're probably going to be surprised at some of the answers that you're going to get.

Stephanie Goss:

So creating opportunities to find out how can you help them? How can you serve them? How can you make things better for them and start building the bridge between where you want to be and where they are, and figure out who's going to come with you, who's going to be willing to make those steps and, bridge that gap with you. And also to know who is not. Similar with the clients. To your point Andy, you are going to have the clients who don't read the emails, who just roll on up and ignore all of the signs. And if we know that we're fundamentally going to be changing things for them, and change is hard and change is scary, we have to lean into creating an experience for them that is good or great in other ways. The communication, the “I'm so excited to meet you and your pet.” It's playing up all of the little things in the extra ways.

Stephanie Goss:

It's getting down on the floor, it's asking to take pictures with their pets, it's putting them out on social media, it's doing those things because again, you want to look at that middle client chunk. And I would argue that for most practices, that middle chunk is probably the vast majority. You're going to have clients who are going to shout and rant and not like what you like, and they're going to leave, and you're going to have clients who come to you because you're curating that experience, those clients are going to see what you're doing, as you put it out into the world and they're going to come because of it. You have to look at that middle ground of clients and say how can I make this a personal experience for them, because they may not like what you have to say, they may not like the fact that you're now going to tell them that they're required to do a rabies vaccine before they can leave their pet in your hospital, you're going to make fundamental policy changes about requiring lab work before dentals.

Stephanie Goss:

Whatever it is, you're going to have clients that aren't going to like that. So how can you lean into building those relationships with them and giving them wins. Whether it's getting to know them as people, whether it's getting down on the floor and loving on their pet… All of the things that we do anyways, but really leaning into that and doing it in an intentional way. Having your team create a board in the lobby to welcome everybody who's coming into the building that day, it's taking those pictures, it's just the small little things. The handwritten thank you cards, it was so nice to meet you today. And those are the things that when you're doing 10 million things and you're changing and you're working your butt off, those are the things that take up a lot of time and that it's really tempting to just sidestep because it is extra work. But that is the work that in my personal experience pays off in spades with that middle chunk of your client base, and should not be underestimated.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, no, I agree. So let's jump back real quick to the staff and bringing them up as we move through our process. As much as I can include the staff and the planning process, I want to. As much as I want to talk to them about, “Hey, what are you guys excited about? What would you like to see? Where do you see areas for us to grow and develop?” Any ideas that they are excited about that would improve the practice, I would very much like to hear those. And I would like to prioritize those I want to show them, “Hey, you're not being bulldozed.” And I don't want them to feel bulldozed, there are going to be some times they're going to get pushed into more change than they're comfortable with but I want to minimize that. So anything where I can say, “Yeah, this came from you guys and we're making this change, and growing in a way that you want us to grow.”

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I definitely want that. So, try to come up with ways to include the staff in there. What is their wish list? How would they like to change? How would they like to address problems? And remember, a good leader has solutions to everything, a great leader has questions, that gets the staff to come up with solutions.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then they are their solutions. So, how do I get the staff on board? Can I include them as much problem solving as possible? And the other thing that's related to that is I want to try to get the staff wins, ASAP. As soon as we start changing things, I don't want to change things and then have them just get yelled at by this by the clients. That's a crappy experience.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I want to make some changes that they like, that make them feel good and make their life better, that clients will maybe praise, things like that because I want them to feel good. And oftentimes we don't think about what is going to make the staff feel like they picked up a win. And so we just start doing the hard stuff and the staff just start immediately getting beaten up and they've never gotten any positive reinforcement on any of this change.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So what are the quick things… And again, it can be wins in that the clients like it, it could be wins in that they're their life and their job is easier. “Hey, I went out and I purchased the printer, a brand new printer that you have been asking for.” That sounds silly, it's amazing how you can blow some people's minds when they have a crappy printer that is never gets found on the Wi-Fi network, and that constantly has to get troubleshot. And you just say I chuck that thing out behind the building into the dumpster, and here's your brand new printer that works like a charm. And people go, “Oh, maybe there are some things we could update and benefit from?”

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, absolutely. And on both sides, another exercise that's great for the team and it's a basic one but it's a tool not to be underestimated is, half the team walk through the hospital from the clients perspective and see what the client experiences. And this is an area of opportunity to maybe get some of those wins with the clients as well but with the… Coming from the team. And so we did that and my team was just like, “We don't have any,” the front desk was irritated, because they were like, “Every day, we have to go outside and we're cleaning bat poop bags, because we don't have garbage can outside and people are just leaving them by the front door.” And so we put a little garbage can out there but people still were not using it and using it and the front desk was just like, “How about one of those yard waste stations.” And I was like, great idea. Something super simple. And the clients were like, “Oh my gosh, we've wanted one of those in your parking lot for years, thank you so much.” And again, it was small simple, easy win.

Stephanie Goss:

Cost couple hundred bucks to order one of those things and the time and energy to put it in but, think about things from that client perspective and have the team walkthrough what is the client experience? Where can we make some of the improvements? Whether its physical things, or changes to processes or protocols or whatever, but those easy wins, I think are so important. Because to your point, it is going to be tiring. Change is hard and it's tiring for everyone. And so when you feel buoyed by that positivity, it makes the change a lot easier.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, I agree. Last thing I got is set your priorities. Figure out what is most important to you, and what you're going to work on first, and then what you can work on in six months.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I think a lot of people are, I got to put it… It has to go on the list. And they go, You know what, there's two lists… There were three lists. There's the things I'm doing now…

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

They're the things I'm going to do next. And there's things I'm going to do after that.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And they can go on the after that list. I don't look at the after that list. Really, I don't even look at the next list very often. Mostly I look at these are the things that we're doing. And then I know what we're going to do next, we just have to get there. And honestly, that's the best recipe for overwhelm. There's a million different ways to set priorities. You can base it on, return on investment, on risk, on cost, on align with your values, things like that, if you're looking at this and going, “I wish somebody would run us through how to set priorities.” Stephanie and I do this at Uncharted. The April conferences is coming up April 21st to 23rd in Greenville, South Carolina, if you're in this boat and you're like, “Oh man, I've been soaking up this episode because I'm trying to do something big!” I'm just going to be honest, I don't see anything better you could do than, come to April conference with us.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And we spend about a half day at the end, running through the different ways to set priorities and look at what you're doing and figure out what's next and what's best as far as your time and your resources. But however you do it… There's a million ways to do it, but you have to figure out what your priorities are and then you have to start clicking them off the list and just start marching along one thing after another, without getting overwhelmed, because of the fixer upper all around you. You need to pick a hill, you make it pretty, and then pick the next hill and make it pretty and just start marching.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think my favorite thing to do with my team is, they have to be able to see that you haven't forgotten about their ideas. And there may be things that they throw out, that you look at that and go, “That has got to be part of the 10 year plan,” because there's no way that we're going to get in the first 90 days. But there will be lots of things that they throw out on that list that you're like, “Dude, we can accomplish this in the next two days,” let alone the next two weeks right? And so I have a meeting, do a brainstorming session, get them to participate, think big, think… Okay, where are areas of opportunity? What are things that we could improve on here? And also, what are things we want to do? Let's dream big, make a list.

Stephanie Goss:

I'll tell you the first time we did this, I use the big giant postage sheets. We sat down in a room and I just wrote, while they brainstormed. Just tell me areas of opportunity, things that we can improve on, things that need to be changed, things that need to be upgraded, what do you want? We had 10 of those giant postage sheets all around us on all four sides of the walls. And then we went through and said, “Okay, let's let's put these into some buckets, let's sort them a little bit and let's also think, what our long term plans?” And so then we put sheets out and we did what feels like we could accomplish it. And we started with… To your point, the three big buckets. What might be next? What could we work on right now? What might be next and what might be really long term, and then kept sorting it down from there.

Stephanie Goss:

So we ended with the list of what are we working on right now. But that they could still visualize all of the stuff that they had shared, that was part of the long term plan. And I'll tell you, in the five years, we didn't get to some of the things that were on that list but they felt heard because we revisited that on a regular basis and it was like, “Look, we're working towards that. Here's the 15 steps that we've got to make to get between here and there. Here's how we bridge that gap.” And I will tell you that their return on investment for buy in and doing a simple process like that is astronomical and they feel a part of it. And, it's a good opportunity to be able to visualize the plan in a very simple way.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, no, I completely agree. Well, thanks for talking to this one with me.

Stephanie Goss:

I love it. It was a good one. I hope everybody has a fantastic week.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You guys take care.

Stephanie Goss:

Take care, everybody.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, everybody that's a wrap on another episode of the podcast. Thanks so much for spending your time with us. We truly enjoy spending part of our week with you as always Andy and I enjoyed getting into this topic. I have a tiny little favor to ask, actually two of them. One is if you can go to wherever you source your podcasts from and hit the review button and leave us a review. We love hearing your feedback and knowing what you think of the podcast. And number two, if you haven't already, hit the subscribe button. Thanks so much for listening guys. We'll see you soon.

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Mar 09 2022

The Team Is Mad When I Won’t Cover For Them

What's This Episode About?

This week on the podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie Goss are sharing a conversation they recently had with a group of managers who were struggling with something that feels familiar to us all at this point. These managers are short-handed and a lot of them came into their role from the team side so they have the skills to fill in on the floor when needed. Their teams are really getting frustrated and/or angry with them when they refuse to cover gaps in the schedule in order to get their own jobs done including things like trying to hire, interview, and payroll. It feels like the ultimate rock and a hard places conversation. Let’s get into this…

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Episode Transcript

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Stephanie Goss:

Hey everybody. I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. So this week on the podcast, Andy and I are letting you guys in on a conversation that we had recently with some managers that we were meeting with. Because someone asked the question, what do I do when the team is mad, because we are shorthanded and I won't jump in and help on the floor.

Stephanie Goss:

And I thought it was a fantastic question. So did Andy. We thought it would be great to talk about with you all on the podcast, because we love spending this kind of time and talking through these things with you. So let's just say that I have a lot of empathy for this conversation. I want to be vulnerable and share some of my failings as a manager during this episode with you. And I hope that you not only understand, can relate to and find some solutions in the conversation that Andy and I have. Let's get into this. And now, The Uncharted Podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And we are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie. That sounds like a you problem Goss.

Stephanie Goss:

Oh, I love it. How's it going, Andy?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Oh, one foot in front of the other. Making it through this crazy year.

Stephanie Goss:

It's crazy time. I think when this episode comes out, we will be in Las Vegas for WVC. Either there or heading there the following week. And I'm looking forward to that and getting excited about seeing our friends and colleagues. Had so much fun when we went to VMX in January. It was so good to see people and I'm looking forward to that. It's that busy time, man. There's so much happening. All the things are spinning at once and it is crazy busy right now.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, it is. But you know, there's some good things too. The spring is coming. I can see, I'm starting to see little shoots popping up through the ground. Some of my plants that lost all their leaves have these little buds on them. Never forget that life is good. And also, everything comes in cycles. I think that's where I'm living right now. Is that everything comes in cycles and this too shall pass.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so, my family's had a rough start to the year, which is people being sick and just stressful stuff. But overall, we're really, really lucky. We haven't had any serious health problems like a lot of people who get COVID have had. And you know what I mean? When you really zoom out, you go, this is all okay. It's going to be fine.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And anyway, it's just, I'm thinking a lot about that as cycles just come and go. I saw an interview with, it was the Actor Studio, and somebody asked Tom Hanks, if he could give advice to his younger self, what would he say? And he said, this too shall pass.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And he said, when you make a movie and everybody hates you, this will pass. And when you make a great movie and everybody loves you, that's also going to pass. And I was like, you're speaking to me, Tom.

Stephanie Goss:

That's some solid advice.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. You're speaking to me buddy. That's where we are.

Stephanie Goss:

Oh, man. Well, I am excited for today's episode. You and I recently were doing a meeting and where we're hanging out with a bunch of practice managers mostly, and had a great conversation with them about a question that somebody asked. And they asked, how do I balance doing my job when the team gets mad and feels unsupported when I don't cover staff shortages, because everybody is short-staffed right now. Everybody is dealing with the normal winter sick plus the COVID and everybody's tired and burned out and people are taking vacations and all of the things.

Stephanie Goss:

And so everybody is dealing with being shorthanded more regularly, I think, than potentially in the past. And so, this one immediately resonated with me so hard because I struggled with this more than once in my time in the clinic because it's so hard. And it's so common. And so, I think we both were like, “Yes, we should talk about this on the podcast.” Because it is not exclusive to the group of managers we are with. It is something that happens to everybody.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think it's worth talking about both from a headspace perspective as we do, and also a logistical like how do you avoid this? How do you set yourself and your team up for success?

Dr. Andy Roark:

You know what's funny, is the actual avoiding it is generally the easy part. It's the mindset that is required. That is the hard part. But it makes a break. That's why I really like this question. And I see a lot of managers. Specifically managers. And sometimes head techs, but often it's managers, and the group that seems to be most affected in my mind are the people who have been veterinarians who have moved up into a management role, like a medical director role or a practice owner role.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And technician support staff, front desk staff who have moved up into a practice manager role. That was you as well. Right, Steph. You did that.

Stephanie Goss:

Oh yeah. That's the hardest part. Because you have the skills, right?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. And I'll lay out why those groups really get pinched. I think people who come in as a manager, have so much easier of a road in this specific way. So, I really like this problem and this is some real psychology judo, that we get to do. And so I'm going to really try to throw some people around today and like, I got to shake you and make you see this a little differently.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then you have to believe it so that you can communicate it in meaningful ways to other people. But this is a common problem. Especially during the times when so many practices are shorthanded.

Stephanie Goss:

All right. So let's start as we do with the headspace.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The first thing that we got to do is get not defensive, not combative, not frustrated. It's really easy to get ticked off because you are leading this team, you are working your butt off and someone says, “Can you put on lead apron and take these radiographs?” And you're like, “No, I can't.” And they're like, “Agh, thought you cared about pets. I thought you cared about the staff.”

Stephanie Goss:

Well, and it usually happens when you are running through the hospital, doing something else. Right? It's not happening in the moment when you are on the floor to observe the team. And it's like, “Hey, can you help us with this patient here in the moment.” The frustration comes when you are clearly doing something else in your mind, and the team is also asking you, “Hey, can you do this thing?”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. Well, because if you were hanging out on the floor, like, “Hey, I'm here to support you guys.” And they're like, “Can you put in these lead apron and do this thing that you've been trained to do and have plenty of experience with.” You would just do it and then no one would get upset. And then you wouldn't even think about it again. It's only when you are busy, you're doing other things. You've got 87 fires.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You are looking for a doctor to sign some paperwork or to explain what happened in the one-star review that you just found online. Because the person is going to call with a reporter and wants to talk to you. And you're like, “I need this now.” And someone's like, “Can you hold this cat, for some blood.” And you're like, “No.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

And they're like, “Ah, fine then. Just leave us here.” And then you feel like crap. Right? Something we've been talking a lot about recently incongruence is this mindset. And I love this. I wrote about it recently when I was writing about people who struggle with, are you a real vet? So people who had been in full-time practice and then were not anymore.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I think a lot of those people really struggle with the question of, Hey, now that I'm not practicing every day, am I a real vet? And when we talk about that and how we feel that way, it really focuses on this idea of incongruence. And what that means is, there is an ideal way that we see ourselves. Like when you look at Stephanie Goss, and you look in the mirror and say, “This is ideal Stephanie Goss.” Like what I want to be.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then you say, who am I actually? And if the, who am I actually, and what is ideal Stephanie Goss, if those are different, that's a problem. It makes us feel uncomfortable. It makes us feel like we're not who we want to be. When I was 15 years old and I thought ideal Andy Roark looked like Arnold Schwarzenegger, and I stepped in front of the mirror. A scrawny pasty, 165 pound Andy Roark. I was like, “I'm failing. I'm clearly not where I want to be.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Again, it's that comparison is a thief of joy. But you can compare yourself to the ideal version of yourself, and steal your own joy. It's this weird internal self-damaging mindset. And so we see that. And that's why it hurts. Is because when the technician says to you, “Hey, can you jump in and help out?” You see yourself as the person who jumps in and helps out. You may still identify as the veterinarian on the floor or the technician on the floor or the CSR on the floor. And your ideal version of yourself would totally fix that problem and help that person.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But your actual person does not have time to put on that lead apron. They don't have time to jump up and start taking those phone calls. And so then, your actual self and your ideal self are not matching up. And you get this deep-seated unease, where you go, I'm not who I'm supposed to be. I'm not the hero that I want to be. And that's called incongruence. And it bothers us deeply.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so that's why we feel that way. At the same time, it's totally reasonable for someone to say, “Hey, I need help. And I know that you have these skills and you seem to be just walking past.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so them asking you does not seem unreasonable or bad. And so anyway, that's where we end up with, why does this happen? Well, because someone needs help and they see you a capable person who could help them. And they ask you, and you have a vision in your head of being a person who jumps in and helps. But now you're not doing that.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And there's the internal irritation. And there's the external irritation. When the person who needs help sees you walking by and asking for help. And you say, “I don't have time to help you.” It can make them feel unimportant.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You know?

Stephanie Goss:

Yep. I think it happens and I think it's hard because, from the team's perspective, your job is to make the practice run. And the practice runs taking care of patients and clients. And so it doesn't matter which side of the coin we're talking about. Doesn't matter whether the front desk is flagging you down or the team in the treatment room needs help with the patient.

Stephanie Goss:

This is exponentially more common and more difficult when you have a skillset, because you were once part of the team. Right?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Sure,

Stephanie Goss:

Whether it's that team or another team, you were a player, you were on the field. You did this stuff and the things. And so they see you, and they have a patient in front of them or a client in front of them. And the path of least resistance for them is to say, “Oh, Stephanie, I need your help with this thing. Makes perfect logical sense to them. And so the reason why it happened is because when you step into a role as manager, you absorb the knowledge that your job is more than just doing the stuff and the things.

Stephanie Goss:

And you have to do your job to really push things forward. And so the struggle happens when you're having that internal argument that you were talking about, Andy, in terms of how you see yourself and what you think you're supposed to be doing and how you identify in that regard.

Stephanie Goss:

They're just seeing a problem in front of them, and you are the answer. And in your brain, there are multiple other answers. And so it's that the why it happens, the frustration, the reason why it happens is because your answer is not the answer they want. Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. Exactly.

Stephanie Goss:

That's the path of least resistance. Is if your answer is the answer that they want, and you just do what they want you to. And you know that to be successful at your, it means that sometimes arguably most of the time, your answer should be no. And that sets you up for a battle.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. And that's exactly it. Right? The first step in the head space on this is like, why does it happen? It's obvious why it happens. And if you were in the sports staff, you would ask for help as well. That's a common thing. Especially when most of us beat the drum and say, “We're a team. We look out for each other. We support each other. All for one, one for all. Teamwork first.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

The message of, no, I can't help you, seems incongruous with that messaging that we put forward. And so it's totally understandable why it happens. I think you're absolutely right. In the short term, for their problem, you jumping in and helping them is the easiest solution. And the other thing is, we all tend to be a bit self-interested. We all tend to look at the problem that we have and think that it is the most important problem because we have it.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so, when they are waiting to get help and they need help to take these radiographs, they need help to draw this blood, they need help to get these charges put into the computer, whatever they need help with, they have a strong bias towards wanting to solve this specific problem.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so they push that forward. Starting with compassion is key. Right? These are not bad people. They're not being jerks. And I think it's easy to be like, why don't they see value in me? Look, man, they're just busy. You're taking this too personally. They're just busy and they're just trying to do their job.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And honestly, most of them are working shorthanded. And that's stressful for anybody. So this person is under stress trying to do a lot of things, just understand where they're coming from. That doesn't mean that you have to jump in and do it. And we're going to talk about how we set ourselves up for success in that regard.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But at least, it's just, everything is easier if you don't take it personally that they're asking. And just understand. Yeah. That's why they feel this way. And this is why I feel this way. And this is what's going on. And no one is the bad guy and no one's trying to be the bad guy. Just put all that stuff aside.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes. I agree. You have to have compassion to not take it personally.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

Because the second that you take it personally, that's when it turns from mild frustration in the moment that you've said no, into a thing of some degree. Whether it's that person is just now ticked off and is in a bad mood for the rest of the day, or they then are like, it builds. It builds when we take it personally.

Stephanie Goss:

And so I think that for me is like the self-awareness. And compassion place like this is where you have to have empathy for them and empathy for yourself and force yourself to take a step backwards and tell yourself, and believe me, I've been there in the moment. This is not about you. T

Dr. Andy Roark:

Totally.

Stephanie Goss:

It's not about you. Don't take it personally.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. That's exactly right. And people get frustrated and they're like, these people have no idea what I do. That's true. [crosstalk 00:16:23]. They don't have an idea what you do. You go into the office and you close your door and they have as much of an idea of what you do as you had an idea of what the manager did before you became the manager.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That's it. That shouldn't be something that makes us angry. That should be something that makes us compassionate. And when we say, they just have no idea what compounds this. And this is why this is so important to talk about. You and I have absolutely seen people who have been just handcuffed by an inability to get past this and get off the floor.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Like guys, the number one career limiting situation that I see for managers and medical directors, is the inability to work on the business. Because they're so fixated on working in the business. And that's it. How many practices out there are just treading water because the leadership is seeing appointments all day, instead of actually leading and growing the business.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Solving the problems that would make the appointments more of efficient and more, I don't know, more likely to achieve great client, patient outcomes and more lucrative for the practice. A lot of them. I see so many people who are like, “I don't have time to fix problems because I'm just seeing patients.” And I'm like, that's a bad choice.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That's a bad choice. And again, and it's not your role to see patients. It's your role to lead the practice and take care of things at an organizational level. If you are doing individual work, when it's your job to run the organization, you're doing the wrong thing. And there's no path out of there.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And everyone wants to say like, “Oh, if I just work on the floor a little bit harder, then I'll get time to go and do the management.” I'm like, “No, you won't. Never happens.” Here's the thing, if you jump in and do the management, then life on the floor for everyone is going to get easier.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But you have to believe that. And a lot of people, especially when they came up from the floor, they don't believe it. They either don't believe it because they never been in a practice where they had strong leadership that was really able to make things happen. They don't believe it because of the long progression that it takes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

It's funny, there are very few things in leadership. We always like to believe that there are wins that we can go in and we can do something on Monday and by Friday, people will be celebrating our genius and our work. Like that doesn't happen. It really is a long time. But what happens is, two years later, people look back and go, “This place is a different place to work.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

And it's amazing, but you don't get that immediate positive pat on the back, that reward of when you held the cap for the blood draw, and people go, “Hey, thanks buddy. Really appreciate you jumping in.” People aren't like, “Hey, thanks a lot for working on those standard operating protocols and job descriptions. You really, boy, that was great.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

But the truth is the standard operating procedures and the job descriptions across the organization had an exponentially greater impact, than you holding one single catch for a blood draw.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But this things are hard to see.

Stephanie Goss:

I think the last piece of that that you didn't address is that they're not empowered to do it. And I see this a lot where the expectation that is set for the role is that you lead, and work on the business and you do all of this stuff. And you're being asked to work in a role capacity, whether it's at the front desk or as a technician or as a doctor.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think the empowerment piece is a big piece of the conversation. And it's not exclusive to corporate practice. I hear the conversation a lot for people who are managers or medical directors and leading in a corporate environment. But I will also tell you, I have seen and worked in private practice where, I have not been empowered by the practice owner to do the actual job that they've hired me to do, because the expectation is also that I'm doing this other thing.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think there has to be a conversation about what is realistic. And this is a giant soapbox for me because I think you and I both align very much so that it is an unrealistic expectation.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

To ask someone to do a full-time job, leading a practice in a truly administrative role, and also work a majority of the time in a role in the practice. It's a lose, lose situation for that person. And it's also a lose, lose situation for the team. And so I think the empowerment piece is the last piece of that triangle that has to be talked about.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Well, it's funny. It's become a bit that you and I do. It is how many times have we tag teamed and beat up people that we love. Like the leaders, the practice owners, the medical directors who come to us. And we say to them this thing where they'll say, I got a practice manager and I got my head tech and I gave them a job to do, and I gave them a job description.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then you look at them in their face and say, did you give them time to do the job that you gave to them? And they just look back and you can see the gears turning. And I've seen it so times now. I try not to enjoy it, but I do. I enjoy the painful growth that this person is having.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You know what I mean? And it's good for them. And they have to. And trust me, I have that same painful growth. It's leader-like. We all grow. Growth is painful and it's uncomfortable. Especially like, we all like to think that we just hear the right answer and we just get it immediately. There's a lot of things where we just have to sit with them for a while.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And this is one of the things that so many people sit with is they'll say, “Well, I made this job description and I got this person. And I handed it off to my technician and I made them the head technician.” Or, “I made the CSR into the office manager. And they're supposed to be handling this.” And they'll say, “They're supposed to be handling this.” And then we will say, “Did you give them time to handle this?”

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And they're like, “No.” And I'm like, making the job description and saying all the things, but then not having time to do the things, that's not any better than not making the job description. Because it probably just makes them feel worse because now they know they're failing in a thing. As opposed to before, they were just doing the work and we're happy with that.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so, I think you're totally right. Part of it is the empowerment. Hey, you have the ability to do these things, but are we giving them the time, the capacity to actually carry these things out? The answer for a lot of this is no. And what that really does, that sets up a really interesting conversation between the medical director, the practice owner, and the manager. Or between the manager and the head technician or the lead CSR or whatever.

Dr. Andy Roark:

When the lead CSR says to the manager, “Hey, you have these things you want me to do. And we've decided their priorities and they're really important. Help me figure out when I'm supposed to do this stuff.” And that should not be an earth-shaking mind-blowing conversation opener, but it is for a lot of people.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And they go, “I don't know.” And said we'll get into that in the action steps but, no, I think you're exactly right. And again, nobody's bad. I feel like I talk about this and people go, because they see themselves in it. Let me just be honestly, a hundred percent candid. Guys, I run my team. And the things that I give to them and then later on, they'll say, “When am I supposed to do this?” And I go, “Oh, yeah. Sorry.” I'm bad about this.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes. We are.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I just assume people are going to get it done and if they can't get it done, they're going to let me know. And I think that that is a dangerous assumption and it's one that I am so bad about making. And so, I think when I say I enjoy seeing leaders have this pain for growth, it's because it's commiseration. You know what I mean? It's like, uh-huh, you also have to feel this pain that I feel.

Stephanie Goss:

Well. And I joke and say, it's because I have no filter, but it's also because I have been in that position on both sides of the coin. And so I ask the question because I know how painful it is on both sides. And I also know that I have never, in my personal experience, been able to solve this problem without, I call that piece of it, the elephant in the room. Like until you address that, you're trying to manage up to unrealistic expectations, and you're set up to fail.

Stephanie Goss:

And so, we talk on the podcast a lot about, what are the building blocks to have some of these conversations and approach some of these. And this is very much one of those things where you have to look at yourself and say, how have I been set up to fail as the manager?

Stephanie Goss:

And the number one culprit in my experience is that you're not actually empowered to do what you're supposed to be doing. There's unrealistic expectations about how you're spending your time and what you're supposed to be accomplishing. Or on the flip side, there's unrealistic expectations on your team's part.

Stephanie Goss:

And so your team, and that's where the taking it personally comes in here. Look, when your team is mad and frustrated, because they're shorthanded. And they're just bitter that you're not helping them and you're doing other things. They don't know what your job is. They don't care what your job is. And you can waste your time and energy. And I approached it this way on more than one occasion, trying to explain to them what my job was and why it was so important. At the end of the day, it still doesn't matter. They still don't care.

Stephanie Goss:

And that comes off as mean, and everybody gets offended by it. But the reality is, they don't care. It doesn't change their day radically to understand what your job is. Your job is to figure out how do I help them solve their problem and eliminate some of the barriers to move them beyond this piece of it. And so in that regard, we have set them up to fail when there aren't clear communications and expectations about what your job is.

Stephanie Goss:

And that's the piece I think that a lot of people leave out. Is they're like, well, the manager has this big, important job. They're in charge of HR and payroll and running the practice. But team doesn't understand that on a granular level. And so the step because people are like, I don't know how to explain all of the things that I possibly could do to the team.

Stephanie Goss:

The step that most of us miss is communicating the expectations to the team of what they can expect from you. And this is a great example of that. Look, the team should know when you're shorthanded, when do you jump in and when do you not. That should be an expectation. It could be an unwritten rule of thumb, but I have on a personal level, my own barometer that I use to say, “Okay, are they truly drowning?”

Stephanie Goss:

And the long-term effects of them drowning here, or a patient dying because there is improper supervision or someone just absolutely losing their minds and walking out the door today. Like in a split second, measure that in my own brain and decide, is this truly a moment where it is more effective for me to step in and help them with the thing, or is it more important for me to do my job so that I can finish the interview. So that I can hire the extra body. So I can do the other things. Right?

Stephanie Goss:

And communicating a measure of expectation to them about that decision-making process. I think is really, really important, and it's a piece of the process that we skip a lot of the time. Because we focus from a headspace perspective on, we've got to get them to understand what my job is. But that's not actually, I don't think how you solve this problem.

Dr. Andy Roark:

No, I agree with that. We're going to talk about how to try that. And I think that you should at least make a passing attempt at it. And there are some ways that can make it successful, but I completely agree with you. There's not a scenario where they say, I'm not going to ask that person who's wearing scrubs, and standing there with her hands in her pockets for help, because I know at a deep level, how important what her main job. That's not the answer.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The answer is that you as the manager too, and this is the mental judo I talked about at the beginning, you have to believe in the value of managing as opposed to working as a technician. I don't mean a vet tech, I mean a technician and someone who actually puts their hands on the thing and does the work.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so I think that's the biggest thing that I see. And it's a perspective change. It's a short view change. The classic example of this is the independent practice. And you've got a veterinarian, who's also the practice owner and they have this manager. And they got a manager because there were enough things that they needed someone to do that aren't technician work. So they gave this person a title.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But they don't really understand what that role is or know how to use that person. And so in their mind, this person is support staff with a fancy title who has to get these other things done. And I go, “Buddy, you are fundamentally missing the boat. That is not what this is.” And the best analogy I can give, which is not very good. I don't think. It's like a chessboard.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then when I say that technicians, meaning people who work with their hands or pawns, don't get me wrong. I mean that just analogy of a chessboard. And the doctors are technicians as well. It's the staff. And you're trying to take this person and make them a Bishop. You're trying to make them a piece beyond something that has a greater impact and influence.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And it's funny how many people don't want a Bishop. They just want another pawn. And you go, “This is dumb.” You're taking something that could be very helpful and transformative, and using it in a, not unimportant, but a very small scoped way. And it's like misusing your tools.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so I think the managers themselves have to see themselves as managers. And have to have that mental perspective of, I play at the organizational level. It's my job to make this business run more smoothly, not the individual patient experience.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That's not my job. And I know when I say it that clearly people are going to recoil. And I think I push that hard because so many people are on the other side. And they're like, “No, you should totally jump in here with this specific pet.” I'm like, “You should not be practicing at the individual level. You should be practicing at the organizational/business level.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And when you keep getting pulled down to the individual level, especially if that means you're not getting to do the organizational level, everyone is being negatively impacted by that. In a very small way that they don't even see, but it's there. And so you have to see it. You have to believe it.

Stephanie Goss:

A hundred percent. Because when you do your job for them, nobody wins in the long term. I truly believe that. And there's two really big pieces of that for me. One is, if you are not observing them, but you're just doing the actual job, the team doesn't ever get any lessons from you in how they can improve. You don't have that 30,000 mile view if you're on the field. You can't step back and have that perspective.

Stephanie Goss:

And the second piece is, I always say this because I know the very painful place that results when you do this. When you do the job long enough and you jump in and save them over and over again, not only does that become your business model, but you wind up with a team that cannot function without your intervention or involvement. And that is the worst-case scenario for everybody.

Stephanie Goss:

And that is one of the biggest dangers in this moment. And that's where I was talking about, like I have to, in order to truly grow as a leader, you have to develop your own internal split-second decision-making tool to figure out and factor for yourself, is this a case where I need to say no, because if I say, yes, I'm just going to keep doing the job. And I'm not going to actually be able to help them grow and learn and move beyond as a team.

Stephanie Goss:

That is one of the hardest things to learn how to do. And be totally vulnerable and honest with you guys, I've been doing this a long time and at my practice even right before I left I was so guilty of this. Because it's hard when you have the skillset and you can do the things. The path of least resistance for you is to put on the cape and be the hero and save the day and jump in and hold that pet. Or scrub in and help in surgery, or sit at the front desk and cover because somebody's out again.

Stephanie Goss:

It feels really good to feel like you're helping the team in the very short run. And in the long run, it feels really, really crappy because I have never not had it be a situation where ultimately the team gets super frustrated and they're angry with you. And then you're dealing with the fallout of the fact that you've been trying to do what you think is right. Which has helped them and saved the day. And they're still pissed at you. That's your lose-lose situation.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I agree. You want to take a little break here and then we'll come back and get into some action steps.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep. I love it.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Hey, Stephanie Goss, you got a second and talk about GuardianVets?

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. What do you want to talk about?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Man, I hear from people all the time that are overwhelmed because the phones never stop ringing. And I'm sure you hear from these people as well. Our caseload is blowing up and the doctors are busy and the phones just don't stop.

Stephanie Goss:

They never stop. That is a true story.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I'm amazed by how few veterinarians know about GuardianVets. This is a service where you have registered technicians who can jump in virtually and help you on the phones. You can flip a switch and GuardianVets can jump in and take some of the load off the front desk and they can handle your clients and get them booked for your appointments and give them support. And it really is a godsend.

Stephanie Goss:

Pre-pandemic it was amazing to me how many people hadn't heard about it for after hours call help. But at this point, I can't believe how many people don't realize that they're offering help during the daytime as well, which I would think right now is a huge benefit to practices because everybody is shorthanded. Everybody is drowning in phone calls. And so we talk about it. We've talked about GuardianVets a lot on the podcast and every time we do, we always get somebody who says, what is that?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Guys, if you're not familiar with GuardianVets, if you think that you could use some help on the phones or up the front desk, check them out, it's guardianvets.com. And if you mention our podcast me and Stephanie Goss, you get a month free. So check it out guardianvets.com.

Stephanie Goss:

Hey, you? What's you got happening on your calendar in March because the Uncharted Veterinary community has lots of things coming up that I don't think you're going to want to miss. First step in March, we have an awesome workshop by my friend Dr. Saye Clement. Saye is going to be talking about client curation with us. She's going to teach us how to learn to identify the types of clients that you want for your practice. And then what are things that you and your team can do to attract those kind of clients specifically.

Stephanie Goss:

It's happening March 13th at 12:00 PM Eastern time, 9:00 AM Pacific, and it is a two hour workshop. So put that on your clinic calendar, take a lunch break, go in late for the day if you're here on the West Coast. It is $99. It's free as always for our Uncharted members. And you can sign up at unchartedvet.com/events.

Stephanie Goss:

And then in the back half of the month on March 24th, my dear friend, Bret Canfield is doing a presentation that I am super pumped about. He and I are going to do some tag teaming on this. I am his wing man, moderator, and I am so excited for this because I went to Bret at the beginning of the year and said, “Hey, you are the person that comes to mind when I think about this topic, because you live this and you help teams breathe this. And I want to bring this to Uncharted and to the veterinary community at large.”

Stephanie Goss:

And that is the idea of more than an EAP. What can we do to make wellness happen in our practices? Brett is going to talk to us about the benefits of programs like EAPs but beyond that, what are some ways and things that we can do to create sustainability for our teams? Again, this is a two-hour workshop. It's $99 for the general public and it's free for our Uncharted members. It's happening on March 24th at 2:00 PM Eastern time. So 11:00 AM Pacific. So this one will hit my West Coasters lunchtime and mid-afternoon for those East Coasters.

Stephanie Goss:

It's a two-hour one. So again, make sure to check out unchartedvet.com/events for all of the upcoming events and registration. And I want to take a quick second to pause before we head back to the podcast. I have to show some serious gratitude to our friends at Banfield Pet Hospital. Andy and I have wanted to do transcripts for the blog for a while because we've had multiple colleagues reach out to us and say, “Hey, I've heard great things about the podcast. I would love to listen, but this is not accessible to me.”

Stephanie Goss:

And while we were trying to figure that out our friends over at Banfield stepped up and said, “Hey, we see you. And this is something that fits our values and our culture as a practice. We want to increase diversity and inclusion in veterinary medicine, and we would love to help with that.” And so they stepped in but in a big way and are sponsoring all of our transcripts for 2022.

Stephanie Goss:

So if you know someone who hasn't accessed the podcast, because there weren't transcripts available previously, send them to unchartedvet.com/blog. They can find all of the transcribed podcasts for 2022. And they can also find out more or you can find out more about all of the things that Banfield Pet Hospital is doing to increase diversity, inclusion and equity in veterinary medicine. And now back to the podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All right? Well, let's start to unpack this, shall we?

Stephanie Goss:

Sounds good.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All right. We often start our action steps with expectations. And I think that that's where we go here.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

We talked before about, the people that you work with are not going to understand what you do and that's not the goal. That doesn't mean they can't have expectations about how available you're going to be. And I think a lot of times when I say set expectations, they're like, that means I'm going to explain to everybody all the things that I'm doing. No, just, we need to let them know. Especially if you have been on the floor a lot. It is not wrong to step up at the staff meeting and say, I need to give you guys a heads up. I know that you're working hard.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Our business is growing. We are moving to shift and handle some different things and to evolve. I am not going to be as available on the floor as I have been in the past. And I just want you guys to all hear that and just be aware that you're probably not going to be able to pull me in the way that you have in the past. And that's just starting to set expectations.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You might go full on with them and say, guys I'm no longer be able to jump in and work on the floor. The management piece of this has just gotten too big and I'm going to be putting in my time there. And so I'm not going to be wearing scrubs. I'm not going to be able to jump in and do work on the floor. Please know that I love you, but I'm not going to be available. And then you're not telling them that when they're holding a screaming cat.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Right. When they're standing there with lead apron and thyroid protector on going, “Hey, we could just get this done if you would jump in here.” You're letting them know when there aren't any patients in the building.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

“Hey, this is coming.” And oftentimes that is the best thing to do is, break the news to them when they're not panicking. And then when you gently enforce the barrier later on, it's not news to them. So start off by setting expectations and just saying, “Hey, this is what you can expect. Things are going to be a little bit different going forward.”

Stephanie Goss:

And I think in my experience, it's really important to set expectations and start in a very small and measurable way for them. So for example, if the team is shorthanded right now, this is not the time to have the big grand conversation about my job as a manager is really involved and takes a lot of time. So I'm going to be shifting my time and energy to that, right?

Stephanie Goss:

That is an important piece of the conversation, but they're not going to absorb that in any way, shape or form if they're panicked in the moment. And so for me, I would say the wins come easier when you say, “Hey guys, I need your help in the next week. I'm looking at the schedule, we've got three people out sick. We are shorthanded. I am trying to complete interviews so I can reschedule these interviews and I can step in and I can put myself on the schedule or I can finish the interview so we hopefully can get another person starting sooner rather than later.”

Stephanie Goss:

Sometimes it's about giving them simple choices. Sometimes you might not give them a choice at all. You might just tell them this is the thing, but being very specific and granular about the choice and the transparency I think is really, really helpful. Because when they are experiencing the situation that causes that frustration over feeling like they're shorthanded and you're not helping zooming out to that big picture is a leap that often most teams as a whole collectively have a really hard time making.

Stephanie Goss:

So start with a small specific piece, “Hey, this week.” “Hey, the next two weeks, this is what my schedule change is going to be and why?” There's a big, we have to change our payroll system and I want to make sure you guys are going to get paid. And so here's what that means for my schedule. I just wan to let you guys know, because I know we're shorthanded and I know in the past, historically, I've jumped in and I've stepped to role and I've worked on the floor, in order for this to happen I cannot do that.

Stephanie Goss:

And I just want everybody to know so we're all on the same page before we head into the next two weeks. Right. It's about being very specific and clear and transparent with them about a specific situation.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I agree. Education is key after expectations, right?

Stephanie Goss:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Dr. Andy Roark:

They don't know what you do. And if you are a black box, they're going to continue to be frustrated. And I see that a lot. This does not mean that you are going to show them your to-do list. Because I have 100% same people will just be like, and then I had to do this, and then I had to do this. The staff's like, we don't care. There is some level of information sharing when you say guys going into this week, my top priorities in the manager office are going to be to work on hiring.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I really want to push this and get it done. We're going to be trying out some new strategies to get people in, but my work is going to be on expanding the team to reduce the workload on you guys. So, sharing just in broad terms, what are you doing so that they can at least say, “Hey, she's not coming in and helping us on radiographs. She's working on hiring.”

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Just that level is fine. The other piece to this education. And I think you really hit on it very nicely Stephanie is, they care most about what you are doing in the context of helping them.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Which means-

Stephanie Goss:

The what's in it for me?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Exactly. Right. And I want them to feel that way. I want them to believe that the sacrifice they are making by not asking me to jump in on the floor it's an investment that they are making. That's really where my head goes is, you guys are not going to ask me to jump in and do stuff or you're not going to get upset if I say no, because you know that I am doing something that is going to be beneficial for you. And that is the way you look at people, and again, everybody's self-interested.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You know I said, everybody looks at what they're trying to do and getting home at the end of the day to their family, safe and sound and happy, so that they can enjoy their life. That's how they look at it. And so how do I make it so that not asking me for help in the moment is in your best interest. And I'm just going to think about messaging. And again, this is not a big deal.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I'm not trying to shore this up and make up PowerPoint presentation where they do the math and figure it out. But I have to give them at least something where they can go, okay, it's possible that I'm better off not asking Andy because he is at least working on these things that I think will benefit me or make my life easier.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so those are the keys for me with education. Give them something so that you are not a black box and they have some idea what's going on, do your best to frame it in a way where they see value for them in letting you get your work done.

Stephanie Goss:

Mm-hmm (affirmative). Yep. I totally agree.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So, yeah, beyond that once you set the expectations and you give them some education, you need to make yourself inaccessible. And there's a couple of different ways to do this. And I think this is the thing that just screws people up as the managers who are like, I don't have time to do all the work. And I say, well, what do you do? And they're like, I wear scrubs and walk through the treatment room on a very regular basis.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I'm like, Hmm, I see why you may be having headaches here. You know? Big drums that I beat really hard. The biggest bad habit that I see in managers is multitasking. And again, it's because they come from the floor and they're like, I can do all the things. And they are leading people, growing the organization, answering a continuously ringing phone, walking through the treatment area where people are shouting questions at them, and asking them to do things.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I'm like, I'm sorry, buddy. You are wildly inefficient right now. When it comes down to getting your work done, this is a terrible way to get your work done. And so you and I talk about time management and we talk about blocking your time. I am a big believer in work blocks and time blocks. You should put a block on your calendar that says, I'm doing a payroll at this time.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And you should not be walking through the clinic, and you should not be taking phone calls, you should get payroll done. And when you get it done, then it will be out of your way. And then you can take phone calls, and then you could walk through the clinic and you may be able to jump in and help people. Right? But you have got to block this thing off. I'm a big fan of managers having some work from home time.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I mean, how many managers do you know who are like, I do payroll or inventory management from home over the weekend. And I'm like, that you shouldn't be doing over the weekend. But the point is they're like, I can get it done in half the time if I do it at home. Yes. That's true. And so why don't you do it from home every week or every other week? Right?

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Block that time. I'm a big fan of my manager being at home for a half a day, once a week. And just say, these are the things that I knock out and I do it and no one comes and gets me, and the phone doesn't ring and I get these things done. Multitasking is a lie. It's not true. It's not efficient. People can't do it. It ultimately makes the quality of your work less and it takes more time. And so blocking that time, I'm not available. I'm doing these things. That stuff is so important.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, to add to that, I have some food for thought and I might blow some people's minds and I might make some people mad when I say this, but I will say that when I think about starting in a practice and I think about moving up into a leadership role, part of why I was given my job was because the doctor, owner of the practice was getting interrupted with the stuff and the things, and they couldn't be the doctor, or they couldn't be off on their day off because they were getting these stuff and the things, they were getting interrupted.

Stephanie Goss:

So the manager role gets layered in there because now you can interrupt the manager, that's your go-to person. So instead of asking the owner doctor or the leader doctor who's doing the important things, you're going to ask the manager. And that is where I think a lot of us have been set up to fail on a fundamental level. And that's some of what I was talking about in terms of empowerment.

Stephanie Goss:

You should be able to say to your team, “Hey, don't interrupt me for the next hour, because I'm doing payroll and I need to get it done.” And I will tell you having been in this position and having said just that, walked through the building, told everybody I'm going to go, I'm shutting my door. I'm doing payroll. Unless the building's on fire and you're trying to tell me to evacuate, don't come interrupt me. And then someone will come and knock on the door and they're like, but Mrs. Smith is on the phone and she's really angry, so I don't want to interrupt the doctor.

Stephanie Goss:

So I need you to know what I'm supposed to do with her. Well, when we think about what we've trained our teams to do in terms of not interrupting the doctor, the step that we miss a lot of the time is giving them that same training for us as the managers. There needs to be some boundaries like Mrs. Smith literally does not need me to get on the phone with her right this second.

Stephanie Goss:

If the team has been trained and empowered to say, you know what Mrs. Smith, she's in a meeting right now. Let me let her know what you and I have just talked about and I will have her call you back as soon as she is done, or by two o'clock this afternoon, or however you choose to empower the team to communicate that. But the answer is we have set ourselves up for failure.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think it trickles down from the reason why a lot of, especially in private practice, why a lot of managers got their role in the first place to your point is you've got an owner doctor who's like, I'm doing too many things. I can't do all of these things. So I'm going to put a manager in place. And then we don't set up those same boundaries and expectations. And that's where we fail to empower them fully in a lot of ways.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think it's really important to your point, you could only accomplish those work blocks if one of two things happens. If you leave the building and you're completely out of sight out of mind, whether you're working from home or you go to the Starbucks down the street and work for an hour or whatever that looks like, they literally can't see you. They can't find you. So unless they come walk down the street to Starbucks and find you, you could be uninterrupted in a place like that.

Stephanie Goss:

Or we've set up the expectation that like, look, when I say this, I really mean it. Because I will tell you guys so many countless times. That knock on my door happened and I was like, I could just tell them to go away and I could coach them in the moment. And I could remind them of all the things they're supposed to say to Mrs. Smith. But the path of least resistance to me as the manager right now feels like let me just get on the phone and solve this problem so I can move on with my day.

Stephanie Goss:

And I give in to that. And that is I think on a fundamental level one of the single most difficult lessons that I had to learn as a leader. And it is one that I am still learning to this day, I will tell you. Learning the lesson that you have to have the self-control to lead and not do the thing. No one is going to stop you from doing the thing. They're always going to say, thank you for jumping in and helping this patient. Thank you for talking to Mrs. Smith.

Stephanie Goss:

They might not even thank you, but they are going to continue to ask you to do it if you do it. The only one who can stop that cycle is you. And that is one of the hardest skills to master as a leader.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. That's about being intentional in making yourself into the manager, right? It's seeing the value in the role. And then I think your example of the communication empowerment and what should they say to the angry person on the phone that's spot on. You have to train them on what to say when you're not available.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And it's so funny because we don't. We go, I don't have time to train them. I guess I'm just going to keep being interrupted during my job for the rest of my life. I understand the short term math is, it's easier for me to get the phone. The long term math is for God's sakes train these people so that they are empowered to say something.

Dr. Andy Roark:

To set boundaries for you so that you can then do the work. And I'm like, boy, when you do the math on that the investment is a no brainer, but it's amazing how few people do it. And so, yeah. You're going to have to talk to them about what to say when you are in your work head downtime. But do it.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes. Because it's no different. It's been a long time since I've been in a clinic where if a client called and said, I need to talk to the doctor that the team's answer would be, okay, let me get them for you. That's not a thing that happens. Right? We have created protocols and processes to deal with that situation.

Stephanie Goss:

And it's amazing to me, how many instances when someone says, whether it's client or a member of the team, I need the manager or let me get Stephanie, it's amazing how many of us fail to have those same processes in protocols. And you can't do the work blocks. You can't chunk your time. You can't do what you were talking about, which is stop the multitasking and just really lean in and focus and get a single thing done.

Stephanie Goss:

You can't do that if those safety mechanisms are not in place and the doctor doing their doctoring work is just as important as you doing the work to run the practice. And so it would challenge those of you guys who are like, well, my role is to be the one who can be interrupted because the doctor can't, I challenge you to rethink that. Because it's not healthy and you're not going to succeed in the long run if you don't.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I completely agree with that. I think that's super important. Big takeaways for me, you need to be intentional about your time as a manager. You need to recognize that it takes time to do your actual work and you need to believe that the time of a manager is more valuable than the time of an individual technical person on the ground doing the work because you're working on the whole business and they're working on one patient inside of that business.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Doesn't mean that what they're doing not critically important, but it just means you have a different job and a different responsibility. And if you abandon your job to jump in and help the individual patients inside the practice, in the long run, everyone is going to suffer compared to where they could have been had you stated your post as a leader and continued to build the practice and build the systems. Set expectations.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Let people know this is coming. Give them some training. Give them some tools to enable you to not be available. If it's the constant interruptions. Set clear visual barriers to them getting you. The best one is, you're not there. That's a clear barrier. I can't harass him he's not here. Short of that, consider not wearing scrubs. If you don't want to be doing technical work, don't wear scrubs. Wear manager clothes, wear nice clothes and just say, I can't jump in today guys.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And people won't generally ask you when they see you in your slacks. If you'll get down on the floor and wrestle this big [inaudible 00:56:37] dog, some people will, most people won't. You're sending them a clear signal about what your role is and what you're planning to do today with your time. Get a big piece of red poster board and tape it up onto your door that says, “Do not disturb. I'm not kidding, Donna. I'm serious. Don't do it.” And put it up.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I have people who are like, I don't have an office. Go and get big ass, air traffic controller, headphones. The huge nozzles that you stick on the side of your head, and they're noise canceling headphones. And people are like, oh, I have earpods to do that. Don't use them. I want something enormous. I don't care if they block sound, go get safety ear protection from the hardware store that's big neon orange and say to the team when I have this on, do not bother me.

Dr. Andy Roark:

These are my magic I am not here headphones. Or ear protection that I am putting on. And that sounds ridiculous, but it really is. I don't have an office to go into and close the door. So I'm putting this on my body, in my head and please do not bother me when I have these things on. And just try to create space like that. But guys that's the key to it.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. The other trick that I used for years when I didn't have an office was a sign that would go on the back of my chair. Right? Like Andy was saying, you put the big sign up on your office door. If you have one great. If you don't, you need to make sure that people approaching you from any direction are going to realize that you are in a bubble. And so whatever that looks like in your space, the earphones are great because to Andy's point, people can't see the earbuds when they're in your ears.

Stephanie Goss:

I can't tell you how many times I would be wearing earbuds and someone would come up, and I'm on a call, I'm talking sometimes even to a client and someone comes up and starts talking to me because they have no idea that I'm on the phone. That is the downside to creating the ability to talk with a little tiny thing in our ear. Right?

Stephanie Goss:

And so thinking about how do I visually cue them? The headphones are great. The sign on the back of your chair. At one point I literally would wear a sign hanging around my neck and wear one on the back of my chair. That was, unless the building is on fire-

Dr. Andy Roark:

Like one of those sandwich boards?

Stephanie Goss:

Yes. Don't interrupt me. For years they had a hanging sign that went around my neck. And it just was like, I can't. This is how I can visually cue you. And that came out of a conversation with the team because they would say, oh, we don't realize that you're on the phone. Okay. So how do we solve that visually? I think that that is so important.

Stephanie Goss:

And I think the last thing for me from a solving it perspective is, you're going to disappoint them, that's the best word I can think of, to some degree when you say no because they are looking at you, they're like, can you help? And you say, no. There's going to be some level of disappointment. So the challenge that I would give to all of you who are struggling with this is, tell them what you can do for them and be intentional about how you do it.

Stephanie Goss:

And so when we were really shorthanded and I was struggling so hard because we were shorthanded, look, I came up from the front desk, but I became a technician. I went to school, I had the skills on both sides. There were so many days where I was like, look, I'm shorthanded in both departments. And I could jump in and solve this problem, whether it was them asking me or me just knowing that was the solution. It's a really hard position to be in.

Stephanie Goss:

And so look at it and be intentional because if I'm doing that job, then I can't do the interviews. Right? I can't get more bodies in place. I can't update the payroll system so everybody gets paid. The answer cannot be that you're just going to do the work on the floor and take all of that work home with you and do it at night until two o'clock in the morning. Or work a 60 hour week, week after week after week.

Stephanie Goss:

You can do that in the short term, and sometimes it's warranted. That's what you get paid a salary to do. Because sometimes you have to work a 50 hour week to get something done, and that's the trade off. That should not be the norm. And so for most of us we make that the norm. And so the best way, I'm going to challenge you guys to approach this, tell them what you can do for them. So when you are in that shorthanded space, it's like, look.

Stephanie Goss:

I sometimes had to break it down on a week by week level. Look, this week I've looked at the schedule. The two days who are the shortest are Monday and Friday. So I'm going to be available to you guys Monday and Friday to jump in wherever you need me, whether it's for the whole day or three quarters of the shift or whatever I can give them, and Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday from these hours to these hours or for the whole day or whatever, I'm completely unavailable.

Stephanie Goss:

Because this is what I'm doing instead. I'm scheduling interviews. I'm doing the payroll thing. Be clear and specific and you can't just tell them once. This is not a one and done. You have to tell them and you have to visually give them a queue. So whether that's posting your schedule up in the hallway where everybody can see it, putting it on slack every morning, “Hey reminder guys, I'm available today. I'm not available tomorrow.”

Stephanie Goss:

You got to be consistent and continue to give them that visual transparency to what your schedule is and what you can do for them. That is the only thing that I ever found in the moment to truly get them past that disappointment and get them back on the even ground where they're like, oh yeah, okay. I see you, you are communicating in a way that is making sense to me. And so they might still be disappointed, but it lessen that I feel like significantly so.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, I think that's great. I think that's a really good approach. Tell them what you can do. It's almost like you can't be all things to all people.

Stephanie Goss:

Funny.

Dr. Andy Roark:

It's so weird.

Stephanie Goss:

So weird.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Guys, thanks so much for being here. Guys, I hope this was helpful. Stephanie, thanks for talking to this with me.

Stephanie Goss:

This was a good one. Have a great week everybody take care.

Stephanie Goss:

While getting that's a rap on another episode of the podcast. And as always, this was so fun to dive into the mailbag and answer this question. And I would really love to see more things like this come through the mailbag. If there is something that you would love to have us talk about on the podcast or a question that you are hoping that we might be able to help with, feel free to reach out and send us a message. You can always find the mailbag at the website the address is unchartedvet.com/mailbag. Or you can email us at podcast@unchartedvet.com. Take care everybody, and have a great week. We'll see you again next time.

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Mar 02 2022

Can You Teach Someone How To Be A Team Player?

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This week on the podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie Goss are walking through their take on a conversation that Stephanie recently had with a fellow manager. This manager reached out, at their wit's end, asking “Please, tell me there is some sort of training/tools I can use because my team is struggling with acting like we are all team players! This every person unto themselves thing has GOT to stop.” We thought it would make a great podcast conversation to have with you all so let’s get into this…

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Stephanie:

Hey, everybody. I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of The Uncharted Podcast.

Stephanie:

Hey gang, this week on the podcast, Andy and I are tackling a walkthrough of a conversation that I recently had with a fellow manager who is on the struggle bus with something that I am also familiar with. I have experienced this at more than one point in time in my career, and that is asking yourself the question how in the heck do I get everybody to start acting like team players? Is there trainings that I can take, tools that I can use, tips and tricks? Please help me, because oh my goodness, it is every person unto themselves and I want to stop this. The backstory is that this manager friend had some things that were happening, had some one-on-one conversations, seems to get better for a little bit of time, and then slips right back to the way it was. Andy and I thought this would be a great one to talk together and share with you. Let's get into this, shall we?

Stephanie:

And now, The Uncharted Podcast!

Andy:

And we are back. It's me Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie, there is no I in team, Goss.

Stephanie:

How's it going, Andy?

Andy:

Oh man, we're hanging in there? One foot in front of the other.

Stephanie:

Yeah?

Andy:

Yeah, we made it through January and now we're surviving February.

Stephanie:

Yeah. The beginning of this year felt like it was 10 years long. That is for sure.

Andy:

Yeah. Yeah. Totally. Yeah. Yeah.

Stephanie:

Yeah. But we've got lots of fun stuff coming up and I keep looking out on the horizon. I can't believe we're already in the second month of the year. It felt 10 years long but also the blink of an eye.

Andy:

Yeah, no, no. We're paying our dues, too. It's going to be a good year. I'm convinced. I'm saying to myself it's going to be a good year. I'm going to get through the craziness that is January of 2022.

Stephanie:

Yeah. Yeah. We have got a good one today. I'm excited about this. I was having a conversation recently with another manager who was asking for recommendations for tools or trainings on how to be a team player. The backstory is that they said we've had some one-on-one conversations with people when it seems like individuals have struggled with cooperating as a team. And that works for a little bit, but they're kind of at the point where it just seems like there's a lot of every man for themselves and no one is really cooperating in a way that they have before. They were just like, “I feel like everybody could use some focus on how to be a team player.” It's funny, because when this conversation happened, just it's one of those ones that I've had before and I've certainly felt like that, like “Where do you start? Where do you even start with that?” Because it's such a big question. I thought it'd be fun for you and I to talk about.

Andy:

Yeah. I like it a lot. I think that's a super fun one. You ready to start unpacking it?

Stephanie:

Yeah, let's do it.

Andy:

All right. Let's do it. Okay, so team is not working as a team. What are some resources for that? It's kind of a cart before the horse approach, I think. Not being a team player is not a problem itself, it is a symptom of a problem. There's no here's the fix for this behavior. You are powerless to fix this until you figure out why it's happening. That's really the opening position, right. So it's a diagnostic opening here is the first thing. It's not, “Hey, here's how you fix it.” It's, okay, let's run some diagnostics and figure out why people are not working as a team. And then once we figure that out, then we can totally get into some tools and some ways to approach it and stuff like that.

Stephanie:

Okay. So we can't start until we put our medicine hats on and we're going look at it from the diagnostic perspective. That makes sense.

Andy:

Yeah, totally. Yeah. There's a ton of different things this could be. Are we having teamwork problems because we have a trust problem? Like, people don't know each other and they're not comfortable around each other. Is it a training problem? Like, they don't know how to work in or how to jump and assist each other. They don't know what the protocols are so they can interface with other people to get the job done because they don't want to be in the way, but they don't know what they're supposed to do, and if they do something wrong and people are going to snap at them, and they're just kind of like, “Oh, I'm just going to go do something else totally differently so that no one gets upset at me because I'm not doing it the wrong way.” I have 100% seen it. Like, “He's not a team player.” It's like, “He's terrified because everyone yells at him as soon as he starts to do something because he's not doing it right.”

Stephanie:

I laugh because it's true. I think we've all seen it.

Andy:

Absolutely. It's not even the person is untrained. They're just not trained in your way. Often the people who really struggle with this are who have experience and they've worked at another hospital and they came to your hospital and they're like, “I know how to do this.” And people are like, “What the hell are you doing?” You know? Then they're really taking aback and their ego's kind of bruised. Is this a training and onboarding problem? Is it a communication problem? Right? Are people not communicating their needs? My wife will occasionally just lose her ish at me and be like, “Why aren't you helping me?” And I'm like, “I'm sorry. I had no idea you were struggling.” No one told me no one told me that there was a thing that was happening that I needed to be involved with.

Andy:

“Why aren't you helping me?” I didn't know. I'm sorry. I was happily doing my own thing and that's why. I was not aware. We've all had that problem, too, of like, do they know what's expected or do they know that people need help or do they know how to ask for help? You know? Or does the team know to ask for help? All sorts of things.

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

Is this a system problem? Do you have a workflow set up that leaves people isolated? Do you have your practice staffed where there's people who they're not trying to be a lone wolf, they're just doing other things or they're doing the workflow system as it is and it doesn't really allow for them to get help or to give help because they're doing one thing, and other people are doing another thing, and they're in the radiograph room while other people are in the treatment room, and there's just the workflow that we have doesn't really facilitate us coming together and working as a group. Which may not be bad, but it's just, I don't want to keep going to somebody and going, “Hey Dave, man, you're not a team player.” And Dave's like, “I don't see anyone to be a team player with because-“

Stephanie:

There's nobody else in the treatment room.

Andy:

There's no one else in the treatment room. That's exactly it. Everyone else is working in the exam rooms and no one invited me. And you're telling me I'm not a team player. Is it a values problem? Right? Is the team not on board with all for one and one for all? Are they not like, “Hey, we're in this together.” I think where most of the team was like, “Hey, we're a team and we stick together and we all get done with our work and we all go home together,” meaning leaving at the same time. Maybe y'all go home together. Maybe it's just a big clown car that everybody takes back to their house. I don't know. Whatever people do in your … once they leave the building, they're not your problem. Just let them go in their clown car and live together.

Andy:

But they're like, “Hey, we all get finished. We all leave at the same time.” And one person's like, “I don't buy into that. It's every man for themselves and I am out of here at six o'clock and I will walk out and leave all of you guys drowning because that's what I do.” And again, there are some positive things to be said about the person who is serious about going home at six o'clock. It's just a values mismatch whenever other people think we're in this together and we're all going to finish and help each other so that we can leave as a group as quickly as possible. that's what I mean when it's got a values mismatch.

Andy:

Is this an incentive problem? Right? Do incentives match team play? It's funny. There's a lot of times, like you look at doctors a lot, right, and they'll get paid on production. It's like, “Hey Andy, you're going to get paid for what you do in the exam room.” And then they're like, “Andy, why aren't you hanging out with the staff more and why aren't you doing more staff training and why aren't you leading lunch and learn meetings?” And I'm like, “Because you pay me to go into the exam rooms and that's the only thing that you pay me for.”

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

Right? I don't advocate that position, that's not how I really feel, but that is the exact conversation that happens is you say we've incentivized this person to sometimes work by themselves and then we ask why they don't jump in and work with the team. It's like, “Well, the system is not set up to drive that behavior.”

Andy:

People are simple. You know what I mean? They respond to incentives and disincentives. And so sometimes when I say, “Hey, why isn't the team working together?” I go, “Well, what are their incentives to work together?And what are their disincentives to work together?” And a lot of times there's disincentives for them to work together, and so we want to dig into that.

Andy:

Is this a self identity or self worth problem? You and I talked a couple weeks ago. We had the cowboy or cowgirl tech. The people who take risks and we talked a lot about does this person see themselves as someone who works alone, who does things that other people won't do, that works harder than every one else and doesn't want to be slowed down by them? Is it a confidence problem? Is it a thing where they say, “Well, no, one's going to help me, so I'm just going to go do it myself because I guess people don't like me.”

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

You know? People, we all go through stuff and we can all feel that way. Sometimes we don't feel like we're worthy of help and so we just don't ask for help. We're like, “I guess nobody wants me because they see me standing here but they're not jumping in and doing anything.” And I go, “Hey buddy, let's talk about how we see ourselves.” And then maybe that gives us permission to ask other people for help. You know?

Stephanie:

Yeah.

Andy:

There's the problem, we talked a lot about it in Uncharted this comes up. I think a lot of us came up with this idea that we are the helpers. We don't get the help. You know? We don't ask for help.

Stephanie:

As an industry you mean?

Andy:

Well as an industry, even as in individuals. I think for a lot of us, I don't just say this for myself, I remember the period of my life when I saw myself very much as the helper, as the one who helped other people. And then one day I was roller skating with my daughter. We were at the roller rink.

Stephanie:

Was this the time you broke your ankle roller skating?

Andy:

Yes. Yes I did.

Stephanie:

Okay, just checking.

Andy:

Yes. Yep. There were some 80s hits playing and I was like reliving my glory days at the roller rink and then my daughter just goes down, and she yanked me down, and my ankle just popped. And then these little kids were jumping over me like I was an obstacle on a course. They would jump and then touch their skates with their hands as they jumped over me. I'm sliding myself off of the roller round, crying and my daughter's like, “Daddy, are you okay?” I'm like, “I'm fine. Just I just got something in my eye when I fell down.” It was awful. I had a boot and I had crutches and the whole thing. And my wife kept going, “Why won't you let people help you?”

Andy:

Like, “Your daughter feels so guilty and all she wants to do is make a sandwich for you.” Like, “That's all that she wants and you are not letting her. Why are you doing that?” And I'm like, “I don't know. I'm embarrassed just to ask for help or to let someone help me.” Maybe I'm the only person who feels that way. I don't think so.

Stephanie:

Oh, no. Oh, no.

Andy:

A lot of times when we say you're not a team player, it's like, “I don't see myself as someone who asks for help.” It's like I'm not trying to be a jerk, just it's a self identity thing. Right?

Stephanie:

Sure.

Andy:

And a lot of us came up where being silent and being strong is what's rewarded and what's what's aspired to.

Stephanie:

And when I was thinking about this episode, a lot of this for me is in the head space realm, and when we talk about action steps it goes to our safe acronym for me in a lot of ways. But I think your point about you don't know why you wouldn't let your kid help you, a lot of that is the stories that we tell ourselves in our head, and it's so much background noise that is happening. I think about it in the context of being a parent and just I've always been the one to do the things and just get done it the house. Right?

Andy:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Stephanie:

If the dishes are in the sink, I'm just going to do them. And in my head, I'm getting frustrated and mad because I'm like, “Why can't anybody else do any of this?” But the trueness of it is that I stopped asking because I just was like, “Nobody's going to do it.” And so I stopped talking about it. I think that's really, for me, the key to a lot of this from a head space perspective. A lot of it is wrapped up in that self identity, but also the thoughts that we tell ourselves in our head: the stories that we make up, the things that were the narrative, that dialogue that is happening, most of the time completely unconsciously. We're we not intentionally thinking, well, even if I ask Hannah for help, she's not going to help me, so I'm not going to ask her. Right?

Andy:

Right.

Stephanie:

That's not the dialogue that's happening in your head, but there is something in your head that is happening that is like, “Oh, I'll just do it myself.” You know?

Andy:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Stephanie:

Like, I don't want to burden anybody, so I'm just going to get the things myself. I hear that because I do it all. I think all of us do it. I certainly do it all of the time. I can think of lots of examples where that has happened to me.

Andy:

Yeah. Some people are just shy. If you're in a clinic of extroverts and everybody else is just talking and being, “Hey, I need this and can you do that?” Other people are just introverted and they're not the outspoken, “Hey, I'm here. I'm available if someone needs me.” Or, “Hey, can someone come and help me out with this so I can do something else?” It's just not their natural necessarily to vocalize what's going on in their mind, and so they're just naturally quiet. If they're unusual in their practice for that reason, that can come off sometimes as being a lone wolf or an isolationist.

Stephanie:

Well, and I think on the full side of that, I will say that I have felt as a bubbly extroverted kind of person when I am in a team that has a lot of more introverted or quiet people, the flip side can also be true, that I can feel singled out and single myself out and not be as extroverted as I normally would because I'm seeing everybody else be quiet and I'm trying to temper myself and not be too extra for them. Right?

Andy:

Yeah.

Stephanie:

You know? It's like, “I don't want to overwhelm them.”

Andy:

You over correct.

Stephanie:

I don't want to be a little too much for them. And so the opposite happens where then, and I have had people say to me, “I think that the team doesn't think that you like them.” And I'm like, “What? I'm just over here trying not to be the golden retriever and like lick all over them and then now they think I don't like them.” Right? That is 100% a thing that can happen on the flip side. We all can think of those teams where a lot of people are introverted and you have the one or two extroverts and that is probably some of the narrative. And so again, a lot of this comes back to you have to talk about it.

Andy:

That's hilarious.

Stephanie:

And you have to figure out where it's stemming from.

Andy:

You are the golden retriever that demands to be petted. You know what I mean? That just like sticks your head under people's hands. You're like writing that back in. Like, “Why doesn't she like this?” “Look, she's just retraining herself.” She totally … Just go get her excited. Just be like, “Hey Stephanie, how you doing? How you doing, Steph? How's it going, Steph?”

Stephanie:

It's like the puppy that's had obedience school and they're and they're sitting there just quivering and shaking because they want to jump and just love on you and they know they're not supposed. That's a lot of times how extroverts feel in a group of introverts. It's hard.

Andy:

I feel so seen. That makes me so happy. That makes me so happy. Oh, man. Okay. The last part of this, which I have to sort of say, and again, I don't know the person who asked this question, but I do have to put it back to a leader. I will say sometimes the, “Hey, this person is not a team player,” is a boundaries problem. You know what I mean? In that sometimes, and again, I don't know this person so I'm not saying this, but I have 100% seen clinics where the culture is to not have personal boundaries. And so when someone says, “I have personal boundaries,” other people go, “Hey, buddy, you need to get on board with the team.” I have seen that right?

Stephanie:

Yes.

Andy:

And so I put that back to the practice owners and say, okay, if you've got one or two people who are not on board with the program, are they not on board with the program because of any of the other reasons that I listed or are they not on board with the program because they're kind of setting some work-life boundary things and maybe what the team is doing is not something that they really want to be a part of? And maybe they're not wrong for that. I don't know.

Andy:

Let me sort of make this a little bit more clear. Let's just say that there was a pandemic. Just try to imagine there was a pandemic. And just say that you were kind and shorthanded and then pretend someone got sick and couldn't come in that day. If you call your technician on her day off and you are like, “Hey, can you come in and work today?” and they say, “No, I'm sorry. I can't. I have plans,” and don't elaborate. I'm not convinced that they're not being a team player.

Stephanie:

Yes.

Andy:

I think they may just have worked their work week and decided that they didn't want to in, and they're not under any obligation to come in because they weren't scheduled to come in, and they said, “No, I'm not going to do that.” That's not them being a bad person or that's not them failing to be a team player, that's just them setting some boundaries and telling you what they're willing to do and what they're not. And again, I don't know that that's happening here, but I do have to put it on because sometimes when I hear managers, leaders, owners saying this person's not a team player, I say this person is not on board with the lack of boundaries that the rest of the team is on board with.

Stephanie:

Yeah. I 100% hear that and I see that. I have gone through that. I think that's a natural growing pain. Both individually in terms of clinic size and also culturally as an industry, like when you make this shift from a very small practice where everybody is intimately connected, because it is very small, and you depend on each other it's like that. I hear lots of clinics talk about that family feel. You know? And when you make that shift in size, that is a natural growing pain to where you're going to start to have people who are like, “I've got plans. No.” And I have done it, it is very easy to look at that and be like, “Well screw Sarah. She's not a team player.” Right? Like that, “I would cover for her. Why won't she cover for me?”

Stephanie:

It's very, very easy to have that thought be the first thing that pops into your head and feel frustrated, so I hear that. I think that's a challenge for us as an industry, back to your point about self identity, we all thought of ourselves as family first. A lot of us thought of ourselves as family first kind of environments in our practices and business second for a really long time, and a lot of us are making the shift because of the tremendous growth that we've had as an industry over the last few years of growing in size and scope and capacity. And so, that's a natural growing pain. I think that I can imagine or hallucinate for a second that there's some people listening, going, “Oh,” and feeling guilty because maybe that's where their head was at. I just want to normalize for everybody, that's a really normal response. It's what you choose to do when you recognize that as a response that makes all the difference. But I totally have been there. It's really easy to feel like that.

Andy:

Yeah. Oh, absolutely. I mean, it's super easy to get there. And I think your point about clinic size is a good one. I mean, when you have a small clinic and there's just a couple of us, we all kind of have to flex and we all kind of have to cover. But what tends to happen is that clinics get bigger. There's more chaos, let's be honest. A bigger clinic has more chaos because they have more cause they have more people.

Stephanie:

Yes.

Andy:

And so if the idea is that people are going to sacrifice themselves to help manage chaos as the organization gets bigger, you have people who are constantly being called to sacrifice themselves to deal with chaos, and ultimately that's the path to burnout. Right?

Stephanie:

Yeah.

Andy:

You might've been able to jump in and help when it was six people, nine people, and we could get chaos under control, but then you move up to 35 people and you go, “Oh, this chaos never really seems the end.”

Andy:

There's this normal progression. And again, I really do think that it's a cycle of business. Right?

Stephanie:

Mm-hmm (affirmative).

Andy:

When you start off and you start doing this, you're kind of backs against the wall, your a little startup, you've got your own little mom and pop shop. People are there for you and hopefully you take care of your team and they take care of you and you all have a vision and you all want to do this and we work together. And then just over the years, that harder to do, and as the business grows, it gets sort of harder to do. Just it's a natural maturation process. I don't want to shame anybody for having to go through that. I think we all have to go through that.

Andy:

And at the same time, I always have to keep this in context, right? There is this thing that I always say to people who are on the staff, who are like, “Well, why should I ever come in and cover a shift? Why should I ever help?” And I say, “Guys work is a relationship and you should treat people like you want to be treated in a relationship and you should demand people treat you like you want to be treated in a relationship.” And if you go into this relationship and you say, I am not going to do anything at all that I'm not scheduled to do, and I not going to make any accommodations to try to help, then you should probably expect that's how you are going to get treated when you want accommodations.

Andy:

Maybe you're fine with that. I just kind of feel like we all need to see each other and kind of help where we can and still take care of ourselves. It is a balance. It's not just how dare you ask an employee to fill in, because I think it's totally reasonable to ask. But I think it's also totally reasonable for them to say, “No, I have plans.”

Stephanie:

Yeah. I want to put a pin in that and come back to it, because something you just said is at the top of the action steps for me. I think this is a really healthy list. We talked about is this a training problem? Is this a communication? Is this a systems problem? Is it a values problem? Is it an incentive problem? Is there some self identity or self worth problem happening? Is there a shyness or introversion or extroversion problem happening? And is it boundaries? I think the last thing from a head space perspective is that once you think through maybe where is this stemming from, not knowing the background here, I think the other question that you have to ask is it has to do with pattern.

Stephanie:

Is this the whole team? Is this one or two people? Is it happening repeatedly? Is it surrounding just a specific issue? Is this front versus back? I think that there's a lot of things that as a leader you need to look at in terms of patterns and process around what's happening in your investigation process before you plan your plan of attack. Because the reality is it's all good and fine to start to do some of the things that we're going to talk about in the action set process. With anybody at any time, teamwork should absolutely be a part of your culture. If you have one or two people that are toxic about a specific thing, the whole team doesn't need a meeting to talk about that. You need to talk directly to those one or two people about the specific pattern of behaviors that you're seeing. I think that's the last thing for me in terms of head space is I think you really need to get clear on what is happening and why is that happening.

Andy:

Yeah. I completely agree. I think just from a diagnostic standpoint, and as we talk about figuring out what's going on, whether or not this is one person, or a group of three people who hang out together, or all of your CSRs, or your whole team, that's part of the diagnostic process. Right? It's not a self worth thing if none of your technicians are team players. It's like, I mean, it could be they've all got this same thing going on under the surface, but I doubt it. The probability is pretty low. It's probably a training thing or a systems thing. You know what I mean? And so, look at the people who are involved and that will give you some insight to maybe what you're doing and how we break this apart. But I completely agree. The way that we approach this when there's one person who's not a team player versus half the technicians and two of the doctors. Man, there's something different there.

Stephanie:

Yeah. Yeah, I agree. Do you want to take a quick break and then we can circle back and start talking about some action steps for how we might actually do this?

Andy:

I like it.

Stephanie:

Okay.

Andy:

Hey, Stephanie Goss you got a second to talk about Guardian Vets.

Stephanie:

Yeah. What do you want to talk about?

Andy:

Man, I hear from people all the time that are overwhelmed because the phones never stop ringing. I'm sure you hear from these people as well. You know? Like, “Our caseload is blowing up and the doctors are busy and the phones just don't stop.”

Stephanie:

They never stop. That is a true story.

Andy:

I'm amazed by how few veterinarians know about Guardian Vets. This is a service where you have registered technicians who can jump in virtually and help you on the phones. You can flip the switch and Guardian Vets can jump in and take some of the load on the front desk and they can handle your clients and get them booked for your appointments and give them support. It really is a godsend.

Stephanie:

Pre-pandemic, it was amazing to me how many people hadn't heard about it for after hours call help, but at this point, I can't believe how many people don't realize that they are offering help during the daytime as well, which I would think right now is a huge benefit to practices. Because everybody is shorthanded, everybody is drowning in phone calls, and so we talk about it. We've talked about Guardian Vets a lot on the podcast. And every time we do, we always get somebody who says, “What is that?”

Andy:

Guys, if you're not familiar with Guardian Vets, if you think that you could use them help on the phones or up the front desk, check them out. It's guardianvets.com. And if you mention our podcast, me and Stephanie Goss, you get a month free, so check it out. Guardianvets.com.

Stephanie:

Hey. Hey you. What got happening on your calendar in March? Because the Uncharted veterinary community has lots of things coming up that I don't think you're going to want to miss. First up in March, we have an awesome workshop by my friend, Dr. Saye Clement. Saye is going to be talking about client curation with us. She's going to teach us how to learn to identify the types of clients that you want for your practice. And then what are things that you and your team can do to attract those kind of clients specifically? It's happening March 13th at 12:00 PM Eastern time, 9:00 AM Pacific. It is a two-hour workshop. Put that on your clinic calendar, take a lunch break, go in late for the day if you're here on the west coast. It is $99. It's free as always for our Uncharted members. You can sign up unchartedvet.com/events.

Stephanie:

And then in the back half of the month on March 24th, my dear friend, Brett Canfield is doing a presentation that I am super pumped about. He and I are going to do some tag teaming on this. I am his wing man, moderator, and I am so excited for this because I went to Brett at the beginning of the year and said, “Hey, you are the person that comes to mind when I think about this topic because you live this and you help teams breathe this, and I want to bring this to Uncharted and to the veterinary community at large.” And that is the idea of more than an EAP. What can we do to make wellness happen in our practices? Brett is going to talk to us about the benefits of programs like EAPs, but beyond that, what are some ways and things that we can do to create sustainability for our teams? Again, this is a two-hour workshop. It's $99 for the general public, and it's free for our Uncharted members. It's happening on March 24th at 2:00 PM Eastern time, so 11:00 AM Pacific. This one will hit my west coaster's lunchtime and mid-afternoon for those east coasters. It's a two-hour one. So again, make sure to check out unchartedvet.com/events for all of the upcoming events and registration.

Stephanie:

And I want to take a quick second to pause before we head back to the podcast. I have to show some serious gratitude to our friends at Banfield Pet Hospital. Andy and I have wanted to do transcripts for the blog for a while because we've had multiple colleagues reach out to us and say, “Hey, I've heard great things about the podcast. I would love to listen, but this is not accessible to me.” While we were trying to figure that out, our friends over at Banfield stepped up and said, “Hey, we see you, and this is something that fits our values and our culture as a practice. We want to increase diversity and inclusion in veterinary medicine and we would love to help with that.”

Stephanie:

They stepped in a big way and are sponsoring all of our transcripts for 2022. So if you know someone who hasn't accessed the podcast because there weren't transcripts available previously, send them to unchartedvet.com/blog. They can find all of the transcribed podcasts for 2022. They can also find out more, or you can find out more, about all of the things that Banfield Pet Hospital is doing to increase diversity, inclusion, and equity in veterinary medicine.

Stephanie:

And now, back to the podcast.

Andy:

Okay, let's get into some action steps, Stephanie Goss!

Stephanie:

Okay.

Andy:

We've got sort of a vague problem here. We've talked a bit about doing some diagnostics. How do we fix this?

Stephanie:

I think it starts with what we were just talking about before, which is that you as a leader, I think have to do some investigating and have to get curious about what is happening and maybe do some looking at some of the why without trying to zone in immediately or zoom in immediately and be like, “Let me fix this problem.” I think this is a holistic diagnostic process, right, where you have to look at the whole and try and understand what is happening and why it's happening.

Andy:

Yeah. Yeah, I completely agree. The way that people really screw this up is, and honestly, I think kind of the original question kind of hinted at this pitfall, what are some resources, what are some tools? I'm like, “You're already trying to fix it.”

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

You're already trying to fix it.

Stephanie:

Yeah. True story.

Andy:

It's totally understandable. But that is the biggest pitfall with this thing of why isn't this person working as a team? Like, okay, before we get into it, we need to approach this with a spirit of curiosity. I want a detective program. Put your little Sherlock Holmes hat on and your magnifying glass and just go and just try to figure it out, and resist the urge to go, “Yep. That's it. That's the reason.”

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

Dave is self conscious. Resist the urge. But just ask. And people go, “What do I ask?” Be like, “Hey, Dave, why aren't you a team player?” It's not exactly that. That's exactly what we're going for.

Stephanie:

I'm picturing a manager in their Sherlock Holmes hat with their magnifying glass and a bright police light shining in Dave's face. Like, “Hey, Dave.”

Andy:

Oh, yeah. “Dave, have a seat. Where were you yesterday afternoon in the treatment room when everybody else was working as a team? I'll give you the answer, Dave. Not there.”

Stephanie:

That was the movie that was playing in my head for anybody who was wondering.

Andy:

Yeah. That's great. I like that. So, okay. So, yeah. So then what do we actually ask?

Andy:

The question is just, “Hey, I want to pull you guys in real quick. I've just been looking at our team. I've been thinking about how we work together. Give me some insight. Do you think that our team works well together? And if so, why? And if not, why not?” Or, “I'm really focused on trying to get our teamwork to improve and just to make sure that everybody's supporting everybody. What do you think we do well and what do you think we could do better?” It's just that. That's a real open-ended question. And again, I'm not saying, “What do you think Dave does well and what Dave can do better?”I'm not talking about Dave, I'm just talking about in general what do you think about how our team communicates? What do you think about how they work together?

Andy:

Here's another thing. I may be looking at when Dave's not a team player and everybody else is like, ” I love Dave.” Like, “Honestly, he didn't say a whole lot, but he just shows up and does stuff and then rolls on. And Andy's not around when it happens, but we think he's great.” And I'm like, “Oh, well maybe I'm the one here who's missing this.” I want to start super broad and just try to kind of suss this out. What's what's going on and why does this happen?”

Stephanie:

Yeah, I think for me where I would take it back a few steps and I would say actionably the first thing for me as a leader is that I have to approach it in a few different ways from the safe space. We talk about this a lot on the podcast. But the assume good intent is a big one for me because we make up stories in our head. And especially if somebody on the team has complained about Dave not being team player, I am going to have a preconceived notion in my head about that, and so assuming good intent and ignoring the voices in my head is really, really important here in terms of how you approach this. I think doing a safe check on yourself and thinking about like, can I sit next to these people or am I really ticked off because I have seen some really bad behavior in the last week and I've seen them not helping each other, not cleaning, not pitching in? And I'm kind of irritated at them.”

Stephanie:

I've been there as a manager, and how many of us have then gone in and attacked it without really being safe to sit next to the person. Right?

Andy:

Yeah.

Stephanie:

That's our ask. Can I sit next to them? Am I assuming good intent? Am I ignoring the voices in my head and am I thinking in a good head space about this as a whole?

Stephanie:

Then I think the next one is really, really important, and this is where I said earlier I want to put a pin in this and come back to something you said earlier. You were talking about talking to the team about boundaries. I think when it comes to teamwork, a team generally doesn't just have happen when a group of people show up at the same place to do the same thing. What I mean by that is you can have people who could show up at a park and play a pickup basketball game. And they might work together just fine and they might win. But when you think about team in the true sense there is a purpose, there is something that is bringing all of those people together, and they're talking about it. So much of the teamwork perspective, I feel like in my experience in veterinary medicine, has been expected without being talked about. I can't tell you how many times I've been in a clinic where the expectation is that if we have a hit by a car walk in the door at five o'clock that everybody's just going to stay no matter what.

Stephanie:

Well, I might be that team member who has to pick my kid up from daycare by 5:30, and so that unspoken agreement doesn't work for me. And I don't think that it's wrong for me to be able to say, “Hey, this is a boundary for me.” The problem comes from the fact that we don't talk about things like that as a team and we only deal with it when it explodes and gets messy. Which is I suspect what is happening with this manager is like, “Hey, there's some unspoken things that have been happening. We just assume that everybody is to do the same job and do it the same way, and so we just expect that everybody should know not only how to work together, but want to work together.”

Stephanie:

For me, the F, and has this person been set up to fail? Has this team been set up to fail? This is where I have to look at those fingers pointing back at me. When you point your finger at somebody else, there's multiple fingers pointing back at you, and I have to look back at myself and say have I set this team up to fail? I would say again, let me normalize this for a second, you are not alone. The vast majority of us do not talk about this stuff with our teams regularly or often enough. We might have. We might do team building a couple times a year. We might even have a strategic planning meeting at the beginning of the year with our team where we talk about our mission and our vision. We might even talk about our values, mission, and vision regularly at our team meetings.

Stephanie:

But I can count on a very small number of fingers the teams that I have seen over the years that organically are having open and safe conversations like this with their team about setting the expectations and talking about what does teamwork actually look like? What should that feel like? What matters to everybody? If I think that it's a pandemic and we're already shorthanded and Sarah gets sick and has to be home, I could think in my manager head, well, if I call Andy and ask him, “Hey, can you pitch in because Sarah's out sick could you come on your day off?” I could think and tell myself very easily in my head a story that of course he's going to want to come in because he should know that if he was out sick, that I would expect Sarah to cover for him too. But that's unspoken noise in our heads. We don't voice that. We don't talk about that being an expectation.

Stephanie:

And so until we take it as a few steps back and start to have meetings like the one you were talking about, which is like asking some of those open-ended questions and starting the dialogue with the team, I say that a lot of the F in safe rests on us as leaders where we have truly failed the team. And I don't say that to make anybody feel guilty or be mean, but I think that this gives us a really good foundational place to start of like you cannot come this problem trying to fix this actual problem in the moment. You need to zoom out and realize that this is a long play and you're going to start now to fix it over time. You're not going to immediately solve the problem of feeling like you saw some bad behavior where people weren't being team players in the treatment room this last week. You're not going to solve that by showing them some videos on teamwork or starting to talk about what does a team player look like? That's not going to fix it.

Andy:

Yeah. No, yeah. I completely agree. You know, I think your point is really good. When we say, “Has this person been set up to fail? What can I own? What is my fault as a leader?” A lot of people get defensive and they're like, “Dave's not a team player, Andy. Why would I assume responsibility for that?”

Stephanie:

Sure.

Andy:

I would say, “Well, the reason is because if you assume responsibility for it or as much responsibility you can, then you can actually do something about it. And if you assume no responsibility about it, you have almost no power to fix this.” Because you cannot change Dave. Only Dave can change Dave. And then that's it. If you think you can change Dave because you're his boss, you are set up for some hard lessons that you're going to learn in the coming years.

Stephanie:

Wrong.

Andy:

Yeah, exactly. You're not going to change Dave. It is healthy and deductive for me to say, “Dave's not bonding with the team or interacting with the team. I as the leader of this team have great power in facilitating that happening. What can I do to grease the wheels? What can I do to set the expectations? What can I do to make everybody comfortable? What can I do to onboard? What can I do to mentor? What can I do to make sure everyone knows their value and their worth and that they feel appreciated and that they feel comfortable communicating? What can I do to make sure that my team knows each other and trusts each other and sees each other as individuals? I have answers to all of those questions. But they only happen if I say, “What can I do here?” And so that's why I think it's so important.

Andy:

The other thing too is people go, “But Andy, I don't have the answer, buddy. I don't know how to do this.” And I say “You don't have to have the answer.” No one expects you to be perfect. No one expects you to know what you're supposed to say to people to gel together. No one's looking at you like some football movie from the 90s where the team comes together because of the rousing coach speech. You're not Rudy over there. You don't have to pull everybody together.

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

There was a great conversation in Uncharted this morning, in Uncharted community. Some of the people were talking about when they had people out and then they would call for help. And what does it mean if people say no, and how do they say no, and is that okay, and how should I feel about this?

Andy:

Somebody said, and this was just a great thing that I would expect from this person, they were like, “Our team got together and we talked about it and we said when people get sick, what do you guys want to do? Do you want me to call you on your day off and ask you to cover knowing that some days you'll be the one who's here when it's shorthanded and sometimes you'll be the one who's at home who gets called? Do you want me to call and ask people? Do we not want to call?” And their team decided that the days off were more important and they would rather work shorthanded than have someone called on the day off. And I go, “That's freaking genius.”

Stephanie:

Yeah.

Andy:

That's brilliant. That's beautiful. It's wonderful. They told you what they want and they said, “We would rather work shorthanded.” And I go, “Well, that is decision the team.” I will honor the decision of my people and I will support them. And then all of this goes away because the expectation is you're not going to call me on my day off, even if you're shorthanded, because we have decided that those days off are our team cares about.

Andy:

You can have that conversation. I mean, you can listen to your people. And somebody goes, “Well, but Andy, they're not going to reach consensus. They're going to divide down the middle.” That's fine. We can at least make sure everybody gets heard. Then we can start to talk about what we're going to be able to do, or the middle ground that we're going to meet, or how we're going to work this out.

Stephanie:

I think that's a great example of one of those cultural conversations that I think one of the shifts in mindset that has to occur from being a good leader to being a great leader is it can't just be a one and done. That's awesome, and having that conversation is so fantastic and it's more than a lot of other practices are doing. And then we have to start to think about how do I make this a living, breathing thing? How do I revisit this? How often do we revisit it as a team? That when you have two people go on maternity leave and three people move and now all of a sudden you have a new team, is it fair to them to assume that what the old team wanted is what the new team will want. Right? That's the kind of work that we as leaders, that's the stuff I love, like all day long would love to be working on that kind of stuff. I think it's really important to remind ourselves.

Stephanie:

And so, one of those tools is, look, if you have some of these things that your team agrees on and you start to build in, because I think talking about teamwork and having these conversations is fantastic, then start to build that into adding new people to your team. One of my interview questions has to with that. I ask them what does short notice to cover a shift look like for you and I ask them to tell me more about their thoughts on would you rather work short versus getting called on a day off? If that's something that's built into the fabric of your practice, you should be asking new people about that. You should be continuing to have that conversation with your team on a regular and on ongoing basis, and so I love that and I think it's so, so true.

Stephanie:

It goes back to what we were talking about, about the ownership of this as a leader is really important, and the whole process is going to be so much more engaging and success school in the long run when we have team buy-in. We know that team buy-in starts from the ideas coming from them. So you've got to talk to them. You've got to ask them what they think. Because like I said, you can have the idea in your head that teamwork looks like if I call you on your day off because we're sick that you're going to pick up and come in. But if the rest of the team feels like your day's off should be respected, then really I'm being the not team player, not the team, me as the leader, is not being the team player. I think I love that and I think it's super important.

Andy:

Yeah. I think things sort of going hand in hand with that as far as sort of setting your team up for success and trying to look at what fits here and how do we meet the needs of the people that we as leaders serve?

Andy:

Another big part of it is how do you positively reinforce the behaviors that you want? I talked about incentives for teamwork. What does that look like? It's a whole lot harder to police culture than it is to positively reward it. And so, if you want people to be team players, what are their incentives to be team players? Do they get pats on the back? Do they get gold stars? Do they get recognized? Do they get shouted out? What is the good stuff that happens when they work together as a team and cover for each other? Because I see a lot of this stuff. People will say, “Well, you need to be a team player,” and that only means bad stuff for me. Like when someone says, “Andy, be a team player.” I'm like, “You want me to do crappy stuff that is not my job to do.” Like, that's code for, “Andy, do crappy stuff that's not your job to do.” Yeah. And I'm like, “That sounds awful.”

Stephanie:

Oh my god, I'm laughing because it's so true.

Andy:

Yeah. What does the positive reinforcement look like? Do you celebrate people who jump in on our team, who live those values?

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

And you should. If this is important to you and it's important to the team that we're team players and we have team values and we look out for each other, are you recognizing and rewarding people who are looking out for other people and who jump in? Do they get rewarded, incentivized, promoted? Do they get developmental opportunities? I don't know. Do they get warm fuzzies from doing this? Or do they get extra shifts on Saturday?

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

That's what a lot of us get. Anyway, it's starting to think about, okay, just from an incentive standpoint, how do you incentivize the behaviors that you want to be? How do you reward people for jumping in and working together?

Stephanie:

I think the important part about that is that we know that we have a lot of listeners who are practice leaders, and the overwhelming thing that can happen listening to what you just said, Andy, is that we can very easily internalize for ourselves how are you going to reward them, what are you going to do about it, into the you meaning me singularly. It's really easy as a manager to get overwhelmed and think, well, now you're telling me I've got to figure out a positive reward system, and I've got to place the culture, and I got to be giving them gold stars, and when the heck am I going to have time to do that? The you is not singular here, you guys. This is how do you as the leader start the conversation so that the you becomes the team.

Stephanie:

I will tell you that is a thing of beauty when maybe it starts with you. I know in a handful of my clinics, that totally was the case. It was me saying, “Hey, I see you. Thank you for doing a good job.” But when you light those sparks and you give it enough air, when it lights on fire and the team takes off, that is when it really matters. And I will tell you, I have seen practices have a shout out board or a snap board where they leave each other positive comments. That's coming from the team. You know?

Andy:

Yeah.

Stephanie:

Yes, the doctors are putting stuff up there, and yes, the managers probably out of to that board too, but I will tell you that in my most recent clinic, the vast majority of those comments came not from me or my medical director, they came from the team themselves. That is how you harness the power of the you, because you, as a singular person, cannot do all the things. You cannot catch everybody being good. You know? This is where you invite the team to do it. Heck, invite your clients to do it. Ask them to give feedback when they have great team interactions. You've got to think about how do I make this a part of the cultural fabric so that you can crowdsource it because you as the manager can't do it all. Can't.

Andy:

Right. No, I completely agree. Well, I mean, I think that's pretty much what I got. I mean, a lot of it's going to depend on what your diagnostics come back as and where you sort of recognize your underlying problem to me. But I feel like those are really solid steps. You know, get curious, investigate. Why is this going on? Why is this happening? Remember to assume good intent, right? If you go in to deal with this problem having already decided this person is not a team player, you've already labeled them as something negative and you have labeled them as the problem. And then this other person is now the problem. And that person may not be the problem at all. There could be a million other things like systems, cultures, values, communication standards that are the problem, but we've kind of jumped past that. Right?

Stephanie:

Yeah.

Andy:

Take as much ownership as you can. How do you facilitate this? How do you stimulate this conversation? Are you talking to the team to get their buy-in? You and I are teaching strategic planning in Uncharted right now. We talk a lot about establishing team cultures and team values and things like that. That stuff is key if you want to bring people together.

Andy:

And then we've got to think about how we incentivize the behaviors that we want to see. That's team play. Again, I think it's a really great point of you listener, you manager, you don't have to be the person who figures this all out. But you can easily be the one who starts the conversation and say, “How do we reward people for the awesomeness that we want to see more of?” Because it's a whole lot easier to do that than to catch people and try to punish them for not being a team player. Because what's that even mean?

Stephanie:

Right.

Andy:

You know?

Stephanie:

Yeah.

Andy:

You were objectively not being a team player. You're like, “How could you prove that?” It's like, “Well, everyone else wore jerseys and you didn't wear one.” It's very hard to catch people not being on the team in a way that they accept.

Stephanie:

Right. Well. I think that goes back to what we were talking about earlier, define team with your team. What does that look like? What does that mean? Do they actually know each other or are they in a stage where they're just showing up to work and they're at the same place? And so you have these expectations for them that they haven't talked about. Who are they to each other? That's an easy place to start. Do some team building. There's a million resources out there for getting to know each other, doing icebreakers, team building stuff like that. Start some of that. Start small. Start some of that at your team meeting. Ask them a question. If you could go if you go anywhere in the world on vacation, where would you want to go?

Stephanie:

Look, if we have that conversation as a team and I hear something that you say, Andy, that makes a connection to me, I'm going to start a conversation with you about it. It's those little tiny baby steps that add up to the bigger steps that let you build onto, okay, now we all kind of know each other. We've been having some conversation about who we are as people. It's easier to ask people to appreciate each other, to vocalize that, to have harder conversations about, “Hey guys,” to your point earlier, I wanted to circle back to this. You were talking about start wide and start the conversation with, “What do you guys think about teamwork? Do you think it's going well? So, tell me.” Like, “Why? Do you not think it's going so well? Well, why is that?” Right?

Stephanie:

Those conversations happen much more successfully and easily when people know each other and there's some safety that has been built out there. Starting the conversation really wide like that enables you to then have the follow-up conversations, because maybe the team player a problem is happening because of the system's problems or the communication problems. The solutions for those individual reasons as to why it's happening are going to be exponentially more effective if we have a foundation of these people know each other and there has been some prior background conversation and safety created, we have some rules in place for them to have conversation with each other and it be a safe space to have that conversation. My best advice would be to start there, as you said. Start wide. Ask them a big, easy softball question and just let them talk about it. Get them to know each other as people and then start drilling down over time on the actual diagnostic problem that you figured out for yourself as to why it's happening.

Andy:

Yeah, I think that's great. Awesome. Thanks for doing this with me, Stephanie.

Stephanie:

Yeah, this is good. Have a great week everybody.

Andy:

See you, guys.

Stephanie:

Well, gang, that's a wrap on another episode of the podcast. And as always, this was so fun to dive into the mail bag and answer this question. I would really love to see more things like this come through the mail bag. If there is something that you would love to have us talk about on the podcast or a question that you are hoping that we might be able to help with, feel free to reach out and send us a message. You can always find the mail bag at the website. The address is Unchartedvet.com/mailbag, or you can email us podcast@Unchartedvet.com.

Stephanie:

Take care everybody, and have a great week. We'll see you again next time.

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Feb 23 2022

My Client Doesn’t Believe in Science

Uncharted Veterinary Podcast Episode 166 - my client doesn't believe in science

What's This Episode About?

This week on the podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie Goss are tackling a mailbag letter from Dr. The Earth Is Round. This veterinarian is frustrated with a few clients that do not seem to believe in science. Dr. The Earth Is Round is wondering “What do I do when they are angry about wearing a mask during a pandemic spike, don’t think vaccines actually work, and only want to do what is “natural” (like giving antlers to chew for dental health)? How do you talk to these people?” Let’s get into this…

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Stephanie Goss:

Hey everybody. I am Stephanie Goss, and this is another episode of the Uncharted Podcast. This week on the podcast, Andy and I are answering a great question that came in through the mailbag from Dr. The earth is round. They are struggling with what to do when they have clients who just don't seem to believe in science. Now, I know that the world changed and shifted under our feet exponentially for all of us in the last few years, and yet this is not a new problem. I think all of us think immediately, at least I did when I read this question of like, “Oh, what do we do when clients don't want to wear masks?” Right. Because we're in the middle of a pandemic spike when they won't our protocols for keeping the team safe during the pandemic.

Stephanie Goss:

And that is true, and yet the more Andy and I talked about this, the more that I realized that we've always had clients who don't necessarily seem to believe in our science or our medicine, who doubt when we make recommendations about vaccines or flea preventatives or heartworm meds, things like that. And so the question from the Dr. The earth is round, was really simple. It was, how do you talk to this kind of client? I thought it was a great one and Andy and I really had fun. So let's get into this one, shall we?

Speaker 2:

And now the Uncharted Podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And we are back as me, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie “I'm a believer” Goss.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, I like that one too. That's a good one.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Oh yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

How's it going, Andy?

Dr. Andy Roark:

It's good. It's good. I can't complain too much. I think homeschool is finally going to be over and my kids are going to go back to actual school in the very near future. So that's good.

Stephanie Goss:

Yay.

Dr. Andy Roark:

We'll see, unless we get freezing rain tonight, which we could.

Stephanie Goss:

A possibility.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And then we'll be just stuck again. But, no, I'm good. I cannot complain looking forward to a lot of exciting stuff we have coming up. You and I are kicking off our strategic planning course as we record this, next week is the first of four.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Where we're going to be talking about setting up a strategic planning meeting and how to run a meeting like that. And then we've got three more sessions after that, if people want to check it out, you can head over to unchartedvet.com and learn about those sessions and jump in on them.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. The cool part is when this comes out we'll be halfway through it, but the way we set up with this workshops this year is that they're individual ones. So we will have a couple that are still left after this episode comes out, and if you're interested, you can sign up for them as one off versus having to do the whole series. And if you are Uncharted members who are listening to this, you can always access the copies in the knowledge library after the fact so you can watch the sessions on demand.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The ones that should be left are evaluating your employees and that's number three, so that'll be the one coming up when this episode comes out and then dashboards, setting metrics to drive your practice. So those are the two that will still be available if you want to grab them.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So yeah, but that's not what we got in here to talk about.

Stephanie Goss:

No, we've got a good one today and it's so funny because we got an email and when I read it, I was like, “Oh, this makes perfect sense to me because the whole world is tired and frustrated.” And we had the Dr. The earth is round, sent us an email and is struggling because they have some clients who just do not seem to believe in science. And they are really struggling with what to do with people and they gave us some great examples. “What do I do when clients are angry that I ask them to wear a mask during a significant local pandemic strike? What do I do with the clients who tell me point blank, that they don't think vaccines work? What do I do when we have clients who only want to do things that are “natural” like you giving pets or dogs, antlers to chew on for their dental health versus the dental recommendations that I'm actually giving?”

Stephanie Goss:

They are at this point where they feel like, “I don't know what to do with these people. I want to talk to them. I want to try and engage with them, and I don't know how.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

And I just thought this was so great because I think this is a problem that all of us faced at some point or another in terms of interacting with clients, because this is not a new problem. Right. I think back to when I very first started in veterinary medicine and there's always been those clients who are like, “I don't believe in using chemicals on my pet, so I won't flea control.” Right. It's been around the whole time, and I think that there's a lot of that happening right now, because we have a lot of people who are dealing with people who are seemingly disbelievers about science when it comes to the pandemic and the current state of the world. And so I think there's a lot of people struggling with this who are tired and are like, “I don't even know what to say to those people.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

No, I agree. This is tough, but it's not going away. And so we should accept that it is what it is and there are a number of things that we can do about it. And so I'm super glad that we got this question. I am super ready to break this apart and talk about what our options are and how do we address it. I think we have start first with why is it happening?

Stephanie Goss:

Okay.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I think you did a really good job of talking about the fact that this is not new. I think the volume has been turned up significantly. I think there're things that are making this more in your face than it has ever been before, but it's not new. There's actually, I saw some research this morning that talks about it's been the last 40 years that people have been increasingly persuaded by statements like, I believe, and I think, and I feel, and decreasingly persuaded by phrases like, our results indicate, and we conclude.

Stephanie Goss:

Got it.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I think it's just fascinating, but it's generally this idea of how I feel in my emotional response has gained value in people's minds and what the data shows has lost value. And the researchers who puts on tied it together with a number of signals of increasing individualism in our society. Meaning as people have gotten more and more individualistic and focused on themselves and their experiences, what the data show means less than what they believe or what they see with their eyes or what they hear. And so this is a 40 year trend. So I think that's the first thing is just, this is an ongoing rise of individualism. The second piece of this for me is that we live in a world where everyone has a voice and there're good parts to that and there're bad parts to that.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep.

Dr. Andy Roark:

There's a lot of people who call themselves experts. In fact, everyone calls themselves an expert at some point. And when everyone is an expert, no one is an expert.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

We just have so many voices, especially when you talk about pet healthcare and taking care of pets, there's so many pet experts and some of them are great and some of them are not. And the average pet owner has no idea after a while, who is who? So it's better just to be skeptical of everyone.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so we've bred this skepticism in experts, because we've all seen “experts” who don't know what they're talking about. And if it's not in that medicine, it's in fitness, it's in nutrition, it's in finance or personal investing, and these people get platforms and they don't know what they're doing. And it sours people on the whole expert system. That's why the researcher says that we've seen people losing faith at experts, because it's easy to be an expert now. The traditional credentials you need to have are long gone. There's Dunning-Kruger, and I love Dunning-Kruger. Dunning-Kruger is a psychological phenomenon that says, “While we expect that people's confidence in a subject increases with the time they spend in that subject, that's not true.” What we find is what's called the Dunning-Kruger effect, which is when we pick up a new area of expertise or interest, we have a massive surge in confidence.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

This is like people who go and do a couple of hours of reading on the internet on a topic, and suddenly they could lead a college course in their own minds.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

So Dunning-Kruger says that we get this surge of confidence and only later do we realize what we don't know, and our confidence comes back down and we start to actually rebuild it because we actually have real expertise. But that big initial spike is where a lot of people live when they come to the vet clinic, because they have gone online and they have looked at their pet and what they think is good for their pet, and they have grabbed onto some information or some content. And they believe that their understanding is much, much greater than it actually is. And so they come in with very strong opinions with confidence in their positions and things like that. And we have to deal with that. I think that's a new problem as much is a new problem because pets owners didn't use to go to the library and get fired up. Now it's the abundance of information at people's fingertips where they can dive right in and find anything they want and quickly become an “expert” in their own minds. So we're seeing Dunning-Kruger bringing that confidence in, in a big way.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

There's the attention economy and the availability heuristic. And we're talking to a lot of psychology here because this is important to understand how he got here. So the attention economy is the modern economy that we have that basically says, if it bleeds, it leads.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

It's all of the financial drivers for whose outlets? For media outlets, they're on eyeballs in advertising and keeping attention and putting you on their platform as long as possible. And it is not hard to figure out which type of content keeps people on platforms and which gets them to engage and comment and share and respond, and it's emotional content. It's things that make you afraid and things that make you outraged, unfortunately, more so than make you happy. We know that content that makes us mad is the most effective content in getting attention and keeping attention. And so we see a lot of very upsetting content because it generates advertising dollars.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so that's particularly hard for us as vets because there's also this thing in our brain called the availability heuristic. And so the availability heuristic is our mental preference for stories and especially recent stories over data or facts. Think about, I always say this, talk to a room full of vets, and I'll say, “Raise your hand, if you have used a medication, which is a common medication, and you have had a scary side effect from it in one of your patients.” And they all raise their hand, and I say, “Raise your hand, if I could convince you to a 100% trust that medication again by showing you data.” And no one raised their hand.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And it's because once it's happened to you and you've seen this scary thing, you hold onto it and it carries a lot more weight than theoretical data. Well, we've got this attention economy where pet owners are covered in scary stories all the time, and they remember them, their mind is made to remember the scary stories. And so they come in and they hear about the time, somewhere in their area, somewhere in the country, there was a pet who got flea prevention and exploded, destroying the car and half of a neighborhood. You know what I mean? That's insane, but they heard that story, and boy, they remember it because they had given their pet the same flea medicine until they heard that story. And I can show them all the data I want, but man, that availability heuristic, they heard the story, they were scared by the story, they hold onto the story.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That's a problem. And again, because of our economy, there's a lot of those stories. And the last is tribalism. Right? And we talked about this, I think we talked a bit about tribalism in our last podcast, when we talked about the cowboy technician, we talked about how fitting in is really important, and this is caveman wiring. We are all made to not be shunned from the tribe because to be cast from the tribe is to die in starvation and you'll never pass on your gene and just starve. So we really do not want to be casted out of the tribe. And so tribalism is a thing in our genes, and boy, tribalism is on the rise today. There are tribal signals and positions that people take. And I hate, I hate to say this, but I think we've all seen it. Science has become a bit of a political position in some ways. And I hope it doesn't continue to go in that direction, but boy, when people's tribes center on believing in science or not believing in science, those are powerful drivers.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Anyway, I just gave you a laundry list of things, but those are the biggest things in my mind and they all converge and you can see how they would be increasing over the years. But those are the things that I believe are driving this steady decline in, I don't know, in the willingness to accept facts when people come into our exam rooms.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. All of that makes total sense to me, and we've seen an increase all of us in our personal lives or our professional lives or both of this happening. And so I think we're going to start where we always do with headspace. And I think the biggest thing for me, when I read this and the thought about it, I think it's very easy, especially as a veterinarian, I could hallucinate or as a technician who has gone to school and is educated. It's very easy when a client is like, “I don't believe that. I don't think the vaccines actually work.” It's so easy to internalize that and take it personally. Because-

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, yeah. Well, I hate to say but we're tribal too.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Right. And so we are the science tribe. We are the vet medicine tribe, the healthcare provider tribe, and so when someone says, “I don't believe you.” It's kind of feels like an attack on our tribe, and then we don't want to get cast out of the tribe either. And so there's a status thing of, “Are you calling me a liar? Are you questioning my value?” And people can get real down this hole real fast, because they're like, “I gave eight years of my life to get the education and experience, to tell you that you should vaccinate your dog for parvo, and you are looking at me and telling me that I'm wrong because you read a blog post somewhere.” And it's easy to take that at a deeply personal way. It also hits on our feelings of rejection. Every day we suck up our shyness, we put on our confident faces, but there is some part for all of us, I think that when we go into the exam room at some level, we fear rejection because we're making this recommendation.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And that feels a lot like rejection and it hits us in a hard way.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. Now to think that's totally true. And it's really easy, I know I have done on this. It's really easy to go from zero to 60 in terms of combative language and they're attacking you. And so the caveman piece of your brain is like, “I should attack back.” And so as scientists, what do we do? We reach for the facts. We reach for the science and use that as our weapon to come back at them, which is the totally wrong tool to use.

Dr. Andy Roark:

It's like fighting with a Nerf gun. Yeah. They're unaffected by this ammunition.

Stephanie Goss:

Right. So I think from a headspace perspective, that's where we really have to start is, okay, this is where we all have to collectively take a deep breath, because taking it personally, whether it's personal against me as an individual, you don't believe me and that's making me angry or it's, we are a community of scientists, how could you not believe us? Is really important to not take that personally.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. No, I completely agree. So that's the first step of headspace. You got to, you've got to not take this personal. This is not about you, it is about them.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Some of us need to tattoo that on our forearms so that we can glance down and see it. It's not about me, it's about them. And when they come in and they don't believe in vaccines, it's not because you are not credible, it's not because you are not smart, it's not because you don't do good work, it's not because you are not a clear communicator, has nothing to do with you. This was decided when you were not there and it has been engraved and there may be some cultural tribal supports pushing this person's direction. Who knows? It does not have to do with you. You did not cause this problem, you did not benefit from this problem, you are not responsible for this problem. This problem is not about you, and you can't take it personally.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All that said, we got to deal with it and we will, but if you take this culturally, you're toast, you are dead in the water. This is not going anywhere. And so man, headspace, headspace, headspace, it matters so much in this conversation. And most of us, one of the biggest things for us is not getting triggered. There's that old saying that a buddy of mine said years ago, and it became one of my go-to phrases. You can be righteous or effective choose one. And so if you want to go to battle to defend science and the honor of science, you can totally do that. Or if you want to deliver wellness services to this pet, you can do that too, but you can't generally do both. And so decide if you want to take care of the pet or if you want to fight for science and facts, it's up to you, but it's real hard to do both.

Stephanie Goss:

I have thoughts about that, but I think they come in the solutions.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Okay. All right. We'll showcase. We'll put up in that. We'll leave it there. But how do we not take it personally? I believe that people are innately good. And that is a mental exercise. I said this at a talk at VMX and this young doctor goes up to me and says, “I really like that you say that you choose to believe that people are good and that you deeply believe it.” And he goes, “How do you do that?” He's like, “I really struggle to believe that people are good and they do these things.” And I go, “Trust me. I see it. I believe that people are driven by natural selection and these deep psychological drivers and they have needs that are trying to be met. And everyone's fighting a battle that we don't know anything about. And I believe all those things, but I'll tell you what, buddy, at the end of the day, sometimes I just have to accept it on faith.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Just as a religion where it's like I can't see it, sometimes I question it, but I accept that people are good. Like a lot of people accept religion is true. To me I choose to believe it. And sometimes you got to work hard to believe, but I believe, and I recommend it. I recommend it, it makes life better and easier if you can choose to believe that.

Stephanie Goss:

I think something that helps me and I learned this lesson painfully and the hard way, in my past in working with some bosses is that, if you say that people are truly innately good, which I also believe it's one of the things that you and I have in common in terms of values. But I think for me, part of it is sometimes I can look at someone and if I say, “They're just self-centered, it's about them.” It's easier for me to wrap my brain around that and think about it from that perspective sometimes than it is to look at that person and think this person is an innately good person because sometimes it is hard to not take it personally. Right?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

And in the moment, especially in the moment when you're angry and you're staring at that client in the exam room. Sometimes it's easier for me to just look at them and say, “What if this is not about me? What if this is all about them?” That is a little bit easier for me to wrap my brain around than I do truly believe that this is a good person, because sometimes in the moment when you're staring at them, I don't think that's a good person, even though I do believe that. Right. Because when you're triggered, it's hard to reach for that. So one of the things that I have had to do is look at it and be like, “Nah, maybe they're just being a little self-centered right now.” Maybe this is really about them or their pet or their lifestyle or their a million other things. And that exercise becomes a little bit easier for me.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I agree. And I push that even farther. The thing that really helps me with this is, I believe that people are formed by natural selection. I believe that millions of years of natural selection have made us into the creatures that we are. And if natural selection is a driver, natural selection wants what? It wants you to survive and to pass on your genes and to maintain your status in the community, so that you can take care of your offspring and raise them up so that they will pass on their genes.

Stephanie Goss:

Sure.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And that is what it cares about. And so being self centered is not a flaw, if that is the driver. It's a feature, it's a strength that's a strong point. So I will say not only do we have to be okay with people of being self-centered, I think you just need to own that it is baked into every one of us, that we are self-centered. We are looking out for ourselves and our immediate families for the fundamental uncool idea, our goal of passing on our genes to the next generation. And so self-centeredness is baked in, and honestly by accepting that, that makes the good part a whole lot easier for me to take. Because I'm like, I do believe that everyone is self-centered and they can also be good. And so when I see people acting in the self-centered manner, I go, “Oh, this is a good person who has a self-centered nature that is coming out now. And that I'm seeing.”

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so for whatever reason, for me just that acceptance, it helps me to see this person as a human being and not just to dismiss them as this person's an idiot. And [crosstalk 00:23:21] I say that because that's what a lot of us think and is popped into my head. It's easy to dismiss people, right? Honestly, because when I start to feel challenged, if I can dismiss this person as an idiot, then I don't have to listen to their criticisms or their comments or to figure out how to deal with them and I can forgive myself if they walk away and don't do anything for their pet because they're an idiot. And so there is a call to write people off, but ultimately it gets real lonely, if you start writing everybody off. And it gets easier and easier to write people off. And so it's a balance, but acceptance is key. It's absolutely key to effectiveness. The other key to put in your headspace is you got to know your objective, right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Is your objective to change the worldview of this person or is it to take care of their pet? I mentioned that earlier, but those are two radically different things. And it's just important when I say that, it's like know what? People are innately good, innately self-centered, but also innately and it's not my job to affect this person's worldview, or even to make even believe what is true. It's my job to take care of their pet. And so I am going to meet them where they are and play with the cards they deal to me, to try to get the best outcome for their pet that I possibly can. And then I'm going to go on with my life because it's not my job to raise this person.

Dr. Andy Roark:

They're not my child, they're not my spouse. I have zero responsibility for them. I'm going to meet them where they are. I'm going to behave with integrity. I'm going to advocate for the things I think are best. I'm going to try to say them in a way that this person will hear and take action on them. And then I'm going to go on with my life and I'm not going to worry too much about it.

Stephanie Goss:

I think that is really important because that is the bridge for me to the action steps, which is part of it for me is can I provide care for their pet? Is this a fundamental disagreement on everything? Or is this a disagreement on one thing? Am I still having the opportunity to provide care for their pet? Because to me, if we agree to disagree on one thing, but we can find some common ground in the middle, then I think your point of, I'm going to go on with my day. I'm going to do what I can for this patient. I'm going to do the best that I can as a doctor. And then I'm going to move on. That is an easier space to get into headspace wise. I think where a lot of people struggle is with, what do I actually do when it's not just one thing? Right. What do I do when the client is truly starting to tie my hands? Because it's all the things.

Stephanie Goss:

It started with, “Well, I don't believe in flea preventative.” And here's the conversation, and now to your point, everybody's world view is expanding in that way. What do you do when it's that way about everything? And so that for me is the bridge to headspace because from headspace to action is, can I find anything in common with them? Can I bridge the gap in any way? Because if I can, then I can try and move forward as a professional, and if I can't, then I think knowing that it is okay to say, I might not be able to care for this pet truly because we can't get on even the same page on one thing.

Stephanie Goss:

And so the best thing for this patient, may be for them to find a veterinarian who more aligns with their worldview or their thoughts about the care for their pet, because I feel I can't actually provide that care. And I think from an action step perspective, that is something that a lot of the time we struggle with as veterinarians and as members of the veterinary community is being okay with saying, “Maybe I can't help this person.” Because we think we have to help everybody, and sometimes that ties our hands too.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I think that's a great place to put a button on headspace, is you have got to get okay with the idea that you cannot make people do anything. You cannot change their mind. You just don't have power over people. And some of them they might not be your clients and that's okay, because you can't be all things to all people. So let's put a button right there, and take a break and then we'll come back and get the action steps.

Stephanie Goss:

Sounds good.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Hey, Stephanie Goss, you got a second talk about GuardianVets?

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. What do you want to talk about?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Man, I hear from people all the time that are overwhelmed, because the phones never stop ringing. And I'm sure you hear from these people as well. Like our caseload is blowing up and the doctors are busy and the phones just don't stop.

Stephanie Goss:

They never stop. That is a true story.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I'm amazed by how few veterinarians know about GuardianVets. This is a service where you have registered technicians who can jump in virtually and help you on the phones. You can flip a switch and GuardianVets can jump in and take some of the load off the front desk and they can handle your clients and get them booked for your appointments and give them support. And it really is a godsend.

Stephanie Goss:

Pre pandemic, it was amazing to me how many people hadn't heard about it for after hours call help. But at this point, I can't believe how many people don't realize that they are offering help during the daytime as well. Which I would think right now is a huge benefit to practices because everybody is shorthanded. Everybody is drowning in phone calls. And so we talk about it, we've talked about GuardianVets a lot on the podcast, and every time we do, we always get somebody who says, “What is that?”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Guys, if you're not familiar with GuardianVets, if you think that you could use them help on the phones or up the front desk, check them out, it's guardianvets.com. And if you mention our podcast, me and Stephanie Goss, you get a month free. So check it out, guardianvets.com.

Stephanie Goss:

Hey. Hey you, what's you got happening on your calendar in March? Because the Uncharted Veterinary Community has lots of things coming up, that I don't think you're going to want to miss. First step in March, we have an awesome workshop by my friend, Dr. Saye Clements. Saye is going to be talking about client curation with us. She's going to teach us how to learn to identify the types of clients that you want for your practice, and then what are things that you and your team can do to attract those kind of clients specifically? It's happening more March 13th at 12:00 PM Eastern time, 9:00 AM Pacific, and it is a two hour workshop. So put that on your clinic calendar, take a lunch break, go in late for the day, if you're here on the West Coast. It is $99, it's free as always for our Uncharted members, and you can sign up at unchartedvet.com/events.

Stephanie Goss:

And then in the back half of the month on March 24th, my dear friend, Bret Canfield is doing a presentation that I am super pumped about. He and I are going to do some tag teaming on this. I am his wingman moderator, and I am so excited for this because I went to Bret at the beginning of the year and said, “Hey, you are the person that comes to mind when I think about this topic because you live this and you help teams breathe this. And I want to bring this to Uncharted into the veterinary community at large.” And that is the idea of more than an EAP. What can we do to make wellness happen in our practices? Bret is going to talk to us about the benefits of programs like EAPs, but beyond that what are some ways and things that we can do to create sustainability for our teams.

Stephanie Goss:

Again, this is a two hour workshop. It's $99 for the general public and it's free for our Uncharted members. It's happening on March 24th at 2:00 PM Eastern time, so 11:00 AM Pacific. So this one will hit my West Coasters' lunch time and mid-afternoon for those East Coasters. It's a two hour one, so again, make sure to check out unchartedvet.com/events for all of the upcoming events and registration. And I want to take a quick second to pause, before we head back to the podcast. I have to show some serious gratitude to our friends at Banfield Pet Hospital. Andy and I have wanted to do transcripts for the blog for a while because we've had multiple colleagues reach out to us and say, “Hey, I've heard great things about the podcast. I would love to listen, but this is not accessible to me.”

Stephanie Goss:

And while we were trying to figure that out, our friends over at Banfield stepped up and said, “Hey, we see you, and this is something that fits our values and our culture as a practice. We want to increase diversity and inclusion in better new medicine, and we would love to help with that.” And so they stepped in and put in a big way and are sponsoring all of our transcripts for 2022. So if you know someone who hasn't accessed the podcast, because there weren't transcripts available previously, send them to unchartedvet.com/blog. They can find all of the transcribed podcasts for 2022 and they can also find out more, or you can find out more about all of the things that Banfield Pet Hospital is doing to increase diversity, inclusion and equity in veterinary medicine. And now back to the podcast.

Dr. Andy Roark:

All right, let's get into some action steps. I really love what you were saying about on, not being able to serve some people. And if things continue to mount up, maybe this is just not the right client for you. One of the things I think, unfortunately we have to put forward and a lot of people haven't thought of this. But I really think we're a place in the world where you have to be intentional about your approach to dealing with polarization and with people who have strong world views that maybe anti-science or don't align with yours. Right? I think we've got three choices about how we work as either individuals or as practices. And the first is you can choose a tribe, you can say, this is what we believe. And we believe in science here, we trust the data and we talk to the data and clients who don't like that are not going to come here.

Stephanie Goss:

Yes.

Dr. Andy Roark:

They are going to come in, they are not going to like what they see, or they are not going to feel persuaded and they are going to probably leave and go somewhere else, so we are okay with that.

Stephanie Goss:

I'll give you a great example of that. I think a really easy one for people to wrap their heads around is the idea of pets being vaccinated for rabies. And we know the scientific value behind that, and as leaders of a practice, I have a job to do, which is to protect my team. And so when I have pets who come in for procedures and stuff, and they are not current on their rabies vaccine, if someone gets bit, that is a risk factor. And so in prior practices that I have managed that has been our worldview, that has been our line in the sand. And so we have said, okay, in order for a patient to receive services here, unless they are sick and a doctor is saying, for this reason, we're not going to vaccinate them to today. But in general, our rule of thumb is if they're not vaccinated against rabies, we can't keep them for an optional procedure. Right.

Stephanie Goss:

So that was our line in the sand. And I remember when we started doing that and talking about it with clients, and there were a lot of clients who lost their mind and they were like, “Well, I don't want my pet to be vaccinated for rabies.” And collectively as a team, we said, “We understand that. And we understand that is absolutely your choice to make. You and your pet would be better served somewhere else. And we're okay with that.” And we were okay with clients going somewhere else. So I think that's an example of one thing, but it was really like, this was our tribe. Our tribe was our people, and we felt like that was the thing we could do to protect ourselves and each other, and so we said here is that line in the sand.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I think a good way to put it is we have a line in the sand and here's when this works. It works pretty well when you're in a fairly homogeneous demographic area. And you could say, “Oh, we believe that the vast majority of our clients are in this tribe or they believe in this. We serve in an area where the vast, vast majority of our clients are on board with this and that's not a big deal.” It gets much harder if you're in a split area where people have different beliefs, you know what I mean? And you're going to run into half the people who are not in alignment with what you think medicine should be or how medicine should happen. The other stressor that I've seen with this is with the staff, which means if I say, “This is what we do, and this is how we do it.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I have members of staff that don't agree with that, you can lose staff members over that. And that doesn't mean you shouldn't necessarily do it. If you say, “This is our belief, and this is how we practice, is who we are.” And one of your technicians says, “I'm not that person. And my values don't align with what you are saying and how you're saying it.” That may not be bad, that staff member going to leave, and you can do it. So that's option one, is to say, this is who we are and we are going to attract the clients that resonate with us and be okay with the clients who don't resonate with us going somewhere else. And you have to get your team on board with that, right. Option number two is ignoring the whole thing and just being who you are and seeing what happens.

Dr. Andy Roark:

This is my least favorite of the options, but there's a lot of people out there who are like, “We don't want to make a stand. We're just going to try to do our best.” And often they end up not really resonating strongly with anybody, but also not really turning anybody off. And they are constantly reacting to what they're getting back from their clients. And so it's indecision as a decision at some point. And then the last part is you say, “I'm going to focus on meeting clients where they are and matching my presentation to their priorities and beliefs.” And you make that choice to say, “We try to be open. We try to meet pet owners where they are and support them based on their priorities. And so we lean very much into a hard customer service model, just accepting that they might not agree with what we believe in, and we're going to have to use their words to agree back to them.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

So those are the three options. It's funny I think a lot of people immediately go, “Well, the first one's what I want. I only want to see people who believe what I believe.”

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And I go, “Well, there's truth to that.” And there are some clinics that I know who do that, and they send as many signals as they can as you come, this is what we believe is what we do here. And that can be a fun place to work, and you can work with clients who share your ideas, and that could be great. A lot of other practices don't have that luxury of serving people that just match exactly with their clinic culture and they have to flex. And so anyway, I put that forward just because a lot of people have never given that any thought at all about what they're trying to do and who they are.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And what's sad is you can end up tripping over yourself in a lot of ways and making stands in some places and not making stands in other places and sending confusing messages and no one in the staff really knows what your lines are or what's supposed to happen. And there's all this, “Are we saying this and what do we say with that? And how does this work? And do we care about this? What about that?” And it can just be a jumbled mess.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. Well, I think that unfortunately in veterinary medicine, I think that there are far more hospitals on the end of the spectrum where they just try and meet everybody where they're at, and don't really have a whole lot of clear lines. Then there are practices who are like, “This is the type of client that we are going to serve, and this is the only type of client that we're going to serve.” Right. I think most of us are in the middle or towards that end where we aren't really doing that. And so I think the cool part is in my opinion, there's a lot of room for us to do some more building of a culture for clients that is a concept that is radical for a lot of people. It's like, “Well, we're here to serve anybody who walks through our doors.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, are we? I think it's great, if that is how you feel. I know for me, I probably want to be more towards the middle. I want to develop an intentional client base and I'm okay, if we have some clients who are going to do what they're going to do, and aren't a values alignment, but I would rather work in a place where we had more of a values alignment with clients than we didn't, that's appealing to me. Right. And so I think that for a lot of us, we have opportunity to think about the concept that it is okay to say, “I want to develop a client base that matches, or has more similarities to who we are as a team and what we believe.” And set some of those rules and parameters in place. Because I really truly believe it's okay to look at a client and say, “I think that your pet would be better served somewhere else for this reason.” Right?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

If I have a client who truly does not believe a word that is coming out of my mouth, I could continue to try and work with them and get frustrated over and over and over again. But at some point when you do the same thing over and over and over again, that's your business model, that's the culture that you're creating, and that is for me an exercise in frustration.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. Yeah. No, I think that there's truth to that. If you set your practice up the right way and you communicate what is expected and what your standards are and what your wellness protocols are and you present them as, this is our plan for today, and this is what we do here. A lot of times you don't have to be the one who says to the client, most of the time, you don't have to be the one who says, “I don't think this is a good fit.” They're going to see-

Stephanie Goss:

Self-select.

Dr. Andy Roark:

That's not a good fit. I'll give you two examples from different sides of the spectrum that I have seen in my career. And I'm not speaking negatively about either one of them other than say, they're very different.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

You and I have friends who run a practice in a very urban area and they fly a rainbow flag out front and everybody there has got a different color of hair and they've got tattoos, fully exposed and everything. And that is who they are, and that is what they are. It's great, and their clients love it. In fact, they draw probably more clients because they're like, this is who we are.

Stephanie Goss:

This is who we are.

Dr. Andy Roark:

This is what we do. And people are like, I'm here for it.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so putting that out and being loud and proud, this is who we are, this is what we do. For them it's not a flaw, it's a feature, it's a plus, it's an at attractor. And there's people who would see that and be like, “That's not the vet for me.” That's fine, go somewhere else. And then I have another practice that I have seen and I've been to, and I walked in and there was, I don't know how to say this the right way, but they were a faith-based practice, evangelical. They had Bibles on the side tables and they had cross up on the wall and they prayed on their cases and they did that stuff. They seemed to be a very good hospital, from a medical standpoint, and they were very kind and very nice to work with.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But again, they were loud and proud about who they were and what they cared about. And they were slam busy, and they had people who I'm sure again, saw this absolutely as, it's not a flaw, it's a feature. This is who they are, other people would say, “Well, that's not the vet for me.” And that's okay. We're all got plenty of work. There's great power in saying, this is who we are and sending those signals. And so again, I think strategically there's a lot of power in that.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I want to switch the conversation a little bit here, to going from the practice level down to the individual level and saying, “Well, what do when we're talking to this person in the exam room?” So I think that's the long play is setting up who we are and communicating that. But what do you do when you go in the exam room and the person is there and you quickly come to understand that they're not on board? I had a client say to me, “I don't believe in vaccines.” And I was like, “They're real, I've got them in the back.” She didn't think that was as funny as I did. I thought it was funny. Really good line. [crosstalk 00:44:11].

Stephanie Goss:

That was fantastic. Fair point, right? What do you do when that client is standing in front of you and says, I don't believe in vaccines?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. I think for me, and again, I thought your question earlier of, what do you do when these things mount up? And you go, “I don't believe in this. And I don't believe in this and I don't believe in this.” At some point I go, “I don't feel like I can help you, because you disagree with so many of the things that I provide.” At some point I can say, “Look, I don't think I'm a good vet for you.” And I think that's the right answer for some people is to be like, “Look, you don't agree with what we do here, you should go somewhere else.” I do think that's true. For most of it's what I tend to see, I rarely see someone who's like, “I don't agree with this and this and this.” Because those people just don't come in. At some point they're like, “I don't see value in you.” And I'm like, “Why did you come here then?” So I don't see as nearly as much as I see the people who have a thing. They have a thing, they're like-

Stephanie Goss:

That's true.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I've been reading on this. It's often nutrition is a big one that we see, you know what I mean? Flea and tick stuff, heartworm prevention can be a thing.

Stephanie Goss:

Yep.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I don't want chemicals. And again, looking at these people with compassion is absolutely critical. But generally we see there is a thing and what helps me the most with these cases is to set realistic expectations. And I think a lot of us feel this pressure on ourself of you came in here and you don't agree with something that I'm recommending. And so I'm going to try to spar with you and see if I can debate you into doing what I'm asking you to do. And I'll just be honest and say, “Generally, that's not possible.” If they come in and they look at you, as soon as you walk in the room and say, “I don't believe in this.” The chances of you getting them to go home and be compliant with that thing that they said to you when you walked in the door is zero in my opinion. I don't see it turn that around today.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I think the answer is in the long term of let's work with what we can, and I am going to listen to you and make you feel heard. I will talk to you about why I recommend what I recommend then I'm going to listen to your concerns and take you seriously. Not with the idea that I'm going to change your mind today, but in the idea that I can hopefully build some trust with you and we can start to build a relationship. And in a year or two, five, we might be able to have this conversation in a way where you and I have trust in our relationship and you'll hear me, or we have this relationship and something will change in your life and you will feel very differently. And I find that often guys, that is the window or the door that opens is that something happens.

Dr. Andy Roark:

People they take a position and then something it changes in the world, something happens. They have a pet that gets heartworm disease, and then suddenly they look at things very, very differently. And now they're open to having this conversation about the rest of their pets and things like that. And I don't want it to get to that, but sometimes that's what it takes. And then that door opens up and we have that relationship and I can get in and I can really work with this person and move them where they want to be for the rest of the life of this pet and for all the lives of their future pets.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I think what you said is really important in terms of understanding what their priorities are and making them feel heard. That is a really important piece of it, and it's also, I think for most of us as human beings, the hardest thing to do when we feel challenged, right. Is to sit back and truly hear somebody else out. So I think that's where we have to reach for all of those exam room tools that we learned in school, to engage in active listening, to ask them more questions, to truly listen to what they're saying. Because for a lot of us, the switch gets flipped and the first thing we do is stop actually listening and start planning our reply and the thing we want to say next, because we're triggered.

Stephanie Goss:

We talk about headspace a lot on the podcast and talk about getting in that safe headspace, and so I think this is similar to that in it is really important to make people feel heard, to actually truly listen to them and employ your active listening skills. You have to repeat back to them what they're saying. You want to probably take some notes and write some things down because you want them to feel they are being heard. That is the only way then I think you can take a step forward that is going to be productive in any way.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. While you're doing this, while you're listening, while you're taking notes, you should be looking for things that you can agree on. And you should be putting forward everything that you'd agree on and you should be telling them, “I think you're totally right about this. That's important to me as well. I totally hear that.” And the reason is because, and this is just healing divisions between people, if there's a chasm between you and me, and we're both just staring at the chasm, then our ability to come together is zero. But if we can look up and look around the landscape and see the rest of the landscape, that's not a chasm, but a nice homogeneous landscape. It turns out we can walk around the chasm because we have raised our heads and looked at everything else that's going on, things that we agree on.

Dr. Andy Roark:

The same thing is here is say, “Well, I might not be able to close this chasm today, but there's a lot of other land on the landscape that we can walk around on. And that's where I'm going to spend my time today.” And again, build that relationship and build that trust, but as we actively listen focus on what you agree with, focus on what they've got right, focus on the things that are good. And you'll probably figure out that 85% of the things that you talk about, you guys are sympathic on, and that's enough to start to build a relationship and build trust. And if you look around and is 25% of the things that you guys agree with, that's probably a bad fit client who we're going to be happy where you are and the sooner that you realize that, and they realize that probably the happier everybody's going to be.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But yeah, I completely agree. It's active listening to understand their priorities. One of my favorite things, we talk about nutrition a lot and people have strong dietary opinions or things that they do and it's easy, people will hear this and they'll be like, “Well, why do you feed them that?” Or, “That's not really not what we recommend.” Then I go, “That's the wrong way to approach this.” The right way to approach is say, “Help me understand why that's the way that you decided to go? What's important to you about the diet that you feed? I just want to know what your priorities are.” And then just listen to them and they'll tell you what their priorities are. And then we can have an honest conversation, and again, I might not be able to change their opinion today or their mind today, or probably not.

Dr. Andy Roark:

But now that I understand what's important to them, I can start to have those conversations in a subtle and ongoing way and reel them in, but it's going to take some time. Yeah, what's important to you? What are your priorities? What do we agree with? If I can get those things out on the table, a lot of times I can come pretty far, as far as providing a good overall healthcare experience. Even if I don't get the thing, I can often get everything else. And that's a whole lot better than if I had detonated the conversation, destroyed trust and really not been able to do anything for this pet. That's a long game.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I think one of the things that's really important to me in making that long game assessment, you said something about is this one thing that they're disagreeing with and is this the first time? To getting to that point where you have said, okay, we are repeatedly disagreeing on all of these things. And so maybe this is not the right fit client, and how do you make that assessment? And this is where just like Stephanie says, “What's in your handbook?” This is where the manager in me says, “This is why I have protocols and processes to document all of the things when it comes to client communication.” Because the only way that you can truly assess is this a one time thing and one thing that they don't agree with? Or, is this all of the things? The ability to look back at the chart and say, well, the last five years in a row, we've had this conversation and this piece has been continued to be disagreed with, and this is really a core value of ours as a clinic.

Stephanie Goss:

We truly believe in this level of medicine or this type of protection, it's having that documentation to help make the judgment call so that it isn't coming from that place of frustration or triggered, right? That's where I say, this is part of why I ask the team to really make sure to document not only what does the client agree to? So that you protect yourself, but also when there is a disagreement. And the way that I do that, a lot of people really struggle with, okay, I don't want to write in the chart that they declined it because of a lot of times the conversation is, well, they decline it because they don't agree with it, or they tell me that they don't want to give their pet chemicals.

Stephanie Goss:

It's as simple as asking for their permission to engage in the process. And so what I would say to that client is, “Mrs. Smith, what I just heard you say is that you don't want to use the heartworm preventative because you don't want to give Fluffy chemicals and have her ingest them. Is that correct?” And say, “Okay, I just want to make sure that I am thorough in keeping track of where we're at with her overall healthcare. I'm going to make a note in her chart. That is how you are feeling today so that when somebody else looks at her chart, they see why we didn't send you home with preventative today, is that okay?” Really it doesn't have to be this combative thing where we're like, “You're wrong. I'm right. And I need to write it down.” Which is I think in the moment where a lot of us come at it from, because we're triggered and we're frustrated.

Stephanie Goss:

But having that stuff written down and the ability to look back at it objectively is super, super helpful in trying to figure out, is this the client who just really doesn't agree with heartworm preventative? And we're never going to sell them on that idea. And to your point, they accept the vaccines and the dental recommendations and 90% of the other care we're providing. That's probably an okay client that I'm going to keep in my practice, I'm not offended by that. But if it is a client where they're disagreeing with 50 or 75% of what we're recommending and why we're recommending it, then maybe it's time to have a conversation about how there might be a better fit for them somewhere else.

Dr. Andy Roark:

No, I completely agree. I think probably about the last point that I would make is, if I'm dealing with someone who doesn't believe in data, or they're not going to be swayed by the research, don't talk to them about data. Lean into stories, use stories and examples and lean into the human aspect. So when someone says, well, this is what I worry about and blah, blah, blah. And this is what I think, and this is how I feel. I want to tell them like, “Hey, I understand that. I've had those concerns or I have concerns like that. And I hear that. Let me tell you about something that I see in practice a lot. And the reason that I feel the way that I do.” And then just tell them the story, be honest, always integrity, a little else, but be honest and tell, them about the case that you saw that went badly this way.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And tell them about out how often you see pets that aren't flea prevention in South Carolina, that their skin is infected and their hair has been pulled out and they can't sleep and their owners can't sleep. Just tell them and say this is what I see and I see these products come in and they're not regulated. And I have to tell you the vast majority simply don't work, and I understand wanting to try it. And if you want to try this, then I'll support you, but know that generally these things fail and the outcome is painful to the pet. And this is what I mean when I say that and put it back to them. But if they're not going to care about my data, then I'm going to tell them a story, or I'm going to give them an example of what I'm talking about.

Dr. Andy Roark:

I can at least put it in their mind to try to help them see what I'm seeing. And I find that builds a lot of credibility, but going to the data with someone who does not care about your data or who doesn't believe your data. And that's the big thing, data only works if both people looking at the data believe that there is some credibility to the data itself. I've been reading this book on Theranos, the Theranos scandal. It's fascinating, just blown away by how everyone involved behaved in this case. So for those of you who don't know Theranos is a drug company, and they had this technology that was supposed to be a diagnostic piece of technology. And so the idea was that people could prick their finger and then just put their finger on a cartridge and pop the cartridge into a little diagnostic box that is at their house, and it would do a bajillion different kinds of blood work.

Dr. Andy Roark:

It was amazing. And the short story is it didn't work and it never worked. And they took so much money for a thing that just did not work, they had cancer patients, pricking their fingers and the results they got were junk. It's a shocking crazy story. But one of the things that was fascinating, because how could this ever happen? And it was funny because they got all of these validations and the way they got the validations was they just took data to someone and said, “Here's our data.” And the people were like, “Oh, this data's really solid.” But the data itself was chunk, it was fantasy. And I've been thinking a lot about that, so they had these people who looked at the data and said, “Yep, this data makes sense to me.” But they never questioned where the data came from.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so that's just made me think a lot about when we talk about data, where are the headaches? I think a lot of us look and we say, “Well, this is the data. Surely you accept the data, and if you accept the data, then this is the conclusion.” But these people don't accept the data or where the data came from often. And so that is why I can never have a data conversation that works is because they don't buy into the original data.

Stephanie Goss:

Right.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And unfortunately with Theranos, you can say, “Well, you now have an example of why that might be a bad idea.” Again, humanizing people and trying to meet them where they are and accepting as much as you can, I think is helpful. But using that story, using those examples, leaning into the human part of it, talking about being a pet owner and talking about the pets and taking care of the pets, that stuff tends to cut across tribes and media and things like that. Everybody wants to take good care of their pet, and so really humanize yourself, be transparent, be vulnerable, lean into taking care of the pet and explaining why you want to take care of the pet. And agree with everything that you can and validate as much of their position as you can. I think that those are absolute best tools that we have to work with people who maybe don't agree with what we agree with.

Stephanie Goss:

I think the last thing that I have from an action step perspective goes back to the original email and the questions about like, what do I do when they're angry about this? And I think it's a very personal question and what works for each clinic is going to be so different and so individual, but I really want to say, it is okay if there is something that is a line in the sand for you or for your team. I think letting go of some of the guilt that we put on ourselves of feeling like I exist to serve all of my clients and all of my patients, and if someone doesn't fundamentally agree with me, I still need to take care of their pet. And I do truly believe that our job is to be here for our patients.

Stephanie Goss:

And I also am a firm believer that it is okay to put out there as long as we are clearly communicating those things to your point in your stories earlier about our friends who have the clinic, who everybody is accepted as they are, it is very open-minded, it is very liberal practice. Their team has tattoos and is brightly colored, and comes from every walk of life, every size, shape, and color, that kind of diversity, that's who they are. They're doing a great job of communicating to their client base that's who they are, and that things that go against that are not tolerated. So they have a very clear policy for their clients about we don't tolerate racism in our practice. We don't tolerate our team being mistreated based on what they look like or who they are as a person that's unacceptable for us.

Stephanie Goss:

Or the faith based practice that you interviewed with, I think that's great because they are communicating that inwardly and outwardly to their clients. And so that's where I think we have to really be okay with letting go of some of that guilt. And if there is something that is a line in the sand for you and your team, you do you, right?

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah.

Stephanie Goss:

Because your vibe is going to attract your tribe. And let me tell you, we have seen our friends practice be wildly successful, because they're putting out into the world who they are as people, as a vibe and people are flocking to it. To your point, they're succeeding because of that, and I think that it's really important to think about, who are you as a team? And that it is okay to say, I didn't lose any sleep at night. I did in the very beginning because I felt guilty about saying, “Well, we might not be able to give service or provide care to a patient if they are not current on their rabies vaccine.” That was really hard for me in the beginning, but now you bet, I don't think twice about it and don't lose sleep because I truly believe I am protecting my patients and my team, and that is important to me.

Stephanie Goss:

And the reason that I feel okay with it is because that is communicated from day one. When we have clients who come into the practice, this is part of our policy, this is part of our protocols. Clients get that information, we talk about it from the beginning, it is a regular reoccurring conversation. And so I think if there is something that is a line in the sand being okay with letting go of that guilt and the actionable steps there are that you have to be communicating what and why to your clients loudly and often.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah. If you struggle with that, I'll tell you, one of my good friends, Dr. Indu Mani, she is… I'll butcher her title, but basically she's the Chief Medical Officer at Brief Media that publishes clinicians brief. She's genius, and she is doing a fellowship at Harvard Medical School now in Medical Ethics. And as part of her a program, she wrote this paper that was received and she was told you should publish this. And she published it in a New York Daily Post, I shared it on social media and stuff. But she talks about this ethics principle called moral distress. And so moral distress is when you know what you should do, but you are unable to do it. And that causes a deep, ethical pain in us. And so she talks about burnout in that medicine, she says that moral distress seems to play a significant role in that, meaning one of the drivers of burnout is that you know what you should do, but you're not able to do it.

Dr. Andy Roark:

And when she said that I was so few beautifully encapsulated, a lot of the burnout motions that I see and then I've gone through in my career. I would always say that vet medicine is uniquely challenging, but I didn't unpack it a lot more than that. Because I didn't have the words for it, but when she talked about moral distress, I was like, “Yes, that's the uniquely challenging that I'm talking about.” And so when you are saying, I don't know about making this line in the sand, I don't know if I should make this decision or say, this is what we require here. I think if you think about the fact that moral distress is real, that might make it easier for you to say, “No, this is a line in the sand for us. And it's because I don't don't want to continue to put my staff in the position where they're going to feel bad about doing these things.”

Dr. Andy Roark:

And so for me anyway, it's an interesting concept, but it does help me from a human capital standpoint to justify some hard lines that I make when I do something. Anyway, this is a sprawling conversation, you know what I mean? The topic is so hard. People are so different, but thanks for unpacking it with me and talking through everything.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I think this was really, really a fun one. Take care everyone. Have a great week.

Dr. Andy Roark:

Yeah, guys. Be well, we'll talk to you soon.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, gang, that's a wrap on another episode of the podcast and as always, this was so fun to dive into the mailbag and answer this question. And I would really love to see more things like this come through the mailbag. If there is something that you would love to have us talk about on the podcast, or a question that you are hoping that we might be able to help with, feel free to reach out and send us a message. You can always find a mailbag at the website, the address is unchartedvet.com/mailbag or you can email us at podcast@unchartedvet.com. Take care everybody, and have a great week. We'll see you again next time.

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Feb 16 2022

My Tech Takes Risks

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What's This Episode About?

This week on the podcast, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie Goss are tackling a mailbag letter from a practice manager who is wondering how to handle an issue with a veterinary technician's safety. This team member is a wonderful veterinary technician, who is generally well-liked by the team. They seem to have one habit that gets them into (sometimes BIG) trouble. They put themselves into situations sometimes that are unnecessarily risky – trying to do jugular blood draws by themselves, for example. The rest of the tech team has nicknamed this person “Cowboy” and while they can sometimes get things done super quickly, they have also been bitten, scratched, exposed to zoonotic things – all unnecessarily in this manager’s opinion. The team has protocols in place that include having help so this manager is at a loss for how to address the situation, get this cowboy tech to slow down, and be safe. Let’s get into this…

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Stephanie Goss:

Hey everybody. I am Stephanie Goss. And this is another episode of The Uncharted Podcast. This week on the podcast, Andy and I are tackling another question from the mail bag. You guys have been on fire lately, and this one is no exception. We got an email from a manager who is struggling with a team member who is phenomenal. They have been a great fit for the team, but there's just one slight problem, which is that they have earned themselves a nickname with the team, and that is the cowboy. So let's get into this and find out why this person has been nicknamed the cowboy and what we can possibly do about this situation, because I think this will be another episode where hopefully, you love Andy's nickname for me, as much as I do. And you are wondering, “Are they talking about my practice?” Let's get into this.

Speaker 2:

And now, the Uncharted Podcast.

Andy Roark:

We are back. It's me, Dr. Andy Roark and Stephanie “Mamas Don't Let Your Babies Grow Up To Be Cowboys Or Girls” Goss.

Stephanie Goss:

That might be one of my favorites that you've ever done.

Andy Roark:

We don't do enough Willie Nelson, Stephanie Goss, mashups. Stephanie “Blue Eyes Crying In The Rain” Goss, Stephanie “Whiskey River Take My Mind” Goss. Oh, it's an untapped well that's just been unlocked.

Stephanie Goss:

I love it. It's amazing. How's it going?

Andy Roark:

It's good. It's good. It was great to see you in person just a few days ago.

Stephanie Goss:

I know.

Andy Roark:

And to get to catch up. And man, VMX was great. I really had a good time and I was really happy to be there.

Stephanie Goss:

It was so awesome. It was so great to just see our friends and colleagues and just be in the same space as people, which was also overwhelming. I'm pretty cautious and we live in a pretty small bubble in terms of our interactions and stuff, and so I was having a lot of anxiety before going, but I will tell you, I think the folks over at NAVC did a great job. Everybody was pretty respectful of wearing their masks in the conference space. It was crowded, more crowded than I was expecting, but not in a way that I felt panicked or overwhelmed because then when you're in Florida and you're going out and about and doing other things, I felt a lot more crowded in other spaces outside of the conference.

Stephanie Goss:

So I think those guys definitely deserve the applause and the kudos for putting that together the way that they did because it went really, really well. I was really impressed. And it was good to feel that energy that you get watching some of your lectures and hearing people engage and asking questions, and just that excitement that comes with live in-person. CE was just so fun.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. I'm glad we got to talk about how great it was because I don't get to talk about how great it was because I came home and my wife has had children who have been snowed out at school, in a virtual school since I left. And she's like, “How was it?” And I was like, “It was awful. I wish I would've been home with you and the children and inside.” I'm like, “It was amazing, but I'm not going to tell you that.”

Stephanie Goss:

“I'm not going to tell you.” I was thinking about them actually, while we were gone, because I saw on a social media, your wife's preparation post as she got ready for snowpocalypse to hit where you guys are in South Carolina. And I was curious how it actually went and if they got the predicted disaster level snow.

Andy Roark:

Oh, it actually happened, yeah. They did, they got like five inches of snow, which is a lot in South Carolina, really crazy. Everyone got to watch on social media for Orlando as my wife's set up a generator in the snow.

Stephanie Goss:

Because she's badass like that.

Andy Roark:

And social media was like, “Ooh.” They would look and they would see her with pink cheeks, pulling the rip cord on social media, and then they would slowly turn and they would look at me with my mojito and-

Stephanie Goss:

Sitting by the pool in Orlando.

Andy Roark:

… my place tree ice mask.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I love it.

Andy Roark:

Oh man. I love you honey.

Stephanie Goss:

I am excited for our Willie Nelson episode today because-

Andy Roark:

Let's do it.

Stephanie Goss:

… we have got a good cowboy one. It's funny, this question came up in a manager group that I'm in, and I reached out to the person who posted and asked them, I said, “Hey, this struck a chord with me because I have been in your same shoes. I've been the manager who's been supervising someone like this on my team, and I know that I'm not alone. Would you be okay if we talked about this on the podcast?” And they were like, “I think that'd be great because I'm at a loss for what to do, which is why I reached out to everybody.” So I think, again, this is going to be one of those episodes where people are like, “Are they talking about my clinic?” Because I think a lot of us have been there.

Stephanie Goss:

It's a clinic that has a technician who has been a great addition to their team, they put a lot of pressure on themselves, they have a lot of high expectations for themselves in terms of their skillset. And this technician has been doing some things that the manager feels like are putting them at unnecessary risk, like trying to do jugular blood draws by themselves. And some of the rest of the tech team have nicknamed this person the cowboy, because they are trying to do so much by themselves. And the team's perception is that this person is trying to prove something to them.

Stephanie Goss:

And this manager's like, “I feel like I need to talk to them, A, just about how to ask for help. B, talk about clarifying because it is not in our protocols or policies for team members to be doing something like a jugular job by themselves,” for the exact reason that they put this forward, which is that in the time period that this person has worked with them, they have been bitten and scratched and had their own health put at risk by their interactions with their patients because it has not been super safe. And so they were like, “I feel like they really need to slow down, and I'm wondering, has anybody had this type of employee and what worked in terms of addressing it with them?”

Stephanie Goss:

And like I said, it really resonated with me because I have more than once worked with this person in was just like, this was a hard one, I struggled with it as a manager. So I'm excited for you and I to go through this one today.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. I like this a lot. This is a classic management trap, and I see it already. And I think this is a great question, and I appreciate the person who let us take a crack at it. I think the trap is, and we're already seeing this here, is focusing on the idea that, I need to talk to this person about how to ask for help, or that this is going to be a process discussion, because neither of those things address the underlying issue here. I'm not saying you can fix it every time, but I'm saying your only hope of fixing it is recognizing what drives this behavior, discovering it, digging it out, and then fixing that underlying problem, which is generating the cowboy mentality and the cowboy actions.

Andy Roark:

The cowboy actions are rarely the problem themselves, they're generally a symptom of some sort of psychological position this employee has put themselves in. And if we can reset that vision, then we can often change that behavior. But it's a whole lot easier to talk to the underlying problem so that this behavior goes away than it is to hold people accountable, reprimand, or coach them out of this specific behavior. So I like that a lot. Let's go ahead and get in a good head space for this. You ready?

Stephanie Goss:

Yep. Sounds good.

Andy Roark:

So let's talk about why this happens. Why do we see this type of behavior, when we see these people who are just going above and beyond to do things that are unsafe or risky to get it done? There's a number of reasons. And so I'll give you a couple of them that pop into my mind. Generally, it's not not knowing how to ask for help, that may be it, but usually, it's not it. It's also usually not about not knowing or understanding the policies, it's usually about tribal status, which is, I want to be perceived in a certain way by the team. And when I say that, it plugs a lot into self-worth and insecurity.

Andy Roark:

People who are willing to take risks with themselves and their health are often insecure of their position in the team. They want other people to think that they're valuable or that they're really good at their job. And they're like, “I'll take this risk to try to prove to people that I'm willing to do this.” And so there's insecurity there and they question their self-worth, “If I don't do these things, then they won't see value in me.” There's identity in doing things that others can't or won't do. “How do I fit? What's my role in the team? I'm the one who gets it done. I'm the one who will do the things that others' won't do or that they can do.”

Andy Roark:

These people get positive reinforcement for these behaviors. So as a manager, we were like, “You did a blood draw by yourself? Are you crazy?” On the floor, people get these raised eyebrows and like, “Wow, that went really well.” And they get these subtle, “Boy, you really are a cat whisperer to be able to do that. Wow, you really are fast. You get things done.” And they're feeling their emotional bucket, and the risk they're taking are not good risks, but there's a bad habit of us to go, “Wow, that was crazy. Boy, you jump in when other people would stand wait.” And they get positively reinforced for these behaviors that are ultimately in the long term, really problematic.

Andy Roark:

There's a thing called present bias, and present bias is the idea of like right now in this moment, the good thing is to get this case done. The long term view is, honestly, in the long term, the best thing is for me to stay safe and healthy and to maintain our standard of care over the long term. But right now in this moment, when we're behind schedule and people are waiting up front and all the exam rooms are full, just get this thing done. That is the immediate pressure that people feel, and so they often fold to present bias of, do the thing that's right in front of you that will give you immediate gratification or immediate pat on the back and discount the long term detriments of this immediate behavior.

Andy Roark:

I see that driving it. Are there other reasons? There can be. Like I said, these are just the main personal drivers that I see. It's possible that people have real self-identity issues or self-worth issues and things, and that's beyond what we're going to get into as their boss or their employer or their colleague. But those types of issues are generally what drive this more so than an understanding or a lack of understanding about policies and how to get help.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, I think the last reasoning for me is one of our biggest challenges in veterinary medicine, which is that the people that I have worked with have been this kind of team member, they go rogue or they cowboy or cowgirl, have often come from high pressure, high stress environments that very much exist in the present bias, whether it's a high volume hospital, ER environment where they're on nights and there is minimal staff, so you learn how to do a lot more with less, or shelter medicine where cost is a concern, and so you often have more of a skeleton crew because that's what the funding and the budget supports, those kind of environments.

Stephanie Goss:

I have seen people grow up in those environments and they're doing what they have always done, because that's how they learned. And there are so many things in veterinary medicine where we get trapped in that hole. And so I think that it very much ties to your point of present bias. They are very much probably thinking about it from, “Let's get this case done and over with,” because that is what they know, and that's what feels comfortable. They may know that they should ask for help, but getting the case done and over with, “Oh, I could do this by myself and just move on.” It's very easy to put that pressure on themselves.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. I agree with that. I think that's a great point, but what you talk about positive reinforcement, when you are trained and you're told, this is how you do it, and then you do it and they go, “Great job today, you did well,” that's the positive reinforcement part coming back in, is, this is a behavior that has gotten praised in the past, and now… I think most of us struggle, especially if we can came up this way and there's years of a positive reinforcement structure to be like, “Oh, I'm in a new place, and what got me positive reinforcement before doesn't get it for me anymore.” That's not something that you discard and then put back on something else like you're changing jackets?

Andy Roark:

We have been trained and wired that way. Honestly, think about this, and you've heard me talk about this a lot. And I say, humans are simple animals and I don't care how smart you are, how many degrees you have, you're a simple animal. And think about people that you know who have… We'll make it simple, think about dogs that you know and they have been trained to do something. And then think about how much it takes to untrain them from the behaviors that they have had, where they have been positively reinforced, where there's been a stimulus and a response. And again, people are different, they are smarter than dogs, of course, but we still have that same internal wiring of how we're trained and how we respond to repeated positive reinforcement.

Andy Roark:

And again, this is about every human being, I don't care how smart you are. I believe that that's how we're made. And so when you think about the difficulties of untraining behaviors in pets that have been positively reinforced, it's hard, and it's hard in people. I think going into it with that headspace of like, “This is what we're up against,” I think that can help set really clear, realistic expectations of how we get through this, because we can get through it, but it's not a switch. Really think that that's critically important as I think a lot of people think, when they see stuff like this, “I'm going to go tell this person that they have to stop doing this,” and then they'll stop doing it.

Andy Roark:

And maybe they will, maybe if they are showing up and they're like, “This makes me uncomfortable, but I really need to show out for the rest of the team,” then maybe I can have a conversation with them. But if it is something that is how they've been in the past or how they were trained, it can take a while. And so I would go in this hoping that this is a feedback conversation, but expecting that it's going to be a coaching conversation, which is probably going to take more time. And if I think that, then I'm not disappointed when the behavior doesn't immediately go away.

Andy Roark:

So I think a lot about, how do we reach this person? And the answer is compassion. And I think this gets us into the right head space to have the conversation. If I go and say, “Look, you're putting yourself at risk, you're putting your team at risk, you're putting the patients at risk. You're not delivering the quality of care that we deliver.” Now, I'm hitting this person in ways that really hurt.” I don't want to be told that I'm not taking good care of patients or that I'm putting my team at risk. Those are heavy accusations. And most of us are not in an emotional place to be able to take that kind of criticism, even if it's true.

Andy Roark:

We don't want to hear that, it is painful and it hurts too much. And so we get defensive. We say, “You guys don't know what you're doing.” We put up walls to keep ourselves safe, and that's just the human animal. And so if you want help this person, you can't go after them with negative feedback and pointing out the problems necessarily with what they're doing. We'll have that discussion, but we're going to do it very much in a way that is kind and that is caring. The people who often struggle with this are often panicking inside. They're trying to do everything that they could do.

Andy Roark:

And people who risk their health or that push the boundaries like this, they often feel like they have something to prove or that they're in a position where taking your time and working with a team is not available. It reminds me a lot, we've been watching a lot of Incanto at my house and that song on Surface Pressure that Luisa sings. And if you haven't seen Incanto, you should see it. It's so good. And honestly, it's a happy, fun song and it almost makes me cry when I hear it, because I see it so often in others and in myself. But basically, it's this character who has this super human strength and she does everything for everybody, and she sings a song about how strong she looks on the outside, but how the whole time she can't make any mistakes, she can't let anyone down, she's terrified, she's not going to be strong enough.

Stephanie Goss:

She's carrying that weight.

Andy Roark:

“I have to carry this weight for everyone else because I'm the strong one.” And God, it resonates so strong, and it is so amazing. But I've been thinking a lot about that. But that's what I see when I see the cowboy in some ways. And again, I'm generalizing, but boy, there's a lot of Louisa cowboys out there who, they'll get it done, they'll take this risk. But on the inside, they're really stressing about their own value and what worth they really bring. We've all been insecure and we've all been worried about how other people look at us, so I think that's the pathway to engage in these types of conversations.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah, no, I agree 100% with that, because I think about the people in my career that I have worked with who have been this person, and I think about myself and some of my friends. I had some really good conversations at VMX this last week, but there was a few conversations with some really good friends who I look at and see as very confident people. And when you have that confidence, it's really hard to look at people like that and think that they could be insecure, but it is amazing to me when you have the comfort and the trust to be able to let your guard down and have those conversations. And I was talking with some friends and talking to them about how much I admired their ability to look confident.

Stephanie Goss:

Because I feel like in situations like that, I feel like I look as terrified as I am on the inside, on the outside. I don't look at myself as having confidence. And the conversation very much was, “Are you kidding me?” I know I can do it, and I'm still nervous. I'm nervous every time I do this thing or I face this fear. And so when I think about those people that I have worked with in my career who have been this person, I have had the pleasure of actually knowing them over time well enough to know that they, the confidence comes from that place of insecurity, of feeling like, I have to do it, or, the weight it is on me.

Stephanie Goss:

And so I think your analogy and your tie to Luisa, having seen that movie is a very good one, because I think that is really easy to feel like, “Well, I have to hold the weight of this, and so I can't let anybody see the pressure that I'm putting on myself to make this good.” But I think about the people on my team, and I would way rather work with someone like this who is, in this manager's word, a wonderful addition to their team, who is putting the high expectations on themselves. I would way rather work with that person as a manager and as a leader to try and get them to develop those self-awareness skills and get to the place where they feel like it's safe and it's okay to say, “Oh, maybe I should pause for a second and ask for help.”

Stephanie Goss:

I would really rather do that than work with somebody who has no desire, no motive, is on that opposite end of the spectrum of like, I have to really poke this person with a cattle prod to get them to do what I want them to do. Yeah, exactly.

Andy Roark:

Yes. But you're exactly right. Think about it as a spectrum. Would you rather work with a person who cares so much that they take risks that they shouldn't take, or would you rather work with someone who cares so little that they will not engage unless it is convenient for them? You know what I mean? Unless they're walked by the hand up to the engagement? No, give me the person who cares too much. But I'm going to work with them and try to get them to come down. We're going to this exercise and talking about this because when I get in the head space to have this conversation, I want value in this person, and I do not want to get lost that I see where they're coming from, and I see them, and I understand that this, that there are probably some reasons beyond a lack of policy understanding that are driving this behaviors.

Andy Roark:

And the last thing as we get into head space and start talking about putting these things together, are you safe to have the conversation? And you talk a lot about this. I feel like we left it off the list a lot recently, which is fine because we talk about it so much. But are you safe to have the conversation? Can you sit next to this person? And can you smile? It is not the right time to go and talk to this person when you're mad.

Stephanie Goss:

In the moment.

Andy Roark:

Let's just say that this has just overstepped and they've got big cat scratches down their arm. And you're like, “Look, we need to talk about this now.” Because they're feeling shame Or embarrassment from trying this thing. And so if they're insecure and insecurity's driving this and they just had a setback in front of the whole team, and now you are coming at them and saying, “Hey, we've got to talk about this.” You're making it worse and really pushing that insecurity monster into a corner. I don't want that. And so, can I sit next to this person? And if I can't, we may have to schedule this for tomorrow when we're going to talk about it. Am I assuming good intent? And that's why we had this big conversation in the beginning.

Andy Roark:

This person is not willfully ignorant, they don't disrespect you and the rules, they're not doing things their own way and bucking authority. They've got something in their mind that they feel like they have to prove, they don't think that they're worthy of respect unless they push the envelope and do things that other people do. They've got some weird value system that has been taught and positively reinforced in the past that they're working again. These people, like I said, the most important thing to remember is you're dealing with someone who cares so much that they're willing to put themselves at risk.

Andy Roark:

And that helps me to see them in a positive light, which is going to make this a better and easier conversation. F is, has this person been set up to fail. And do we have policies? Do we have protocols about how we restrain and how we handle? Do we do animal restraint, low stress, animal training? Things like that. Because if this person was trained somewhere and they came in and we said, “Get on the floor and go to work,” we set them up to fail.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, and I feel like this is one of those areas where, especially with experienced team members, that we as an industry really do need to own the F a little bit. I can think of my own career of so many times that I set team members up to fail because they were experienced and they had the skillset and they came in and I made assumptions because I knew their skillset, and I knew they had proven their abilities, that I was like, “Cool, go at it,” and let them loose thinking it would be condescending or it would be like I was questioning their abilities if I sat down with them and said, “Hey, this is how we do this here. This is our protocol. This is our process.”

Stephanie Goss:

And I think that that's assumption that a lot of us managers can make, is when we do have experienced team members come on board, it is equally important to have that training process and go through the things with them to reaffirm that their skills actually are what we think that they are, but also just to integrate them into our culture. This is where we really have to, before we point the finger at someone else, we have to look at the fingers pointing back at us and say, “Hey… “And maybe this manager did this as part of their onboarding process, I don't know.

Stephanie Goss:

But I know that for myself and for many of my fellow managers, we can all think of times where we have put an experienced person and let them loose because we knew their skillset, and yet we're doing them a disservice and we're doing the team a disservice when we don't take the time to have a training process for them the same way we would for an assistant who came in and who had the zero experience, or a tech just out of school that didn't have a whole lot of on the floor experience prior to going to tech school. So I think that this one is a really important one, and it's often one that we can overlook.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. And then E in SAFE is the end result. What is the end result that you want? I don't want this person to apologize. I'm not trying to get them to say that they made mistake. I want their behavior in the future to change, I want them to be safe and I want them to practice the standard of care that we practice, but I don't want this, again, to be a punishing thing, I don't want it to be a painful thing. I want it to be a growth thing. Yep. That's what I want. And so that's the end result that I'm looking for.

Stephanie Goss:

I love it. Should we take a quick break here and then jump into some action and steps?

Andy Roark:

Yeah, let's do it. Hey, Stephanie Goss, you got a second to talk about GuardianVets?

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. What do you want to talk?

Andy Roark:

Man, I hear from people all the time that are overwhelmed because the phones never stop ringing, and I'm sure you hear from these people as well like, “Our caseload is blowing up and the doctors are busy and the phones just don't stop.”

Stephanie Goss:

They never stop. That is a true story.

Andy Roark:

I'm amazed by how few veterinarians know about GuardianVets. This is a service where you have registered technicians who can jump in virtually and help you on the phones. You can flip a switch and GuardianVets can jump in and take some of the load off the front desk and they can handle your clients and get them to book for your appointments and give them support. And it really is a godsend.

Stephanie Goss:

Pre-pandemic, it was amazing to me how many people hadn't heard about it for after-hours call help, but at this point, I can't believe how many people don't realize that they are offering help during the daytime as well, which I would think right now is a huge benefit to practices because everybody is shorthanded, everybody is drowning in phone calls. And so we talk about it, we've talked about GuardianVets, lot on the podcast. And every time we do, we always get somebody who says, what is that?

Andy Roark:

Guys, if you're not familiar with GuardianVets, if you think that you could use some help on the phones or up the front desk, check them out. It's guardianvets.com. And if you mention our podcast, me and Stephanie Goss, you get a month free. So check it out. guardianvets.com.

Stephanie Goss:

Hey everyone, it's Stephanie and I just want to jump in here for one quick second and make sure that you know about a couple of things that are coming up that you may not want to miss. Andy and I just kicked off our Strategic Planning Workshop series. We've been doing this at the top of the year, every year for the last few, because it gives us a chance to talk about how do we set the team up for success when we look ahead at a coming year? We've done the first session already by the time this comes out, but you can still join us for the remaining three. We're going to be talking about setting vision, mission, talking about values with our team and really living and breathing it versus something fancy that just goes up on our wall.

Stephanie Goss:

We're going to talk about loading the bus, getting the right people in the right seats and forward. And then we're going to talk about KPIs and what do we need to look at from a numbers perspective to smartly manage the practice. And also, how do we get our team bought-in to that? So you can join us for that. And then the other thing I want to make sure you don't miss is we have a class coming up on February 17th. It is a workshop that is being led by my friend, Dr. Adam Little. This is a workshop that Adam did for us previously at an Uncharted Event. And we heard so much great feedback about this that I wanted to figure out a way to bring this to you guys virtually. And Adam rose to the challenge that I am super stoked about this.

Stephanie Goss:

You're not going to want to miss it. It is called What Vet Med can Learn from Improv. And Adam is going to be talking about how to learn, how to take the fundamental foundations of improv and apply it not only to comedy, but to life and practice. So how do we learn to think quick on our feet and be more comfortable with what is often the uncomfortable or the unexpected? So that workshop is kicking off on February 17th, registration is still open. You can find out about these and more at unchartedvet.com/events. And now back to the podcast.

Andy Roark:

Let's get in some action steps.

Stephanie Goss:

Okay.

Andy Roark:

All right. One of the big reasons I wanted to bring up the safe conversations in the head space is because it's critical in our first action step. And the first action step is cliché, start with why. It's easy to bring this person in and say, “You got to stop doing that. You did this thing and it be caused a problem.” Now, if that happens, if this person has done something one time and was a bit cavalier then just saying, “Hey, when you put yourself at risk like this is, this the outcome or this is what can happen. Please don't do that again.” And as simple feedback, it takes 10 seconds. You look them in the eye, you smile at them and you just say, “Hey, can I talk to you for a second?”

Andy Roark:

When you do this, you put yourself at risk, you put the team at risk, we don't live our values, we don't deliver the patient care that we have set forth to deliver. Can you do that differently next time for me, buddy? Thanks, man. You're the best. And that's it. That's the whole conversation. That's that quick feedback and it's just done. If this is a pattern behavior, and we're seeing this person, especially if they have a reputation of the cowboy, this is not a one-and-done feedback on a specific behavior. This is about the pattern of behavior. And so we need to talk about why, we need to talk about why do you want this person to stop?

Andy Roark:

And it's not because it's a violation of our policies, although that's part of it, but I can say, “I worry about you, I want you to be here, I don't want you to be injured. I don't think it makes you look good. When these things happen and you end up getting bitten and go into urgent care, that's not good for you. And we lose a great technician off the floor.” I'm going to talk about their longevity and their profession. I'm going to talk about the example that they set for others and others look up to them. I'm going to talk about the impact on patient care. I'm going to talk about legal liability of the practice and say, “Hey, I know you to don't mean this, but you put us in a really hard spot because we can end up getting sued. If people say how we work or sure or there's workers comp problems or things like that.”

Andy Roark:

So there's a lot of reasons why this is not a good idea. It has nothing to do with, I don't believe you are that good or things like that. I want to validate the value of their worth outside of these reckless behaviors. You are valuable, we want you here. And this is me really to trying to speak to that idea of a lot of times, these behaviors come from insecurity. And so I want to validate this person, I want to provide them the security so that they can stop doing these reckless things. But if they feel insecure and pushing themselves beyond what is ideal, we shall say, if pushing the something beyond what is ideal is the way that they try to show their value, and then I just take that tool away from them without fixing the underlying problem, now I have this insecure person who felt like the one thing that they could do to show their value has been stripped from them.

Andy Roark:

And they're going to leave, they're going to push back, they're going to find something else that tries to demonstrate their value, and that may not be a healthy behavior. I want to address the underlying problem, which is, “Hey, we want you here, we like you here. Everybody likes you, you are well established. You don't need to do these things.” And so it works, that validation, that big part of the starting, it works in combination with explaining why we're having this conversation.

Stephanie Goss:

I think that piece is so important and it's amazing how big of an impact. It's so simple, but I will tell you in my own personal experience after bumbling through it, eventually got through trial and error on my own, got to the place where it was like, “Look, I think that you're amazing technician. These are the things that you do so well. I don't need you to do jug draws by yourself, I need you to be whole and healthy. And when you have to miss days of work because you got bit and are on antibiotics and the doctors told you to stay home for three days, that's what I don't need. I need you here.” And then leading into how do we solve the problem together, but it's about, “Look, this is what I do think is great about you.”

Stephanie Goss:

And it was amazing to me how simple and powerful the words of, “I don't need you to do this thing.” And then calling out the behavior, what a radical difference that made in turning on the light bulb for that person. Because if they are feeling insecure, they are probably coming at it from a place of, to some degree of, “I want to be needed. It's nice to feel needed.” And when you can do that thing that nobody else is willing to do, or that gets the race eyebrows, that is often them wanting to feel needed in that way. And so hearing, I “I don't need you to do that, these are the other things that you do that are amazing and fantastic. I need you to do more of that.”

Andy Roark:

Yeah. It's not wrong to just ask them as well. We've made a number of assumptions here, but ideally I'd like those assumptions to be validated. So asking questions of, tell me, “Tell me honestly, why do you do that? Why would you put yourself to risk like that?

Stephanie Goss:

Seek to understand. Yeah.

Andy Roark:

Just help me understand what you're thinking here. And that's a very open-end question, and a lot of times remember, they're not going to say, “It's because I'm insecure. And I question myself worth on the team.” They're not going to say that.

Stephanie Goss:

But they may tell you, “Well, at my previous hospital, this was how I was trained, this how I learned and we needed to get stuff done. And it just seemed to be the most efficient way. So that's the way I've always done it.”

Andy Roark:

Or they'll point out to you legitimate concerns that they have, that taking risks that they're taking is not the appropriate response, but there is a reason that they are doing and they may say, “Hey, look, we are not moving efficiently and there's other people who are standing around that. I am trying to pick up the slack and set an example to get those guys to get engaged. And yes, I know I push too hard, but that is why I'm doing these things alone is because people are standing around.” And so then what I would say is you have a different management problem on your hands.

Andy Roark:

And if that's true, then the agreement is, “Hey, look, you're going to stop taking these risks and I am going to get on board with motivating these people and figuring out how to get those things done, because that should not be happening.” And that may be empowering other people, it may be protocols, it may be whatever it is, but I don't want to… You know what I mean? I think we should start talking as if there would be no legitimate reason for this, but sometimes people, again, not the right course of actions, but sometimes we make a poor choice in response to a very legitimate problem. And so again, this is a way of me relieving that pressure to try to coach this person back to where they need to be.

Andy Roark:

We got to do positive reinforcement on the safe and the responsible behaviors. You and I talk a lot about building culture, that's our sweet spot, it's where we live. It is really hard to police culture. It is hard to catch people not doing culture and get them in trouble. The better play in these things is it's positive reinforcement. Positive reinforcement got this person into these behaviors, positive reinforcement is going to get them back out, just like we talked about retraining pets. I'm not going to negatively reinforce my way out of something that they were trained to do, I need to use positive reinforcement to coaching, to grow them. And that's it. So are we positively reinforcing safe behavior, responsible handling, teamwork, collaboration, things like that? How do we do that?

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. I think one of the things that I tried that worked really well was coming at it from an accountability perspective. And so I had the conversation one-on-one with the person and was just like, “Look, I need you here and I need you safe. And what you're doing is not safe for you. And it's also not safe all the time for your patients either. And so I know that you care about your patients and I know that you would never want to hurt anybody. And let's talk about the risk.” And so then I said, “Okay, I need you to be accountable, not to me because I'm your boss, I need you to be able to be accountable to yourself because I know that you want to be here and be a part of this team.”

Stephanie Goss:

And so I opened up the door to having the conversation about, “Well, what would accountability look like to you?” And it caught me so off guard, but the very first time that I dealt with this as a manager, it was a veterinary assistant who was the cowgirl and we were having the conversation. And she said to me, “Maybe I could have a code word.” And I was confused so I said, “Well, tell me more about that.” And she said, “Well, sometimes I can feel myself going to go rogue and do the thing because I feel like it's just better, and so maybe I can have a code word for you or for somebody else on the team to ask for help, because saying, “Hey, I need your help with this,” when they're in the middle of doing something else, then I feel guilty because I feel like I'm pulling them away from their job and what they're supposed to be doing.

Stephanie Goss:

And it like lightning bolt moment for me because I realized part of why they were doing what they were doing was because they didn't want to inconvenience other people. And so to your point, it was a different management problem, but it gave me a starting place. And so we had a conversation one-on-one and talked about it and it was great because the idea came from this person. And then we moved out to have a conversation with the team as a whole and just say, “Hey, we've been talking about this and we want to set up some accountability for each other and protect each other.

Stephanie Goss:

“And so would it work for everybody if we set up a system where we had a code word, where if we see somebody struggling or trying to do something by themselves that they probably shouldn't that we're all if we use this code word,” and it was pineapple. “And if we say pineapple to somebody, that means, “Hey, either I need help or, hey, you need some help.” And we had to have a conversation about being okay with accepting that help in the moment even if we didn't feel like we needed it, but I will tell you, it was amazing how much of a difference it made, for your reason, which was it created the environment where we could reinforce the good behavior.

Stephanie Goss:

We weren't catching them, screwing it up and not asking for help again when they should have, but it created an environment where I could say, “I'm feeling like I just need to get this thing done and I know that I shouldn't rest. And so I'm going to ask for help, even if the other people are involved in something else, because they've given me permission to not feel guilty about it.” Or as a team member, this person has given me the okay to help them and say, “Hey Pineapple, let me let hop in and help you. What do you need? Do you want me to hold… ” and ask them for help in a way that felt very, very safe. And it was slow. It took changing the behavior, so it didn't happen very often, but I made it my job to pay attention to the situation.

Stephanie Goss:

And I was the one to be brave and call out pineapple and set the example for them. But slowly but surely, I watched them react to each other and develop that positive reinforcement with each other because not only were they doing it, not only were they calling each other pineapple, but it created the safety where they were like, “Hey, great job on that. Thanks for letting me help you.” And create that positive reinforcement and the group dynamic shifted when they saw the power in being able to help each other and support each other there. And it was such a great experience for me. And they haven't all gone like that. I've had go spectacularly sideways even when we talked about it as a team.

Stephanie Goss:

But I think your point of figuring out what that positive reinforcement looks and catching people doing good, but also figuring out without throwing someone under the bus, without making someone, the center of attention in a way that feels uncomfortable. How can I get the team to point out when we're doing things that are good? So if the rest of the team has given this person, the cowboy nickname, maybe it's having a team conversation, or maybe it's as a manager, having a separate side conversation with the rest of the tech team and saying, “Hey guys, I know that this has been a thing, I know you've all been joking about it. It really bothers me, and I really want your help. I need your help to fix this. Here's what I need.” And then ask them for help and get them involved in the process.

Andy Roark:

Well, that's the hard part with positively reinforcing your way out of problems, how often are you standing around this person when they do something? You've got to recruit, I'm not saying you have a team meeting where everybody's going to help Darrell, but I'm going to say to my head technicians, “Hey guys, this is what's going on. And this is the behaviors that I want to do. I'm not asking you to police Darrell, but I am asking you to pay attention and positively reinforce those behaviors.” And just gets a support system around who's there to say, “Yeah, hey, that was really great.”

Andy Roark:

Ultimately, whether it's in the first conversation that we have, or the ongoing feedback processes that we're talking about, for a lot of people, I'm really trying to get them to redefine their self-worth so that they don't see their value in this, but they still see value in themselves, or they believe that other people see value in them. And I need to talk to them about why I see value in them at this meeting and what their value to us is and how I appreciate them and how I want to keep them and why I want to keep them, but at the same time, I need people on the floor to also support that revision of what self-worth is.

Andy Roark:

And we do that by celebrating the person when they do the things that are positive and healthy, self-worth, self-valuing behaviors and celebrating them for things that are good and sustainable as much or more than we need to catch the things that are not healthy or that are problematic, that we want to stop. The last thing I would say, and we talked about this the beginning, but I'll just hit it one more time. Coaching is a process. It is a process. We are talking about changing people, a lot of times we are talking about changing people who have long established behaviors, they have underlying drivers that are making these behaviors happen. Be patient, be kind, remember that this person is putting themselves at risk because they care a lot.

Andy Roark:

And that's the type of person we want to work with and we want to keep, but we want to keep them healthy, and we want to keep our practice safe and we want to keep our other people learning and growing in ways that are good and that we're proud of. But what we can balance those things, it just takes time. It's going to take more than one conversation. Make sure you're having positive conversations as much or more than you're having any negative conversation.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, and I think that's really important because I think it's an ongoing process, and I think your points are spot on. And I think we said in the beginning, this is not necessarily about someone not knowing the protocol or not knowing what your policies are. And I think the coaching piece a lot of times can be looked at as, “Oh, I'm going to do the positive and I'm going to do the supportive part of it.” And the accountability piece does get left out a lot. And so I think it's really important to say, “Look, you should not start with accountability.” There has to be the stuff that you and I just spent the last half hour talking about all of that has to be set up, and there has to be ongoing support. And you have to create the environment world where that person feels like they are trusted and have trust in you.

Stephanie Goss:

And if the behaviors, because as a manager, it is important to recognize, “I am in charge of the safety of the team. And if I have a team member who is being reckless and who is endangering themselves and their team members, there is accountability that has to be put in place. And so when you have a team member that is bitten, that is scratched, that gets the ringworm cases because they're not doing what they're supposed to be doing, those things, at some point, there has to be accountability for that. And so I think the important part for you and I is that is absolutely not where I would start this conversation. And when it comes to coaching, don't forget that accountability is a part of that process.

Stephanie Goss:

And so if you have had the conversation and you have had the follow-up conversations, and you're still having the conversation after having multiple follow-up conversations, then I think it's not about what they're doing, it's not about them being a cowboy, it's not about them being reckless. It's about their behavior is not changing and there does need to be accountability because at the end of the day, your patient safety, your whole team safety, their safety as an individual employee is your responsibility as a manager. And so don't forget that that piece should be a part of the conversation. I think it's really easy to be like, “Oh, okay, this, it's leaning into the people piece of it and the emotional and the touchy feely piece of it.”

Stephanie Goss:

And knowing that there does come a point where when behavior doesn't change, now you're not talking about the thing that they're doing or not doing that is the problem, now you're talking about the fact that they are refusing to change their behavior, and that can be unacceptable. And it is okay to discipline that process and have a process, whether you put them on a performance improvement plan or whatever your disciplinary process looks like in your hospital, but you should have that process. That's not the tool that you should reach for first in the situation, you need to do the pre-work.

Stephanie Goss:

But if you get to the point where you're four months in and this employee has still been bit five or six times and nobody else on the team has gotten bit, now it is perfectly acceptable, probably a little bit too late to be having that conversation about, “Look, this is continuing to happen, it's not happening to anybody else. Now, we're talking about the fact that your behavior is not changing and this is unacceptable and here's the accountability piece of that.”

Andy Roark:

Yeah. And you're not showing a willingness to change. And I don't have any reason to believe that you will change in the future. And now I am making decisions about the future based on the information that I have. But patterns are key, spotting patterns is really the heart and soul of management. Man, I heard the best quote today, you and I were there and we were talking to one of our friends and he said something like, “If you make the same mistake over and over, and over again, at some point it's not a mistake, it's your culture.” And I'm like, “Yeah, that's really good. It's totally true.”

Stephanie Goss:

Totally true.

Andy Roark:

That one is a great one.

Stephanie Goss:

Totally true.

Andy Roark:

All right, buddy. Thanks for doing this with me.

Stephanie Goss:

Yeah. This is a great one. Have a great week, everybody.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. Guys, take care of yourselves, be well, don't let your babies grow up to be cowboys. I can tell you my babies want to be a fashion designer and a paleontologist. So I think I'm going to be in the clear.

Stephanie Goss:

You're safe.

Andy Roark:

Yeah. See you. Take care guys. Bye.

Stephanie Goss:

Bye guys.

Stephanie Goss:

Well, everybody, that's wrap on another episode of the podcast. Thanks so much for spending your time with us. We truly enjoy spending part of our week with you. As always, Andy and I enjoyed getting into this topic. I have a tiny little favor to ask, actually two of them. One is, if you can go to wherever you source your podcast from and hit the Review button and leave us a review, we love hearing your feedback and knowing what you think of the podcast. And number two, if you haven't already, hit the Subscribe button. Thanks so much for listening guys, we'll see you soon.

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